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Lmao! Received 6 already

omodadi:
Okay, expect our plenty pms

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tonjub:
I've done that. Thank you

Huh? My God!! Push ke? Na that kain baby dem dey call 'fadiya'

nefertitiram:
Mine was 10.3 pounds, I didnt even bother to push

U didn't see my post to this question of urs?

mohammad2016:
Dear friends,
Any one have sample letter of intent sent to the Officer inform them about change the purpose for the trip? with their response letter plz

See me o...I specifically gave the sample to him gangan.

Awayu doing mi rolz model

LadyGuinivere:
In addition to what Feddy said read back like 5 pages. Biollar just gave a sample to somebody

Yes Pm me for more info

tonjub:
Pls mamas and papas, aunties and uncle has anyone paid Dr Ezekiel and oakbend using form A. Pls help a sister. The hustle for BTA is real. Please

Lmao! Nerf did? Guess i missed that!! I'm just stating the obvious ni.

modath:
... Abiola eh.... you yaff joined nef abi

Appreciate the highlighted, means a lot to me, my project is in development & such kind words will spur the second guessing, timid & self doubting lil girl in me to keep pushing forward.. Merci beaucoup.



Ye2ndearisto ... Congrats sis, Oluwa a wo olorun a da si, the Lord will surpass your dreams & aspirations for her...


Am I on the right track by assuming that some oversabi Moremi/Town babes gave you this appellation & you decided to take the power to demean out of such hurtful words by adopting it, Like African Americans & the word n.igger?

To send or your behalf or u need a template?

It's quite simple, dou I did notification of intent.

Sumthin like dis:

Dear Consular

My name is Xxxx( full names)

I would want to use this opportunity to inform the Consular office about my intentions.

Myself and my family (myself, husband and two kids) obtained a B1/B2 visa last year for holidaying but unfortunately we were unable to travel during the summer holidays as intended as my husband/wife was not given time off work and hence we had to postpone the visit.

However i would want to use the visa for an alternative purpose as i discovered i am pregnant and would want to use this opportunity to access maternity services in the United States though I would be solely responsible for my medical bills and the likes.

I thought I should inform the consular of my decision since this was not originally in the plan when I got the visa.

I would be grateful if my records with you could be updated to reflect this.

Thank you and I await your response.

Yours blah blah blah

Please you don't have to use this o, it's just a guide and I didn't include my passport no make dem no go cancel visa

mohammad2016:
Dear Friends,
could you please help to send a letter of intent for the US Embassy inform them that my wife will have delivery at US, as she took her B1/B2 for tourism when she interviewed, and as I read in previous pages I've to send letter of intent.

Could you please tell about the letter syntax?

Why?

lizzy232:
please anyone having a baby between april/may/june in housten texas can holla maybe we could hook up.

Congrats Yetunde....God bless the Lil one

Ye2ndearisto:
To God be the glory had my little princess today 21st of March with Dr Fagbohun . Came in for induction last night because I was already 39weeks+but was fixed in the drip by 8am 21st March by 11am I was fully dilated to 9cm , and then I started to push and push . Thank God for God baby was super big , got a tear and baby came out without breathing but was resuscitated and she weighed 9.9lbs. It was a vaginal birth and God really assisted Dr F, to avoid stories of C section that hurts. We are all doing well now.hossana to God

This modath and plenty plenty grammar sef *scratches head*

Love the way u align and play with words dear.

modath:
... firstty ooo , how ya been? You just bone ya fiful since!


I second telling hubby EVERYTHING, every sneeze, every look....



This aunty thing?, it is one of the easiest thing on earth for me, you don't even need to ask, sisi mi, egbon lagbaja comes with the territory... E NOR REMOVE ANYTHING FROM ME!

My Iyales & Iya okos (the senior big bros wives & elder sis of hubby's) insisted their teenaged kids didn't need it at that time, now some of them are almost 30 & some older, the pronoun "eyin" is dole .... so how do we do? Literacy & civilisation don't make a difference in some families..


Tradition is sacrosanct so when we advise people, we should be mindful of cultural differences.



@TLKmama,

Lucky me that I've never had major in law issues so maybe I don't understand some things, however I am 100% unwavering that Mother & Father in laws are same as our parents & should be treated as we would our own parents... I cant picture many people exchanging words with their parents while their sis or bros is standing right there...

