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Education › Re: 10 Most Influential Books Of All Time by BlackHummer(m): 4:56pm On Mar 14, 2019*. Modified: 10:24pm On Mar 14, 2019 |
ABUPHARM: It is only an unlearned and unintelligent person that can subscribe to your cheap gimmick. Over sixteen millions souls were lost during the first word war and it was not the Muslims who incited it, Hitler (a christian) killed six millions Jews no one blames the entire Christendom for his action. In contrary, when a Muslim or some groups of Muslims errs you blame all Muslims entirely.
In the second case, many issue of violence in the middles east are instigated by the western countries and they later shift the blames to the Muslims. A case in point is the anti-Muslim campaign in the American media following the Oklahoma bomb blast, where the press was quick to declare a ‘Middle Eastern conspiracy’ behind the attack. The culprit was later identified as a soldier from the American Armed Forces.
Different labels given to the same individual for the same action, i.e. ‘terrorist’ and ‘patriot’ Before India achieved independence from British rule, some freedom fighters of India who did not subscribe to non-violence were labeled as terrorists by the British government. The same individuals have been lauded by Indians for the same activities and hailed as ‘patriots’. Thus two different labels have been given to the same people for the same set of actions. One is calling him a terrorist while the other is calling him a patriot. Those who believed that Britain had a right to rule over India called these people terrorists, while those who were of the view that Britain had no right to rule India called them patriots and freedom fighters. It is therefore important that before a person is judged, he is given a fair hearing. Both sides of the argument should be heard, the situation should be analyzed, and the reason and the intention of the person should be taken into account, and then the person can be judged accordingly
Ultimately as against your last statement, Islam is derived from the word ‘salaam’ which means peace. It is a religion of peace whose fundamentals teach its followers to maintain and promote peace throughout the world. Oga, Hitler was not a christian even though he was born into a christian family because he openly rejected the tenets of christianity. He was clear and unequivocal about his stance. Goodle is your friend. Secondly, let me accept that he was a christian to satisfy you and to prove a point. Did Hitler as a 'Christian' kill people in the name of Jesus or Yaweh? He did not! He did not base his terroristic activities on christianity unlike moslems that kill in the name of Allah. Anyone that kills is a terrorist whether an Athiest, Christian or Moslem. Thirdly, let us assume he did kill in the name of Jesus or any christian figure. How many Hitlers have we had? Look at the frequency of terrorism from christianity and Islam. You mentioned somwthing about the world wars and like i said, they did not do it because of any religious beliefs. It was not done in the name of Jesus, Allah, Budha etc but was purely political. The point of focus is what breeds terrorism. Terrorism in this world is from 3 major sources and i dare you to proof me wrong. 1. Fanatism 2. Politics and quest for power 3. Islam. Now that we are in the error of civilisation, who are those causing the most trouble now? Isis, Hamas, Hezbollah, Taliban, Al qaeda, Al Shabaab , BokoHaram, Fulani Herdsmen... to mention a few. Non religious terrorists: FARC, IRA, Nexal, IPOB, NDA Christian terrorist: I am not saying there could be no christian terrorists, but please name one current christian terrorist, or atleast one within the last 3 decades. In the event that you could mention one, how are they compared to bokoharam? You talked about propaganda by the west. Ok, accepted. Let's talk about our immediate surrounding. I dare you to name one christian terrorist group in Nigeria. By christian terrorist, i mean terrorists that kill in the name of Jesus or any authority associated with christianity. You can choose to defend Islam. It is expected of you. You keep saying all these are propaganda from the west as though we are blind and can't see for ourselves what is going on in the world. I have mixed with people from diverse religions and background and can say that Moslems tendency for violence is next to none. Granted - not everything said about moslems are true but you guys are making it difficult for one to distinguish the truth from rumours by proving the so called conspiracy true. Let BokoHaram and Isis stop killing people and people will not hate you the way they do now. We do not like defence, we like results. Lastly, no body gives a damn about the meaning of Islam. Is it not a paradox that a religion that means peace is doing the exact opposite? You really do not know how to argue intelligently, i mean no insult. Christians, Jews and hindus don't make a fuss about being peaceful but yet they are. As a christian, i can't remember when the topic 'peace' was taught in my church yet we are peaceful. I hardly hear christians claiming or emphasising to people that they are peaceful. There are bad christians just like there are in other religious or ethnic groups but to see a christian kill for political or religios reasons en mass is almost not possible. See, when you have to emphasis to someone that you are 'something', then you are more than likely not that 'something'. Continue defending and defining Islam as peaceful as you like but know that people will judge you based on your actions and not by what you claim. |
Education › Re: 10 Most Influential Books Of All Time by BlackHummer(m): 9:05pm On Mar 13, 2019 |
ABUPHARM: In their hearts is a disease, and Allah increaseth their disease. A painful doom is theirs because they lie. - 2:10
Brother, your ignorance seems irredeemable, I could sensed how hard you are trying to portray Islam as a violent religion but unfortunately for you it is not..as yours hatred toward Islam will continue to heat and eat you harder.
