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FamilyRe: Should A Wife Join Cash And Effort To Build House/business With Her Husband. by blacklion(m): 2:17pm On Feb 22, 2012
moremi2008:
Not true! The widow of one rich Igbo trader in my childhood neighborhood got the shock of her life when her late husband's brothers showed up in Lagos to throw her and her kids (including a boy) out of the house. She went from house to house in the neighborhood, weeping profusely and begging for help and couldn't get back into the house for a whole month and only after intense intervention by the chairman of the neighborhood association and police! True talk!
"one rich Igbo trader"

"one may encounter this sort of BS only among[b] semi-literate or unexposed families [/b]especially where the widow is timid and allows herself to be bullied"
FamilyRe: Should A Wife Join Cash And Effort To Build House/business With Her Husband. by blacklion(m): 2:16pm On Feb 22, 2012
;d
FamilyRe: Should A Wife Join Cash And Effort To Build House/business With Her Husband. by blacklion(m): 1:53pm On Feb 22, 2012
The MIL's story is pure BS meant to intimidate the wife and possibly drive her out of the son's house.

Yes, family land in the village in Igboland which was passed on from the ancestors can be inherited only by males but Igbo girls/women do inherit landed properties from their late fathers in urban areas from Enugu to Owerri to PH to Lagos. Igbo customary law does not automatically apply to landed properties outside of Igboland.

I have not seen in the last two generations where a dead man's family came to Lagos or Kano to drag with his widow or daughters over land that the man bought on his own and developed. Possibly, one may encounter this sort of BS only among semi-literate or unexposed families especially where the widow is timid and allows herself to be bullied but I have not witnessed this scenario in recent times.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Help Needed, I Just Lost My Job Recently by blacklion(m): 5:38am On Feb 20, 2012
Georgee,

Beware of the numerous scammers on Nairaland who are out to dupe you of your severance pay. Do not lose what little you have left to those promising to hook you up to 'forex trading', 'business partnership' etc. Those are all scams.

Also be careful in sending out your CV to those who are requesting it. Many people on NL are un-/under-employed and they are just looking to 'dub' or 'copy and paste' from other people's CVs which are richer and more professionally formatted than theirs.

Some of the posters here are lowlifes who are envious of bankers and others that they deem as earning or having earned 'armed robber' salaries. Hence some of the malicious comments which may have irritated you. Some are mere teenagers or students, hence the immature and rude comments.

Also (as someone already pointed out) many of the people here on Nairaland are scammers, idlers or hustlers. Many have never earned a decent pay in their entire lives like what you had at Oceanic or ever had 800k in their possession. Read through the lines of the posters on this thread and be wise.

Pay your rent; it will cost you 300k plus to get a decent apartment anywhere in Lagos including Ikorodu or Ijanikin.

Your fiancee is already pregnant, go ahead and marry her but make it a very modest registry wedding.

Good luck with the job hunt.
IslamRe: Pictures:Nigerians Visiting The Holy Cities Of Najaf And Karbala by blacklion(m): 1:00pm On Jan 28, 2012
LagosShia,

My question again -  why would anyone who does not have shady motives would go study in a war zone? There are daily bombings and drive-by shootings in Iraq. The country is still awash with suicide bombers and sectarian conflict. I find it difficult to beleive anybody went there just to study.

How do you study with a war going on around you?

How did you get visa to Iraq by the way? Do they have embassy in Nigeria? Or you sneaked in from Iran?

Also, how did Shia Islam get into Nigeria? Who introduced it and when?
IslamRe: Pictures:Nigerians Visiting The Holy Cities Of Najaf And Karbala by blacklion(m): 12:52pm On Jan 28, 2012
I still don't get why anyone who does not have shady motives would go study in a war zone. There are daily bombings and drive-by shootings in Iraq. The country is still awash with suicide bombers and sectarian conflict. I find it difficult to beleive anybody went there just to study.

