₦airaland Forum

Aloy.Emeka:
You are a big fool. When other nationals start calling you terrorist now, you'll be the first to start crying. Why bring up this issue when we are celebrating this feat  achieved by a brother?. There are other nationals that do the same and they don't list them among their criminals. Google   Grigori Perelman and see whether his fellow Russians stick up their criminals in the thread. Bloody fool,

why would anyone wanna call americans terrorists? i googled adeyemi and thats what came up, whose fault is that?

@ still water, Im tryn to get where the tantrum is coming from, aint nobody called YOU a ho!!!

[b]@op this basically the problem with men mostly in general.
You tend to pretend and when the girl catches u up or act faster then the slanging match,ranting and name calling and abuses begin.
You have to be honest with people and take your time to know people,the girls that u dress differently in clubs for might even be better than those u dress moderately to meet which means you can meet your wife anywhere,there isn't any need to judge people on where u meet them or if you sleep with them on the first night or not.
The reason why naija girls tend to keep a guy waiting for sex is not becos they haven't had sex before it becos when they've had sex with guys,the guys tend to leave them to get married to someone  else.Ofcourse as humans you would be very hurt and used and can't imagine been able to trust,love openly n honestly and the i don't care attitude comes into play which is probably the character of the girls u've been meeting and they feel that even if you leave them for someone else they would think back and feel dat at least they didn't lose total and u wasted has much time and money on them.
Basically,if u don't label a woman and u're really open towards people regardless of what their past is and u're willing to take your time with any girl regardless of what she ask or not.Every girl just want security and to feel love and protected by their man not used.
If a girl ask you for money you can politely decline and give her whenever you feel like it,nobody is holding a gun to your head and with time u would get to know the person.
Am sure you would have a great personality as everybody has got great character about them but at the same time a girl would probably curse u about what u've done and some might probably want to die before they would date you again.
I think i write from experience as you meet a lot of lying men and if u chase a girl without sex for like 6 month,if u're not really interested am sure u will feel it's a waste of time on her and leave her alone or if you spending on her and you know is basically so u can sleep wih her with no commitment,no guy wants to spend of a girl dat they don't want to marry.
You're expecting 2 much 2 sonn from people that have been hurt and trampled upon by your species(men).
[/b]



I agree with all u say but i'll tell u this, i still stand on my words that most Nigerian girls here are a bunch of golddigging hos. lemme give u an example. theres this gal I met last year. off the back i was attracted to her. she felt I wasnt serious becus I never ran around her like everyone else (her family is very well known); little did she know that the reason I took my time with her was (not only becus I travel alot) but also becus I could envision myself being in a longterm relationship with her.  She seemed God-fearing and had her head on her shoulders.  I never pressured her for se.xx, and didnt disrespect her in anyway. I even hid my 'other side' from her (so much so that this gal told me once that 'for an akata ure kinda soft'.lol)We never got to see much but, we talked on the phone a lot. I swear, give this gal two weeks between every convo, even with all the money her pops got, she'll beg for something!!! Clothes, Shoes, phone bill, plane tickets ect. When I'm around, I'll invite her out: cus I sincerely enjoy her company (she's smart and fun to talk to), but then she's just the worst. For some crazy reason, I ran into like a couple  Nigerian gals like that last year, so what I did  was I had se.zx with them quick and kicked them to the curb once/before they got into begging mode!!! Thats not to say there aint good ones among ya'll its just that, and this is my opinion, GOOD NIGERIAN GALS IN NEW YORK, CHI TOWN, LA, BOSTON, DETROIT, TORONTO, MONTREAL AND ANY OTHER BIG CITY ARE RARER THAN A MAMMOTH IN MID-TOWN MANHATTAN!!!!. My daughter's mother is half Nigerian and she's the best. We havent been together for a minute but no one will hear me say nothn bad about her cus she's just a sweetheart. I figured most other NIgerian gals would be the same; no game!!!

    I could easily have had se.zx with this broad, but I Know that once I hit it I will bounce and not call her again cus all her bad attitude will keep reverberating in my head!!! remember what I said, it doesnt matter to me if we have se.gx the same day its how we relate later that matters. This particular broad, I'm still keepn her around to see if change will come to her soon but its not seeming like it.

tpia.:
he said the naija girls also dont give it up on the first date. They do so later but then they're either too active or not active enough, according to him.