Allah says in the glorious Quran “Whoever kills a person [innocent person…it is as though he has killed all mankind. And whoever saves a life, it is as though he had saved all mankind.” (Qur’an, 5:32), there is no other religious scripture that has a verse as concise and explicit as this. Only this verse is enough to debunk all the lies and slanders you framed towards Islam.
You talked about the Sharia (Islamic Jurisprudence), I challenge you to list only one Islamic law that is against humanity. No one is saying that the quran does not have good portions. Even satan's books talk about peace to a measure. If the quran says you shouldnt kill, then why are your people killing? You still are not getting the point. Our concern is not what your book says but what it propels people to do. Check any country with moslems, you will always find war. Why? Why always moslems? The problem with Islam is not what is written but rather, the unseen evil force sponsoring the letters and words in the religion and the quran itself. Why do moslems read about peace from the quran but do the opposite? What annoys me most is that you all claim you're been victimized when clearly, you are the ones creating problems. You delude yourselves by saying islam is hated because it is the true religion but the true reason is because you arr violent and unpeaceful. It would have been different if you all are persecuted for righteousness, but that is not the case. No one wants to stay with a violent and murderous person. Islam aside, in your immediate evironment, do u like staying with people that cause trouble? Be reasonable for once. Do this homework. List out all the 194 countries in the world in a table. Group then into weak population of moslems, intermediate population of moslems and large population of moslems and try to rank then by average amount of peace obtainable. If you are sincere enough, you will see the picture i am trying to paint. Islam the religion of peace my foot |
Education › Re: 10 Most Influential Books Of All Time by BlackHummer(m): 12:13pm On Mar 12, 2019 |
ABUPHARM: Lol, who's blackmailing who? I can only see how your hatred for Muslims is eating you up like a wild fire.
LET ME CALM THE TIDE OF YOUR IGNORANCE. Islam is a practical faith that permits self-defence in certain strict situations. When? Let the Quran explain.
First, the Prophet Muhammad and his companions patiently bore vehement persecution in Mecca for nearly 13 years. This included a three-year starvation boycott from which his wife Khadija later died. Muslims didn’t fight back.
Next, Muhammad sent some companions to seek refuge in Abyssinia under a Christian King, and Muslims still didn’t fight back. Third, when the Prophet’s companions even asked to fight back, Muhammad responded clearly, “I have not been given permission to fight.” And, finally, when the persecution became unbearable, Muhammad and the Muslims simply left Mecca – still refusing to fight back.
Yet the extremists trying to kill Muslims in Mecca pursued the Muslims to kill them in Medina. And now – finally – the Quran addressed fighting for the first time, permitting Muslims to fight in self-defence. The permission given in Quran 22:40-41 to fight was only given to “those against whom war is waged.” And fighting wasn’t just to defend Muslims from persecution – but to defend Christians, Jews, and people of all faiths. All subsequent verses addressing fighting are pre-conditioned on these clearly outlined rules of self-defense. Otherwise, it’s cherry picking, something the Quran forbids as perverse.
Additionally, Quran 2:193-194 declares that Muslims may only fight active combatants. Meaning, even if during battle an enemy combatant asks for amnesty, you must grant it. In Islam, there’s no such thing as “collateral damage,” mutilation, or torture.