How did you get visa to Iraq by the way? Do they have embassy in Nigeria? Or you sneaked in from Iran?
IslamRe: Pictures:Nigerians Visiting The Holy Cities Of Najaf And Karbala by blacklion(m): 11:22am On Jan 28, 2012
LagosShia:
moreover there are many thousands of Nigerian Muslim students studying [in] the holy cities of Najaf and Karbala in Iraq.

everyone should be respect for the personal choices they make and what they decide to believe in.
So can you please tell us what exactly you guys are learning at a madrassa in Iraq of all places?

This is how that stupid boy went to Yemen to study and ended up a suicide bomber.
RomanceRe: Is It Normal For Im Girlfriend To Get Tribal Marks For Her Yansh?(backside) by blacklion(m): 10:42am On Jan 28, 2012
[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=856766.msg10066277#msg10066277 date=1327743569]^^^
Have you been spying on the ynashes of old Local market women?[/quote]
Such marks, are visible, on the upper arms or bosom or tummy,
RomanceRe: Is It Normal For Im Girlfriend To Get Tribal Marks For Her Yansh?(backside) by blacklion(m): 10:22am On Jan 28, 2012
Such marks (e.g. 4 vertical cuts/marks in parallel) on the upper arms or bosom or tummy of elderly/middle-aged women are quite common in some parts of Nigeria e.g. elderly or middle aged women traders in a local market; many of them are often half-clad and such marks are visible on their bodies. I heard the marks are for fertility or protection during pregnancy.

I strongly doubt any young girl or woman below 35 in Nigeria today would have such marks on her bum or bosom. So OP, do you have a sexual fetish for elderly market women? grin
PoliticsRe: Plateau Indigenes Kick Over New Igp by blacklion(m): 9:57am On Jan 28, 2012
Kick as much as you like. Your problem is that you people dont want to see anybody else progress. The wanton destruction of Hausa property in jos and its environs adds only to this fact. There is nothing religious in the Plateau crisis. The amazing fact is that there was never anyday that the so called indegenes go to the market and get turned back.
The women are hard working and resourceful while the men spend their days under trees and their evenings in Burukutu joints wasting away their lives and blaming their misfortunes on people that work hard to better their lives.
The sooner you get the fact that jos was first settled by the Hausas and they are going no where into your thick heads the better.
The sooner you jihadists wake up and smell the coffee that you will never succeed in installing any so-called 'Emir of Jasawa' in Jos, the better for you. Igbo, Yoruba, Edo, Calabar and other tribes are living peacefully in Jos and coexisting with the Beroms - why can't you people do the same?

Mumu, Jos did not exist before 1903 when the British miners discovered tin. The Hausa, the Igbo, the Yoruba and other tribes were brought to Jos at the same time by the British to work as labourers and clerks in the tin mines. The land that is now Jos city was the farmlands of the Beroms, Anaguta and Afizere tribes who have been living in that area since time immemorial.

The only problem in Jos today is that whereas the Igbo, Yoruba and all the others accept that they are settlers and pursue their jobs/businesses peacefully but you natural born imperialists are always itching to plant jihad flags all over the place, hence you are claiming ownership of Jos.

Why won't the Berom and Anaguta hate and butcher you people when you are dragging ownership of their land with them?
FamilyRe: Choosing Between A Teenage Househelp And A 10 Year Old Househelp by blacklion(m): 10:13am On Jan 23, 2012
blank:
@ Blacklion, that is a very very old story na.
Yes, it is but still relevant to the original discussion here (before personal issues/old grudges diverted the thread). I'd flagged child kidnapping as a key risk in hiring adult nannies/househelps. Some people claimed that screening potential househelp/nannies before hiring or recruiting through trusted friends/relatives could serve to mitigate that risk. My point in re-posting Baby Eniola's story is that his parents did try to mitigate the risk by hiring through a person known to the family but the worst still happened.  

