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The Originals are up
Trouble!

Happy that you were sorted out

People like this are the reason naija business die quickly

Sad

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Dazall

Stalemate: @op.. The truth is that some countries in Africa that attracts tourism are one way or the order a zone of doom... Lets take Nigeria as a paradigm. Imagine yourself thinking of travelling to NORTH. I think that can only be possible when you think that you're an article of no commercial value to your family nd your well wishers. Why? Its b'cos THE BOKO~BOYZ are on the alert to send your innocent soul to the great beyund. And IT WILL NEVER BE YOUR PORTION. Think of going to south~east, definately you're preparing your family 4 dinner nd a hexagona table dilague with d ruthless 'man~naperz' also, in the south west, some ugly phenonmenon lyk the gentle men on d high way who are ready to compel you to surrenda your lyf of your money. Moving outsyd 9ja, some tourist that went to explore countries lyk LYBIA,IVORY COAST,EGYPT e.t.c some years back, they were caught unaware by d unrest dat sent many soul 4 exploration in d great beyund. So, tell me, why wouldn't they prefer other continents to Africa? Remember, your topic centres on holiday. I think holiday is to be accomplined by peace and not chaos... 4 me, going to continents lyk europe,america e.t.c wil certainly top my priorty list if am to travel 4 a holiday.

LOL.. like the way you put it/...

beneli: I think Dis Guy has a point here! Another point, i guess, is that people don't actually know what we have in our back yard. We are not very good at selling our tourist attractions so it doesn't really sound cool to say you spent your holiday in Ouagadougou. Coming back from Paris sounds a lot cooler!

But, honestly though, we need to begin exploring our backyards. There are a lot of interesting experiences that could be had, if one isn't too taken to the whole luxury thing. I did a land (and rail) journey across West Africa once. It took me through Benin, Togo and then Burkina Faso, Mali, Senegal and then ending up in Gambia.  I had wanted to follow the trail of the river Niger and had fantasies of going up to it's source (they say it starts in the Futta Djallon mountains somewhere between Senegal and Gambia). Unfortunately, it wasn't all pleasant. There was a lot of unsavoury encounters with immigration officials that wanted to be 'bribed' in order to let me through, even though i held an ECOWAS passport; emotionally draining encounters with young Nigerians enroute to a place they called Las Palmas, from where they planned to eventually enter Europe and sob stories from the half-crazed bunch stranded in places with names like Tambacounda, after they had been repatriated from Europe and were now feeling too ashamed to make the journey homewards. There was also the whole getting to experience first hand what our cousins in ECOWAS think of us-they don't think very highly of us because of the reputation we have for fraud, drug dealing etc.

In spite of the negatives, it was still an experience richer than i have ever had visiting the concrete jungles of New York, Berlin or Moscow; or even visiting half forgotten Orthodox churches clustering around the black sea in eastern europe and middle Asia. I will make that West Africa journey again one day. This time i will ferry up to Cape Verde for the 'Latin America' experience it supposedly offers in our backyard.

Africans don't spend their holidays more in Africa because a lot of us don't know that, in spite of her troubles, Africa is still the most naturally beautiful continent.  I don't mind being called prejudiced for the bolded part of my statement-not at all!

beneli i love this
can you put up a thread about this.. like a journal

I spent ten days in Ghana about 4 years ago
I made sure it was not just the usual though

Osu, Cape Coast, Kumasi, Volta n tema(reminded me of festac)


In Kumasi i went to the Ashantehene palace and lake Bosumtwi
In the Volta Region, i went as far as the Wli Waterfalls from where you can see mountains and even Togo

I stayed in a 10 cedi student motel and i slept clutching my laptop as i was sorta apprehensive but it was nice
Ghana palmie too is nice

I planned to do Abidjan but have never had the time
Na shopping do me now

emi fe ko ede ni oo...

mi o fe iyawo o .. e ma koba ni ile nayiralandi yii oo...


ti n ba fe fe iyawo lori ilede yii.. labele ni gbogbo e naa....

ese gan,,, mo ti ko ede pupo lori owu yii.. (owu = thread LMAO)

Baba Oyo: Hahahaha. ....Biolabee o serious rara.....MURI MEJI PERE ? FUN TUTORIAL PELU delectable swagger-lixious KULYIE ?
Hahahaha, o ma pe ni Epe gan ni o

irin ajo yen Epe yen a pe die sugbon die die a ma de VI lo jon kan

Ni aye Aole, won rin latin Oyo si Ilorin ki Afonja to se tabele fun Alaafin...