You might now understand who the Quran refers to when it says “kill them where you find them”. The “them” are those terrorists who persecuted people for their faith, exiled them from their homes and then pursued to kill innocent people in their new homes.
In other words, “them” is close to a modern day Isis. The Quran permits killing terrorists in self- defence because they have waged pre-emptive war against you, or against Christians, Jews, or people of any faith. Yet, even then, if terrorists desist, the Quran forbids aggression against them. This teaching is not mere theory, it’s Islamic history.
Prophet Muhammad did something remarkable when he returned to Mecca after 20 years. Having suffered brutal persecution and murder of even his own children, he offered blanket forgiveness, with the one condition that the Meccans accept universal freedom of conscience. He did not force Islam. He did not wage war. He did not imprison the city. He forgave. As non-Muslim historian Stanley Lane-Poole attests: “The day of Mohammad's greatest triumph over his enemies was also the day of his grandest victory over himself. He freely forgave the Koraysh all the years of sorrow and cruel scorn in which they had afflicted him and gave an amnesty to the whole population of Mecca.”
That is the love and compassion that Islam and the Quran teach. Any honest person can see that Isis represents Prophet Muhammad the way darkness represents light; the two are complete opposites.
Misconceptions about Islam creep in because people learn about the faith from headline news rather than from the Quran and the Prophet. The Jihad of education is the death blow to terrorism, and the lifeblood of universal human rights. And I invite you to that true Jihad. My friend! Stop trying to butter Islam up. You are only trying to defend Islam which is expected of a real fanatic. These stories are made up and sold by moslems who do not support terrorism but need to justify portions of the quran that do. It is true that Islam advices its members, just as you have quoted, to forgive and prevent adversities but if you look at it critically, it is mentioned only when their numbers and military strength is judged to be relatively weak. Moslems preach forgiveness and peace when they are few in numbers but the momment they grow to a sizeable number, they begin to enforce sharia and violence eventually. That is why the quran tells you people to kill those who do not believe in the name of allah in quran 8. Islam makes good people bad. Islam makes bad people terrorists. You speak of my hatred for Islam as though i am trying to hide or deny it. I truely hate Islam (not necessarily moslems) like wild fire because it is the root cause of global instability. |
Education › Re: 10 Most Influential Books Of All Time by BlackHummer(m): 3:16pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
ABUPHARM: Your level of hypocrisy rendered me speechless. No wonder you are Christian My friend, I am not moved by cheap blackmails. Study both portions in context. The context. The quoted was a parable. Do you even know what a parable is? Secondly, let us assume it isn't a parable but a true life scenario. The judgement was passed because those accused were guilty of murder. The judgement is found in all the legal systems today because it is in line with equity. But your devilish books says behead anyone who does not believe in allah. What kind of wickedness is that? I just hate arguing with moslems because they are violent and dumb. No wonder you will hardly see a moslem making great scientific feat even though they keep claiming that their book has everything there is to life. Very asinine claim, similar to their religion of peace mantra. Google for the top contributors to science and technology, you will always see they are either christians, athiests and from other peaceful religion. Not moslens! Albert Einstein, Isaac Newton etc are proofs. Even in sports, world class footballers like Lionel Messi, Christiano Ronaldo, Ronaldhino, Beckam, Maradona, Pelle to name a few are christians who are making impact. This is not to say that some moslems like Mohammed Salah and Hazard are not, but 90% of those making impact are peaceful christains. You will even find out that these footballers or minute moslem scientists are making impact because they are in an environment of peaceful christians. You need to sit down and ask yourself why Islam is violent and not making significant contribution to the advancement of the world. |
Education › Re: 10 Most Influential Books Of All Time by BlackHummer(m): 7:58am On Mar 11, 2019 |
[quote author=ABUPHARM post=76541952][/quote]Read the whole chapter. That was a real parable Jesus was giving and not an instruction to kill unlike the quranic verses. Use your head. |
Education › Re: 10 Most Influential Books Of All Time by BlackHummer(m): 10:00am On Mar 10, 2019 |
highcollide: don't you feel Foolish for making conclusions about the quran that you have never read?
