Escabado: When a girl is between the age of 18 to 24 .she feels untop of the world and think she has the right to insult and snub any guy that comes her away and she also think she has the right over her body to sleep and fvk any Rich guy she wants. At this time marriage is not in her agenda.she is busy eating her cake but by the time she gets to 29 and 30 years,she already have over 2000 men that has sleept with her and never want to marry her. Then She begin to form good girl to decieve any guy that comes her way into marriage and use him as her retirement plan from Oloshosim. Guys don't allow yourself to be used by these girls oo . .if she can't accept you and remain faithful to you when she is between 18 to 23 years.Never you accept her when she passes this age.
You are free to add yours so we can continue to enlighten ourselves not to be used by these evil girls.
God bless you. I thought I am the only one with this view. Guys are getting wiser. If she is not pure, don't ever marry her. By this you will have your peace of mind intact.
GreaterFuture1: Gambling is not a logical thing to do, especially from the average Nigerian standpoint. If I should have 960k naira right now as we speak, I will never be poor in my life again! I know many Nairalanders that will tripple that money in 2-3 months.
udeagbalaC: As a private School teacher myself, I understand the untold hardships we are facing, even prior to the pandemic (Covid 19). Now for nearly 3 months we have been at home with nothing to sustain ourselves and families. I stumbled upon this heartbreaking video in a WhatsApp group. Government, NGOs, Civil Society Orgs and well-meaning Nigerians should come to our aid. To my proprietor Daddy David Akande( God's Intervention Comprehensive School Kontagora) and others, please do something about this. #Godbless
Most school owners are wicked and very religious. Why can't a school owner give at least 50% of salaries to their over exploited teachers? School fees have been collected for the second term because, the term was rounding up before the pandemic. Even without second terms school fees, what happened to the previous gains over the years? Corruption is not only the government sector.
Poseidon000: Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction. This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.
Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express. As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.
That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road. But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.
Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.
I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.
Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.
That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.
What's your take on this?
Finally somebody is of the same opinion with me as regards marriage. Thank you for the piece. I was also victim of this car lift in my start-up years. Some men will pick the lady and leave me there. Just like you, I am on solidarity with my cars now that the story has changed. Lol
kestolove95: Don't blame them, they wia brainwashed by the lies in the Bible dat says "he who find a wife has found a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord" that is the favour his obtaining from d Lord now..
The bible cannot lie. It can only misunderstood and misapplied. If you read that verse further, it went on to outline some of these qualities of a wife. It is in these qualities that the blessings are embended, not a pauper marrying or cohabiting with another pauper in the name of marriage.
ASUU is waiting patiently for the FG. They will not call off their strike any time soon. Not even after the Corona politics. The Abacha loot should have been used to settle all or part of outstanding issues with ASUU. The FG rather choose to withhold salaries for 4 months going.
Ihatefeminist: Hollywood and western media have so deceived us men ehhn In medival times women like these weren't even considered by the majority of men.
See the way they look sef;No yansh, coupled with their almost non existent boobs
I will pick a real woman with full breasts and ass over these skeletons any day!! Rubbish!
Crystalqueen: Some people are so wicked. If u knew she was cheating on u, u should have cancelled the wedding before the day or at least before the church ceremony, not disgracing the lady after the church wedding... Just imagine, all that jollof rice wasted... U for just save the money use do beta thing
He is not wicked. I will do worse. No amount is too much for such revenge. Vengeance is best serve when cold. As for me, I will persuade her to postpone the wedding, shower her with love and use her for money ritual, then marry a good Woman.
junkiesneverdie: Wait a minute let me get this straight so you knew she's being cheating on your black ass! and you waited until the wedding day to call it a quit!..guy you be Mugu
. He is not a mugu. If he had called it off before the day, the effect will not be pronounced. Vengeance is best serve when cold. He made my day.
lefulefu: thats not true. some of those ladies who use d no sex b4 marriage gimmick do so to give the guy d impression dat they are very decent but then they have another guy in secret that will be regularly oiling their engine while the mugu they have as fiancee wil be waiting for wedding night.na d normal racket.
thank you . you have said it all especially if they are not virgins
Richdad50: No woman deserves this level of open shame even if it as a result of cheating. A real man breaks a cheating relationship without much ado or noise. He quietly walks away to safe his pride and that of the cheater.
#Richdad
A real Man? On the ground of cheating,what he did is the best. Giving it back to her in greater measure.
emmasege: Since when did ASUU start pursuing their course to a logical conclusion?
Watch as they rush back to suspend the strike the moment FG releases peanut of #20 billion to them. An amount that's probably not up to what some MDAs (e g NNPC) collect as annual allowances is given to more than 30 federal universities, and yet they suspbend the strike and we applaud the government.
And it appears ASUU or do I even say university lecturers are cursed with poverty, or how does one explain their poor salary structure that's even worse than polytechnic salary structure. I understand that a fresh PhD holder earns less than 150k while a professor earns about 500k in federal universities. Meanwhile, there are many jobs out there that offer a fresh graduate (BSc holders) more than 200k. And the nation expects the universities to attract the best brains. Little wonder, there are more teachers than researchers in our universities, and more job/promotion seekers than those who want to make impact.
The best brains are undoubtedly in the industry, and no nation develops this waym
. You are right. The salary is a joke. I am one of them. The worst form of poverty is not knowing you are poor. SMH
If the picture above is the prototype, then this estimate is inadequate. I am currently handling mine, a 3 bedroom duplex and I can say authoritatively that paper work does not translate to reality.
gentlegenius: When it comes to women, many people define 'Quality' in different ways. If what you mean by 'quality' of women here comprises physical beauty, class and social status, then I beg to disagree with you. Before I define 'Quality women' in my own way, I will like to ask you this question: Between the things money can buy and the things money cannot buy, which do you think has more quality? Apparently, the real quality lies in the things money cannot buy. So, a woman who has the attributes that money cannot buy is the real 'Quality' woman. These attributes involves wisdom/intelligence, good character/manners, hardworking, God fearing, good reputation and a virgin (as far as I am concerned). Any woman who lacks these things is not a quality woman no matter her class, status or physical beauty. A real man will look for a woman with those attributes money cannot buy, even if she doesn't have class, status or physical beauty; he can buy these things for her if he wants her to have them. Dating a hot girl isn't a bad idea But the truth is that 95% of the 'hot', attractive women with class always lacks those attributes that money cannot buy because they feel on top of the world. You cannot tell me it would boost your self esteem if you go out with a 'hot' girl that is proud, full of bad characters/manners and doesn't respect you.
Pls don't knock out my teeth for telling you this truth.
This is great. I am happy for Davido. His is dynamic in his Music. I will need less than this amount to provide free education for the poor , for the next 50 years
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