This is not in any way intended to make her feel bad (or worse) but it is what it is..

Girlloom is being harassed & they are not very nice to her but I do pray that the wisdom to keep her home the Lord will repose in her....

for the highlighted! Actually liked it before read it thru.

Well said dear!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

bigfido:
@girloom the moment I read that you exchanged words with your MIL, a chunk of the sympathy I had left. Yoruba people say, ile oko, ile eko ni (your matrimonial home is where you learn good behaviour).. I might sound terrible to you right now, but imagine your younger brothers wife exchanging words with your mother under your roof.. Would you hug her and take her to dinner afterwards? As a woman, you have to learn patience. Not every war is won by confrontations. Some are won by silence. Yes, it hurts, but knowing when to speak at times saves nine. I am sure you know your husband and from the little I have read, his family is important to him than his wife. The moment a man threatens you with divorce, you need to start evaluating your worth to that man and most importantly, what values the man attach to his home. At that point, you should have learnt how to thread carefully. Your SIL might have attitude and as such it might be killing you.. You could have easily evaluated your position and know how to chose your battles wisely. Silence is golden especially for a woman.

I think now, you should let your family know what you are going through, if they can raise cash for you, great! Pack your bags and leave that house. If your husband calls to divorce you because you sort for your own sanity, give him a clap on the phone and let him do as he pleases. To me, all is not fair with such threats in a marriage.
2) before you leave, apologise to your SIL for the disagreement (makes you look like a fool and cheated yea?, it's a game plan) thank her for the hospitality and bounce. Don't look back
3) head to social security office to log your complains and either ask for another card or a Pin for the one you have
4) inform your husband about the change in the number or that you have obtained a Pin for it. I am sure he will mention it to his sister. If they go ahead to use it and end up in jail, that's their cup of tea
5) Pray! That's the greatest weapon a woman has.

I wish you the best of luck

I'm telling you

LadyGuinivere:
Chlock u slap this early mor mor ehhh! U won't believe
Mind yasef o!
Girloom chai! U have serious anointing o! Well done! Please them don curse u finish no prollem. Just make sure they don't use that nos . Them wan use ssn from person wen em nose no fine abi?

girlloom:
I know right, all thanks to my husband who kept pushing that I stayed back till our son clocks 3 months. Also the sis inlaw wanted me around for nanny services. I wanted to leave in January to some other place when his mom came over, my husband called my parents that I wanted to put the newborn at risk. He said if I took his child outside his sis home that I should as well end the marriage. His mom frustrated me real good. One particular day in Feb, the mom told her daughter that my son could have been handsome if not for the nose I gave him, I couldn't take it and let out all she had been doing to me, unpleasant words were exchanged, she said yes because I want to separate her from her son and destroy her family. The sister was extremely happy to call my husband to let him know I exchanged words with his mother and my once peaceful and happy marriage turned into something else since then.

My God! You have been bottling a whole lot up o!! It is well dear!!! Please be prayerful

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

favoredgal:
Wait o Girloom you have been there since November 3 and today is March 21 that's 4 month already.

Hmm. Too long to be a guest in anyone's house. See finish has also entered the matter

If I were you, I will do Newyork then connect my flight locally to Houston( Smooth and cheaper). Direct flight to Houston is very comforting but IAH has so many disadvs and I'm not ready for story that touch.

All the best

mohammad2016:
Not even once help me

Dear Friends,
Could you please advise?
Which is the better to pass and enter Texas, through IAH airport Houston direct, or take 1 stop flight to New Your, then take internal flight to Houston?
Your opinion will be helpfully