Before you conclude that the quran is filled with lies, don't you think it's sensible to read and make your conclusions? I have read the Quran twice and I have it on my iPad so stfu. Islam breeds terrorism. Quran 8:12_13 '[Remember] when your Lord inspired to the angels, "I am with you, so strengthen those who have believed. I will cast terror into the hearts of those who disbelieved, so strike [them] upon the necks and strike from them every fingertip."' Quran 9:29-30 'Fight those who do not believe in Allah or in the Last Day and who do not consider unlawful what Allah and His Messenger have made unlawful and who do not adopt the religion of truth from those who were given the Scripture - [fight] until they give the jizyah willingly while they are humbled' If you need more references, let me know. |
Education › Re: 10 Most Influential Books Of All Time by BlackHummer(m): 9:30am On Mar 10, 2019 |
Salex007: but WW1 and WW2 where not war abi ? they are friendly football match shey ? . My friend, get the material facts right before you argue. Ww1 and ww2 was born out of man's greed for wealth and power. It was born out of selfishness which is inherent to a degree in almost everyman. The terrorism we see is just the fruit of Islam. It makes one blood thirsty. Everything about it promotes disregard for human life. The world wars constitute a global scenery. Let's look at it from a religious angle. Name one religion in conflict for peaceful co-existence aside Islam |
Education › Re: 10 Most Influential Books Of All Time by BlackHummer(m): 9:26am On Mar 10, 2019 |
DONADAMS: lol bro with the hate you harbour for Muslims, it'll be very easy to brain wash you into terrorism. your previous posts really scared me. face your religion let every other person face Thiers, life is that simple. There are bad Christian, there are bad Muslims or is killing the only sin? leave those that decide to kill for their religion, on that day we go know.
this religion Brouhaha ended my r/ship, that's why I always try to correct religious extremist like you..buh cheers bro..happy Sunday No one is taking about sin here. I don't care what you do in your private life. Anyone can involve in immorality and debauchery because it is their choice. We all have free will but your free will should not deny another man his right to live. |
Education › Re: 10 Most Influential Books Of All Time by BlackHummer(m): 8:58am On Mar 10, 2019 |
DONADAMS: Alright, i understand but you should know terrorism are mostly political,notwithstanding, I think the poor interpretation of the quran is the problem, these people mis-interpret it. but that shouldn't make you hate them, you are educated and you should know we're humans first. but with the hatred at which you type, I believe you might be the first christian terrorist I'ud know when the political bigwigs decide to start terrorism with Christians. Terrorism cannot start with Christian's because there are no provisions that support terrorism unlike the Quran. It is easy to manipulate the simple minded into terrorism and other barbaric acts because it is found at the centre of Islamic teaching. Moslems are beasts...though not all |
Education › Re: 10 Most Influential Books Of All Time by BlackHummer(m): 8:47am On Mar 10, 2019 |
Jiang: Nigga you are too far gone, all am saying is put ur own brain to use instead of letting the western media stuff it with propaganda. But now I see you are lost cause, Tell Rocket man to first conquer south Korea first before he thinks of crossing the ocean... Google is your friend. 1. Type top 20 terrorist in the world and see their religion 2. Is South Korea Islamic? I am glad you know that South Korea is formidable in the fight with nuclear weapons and they are not Islamic. 3. Not all moslems are terrorists but all terrorists are moslems. https://www.fbi.gov/wanted/wanted_terrorists |
Education › Re: 10 Most Influential Books Of All Time by BlackHummer(m): 8:39am On Mar 10, 2019*. Modified: 8:55am On Mar 10, 2019 |
DONADAMS: with your previous posts I thought you were intelligent but you goffed on this on..asides maybe U.S, China and Russia doesn't have a Christian population of 50%...you can't call them a Christian nation Look at how dumb you are. Very typical of moslems and supporters of evil. My argument is not comparing moslem nations against Christian's. It is against moslems and other religion. Understand the subject matter before drawing flawed conclusions. For the sake of emphasis, I will summarise it. Why do you find violence in countries with significant number of moslems? https://www.fbi.gov/wanted/wanted_terrorists |
Education › Re: 10 Most Influential Books Of All Time by BlackHummer(m): 8:17am On Mar 10, 2019*. Modified: 8:55am On Mar 10, 2019 |
Jiang: Nigga you are too far gone, all am saying is put ur own brain to use instead of letting the western media stuff it with propaganda. But now I see you are lost cause, Tell Rocket man to first conquer south Korea first before he thinks of crossing the ocean... Look who is asking me to put my brain to use. I am asking you to answer this question. 1. Name one Christian, hindu, buddha or Chinese terrorist. 2. Name one country with Islam involved in terrorism Not all moslems are terrorists. But all terrorists are moslems. https://www.fbi.gov/wanted/wanted_terrorists |
Education › Re: 10 Most Influential Books Of All Time by BlackHummer(m): 11:57pm On Mar 09, 2019 |
Jiang: Don't you mean thats just you want to see & believe, You carry a whole country with millions of Muslims. but because of a few thousand who use the name of Islam for violence, You decided to condemn over a billion Muslims who practice Islam.