Ti kulyie o gbadun muri meje.. egberun egberun naira nko?

DK... lol

everyman for his tent o.. what waerks for u is ok

kulyie: unfortunatly mio mo bi won shey accept pm eyan,moti shek everywhere,miori o.so toba tie send pm simi,mioni le accept e o,so that oni binu,oya,yo kini yen kin ri oju e

Ee dahun boya muri meji ka yin for eko ede
Ti o ba te yin lorun maa gba account numba yin
E ma se iyonu

dayokanu: How would you provide for your family when you dont even have a car to move around? So you have meetings at work you carpool, You leave work at 10, you delay your colleagues till 10 to pick you home?

The cow that brings the bacon should be cared for. If the guy loses his work how does the family get by

DK.. You can't change lol
What if it's the woman who is the big kahuna

Interesting ....


Learnt something new.. My SE colleagues wives are enjoying lol

Where is the OP to give us more information

For this lady who has not worked for a long time, this is tragic and reminds me of some O & G wives in Port harcourt who are so used to not working that when tragedy strikes  either by death or otherwise, they cant cope as they are used to a standard of living
 
If the woman is abroad, she can start some online courses. I hear Supply Chain is the inthing in some western nations
With this she can get a 20hour weekly job from which she moves to full time
 
In naija.. she can get a teaching or nursing diploma and start from there
Its not easy but she has to start from somewhere
 
The kids are now big enough so she has think of herself and them considering we don’t know tomorrow
 
The man can leave her
God can take the man
 
ish

Ujujoan: Obviously we need more men like you . . . Tot my husband was the last of his kind!

Actually there are a lot of guys who will do this as I believe it is common sense and part of providing for your family

I respect ibo guys for something they make their wives so beautiful and pampered to their own detriment

Some other tribes do this too
Maybe some ladies have taken advantage of this unduly

dayokanu: The man probably needs a car thats why he bought it, If the wife needs one too she can also buy. The person who bought the car thought he would need a car thats why he bought one.

The school runs is not generating money currently and the husbands job is what is bringing in money at the moment so the income making one should be the one driving.

If it was the wife working in the Island and the husband is not working, Who should be driving the car?

Dayo its not like that
Yes i bought the car but if i only have one car and we work in different areas
id rather give my car to my wife so she can take children to school, hospital if need be, PTA runs etc and i will car pool or bus to work

At times this your dogma can be funny sha....

i get ur general gist that housewives shd take some responsibility for their lives but no 2 situations are ever the same

Sorry is the issue now husband driving car or bike

i thought it was advice to a lady who has been a chronic housewife and needs to adjust to reality

^^ good post
Moderation is key especially nowadays with bb

Damn some people just enter their space and neglect the world around them

dayokanu: But they are cut out for collecting money and even borrowing from you a fellow woman?

Some people that see you waking up at 5am to catch staff buss and would say "I no fit do that kain wahala" but they can do the one of bringing plate to come borrow money from you.

Nobody is cut out for anything, Even Psquare or Genevieve who spend hours and days in studio dont you think they would rather spend that time just chilling or doing it at their own pace?

If we all have billion stashed somewhere, Very few people would work. Who wants to wake up at 5am everyday? Who among those business people really want the hassle of customer relation, arguing prices, dealing with all sort of nonsense but na economy cause am.

GBAM!!

It's called eating and having your cake

All the more reason why a courtship is important

A woman should marry if it's the right time for her not to please her parents or contemporaries, as an escape from poverty or bla bla bla


CAN TWO WALK TOGETHER EXCEPT THEY AGREE

Ten years after kasala don buss

Eh yah.. Pele
She really must have pushed the final button lol

From time I've always learned to fear quiet people
Once they go off na wire


But it's good it ended well



OP... Where are you
Can you give us more info on your situation

Sign Yellow Ruled the Day!


God is a game!!!!

