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JudgeOGBUNABALI:
Get lost pls. Quit my mention while at it.

D respect dey shack U ba? If you really treasure respect. You would mind your English. Just this little banter, you're bleeping red. How unfortunate. You can't give what you demand. Litmus test. Failed... and you can kill for respect. Hahahahahaha

JudgeOGBUNABALI:
If you don't have boundrues, I have. If you cross mine and got found out, it's hell and drastic actions follows. Stay your confused lane ... I know myself.

na U dey confused....inua

uuzba:
I really pity the OP
You dated the guy for 6years
And in all that time, you didn't see his character?
When OP said when got pregnant BEFORE wedding, I knew something was wrong with both OP and husband
WAIT AND MARRY FIRST, you will not hear.
The man MAN CANNOT CONTROL his sexual urge, that is why he got you pregnant out of wedlock.
Now you've married, you thought it is over?
Shey you are seeing now that it isn't over?
He is trying to justify his uncontrollable sexual desire by quoting Bible.

You guys are so holy, why didn't you marry in church?

Aunty, this is your problem. You lied to yourself. You have to face whatever shit you get until your husband has a change of heart.

Sit down with him and tell him both of you did a bad thing from the start.
Confess, repent and start again

What a great advise... Spent blaming than looking for a solution. I pity those that work under you. Na die they dey

Whoeppme:
Go find his bank account, empty it then move on...if you can't empty the account yourself, Gboys full ground. Na only percentage we go collect... Waiting for your message.

No mind the dick head husband of yours. He is just a small boy. Hand never touch am e go behave...

Lolll, nobody go fit mess with your sister ooo.
Your comment actually shows love and concern to the op. But no dey do gthings my gee. D guy need some clearance make him eye clear. He go come humble, come dey go midweek church service sef, because d money wey remain, na police investigation he go finish am put. He go come lean. Love matter go be like Greek for him ear. Make he come get small accident dey use crutches sef so that his 3rd leg no go dey wander about. Lollllll. An eye for an eye dey sweet at times

Op.

So many women have experienced this.
A phase where a man's dick is pointing to all the edges of other women's compass
Here is what you do IF you want to stay in your home
1. Pray. Nothing is too big for God to handle. Pray for wisdom for yourself, pray for help for your husband
1a. OPEN YOUR MOUTH: This one don pass ' we settle our differences as a couple. Sisterly, una coupleship don wear elastic band. Report to his family with alacrity. His mother and father and everyone. If you want to save small face for him , don't tell your family because they will never see any good in him till he dies. Talk to his closest friends too...they may help reset his brain
2. Watch yourself. Even though you're breastfeeding, it's not a licensed to become a pig. Have u blown out of proportion, get back in shape
3. Plan. Do U have a job, do U have a business idea... Start acting.. even if it's to sell online or on Instagram. Don't depend on any man for money. Hold your side well well... Start planning in case go no go
4. Be wise: give him sexx but make sure you use condom, don't close leg and drive him further into the hands of Jezebel. Create an aura of mystery around yourself. Look exciting and attractive. You mentioned you dated for 7 years.. that's enough to make a man want fresh excitement. I'm sure U have very few friends.
Start talking on d phone to people... leave the room at times when your phone rings... Even if it's you calling yourself. Create a newness around you ( I don't care + I care, U be woman U go sabi am)...both of you have seen the 12 walls of una kpekusss... D pikin don widen am sef... Excitement must be low at this point
5. Express:When you're angry, pour out your mind to d cheating husband let him feel the heat.
6. Don't cry. Crying has never solved anything. Make yourself more reliant and call him out for his bullshit. Demand he needs to cut his assoxiation with the lady despite his feelings...U will let him see d log in his eye if he is too blind to see it. If he still has a little fear of God, U must plant the seed that makes him know his romance is ungodly and bitter. give him other sources of business prosperity he has abandoned because he feels the lady is d main source of his growth. Learn about his business too. People with like interests always find themselves togetther. Donr restrict your interests to your threatened love and the child between you. Don't pamper him in his adultery. Still be the supportive wife...show love but be firm but in everything, run to God because your parents sef, are not perfect. I have to warn you., If he has a cheating tendency, this behaviour may repeat itself again.. with another woman if he doesn't discipline himself. so be strong and live your life to the fullest...as an individual and a wife

Remember, this is my advice if you don't want to let go ooo

There's no direct steps to reinging in a horseband...but there's nothing God cannot do.
I won't advise you to leave if you know deep down he's a good man because there's no guarantee the next man won't be worse.... But if go no go, let God lead you. Marriage is deep.