My brother if Islam is really about violence, I ASSURE YOU, with our population we would have wiped out the whole world. Just think about it, if a few thousands can cause you to tremble, Imagine what over a billion could do.
The western media keep portraying Islam as evil & Muslims as terrorists, but if you can truly use ur brain, how could the action of few less than 1% be used to judge 99%
And WE ARE EVERYWHERE, EVEN AT THE VATICAN CITY Look at what you are saying. Your whole comment reeks of vengeance and hunger for blood, typical of a moslem. You couldn't just make your point without threatening to wipe out existence? Well, let me sink to your level of brutality. Trust me when i say, only North Korea can wipe the whole Islamic nations if they are to fight. You don not have to believe it but it is a fact. If u are educated enough and conversant with global trends, the you will see that this statement is true. Problem with moslems is that you are too bold to make war threats but the world just keeps quite because in the event of war, innocent lives will be lost. This is unlike moslems who don't value human lives for as long as jihad is concerned. I can even name more countries that will wipe out Saudi Arabia, Egypt, Turkey, Iran combined. Only 5 Israeli airforce jet wiped out an entire Egyptian force. I have not even mentioned US, Russia, China.....honestly, if u think any Islamic nation(s) have the military strength to fight any of the aforementioned, then you are naive. You said I mentioned few small countries? Have you done the research I challenged you do? Name one Islamic country that is not involved in murder, killing etc en mass? In Africa, we have Sudan, Somalia, Gabon...name them. In Asia, we have Iran, Iraq, Qatar, Pakistan, Philistine, Turkey, name them. Only Indonisia is relatively peaceful. You cannot mention terrorism without Islam. Both words are mutually complementary. The western people are not just fishing propaganda. They are saying facts. We all see it. Have u ever seen Christian book haram or Christian's killing in the name of Jesus? Have you heard Buddhists killing in the name of Buddha? All we here is Alllaaaaaaaaahhuuuuakbar...and heads rolling. It is so bad that the president of Egypt once said Islam is the problem of this world and he is right! |
Education › Re: 10 Most Influential Books Of All Time by BlackHummer(m): 11:13pm On Mar 09, 2019*. Modified: 12:05am On Mar 10, 2019 |
creedencity: itemize the falsehoods in the Quran and the person who plagiarized. If not forever shut your mouth in your retrogaded cranium. your hatred towards islam and anything relating to islam makes you burn like a wildfire. you are so filled with hatred that it blinded you to examine that the BIBLE you so much celebrate is landened with blatant lies and falsehood, confusion, libels and slanders etc. before you utter any statement Next time, make your reasoning is not clouded My friend, you are right in saying people hate Islam. Give me one good reason why people shouldn't hate Islam? By their fruits you shall know them. Moslems keep professing their religion as peaceful but hate, violence and murder is what we see from them. Go and do this homework yourself. Compare all the countries with Islam against counties without Islam and see how they are in terms of peace and tolerance. UsA, UK, France, Germany, China....peace Pakistan, Saudi Arabia, Egypt, Nigeria....war Christian - Christian: peace Christian - jews: peace Christian- Buddhist: peace Hindu - Buddhist: peace Islam - Jews: war Islam- Christian: war Islam- Buddhist:war Islam - Islam : war Most moslems are so dumb, they don't even ask questions as to why their religion is so violent. They don't like to think at all. They are so closed minded and unsophisticated. The ones that decide to seek truth with an open mind end up discovering the evil in Islam. I am not hating or saying this out of sentiment. I am not saying this because I am a religious fanatic.I have absolutely nothing to gain by an increased Christian population except more peace. I hate Islam and I am not apologetic about it. I only pity the sincere people who have been deceived into thinking Islam is from the one and true God. |