Woo... @taryour that was some ish
Lucky the violence did not have more consequences

I will only advocate physical violence as a last resort for which I guess you were in..that lady was really something else

OP, please avoid violence to the best of your ability

It can only lead to more escalation

The companion of an angry person will be angry also

Don't let it get to you
Be positive yet be assertive on your principles where your values are trampled upon

Remember though humans are different and this person may really be frustrated

You can be more specific though so we can give more relevant advice

ibizgirl: Abeg how many such people do you know? Are you married? This guy's lack of trust in his newly married wife is what gets me.
Please is his wife a virgin? If no that means she also has her own ex bf(s) to deal with.
In most marriages of today neither party is a virgin but you get married believing all the ex(s) will remain just that and move ahead with your lives.
Any man who tells his wife not to open a fb account because fb is not good for marriage has something to hide period.
Make me wonder how old the wife is that the doesn't have fb account to start with

Woman it is you who should open your mind

I accepted that he may have something to hide but you don't want to accept the potential distracting effects of social media on a relationship

Do you want me to bring examples of people who have hooked up with their exes or had flings via social media


What does being married or not have to do with my comment

coded guy: You are here assuring the Arses of beating chelsea when we all know Fergie will decide to brain fart and play scholes and Giggs in a 2man midfield against chelsea.

His sentiments, judgements in substitutions and reactions have been a tard suspect these days. Don't even know how we managed to win the Prem is easily this term. And of course Arsenal might do themselves in in the fight for 4th place.

I personally want them to lose the 4th position and mis out in d CL and hope dat would be enough to make AW and the Board to do something diff and make the competition even stiper.

Its a disgrace that a team like Arsenal would be talking about 4th position even from the beginning of the season and can't even secure that spot with a few games to go.

Really a shame

Baba Oyo: @Ileobatojo. ...you did well with your written Yoruba really. ...only that in writing Yoruba, there is no such thing as "sh" its always "s" and so that's why you can't write "she" instead of "se" .
i will actually put you in charge of biolabee for his tutorial class. ..lol.
Iwo na tu n bere awon omo Amsterdam? Mo ma daran o.

@Macqueyan. ...you might know me, very possible if you stay around Anthony. You might have been seeing my Bentley with customized plates. ...BABA OYO 1.....lol....eegun mo ni, eeyan ni o mo eegun.
Really you did well with the written, hope you didn't pay someone to type that? As for your numerals, that's not too good o, how will you survive in the markets? hahaha....start with this and follow up on it....One Okan.....Two Eji.....Three Eta....Four Erin.......lol.

@Amyofone. ...you too want to see evidence abi ? hehehe. ...enu mi ko le ti ma gbo pe iya tisa ku o.....no kiss and tell. .....all pictures come in mental copies only. ...no hard or soft copies. ...hahahaha.

Baba O ekaro..
Awon tile nko
Ose a da o..

jhydebaba: @biolabee, I do my thing my way, I don't care. U get mouth sha

@Shugamania, I am a good boy joor.


@Bee, ur right nyash nko

@Obi, I rest my case.

Nice one jando....

I'm enjoying your story telling

I like the angle of someone who may not be pure and is covering his tracks but it could also be because some people get addicted to social media to the dtriment of the REAL PEOPLE around them

They neglect their spouse and you see them on social network all the time
Funny they never see that they have a problem


This also goes to BB, Nairaland also

That may be his concern

I wish everyone the best
Please moderate your expectations

There are still womderful plans for each and everyone of us

Not comfortable with Spiderman Webb

Dort$und should have enough to see this game through

Not sure some key players will not see yellow and miss final

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The Spurs forward beat the likes of Manchester United striker Robin van Persie, who currently leads the race for the Golden Boot, and controversial Luis Suarez, who is serving a 10-game ban for biting Branislav Ivanovic last week, to the top award.


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[quote author=ella.b]lol Abeg do finish S3 so we fit move along.we r waiting for u[/quote]I'm rushin as much as I can
Klaus just dealt with mikael

Fulll circle
I'm sure when he started his youth crap he did not believe it will come to this

Hope the shame and possible last ditch challenge for 4th place will make him sit up

Baba ijebu

All this ghost modes and unfinished business ish

I tire

Lexy. Mason. Anna



So niklaus is the reason mikael is on a rampage

Yo mama...?!