He didnt only mention the money issue, which in any case is a cultural thing.

many Nigerian girls with good jobs dont even do that btw.

So it really does depend on the kind of people you meet.

thats not what i said, i didnt complain bout them being " active" or not i said they pretend to be holy, dont give it up on the first date then sleep with the whole town afterwards.

as per your claim that Nigerian gals with jobs dont "do that" I'll tell you that thats what i thot too!!! All the gals I'm talking about all have jobs, good ones, but they're still on some skankish behavior ish!!!

SEFAGO:
of course the women , it is hilarious seeing them scuttling around like little ants. I doubt most of them have real self-esteem offline because they seem to take this personally. While others give the appropriate response. If bk_bay99 was really african american, and said this offline I would beat him up personally

Some of us are just jokers, why do online jokes really matter?

U'd have to be at least 6'5 , 280lbs minimum to want to beat up on this 6'3 224 lbs (all muscle) gym rat. wanna go?!!??!

stillwater:
Look at how the analogy flew over your head. Embarrassing.

lol. u cant have stayed that much long in the United States. My reply to you was draped in what we call "sarcasm" !!!!. sorry to see that it flew over your head. Embarrassing!!!

tpia.:
well, if you go to clubs to pick up girls, flash your bling so you can impress girls, then of course you'll get girls who are all glitter and no substance.

Its not like you're looking for girls with substance, are you?

@@ tpia and still water, its always nice to read and comprehend, not read then pick what u want to from the statement at issue. Im sure u seen that when I talked about the club scene I made it as if it was an African-American chic I was pickn up from there; I never said anything about pickn up a Nigerian gal from the club!!!! The very next scenario I made mention of was going to meet a Nigerian gal in the city on a date!!!! Get it? In the club I know Im looking for a freak, a one night stand ect . Outside of the club Im looking for a potential relationship, but they usually turn out to be bigger, pretentious, golddiging, money begging freaks!!!! u get it now? u also see where i let you know that  how I act and dress in the club is different from how I act outside of it. I'm not gonna go on a date with a Nigerian gal all draped in all kindsa ice, cus I always assumed they wasnt materialistic, but I'd readily do that in the Club because I know thats what the gals in there wanna see (mostly). But I now see they are all the same worse than the people they are always so eager to call hos!!

@still water

coherent?!?!?? I dont get why u used the word, but, it seems to me ur just fiending for a fight, one which Im not ready to give to u!!! u know what u sound like? A BIG HYPOCRITE!!! Foaming in the mouth cus I asked people to compare and contrast, made my own case, and kept it moving. For Christ's sakes tell me why u think yall aint worse than AA's in the ho department and then u'll have my attention, but until then be like a spalding ball and just bounce. If I had claimed Nigerian gals were angels u wouldnt be taking time to attack like a Nazi german shepherd , but now I stated the obvious ure venomous, I seriously guess why!

stillwater:
So if I show some emotion for a girl who got r.a.ped, that means I got r.aped? How does that sound in your ears?

My point all along has been . . . you should not put us in a stereotypical box or compare us with people whose culture is way different from ours.

once again u dont make any sense. u've been rap.ed in the past? how the hell is that my problemo? go fight the rapist then. I shouldnt categorize u guys cus yall culture different? so whats your culture? to lie? deceive? golddig? pretend to be holier than thou? beg for money constantly? sleep with friends while pretending to be nuns? tell me!!!

^^^ Thanx alot Attorney Bromstein for proving your point and trying to turn this into warfare. But, guess what, I'm not gonna get into a game of verbal gymnastics with you. Its either u respond, like others are doing, and tell me why I'm wrong/right or keep your piece. I've made my point, I've spoken my piece you can either take it or jump off a cliff! My opinion, most Nigerian Gals here in NY are hypocrites, liars, Pretenders, gold diggers, cheaters and so forth. Prove me wrong. Read what I wrote; if I want a ho I go for a ho, if I want a good gal I for a good gal!!!! I dont want a ho masquerading as a good gal, get it?