Education › Re: 10 Most Influential Books Of All Time by BlackHummer(m): 11:09pm On Mar 09, 2019 |
I think koran should be among the most influential books because of the following: 1. It has influenced the highest number of terrorists. 2. It has created the greatest number of dumb people who have been brain washed not to ask questions regarding discrepancies and laws that are inequitable. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Need Proof of the Supernatural? Meet Joshua Selman Nimmak by BlackHummer(m): 8:37pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Akin1212: Lmao, another simpleton here for me to destroy. Your myopic observation is likely to be a reflection of your life. I can imagine what living a life believing God looks like. The only thing than can frustrate me is that there are a lot of idio.ts on Nairaland. No matter how much you try to help them, they still want to be idio.ts. lol  weldone complexton. If i punch your teeth now you will start saying i am wicked  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Need Proof of the Supernatural? Meet Joshua Selman Nimmak by BlackHummer(m): 5:05pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
DanXplore: There are ways to easily communicate your views without resorting to insults but your approach clearly shows the state of your mind. It is not about being wrong or right. It is about presentation. It is ok that you find the conclusion of an argument incorrect based on whatever set of premises you observe to be flawed, but then, there is a systematic way of presenting your stance without sounding like a giant panda. Atleast, learn to argue intelligently like your mentor, late Stephen Hawking.
Free advice: Try to conduct yourself properly in public. You could start by practicing here on nairaland. Resist the urge to sound the way you did in your previous posts and maybe you could be the next president of Nigeria. Do not doubt it. With your very high IQ, it is possible. It is an art that could be easily learnt especially by a man of your brilliance and stature. You are wasting time on these guys. Trust me |
Christianity Etc › Re: Need Proof of the Supernatural? Meet Joshua Selman Nimmak by BlackHummer(m): 4:56pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Akin1212: NONSENSE
How exactly do you theists think? Do you even think at all? Read carefully, I won't repeat myself...
But the motivation to create this thread was born out of amazement as to why people, especially atheists, do not believe in the spiritual realm.- If you are motivated at all to create a thread asking atheists to listen to something and still does not see that as having interest in what atheists believe or not, then you are not intelligent at all...
The way to the proof they seek is provided already. - All we care for as atheists is a proof or practicable evidence to your claims that the spiritual exists. The spiritual realm which means that a god exists and hence show that the god truly exists. and that is not already provided anywhere, it would take knowledge and facts, not faith.
I care nothing for what they do after seeing what I saw. - Here we go again, personal experience. Your personal experience is not a proof of anything whatsoever. Why can't everyone see what you saw?