Pele!! It is well!! Please be careful

girlloom:
My dear, coming here was a massive mistake. I am 30 and this lady is 34, I knew I had entered one chance when she told me to attach Aunty to her name and uncle to her husband. Few weeks after I arrived here, I had a chat with my husband on bbm that I was being treated like a maid, this lady went through my phone while I was sleeping, read the chat and got upset. My husband made me apologize to her for invading my own privacy. Despite the fact my pregnancy was high risk, this lady turned me into a semi maid. Things I haven't done in my own house I have done here. She once instructed me to warm food for her 2 year old, my son started crying and I went to attend to him, she asked about the food and I told her my son was crying, her response was 'so you left my son's food because he was crying, let him cry now' Her son comes back with all sorts of sickness from daycare, she gets upset when I try to protect my child. Now my son is ill, caught a bad cold, thanks to her son sneezing on his face severally. I have had sleepless nights in the past 2 days and will have to take him in tomorrow and pay as we have no insurance. Back to what happened today, she said I was ungrateful because I asked why they opened my son's envelope...imagine? My husband delayed in sending money for his visa and that's the only reason I am still here. Her husband was able to pacify her to let me stay saying what would people say back home. Let me also add that she keeps saying she and her brother were very close before he met me and I want to change him. I plan to change my ticket to the earliest date possible and I am still going to call the IRS. Apologies for my uncoordinated rant, I am upset that I am in this kind of situation. Left my spacious house to come and chop insult in this cabin.

Apparently they had their ill motives all along.

Please thread carefully as advised here cos Yorubas say: "na the beginning of Fyt person dey know...no one knows how it will end"

Report it and have it changed asap or dealt with by the appropriate channel(s). They kept feeding you with the sole aim of getting it all back via ur LO's SSN.

I just learnt something new that it's not mandatory nor compulsory to apply for the SSN, since I don't intend renting an accomodation, I will just let it be for now. I also advise others da intend to stay with relatives to :

1. do once a week/ once in two weeks grocery shopping for the entire house.

2. Go with lots of foodstuff from Naija, garri, crayfish and the likes.

3. Once in a while... Opt to pay while u all eat out.

4. Chip in convos that states u ain't suffering back home.

Please be careful dear, it's even worse dat ur husband isnt reacting, cos it's very conspicuous da he's trying to avoid issues.

All the best and do thread carefully.

girlloom:
Okay house, after reading all the comments I decided to ask my sister inlaw about the SSN. I went to her that I was worried that his card came without an envelope and got a shocker...she said what do I want to use the envelope for? I said SSN is private information and why was it opened, she said they opened it because they could. I lost it and told her respect was reciprocal and it was wrong. She turned it into fight and asked me to leave her house. The husband came and intervened that they held on to it because it was delicate, dumbest reason ever. Unfortunately, my husband is scared of his sister and not saying much. I am so mad right now, I never wanted to stay with his family but didn't have a better option. Just looking to get his visa and return home asap

Pele....we thank God for a smooth one. Biko jazz or no jazz ...dupe or no dupe. That money must come out o.

TheLeakyTribe:
thanks a lot everyone I have a lot of catching up to do. I truly appreciate the support oh! God bless each and everyone of you beyond your heart's desires. I arrived Dallas a short while ago. I tire no be small. would update everyone on my POE gist, first time I've had drama in Dallas but na God win.


meanwhile the thief came back to the house at night (I guess to collect her belongings and run finally). she was apprehended based on our Instructions and eventually taken to the police station. her story is that she was jazzed and duped. I need to sleep, travelling with a toddler while pregnant is no joke.

bbaby84 and Omodadi ....u guys shud kiss and make up, oya group hug

bbaby84:
Erm... While I don't quite get what you typed...
I'm just going to leave it at that as I thought you belonged to a group that [b]hear and see [/b]each other.


#Nowplaying Walking Away by Craig David.

My God!! So sorry for ur loss dear!!! It is well

TheLeakyTribe:
goodmorning everyone. so I'm travelling today. last week was crazy, ended up buying dollars at the black market rate. haven't been able to update on this page sef, I'm behind like 5 pages.

Anyway I want to sound a warning to everyone so what happened to me won't happen to anyone else. Let's be extra careful, not after trying hard in this economy to get dollars one would now tell my kind of story. it's not your portion IJN.

I had a help that was so useful to me, she did so much that I would always sing her praises to anyone who cares to listen. For this trip I registered her for a catering course and promised to keep paying her (N25k a month plus free accomodation, feeding and personal effects as well as medicals when the need arises). I treated that girl like a sister.

long story short, this week my toddler who I'm travelling with has been sick so I've been in and out of hospital and doing all sorts, wasn't able to even follow up with bank hence having to buy dollars at black market rate. Yesterday I took him for a final checkup and other running around in preparation for my trip and she was home helping me get my things ready.

this morning her phone was switched off, I asked her why, she said it packed up, I asked her to bring it let me check what's wrong, she left and I didn't see her again. she just walked out and took a bike cos if she had carried load the estate security would have stopped her.

she left with my Dollars in her pocket. 20 minutes later I noticed she had taken the money. how she found it is beyond me, she must have really searched.

please pray for me, bought 1k now to go with and have money in an account there but still I'm not myself.