@poster
By your thread topic you clearly have no respect for women. Even though you try to uplift the AAs and downplay Nigerian girls you have categorically made efforts in describing  all these women as love-peddlers. By bigger ho, you leave room for also calling AAs whores. Because women sleep with you, they automatically become whores?
[quote][/quote]

Exactly, so instead of having bees swarming in your panties read what I said/asked.  I got no respect for women? Are u for real? Obviously, I'm not sayin all Nigerian/American gals are sluts all I'm sayin is among the 'bad' ones which ones are worse. Youre taking this kinda personal, and not to be rude, your replies are synonymous with those of the Nigerian gals that reply in real life discussions when we have topics like this going (you know, the ones that know that we're actually talking about them)

londoner:
The Nigerian girls I know are not like that at all, this is a surprise to me. Let me get this straight, I AM a lady and I will wait before doing anything physical with a guy and yes partly because I want the respect issue grounded and you know what? You cant tell me that if a girl sleeps with you on the first day, you will respect her as much as one who waits, be honest now.

As far as money, I always have my own money and pay for my own things and have NEVER asked any man to give me money. I would rather go to a friend or relative.

Nigerian women may front because they are influenced by two VERY different, almost opposing cultures. Both of them are quite strong so in trying to toe the line you can end up living a hypocritical life. AA's etc dont really have that issue.

I cant say that the poster is wrong, its his experience and there are some who have experienced the contrary. Even the men have a double standard, you would hold behaviour against a Nigerian girl that you wouldn't with girls of other nationalities, thats part of the problem.
You often hear guys saying they want a lady in the streets but a freak in the bed, if Nigeriqn girls are not your thing, just move on, but the constant lectures on how inferior we are in your eyes needs to stop IMO.

@OP you described yourself as putting on two very different personas deliberately to attract a certain kind of girl and obviously for a particular reaction from her, men and women can present themselves in a way to deliberatly give an impression, you seem to find it ok yourself, but criminalise others for doing it for their own reasons.

I hear you, and its clear you hear me too, and I appreciate that. I never said ALL Nigerian gals r hos, just like I didnt say all American gals are hos. I just asked who is worse, I made my choice, and the rest is open for discussion!!! Yes, I do keep up different personalities based on who I'm tryn to attract, who doesnt?!!? But when your 'nice side' thats supposed to attract the good 'african gals', actually makes them see u as soft and a pocket of endless revenue to be milked, how do u then expect me to view them?!? My point is at least with the AAs we know the freaks and we know the good gals, with the Nigerian chics here in NY and the other major cities, they are hard to differentiate.

I do not know of others, but me, if I like a gal, regardless if we had se.x on the same day I'll still try to get with her. Matter fact, my gal now, we had sex on the first date (second time we met) and we're still going strong! It just about how u feel about the person I guess

^^^^tribalism?!?! Granted the Nigerian gals could be assigned a tribe, but what about the African-American chics, what tribe are we gonna stick them? Downsouth tribe? midwest tribe? upnorth tribe ? westcoast tribe ? help me out here smart azz!!!!

The Nigerian Scenario constantly reminds me of the book "ANIMAL FARM"!!!

@stillwater; you aint makin sense! Who deserves who?! It wouldn't just be right to mention names on here but I'll tell you this;most Nigerian gals here are a buncha lying,pretending, chics! U knw how prevalent it is 'this one is sleepn with this one's husband'? Or ' this one is pregnant for this one's bf'? Doctors,lawyers,engineers, all freaks!

@tpia; lemme also clarify that the 'thug' scenerio in the club I described above is always reserved for the gals in the clubs! Around Nigerian gals I'm always on my best behavior; dressd conservatively, not flashy,oh, and u know a nice game I like to play with them I take the train to go meet them on a date (usually in the city), 90% of the time u know the first words out they mouth? 'U don't have a car?'Lol.golddiggers! Ho,YOU don't have a car! Almost 9 million people live in this city. A vast majority use the public transportation system!what's wrong with it? But I guess knwing my background they (nigerian gals) knw I must 'have' a car so they stick around long enough to start begging for money;this is usually after the 3rd or 4th day!