Once again, I am NOT advocating child slavery or abuse. Just that we ALL should seek to balance the many complex factors/challenges relating to this issue before mounting high horses and pontificating self-righteously.
FamilyRe: Choosing Between A Teenage Househelp And A 10 Year Old Househelp by blacklion(m): 9:30am On Jan 23, 2012
http://234next.com/csp/cms/sites/Next/Home/5680223-146/baby_enioluwa_found___.csp

The past two weeks must have been the most trying times in the six-year-old marriage of Folorunsho Odegbaike and her husband. On February 13, their 10-month-old baby, Enioluwa Odegbaike went missing from their Magodo home while in the custody of a nanny they hired just two weeks before.
The family reportedly never allowed the nanny to take Enioluwa outside the house; but she took the boy while his mother, a former Airtel employee, was in the shower.
“The person who introduced the nanny to the family has been arrested and is being quizzed by the police,” he said.
CelebritiesRe: Another Nollywood Veteran Actor David Ihezie Dies In Enugu by blacklion(m): 11:13am On Jan 21, 2012
I remember him from the NTA production of 'Things Fall Apart' way back in the 80s.

He did many Nollywood movies subsequently.

Indeed, he was a veteran actor.

RIP, Mazi Ihezie!
TV/MoviesRe: Nigeria's Nollywood Eclipsing Hollywood In Africa by blacklion(m): 10:17pm On Jan 19, 2012
For the benefit of the very numerous illiterates surfacing on this thread.

Once more, the title of this thread is "Nigeria's Nollywood Eclipsing Hollywood In Africa " and not 'Nollywood vs Hollywood' per se.

If you have any useful comments to make about the growing influence and popularity of Nollywood in Africa, please share.

Otherwise, kindly carry your ignorance, illiteracy, inferiority complex, self-hatred and bigotry elsewhere.
LiteratureRe: What Nigerian Books Are You Reading? by blacklion(m): 2:49pm On Jan 19, 2012
Currently reading Segun Adeniyi's 'Power, Politics and Death'.
Foreign AffairsCharles Taylor 'worked' For C. I. A. by blacklion(op): 12:43pm On Jan 19, 2012
Charles Taylor 'worked' for CIA
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-africa-16627628


The US has confirmed long-held rumours that former Liberian leader Charles Taylor worked for its intelligence agencies, including the CIA.

The revelation comes in response to a Freedom of Information request by the US-based Boston Globe newspaper.

A Globe reporter told the BBC this is the first official confirmation of a relationship between US intelligence and Mr Taylor.

Mr Taylor is awaiting a verdict on his trial for alleged war crimes.

Rumours of CIA ties were fuelled in July 2009 when Mr Taylor himself told his trial, at the UN-backed Special Court for Sierra Leone in the Hague, that US agents had helped him escape from a maximum security prison in Boston in 1985.

The CIA at the time denied such claims as "completely absurd".

But now the Defence Intelligence Agency, the Pentagon's spy arm, has disclosed that its agents - and those of the CIA - did later use Mr Taylor as an informant.

Globe reporter Bryan Bender told the BBC's Network Africa programme that Pentagon officials refused to give details on exactly what role Mr Taylor played, citing national security.

But they did confirm that Mr Taylor first started working with US intelligence in the 1980s, the period when he rose to become one of the world's most notorious warlords.

He was later elected president.

Mr Taylor has been accused of arming and controlling the RUF rebels in neighbouring Sierra Leone during a 10-year campaign of terror conducted largely against civilians.

If convicted, Mr Taylor would serve a prison sentence in the UK.

He denies charges of murder, violation and using child soldiers.
FamilyRe: Choosing Between A Teenage Househelp And A 10 Year Old Househelp by blacklion(m): 8:38am On Jan 19, 2012
Housemaid Jailed 4 Years For Drugging Mistress, Stealing N6m Jewellery

January 18, 2012

An Igbosere Magistrate’s Court, Lagos, southwest Nigeria, has sentenced a housemaid, Janet Phillip, to three years and six months imprisonment for drugging his employer and stealing N6 million jewellery from her.