Let's be extra careful everyone please. be mindful of whos around you.

Hehehehehehehe

funtolash:
@bollard thanks for the quick modification. Cos I was wondering that after all the holy preaching this morning, you still dey stick fire for the thing.
Wld keep keep your profile in mind #atawewe #razor mouth #justsoyouknow

Ole buruku gat me rolling mehn! Hian!! Can't stop laughing mehn!!!

Bisoye82:
Abeg there is no other name for your host than Ole buruku .
Now I don't know the relationship between you and your sister in law,use wisdom to find out if she is in on it.if Yes contact the relevant authorities and report the situation. If No,see if she can handle the hubby and tell him to back off.
You too quickly arrange yourself and come back home (hope sey no medical issues o) @ 7 weeks is a long tin cos dollar ain't smiling
Cheers

Chai! U caught me there o!

I wrote that before reading the last page and I decided to modify so as not to overflog d issue but u caught me.

Nne u've got beady eyes mehn! *covers face*

chloe7:
aunty Biola alatawewe, no chills at all

It is well!

funtolash:
Thanks for the comment. Just laughing in Spanish @ children of nowadays. Really these tantrum isnt healthy for you. You better don't give yourself high BP on this matter.

Yes I don sheath my sword and as for that ur neighbor ehn *singing* 'just call my name....and I'll be there '

Kisses

LadyGuinivere:
Amen!
I will frame this and hang in my living room if only the husband will agree sef! Lol.
Thanks sis.

Mo shebi I yaff tell u say u need holy water? e de calm body werr well so u go get jump and pass button. I no know why this our hug na e hugs only o! I go soon visit daaalu sooooo!

Biollar ngwanu let us sheath our swords and empty the gun chambers. God bless u ooooo. Mbok I get one neighbour wen de find my trouble, u and sister Bisoye fit hepp me arranze am for me as e be like say una get muscle pass me? Lol

To the house, it would be remiss of me not to thank and appreciate u for Your kind words and support . I thank u all in the name of Jesus. I am humbled. Truly. It is hard sef not to feel pride sef. I wish I could name everybody personally ehhhh. God bless u all immensely and may this our ministry never cease.

Etisalat....Now u talking! *e-hugs*

funtolash:
@ LadyGuinivere am sorry if my message came out wrongly but that was not my intention. I felt insulted by your response cos if you read through my first message I did mention that pls forgive if my question sounds silly.

Ive read more than 100 pages of each of part 1&2. I even have jottings and screenshots of some cbp interviews so am just wondering why anyone wld think ive not read jack. I fear the name calling in this forum o. @bisoye82, name calling and insulting me, really. I wonder what that will do for you.

So apologies to everyone. I was stupid to have asked the questions. So lets move on to the next best thing.

I'm telling u!

suntai:
lady G I see now how you earned your title! 5 Star general!!!! Twale! May God continue to give you grace....e no easy!

Chai! *cant wait*

God bless your heart

LadyGuinivere:
And I got nothing but condensed madt love for u! I'm sorry love. I was a bit 'annoyed' and my eye no see clearly.
Thank u Biollar a gazillion timesssssss! In fact to compensate, na me and u go enter the next chinabus waka with neks

Is she even remorseful? She no even see person pick on na my one and only ladyguinivere ? my sweet porero

Lol

jossy404:
Abeg make una forgive this our madam oooo.

We are here to help each other and not to insult.

God bless us all

Why? Is anybody compelled to answer them? U paying for the info?

funtolash:
Still waiting for someone to respond to my questions.

Funtolash... U see? She even replied u without seeing ur Response to her....

LadyGuinivere:
Chai. I spent my time answering before I saw all the thing madam wrote for me.
Well, its already posted. What else can I do?
Don't get it twisted o. Funtolash, I took out my time to answer because of God and not cos of anything. I owe u nothing and answered before I saw your clapback. Cos in truth all your questions have been dealt with over and over.


Thanks Modath and mzfavour and all you nice fellows