JudgeOGBUNABALI:
Well, this is my 7th yr of marriage. My main problem with man and woman is not cheating but disrespect. And cheating even comes under disrespect. I don't play with respect. I give it to people and demand 110% reciprocation.
Dude here has no respect for himself. So am sure nothing, not even his children will respect him. Not to talk of the so called wife and her bonobo friends. You see, my wife, my inlaws, my siblings knows I can kill demanding respect. So nobody crosses that line. You want to mess around? First quit the marriage. Otherwise the day I find you out. There'd be double funeral and nobody will know who is responsible. My respect is more important than any blood!
That's why I wish to encounter this louse called Op. The wimp seriously need some whip

Dey there dey make mouth. Mr. Respect. Woman wey wan do go do... wether you demand respect pass God or not.

Just thank God you don't have such challenge
That God did not give you load wey U no fit carry.
Everything in this life is wisdom.
Op... U know what to do. You know how to tame your wife. Do it!!! Reclaim your lordship and head in your home... and stop letting your wife disgrace you. Also, use a condom. Don't sell your house pls. This storm will pass. There's nothing as pitiful as renting a house in old age.. expecially when I have tasted house ownership. Make sure your hands are busy in any little venture..and tame your wife or let her face her actions...

lexy2014:
Thank u so much for clearing up Adeboyes extra biblical injunctions.

Na real extra biblical injunction. The take it at night alone weak me. Na wa

My only question is : has Timi don paternity test for his first child because this matter don pass Matthias

SirIconR:
Bros I hope you were not forced... if it is so flee.. Joy No dey the guy face ooh

U don make me laugh ,come dey cry put...

The caliber of news gracing the front page calls for sober reflection.

Hola if the comments from nairalanders don make you laugh tire.

Na wa o

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We don DM tire ooo.... but you no gree respond..

I don respond since, U no talk back

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OfficialAPCNGR:
She's very correct.
The real victim when this ends will be Timi Dakolo!!!

God bless you
That lady is afraid of a paternity test.
That is d motive behind this rape confession.
We need to know how long and when last she slept with that pastor.. because two of them have unfinished business

Have they performed paternity test on her kids...cos na after the allegation she run go do interview...

The can of worms that will open between 2 people that were having consensual sex go big well well

CorperKola:
this matter should be settled in a court otherwise the repercussion will be very dangerous for men .
Are u saying if the caliber of accusser is high in a case, the accussed should definitely be pronoucned guilty.
It is a bad precedent.
I would probably bet he is guilty personally, but this should be decided by law.
The mentally unstable woman who almost got her husband killed through jungle justice should still be fresh in our minds

if dis matter enter court, I can tell you this lady's marriage go scatter. Na then U go know say she dey narck d pastor as a married woman sef
Person wey dey accuse say her child is not for Timi dakolo, sharp sharp she go do interview. Isn't that fishy?

This lady should shut up her mouth. Is she d Court of law?

Barbequeman:
The woman is lying about been a virgin, am not supporting d pastor nor blaming d woman but what I know vividly is that there's no Way a man can rape a virgin successfully if she's struggling with d rapist. No Way
There are two things involved
1. Is either d girl was no more a virgin then or
2.she submitted herself for d pastor to penetrate and she might enjoyed it.
My own views is that this woman is trying to cover something that's y she came up with this. I remembered some weeks ago when a woman told
Timi dakolo to have a DNA test of all his baby that pastor fatoyinbo is father to one of his child. A lot of people mock d lady, abuse her and call her so many names and now BUSOLA has come out to accused d pastor of a RAPE. WE all should look into this issues and reason well. My opinion though.
SAY NO TO RAPE AND AT D SAME TIME SAY NO TO FALSE ACCUSATIONS ✌ ✌

You have said it all. I see a frightened woman covering her tracks. Timi may not be the Father of her kids... with the way she quick grant interview. Same way tiwa savage and Tonto grant interview to generate sympathy.

This is the first time I hear a virgin is raped and people in the house, not mansion ooo did not hear the screaming

nairalee:
You'll be surprised the number of people she also converted to that church. You'll be surprised how many times she has spoken very highly of that same pastor.

Somone raped aunty as a virgin, she no shout during the rape..
People wey dey narck steady, d lady has an axe to grind. I no dey there when this alleged rape happen so I cannot take sides... But I'm curious that na as person say no be her husband get pikin sister go do rape announcement....