The accused was sentenced without an option of fine by magistrate W.B. Balogun after she pleaded guilty to the three-count charge of felony to wit administering stupefying materials on her boss to steal N6 million jewellery from her. The charge was read in the court during her arraignment.

Police investigation revealed that Janet Phillip on 14 August 2011 at 86, Oyinbo Adjarho Street, Lekki Phase One, Eti Osa council area stole her employer’s jewellery valued at N6 million after she administered sleeping substances into her tea. She thereafter escaped to give them to one Joseph alleged to be her boyfriend to sell and she received a share of N350,000 from the proceeds while her lover went with the balance.

Her employer, Mrs. Olabisi Talabi after drinking the tea became unconscious and was revived in the hospital where doctor told her that she was poisoned through tea.
In her statement to the police, Janet confessed to the crime, saying that Joseph and others, now at large, convinced her to steal her boss’ jewellery and that they would give her money to start life and forget about housemaid job.

She said: “To actualise our plan, Joseph gave me a whitish substance to put in my boss’ tea to make her sleep off and steal the jewellery. But he assured me she would not die. After she rank the tea I prepared for her, she slept off and I ransacked her room and found the jewellery and packed them to Joseph and others who later gave me N350,000 before I was arrested by the police at a hideout.”

According to the prosecutor, ASP Raymond Odion Akhaine, the offence is punishable under Sections 516, 390 (9) and 331 of the Criminal Code Cap C 32 Vol.2 Laws of Lagos State of Nigeria, 2011.

The accused pleaded guilty to the charges.

The presiding magistrate, Mr. W. B. Balogun sentenced her to three years and six months jail without an option of fine.

—Paul Iyoghojie
via PM News
FamilyRe: Confirmed! My Neighbour Is Shagging Her Houseboy! by blacklion(m): 4:32pm On Jan 18, 2012
Na wa! Na so female NLander don spoil finishsmiley

So married woman nacking houseboy is no biggie?

OK now, marriage is a free for all now, I guess grin
TV/MoviesRe: Nigeria's Nollywood Eclipsing Hollywood In Africa by blacklion(m): 2:43pm On Jan 18, 2012
The title of this thread is "Nigeria's Nollywood Eclipsing Hollywood In Africa "

It is not 'Nollywood vs Hollywood'.

I want to believe that we are not illiterates here and can understand the topic under discussion properly.

I suggest we stick strictly to the topic

Unless some peeps have other agendas and (as usual) simply want to hijack this thread to vent their ignorance and bigotry.


Now back to the topic at hand - any one with insights or personal observations of the growing influence and popularity of Nollywood in Africa?
PoliticsRe: Alison-madueke Double Standards: Photos Of Son’s Private Jet Lifestyle by blacklion(m): 12:38pm On Jan 18, 2012
Asking again -  are these boys in the pictures actually Diezani's biological children or her step-kids i.e. Madueke's kids by his late first wife?
TV/MoviesRe: Nigeria's Nollywood Eclipsing Hollywood In Africa by blacklion(m): 12:22pm On Jan 18, 2012
Travel around Africa and see for yourself.
PoliticsRe: Alison-madueke Double Standards: Photos Of Son’s Private Jet Lifestyle by blacklion(m): 12:16pm On Jan 18, 2012
Gbawe:
Not defending Allison-Madueke, as I believe her to be corrupt anyway, but Nigerians need to drop the witch-hunt mentality to understand that virtually all the children of all our politicians/wealthy elite are like this i.e over-indulged, usually obese, vacuous and hedonistic.

The children you raise is one measure of practical intelligence. Most wealthy Nigerians make the big mistake of assuming they should automatically give their children everything they never had without understanding that it will then be virtually impossible to raise driven, motivated, humble, ambitious and productive kids if nothing provides the hunger that creates outstanding adults.