It sounds to me like lack of adequate exposure and narrow-mindedness for one to be ignorant about the existence of the spiritual realm. - LMAO, narrow-mindedness for what is yet to be proven? Narrow-mindedness for what cannot be proven? If your God truly exist, we won't need faith to believe or know him, we would need facts. You are the narrow-minded one here, you are the one who is close-minded and ready to accept just one single dogmatic lie, that God exists. What if he does not exist, have you ever wondered? Speaking of narrow-mindedness and prejudiced thinking, I rest my case! I observed that you are a very bitter person even from your previous posts on other threads. I can swear with my life that you are living in frustration. Lmao  |
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Romance › Re: She Loves Me So Much. How Do I Tell Her I Won't Marry Her? by BlackHummer(m): 5:44pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Mcy56: I seems not to understand you bro. Dont you have some basic requirement, including physical outlook before you toast the girl and if she was the one that first come for you, cant you say no? Now, the one you are doing is the worst because the longer, the more dependent, assured and relaxed she becomes. She would be saying "No" to other potential suitors not knowing you have no plan for her. Have you tried to consider how hurt and depressed she would be if you eventually tell her you are no longer interested?  Pls be sincere to her and yourself. I am in the process of letting her know it will not work out, but it is in stages. I have reduced contact for now. Thing is, she is a nice lady with a good heart and i don't want to shatter it to pieces. |
Romance › Re: She Loves Me So Much. How Do I Tell Her I Won't Marry Her? by BlackHummer(m): 9:24pm On Jul 28, 2018 |
sisisioge: Just plain look into her eyes and tell her her beautiful height bothers you. You do not want you babe taller than you! Simple. Whew! i could cope with a few centimeters taller then me. But a 20cm margin is just too much. Haba. |
Romance › Re: She Loves Me So Much. How Do I Tell Her I Won't Marry Her? by BlackHummer(m): 9:06pm On Jul 28, 2018 |
Mcy56: The lady must be really tall. Dont waste her time, just find a way of letting her know. What I dont understand is how you guys allow such to linger on for long. We don't allow it linger on purpose. I don't like hurting people's feelings. It is just too difficult telling someone that loves you that things will not work out. |
Romance › Re: She Loves Me So Much. How Do I Tell Her I Won't Marry Her? by BlackHummer(m): 3:27pm On Jul 28, 2018 |
bbyby01: I met this girl through some mutual friends online, we kinda knew ourselves but have never met. I started some mild flirting with her online and then she fell for it totally. And gradually, we fell in love. She is an intense lover I must say. She told her friends and sisters about me and I have even spoken to some of them on phone. The girl is so submissive, she will do anything I tell her to do. She tells me of how she had been heartbroken and how she was never going to love anyone until we met, how she is grateful to God for sending me her way and all. She made me promise not to break her heart and all and one time we had a quarrel, she cried for 2 days for fear that I was gonna break up with her. Finally she came to visit me. She cooks so well and she took care of me very well too. I also loved the fact that she was so real, like immediately we entered my house, she started taking off her clothes, and asked me to help her take off her trousers (that's the first time we were seeing each other) and then asked me for the bathroom. And when we made out, I also realised she hadn't had sex for a very long time, she was very good in bed too. Me sef I gave her the best nacking she had ever received. Problem now is that what I saw is different from the picture online. I actually don't like her facial features. That means I am gonna end the relationship at some point. It scares me because she might kill herself if I do. But I can't settle down with a girl whose face I don't like. I don't know how I'm gonna end it. I could use the excuse of her education. She just has o level. Or the excuse of her not being my tribe, or the excuse that my mother will not like her (true but not an issue) I just don't know. I don't want to end it leaving her with the notion that there is something wrong with her because that will hurt her more. Or should I get another girl pregnant and use that as an excuse? Please advice me i am in a similar dilema. The girl is way taller than i expected. I am 1.65m, she is about 1.85m. I just don't know how to end it. i have been avoiding sex with her because i know i will not marry her and telling her i want to end it will shatter her heart. |
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papascode: Good day all,
I have been confused on what to do with the money I have saved. I am a contract staff in one of the banks and I have saved considerable amount of money over the years I have been working there. But I am tired of my job, as same as many of my colleagues who wish they had one quarter of the money I had saved to quit the job.
I am not a lazy man I am very hardworking as adhuged by my supervisors but the issue is I have stayed on one spot for too long and no promotion. My greatest joy is that I was able to achieve a masters degree in a federal university in nigeria while working but my job doesn't give me time to even look out for other jobs. So please guys I am throwing this up here because I know on this thread there are people who have been in my situation before that made the better choice and are happy for it. I have two very important decisions to make either to use the money I have saved to travel abroad for school for masters and hopfully settle down there or to stay here in Nigeria to start up a pure water production factory but Nigeria and it's uncertainties keeps discouraging me. kindly note that I have saved up to 9million naira to take up any of these ventures and I am 35 years not yet married. Please I need honest advice to a brother there are some persons like me who will benefit from this advice we render. Thank you my friend, drop that pure water idea and go to the promise land |
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