Let Timi dakolo do paternity tests for those kids....then fowl Yanshh go blowwwwww

SugarMuffin:
I see no reason why busola would grant the interview if she wasn't sure about what she's getting herself into,her husband is a public figure, so I don't think they'd stoop so low because of attention and dent their reputation. I really hope they get to the root of this matter because this allegation is too huge to be ignored.

Isn't it funny she granted that interview after someone accused the pastor of being the Father of one of her children and not Timi dakolo....I can bet you they were having consensual sex even after she married the singer. The swiftness of arranging interview makes me curious. Let them do paternity tests for her children. Believe me, that lady and the pastor have a score to settle even her husband knows nothing about.

oluwasegun007:
If your daughter in senior secondary school get back from school complaining she was raped by a male teacher in an empty class room, how would you respond as a parent??

God forbids it happens..but in such a case, I will immediately take that child to the hospital, to determine if the allegation is true...was she disvirgined? An observation of a broken hymen will be evident, was she raped, perhaps evidence of sexual encounter will still be in her vagina. From there, security will be dispatched to get the guy and his own story.....the world we live in now is a world of information and evidence...if you don't have that.... nothing can be brought against you

I wasn't there, you weren't there, so how can we believe any of them.

a few weeks ago , someone said one of her kids was not by Timi dakolo that it was d pastor that sired the child. 3 weeks after she is sending rape accusations. He may have raped her or not, I repeat, I wasn't there but this lady is not as innocent as she claims. I'm convinced to believe they have both been having sex for a long time and she has an axe to grind... Time will tell. The only person that will really suffer will be her husband because the accuser and accusee have something we the spectators don't know about...in some weeks now , we will move to another scandal.
Let them still conduct paternity tests on the kids first cos that allegation sparked something in the woman.

Barbequeman:
The woman is lying about been a virgin, am not supporting d pastor nor blaming d woman but what I know vividly is that there's no Way a man can rape a virgin successfully if she's struggling with d rapist. No Way
There are two things involved
1. Is either d girl was no more a virgin then or
2.she submitted herself for d pastor to penetrate and she might enjoyed it.
My own views is that this woman is trying to cover something that's y she came up with this. I remembered some weeks ago when a woman told
Timi dakolo to have a DNA test of all his baby that pastor fatoyinbo is father to one of his child. A lot of people mock d lady, abuse her and call her so many names and now BUSOLA has come out to accused d pastor of a RAPE. WE all should look into this issues and reason well. My opinion though.
SAY NO TO RAPE AND AT D SAME TIME SAY NO TO FALSE ACCUSATIONS ✌ ✌

Hmmmmm..... make I go find the woman children picture....how do you rape a virgin and she's quiet.....( Returns from internet search)....one of the pikins use style resemble the pastor oooo.... Something must be fishy... A girl accuses your kids of not being sired by your husband.....weeks later you hold rape accusation video..... Watson!!!

oluwasegun007:
Neymar is just one case....

This is not the first case with biodun and more witness on the way...

Am not concluding, just my opinion.

You can be there when a man rapes 10 ladies...as long as you weren't there when he raped the 11th one. You can [b][/b]never,, admit knowledge if he did it or not. We weren't there

Freehuman:
Why do you still go to church?

Because it was not the church that almost raped her. It was a human being of flesh and blood... Have you stopped banking since the last bank robbery you heard of? Have you stopped eating since the last food poisoning scare. The church of God prevails against the action of men. Only the knowledgeable will know that.

Stipid famous people

iamJ:
I saw this coming, once your mata gather steam

Expect diggings


It's official burna boy wouldn't marry her

Who dey marry single mother 2019?

I rather become gay and cut of my balls than marry a single mother, single mother that's another mans reminant

If she was good why didn't the father marry her

Immature person alert!!

Why all of their one eye get as E be? Air is d makeup person One eyed wey E come bend them all for one eye


Iyam not understanding

obajoey:
And you know these ladies don't just celebrate and go to sleep, something must go down with a man that night,
Chai, Churchill

The lady on white, na rugby she con play ni,
See as shoulder rise

Lol@ rugby.. U get mouth!!!!

This is a topic we're supposed to inform people about, hashtag about, share to friends and colleagues. It is a start that may result in serious toning of excessive spending by governmental arms

Only if we do I..but some people will carry naira Marley and irrelevant news for head while our treasury is being looted in broad daylight