@tpia; any man would enjoy spending money for his partner's needs but these gals take it to a whole other level: HO status! Why won't I wanna splurge on my gal? Maybe I'm not making myself clear. When I hits the club I knw the kinda gals I'm lookin for. I know to make sure my chain is showing, bracelet and watch gleamn and I also make sure she sees the keys to my whips (which is usually not neccessary at this point cus after seein her parents house sitting on my neck and wrists there's really not much impressing to be done no more). We hit the telly, do wutever, when she's leavn I break her off, wuteva, its cool. She's not claimn she's 'sister mary'. We both knw she's a freak, loves money, bla bla bla. Cool! Nigerian gals do the same but on a somewhat more disingeneous, and scandalous scale! Theirs is even worse as they'll sleep with your whole crew and try to pretend like nothn happend. At least with the AA she's usually a high school grad or drop out, the Nigerian gal is usually a college grad!point being that's maybe her means of survival becus of her position on the employment/qualification scale; what is the Nigerian gal's excuse?!? Listening to my (step) dad and his friends they always like 'if ur looking for a wife go with the nigerian gal'. I always believed this but ova the years I've come to realize that that Nigerian gals are always putting up a front! Especially, like here in NY, there's no wifie material amongst them. Don't get me wrong, everyone's got a past which shouldn't be held against them but the lies, pretense and deceits get to me. I don't know about anyone else but me I CAN b with someone I slept with on the first day if we hit it off and are feeling each other. Nigerian gals be thinking 'the longer I hold off the more he'll think I'm a good gal'. I hit it, then find out u still fcukn 1 of my boys on the side and u still wanna claim all righteous. Its just prevalent among the gals out here, and from what I hear in all the major cities. From what I hear the ones back in Nigeria aint much better. What happenned?

@freecocoa; what does that make my mom and sisters?! Lol. Read this: IT MAKES THEM AMERICANS!!! Your attempts at insulting me failed. Without going into my background I'll just let you know that I've been around Nigerians ALL my life! My experience with yall gals tho has always been such that I gotta thread softly becus I knw there's always some scandal lurking at the corner! How do u explain a situation where a gal claims this holier than thou attitude, always talking bout AA girls 'don't go to church or mosque' , 'can't cook', 'are lazy', 'they sleep around', ect when ,infact, she is even worse than the people she's talking trash about! Or how do u reconcile the fact that they beg for money at the slightest opportunity?! There's a big difference if someone needs help;everyone runs into difficulty at some point. It is even possible that things were so difficult that she had to ask after/during the first date. I grant her that. But when it becomes a weekly affair. Or,its about manolos or loubotins then that's ho characteristics right there. Then,they'll sleep with u or ur friends in a hurry just cus they feel they gone get a little cheddar! At least with a AA the cards are laid on the table from day 1,Nigerian gals will go to their grave lying they never had sex with someone, even, if a video existed, just to preserve that myth that they are 'good' girls. If ur a ho be a ho; if u like sex like sex, just don't pretend about it! Gosh!

I already know the answer to this but I'll give everyone a chance to state their own views. As much as I like Nigerian gals I find that they are a bunch of golddigging pretenders! I don't understand why they lie so much! Then you hear them sayn latinas and AAs r hos, when infact they are the bigger hos! They pretend by not giving it up on the first nite, thinkn that'll make them look good, when they give it up ure swimming in the atlantic ocean, she's laying there like a corpse (cus her se.x game is wack) and u'll later find out she done slept with 3 of your manz! And what is it with them always begging for money? The AAs and latinas don't put us thru this and yet yall claim a moral superiority over them?!? True you guys are usually more educated, but your pretentious attitude stinks. I know I'll be labelled all sorts for this, but let someone tell me I'm lying. Nigerian gals, step your gaMe up and don't beg so Much!!!

SEFAGO:
yes, the nigerian girls in America are church girls, I heard the britico ones dey front but they know whats up .

i dont know which america you talking about but the ones here in NY are SLU.TS with a capital S. matter fact, hit the club this weekend with one of them and lo and behold she had hit skins with two of my boys. when i went and got her in, for some reason, she started throwing a tantrum; i later realized that was her ploy to bounce: make it seem like we had a fight!!!! binch was on some "u aint come get me in time". lying ho!!! immediately she let your boi knw she was outside i went and got her and brought her to our table. she was all chatty until she saw my boys. effing freak.lol

The Amaka sounds like she's mad determined to go out and get her a couple one night stands.yuck!!!

@sholababa; an proper solution to an problem is to always sit,reflect and plan an serious comeback!an genius moves is always respected by an people in an civilized society. An 5.5 inches an kinda small, especially if u are testin some1 like an michellin; she will only laugh during the act and make u feel smaller than an already was prior to an trying to beat that pum pum black and blue.an best solution is to jump off a cliff!