When you give a child an Audi TT at 17, what will be his motivation to work hard ? I actually pity these kids. Born into wealth without the requisite parental intelligence needed to mould them into disciplined creatures who grow up to be independent, well adjusted and exemplary adults.

By virtue of having family members involved in politics, I know personally that Allison-Madueke's kids look no different to children of politicians from every damn corner of Nigeria i.e usually overweight, arrogant, vacuous, celebrity/bling obsessed, gluttonous and generally apathetic to their environment by virtue of not having to think much since everything is provided/done for them.
Well said, just compare the kids of the first republic leaders to their fathers. Any one know of remarkable achievements by any of Zik, Awo, Balewa , Okpara or Sardauna's kids? Same is true of most second republic politicians.
PoliticsRe: Alison-madueke Double Standards: Photos Of Son’s Private Jet Lifestyle by blacklion(m): 12:09pm On Jan 18, 2012
Are these boys in the pictures actually her biological children or her step-kids?

I didn't know she had grown-up kids.

I thought her children for Allison Madueke are still quite young?

Or does she have kids prior to marrying Madueke?

From another marriage?

Grateful for any clarifications!
TV/MoviesRe: Nigeria's Nollywood Eclipsing Hollywood In Africa by blacklion(m): 11:59am On Jan 18, 2012
What I find really amazing is how Nollywood is influencing speech, dress and behaviour in other parts of Africa.  Nigerian/West African attires are increasingly popular in East and Southern Africa due to AfricaMagic and Nollywood DVDs. This is creating new business opportunities for the Nigerian fashion industry.

You see and hear kids in Nairobi, Kampala and Lusaka imitating naija pidgin and listening to P-Square, Dbanj and Tuface, a vivid demonstration of the cultural impact of Nollywood. 

Nollywood offers the Nigerian government so much potential for cultural diplomacy. But our clueless rulers are too dumb to realize the opportunity.

There are some negatives though. Exported images of 'juju' for love, power, money etc on Nollywood have compounded the idea among some of our fellow Africans that Nigerians are a people seriously into jazz and all that stuff.
PoliticsRe: Ten Places President Jonathan Can Get His N479 Billion By Rudolf Ogoo Okonkwo by blacklion(m): 12:28pm On Jan 12, 2012
Brilliant! Absolutely spot on! Dr. Damages has exceeded himself with this onesmiley
FamilyRe: Choosing Between A Teenage Househelp And A 10 Year Old Househelp by blacklion(m): 8:03am On Jan 09, 2012
Child abuse/exploitation must never be condoned but a reality check is necessary here.

Some diasporans are always so hoity-toity and judgmental when it comes to certain conversations.

Ah no blame una! Where you are, adult nannies don't connive with drivers to kidnap infants.

In that abroad, adult nannies don't turn your houses into brothels for the local vulcanizer, okada riders and recharge card vendors to come and s h a g them while you are at work and your innocent kids are watching the live p o r n

How many women for abroad have returned home to meet their entire wardrobes and jewelry disappeared by the nanny in connivance with that her 'brother' from the village that visited last Sunday?

Come home first joo and walk the walk make we see!

When you have returned to the realities of life in Nigeria, then we shall see whether all this una grandstanding will survive the harsh reality of being a working parent in a dysfunctional Third World society like Nigeria.
TV/MoviesRe: How Old Is Your Dvd Player? by blacklion(m): 3:57am On Dec 25, 2011
Electronics are no longer made to last unlike hi-fi equipment from the 70s or 80s. Electronics these days are now so cheap and disposable - see how the cost of LCD HDTVs has crashed in the last 2-3 years thanks to China.

The cost of major repairs to a blu-ray or DVD player presently outweighs the purchase cost of a new one.
PoliticsRe: Hoodlums Regroup In Oshodi, Dispossess Motorists Of Valuables by blacklion(m): 10:00am On Dec 17, 2011
adisarasaq:
My only surprise was that when we try to get police report for our stolen propertys, police advice us not to. They said we should check under the bridge the next day for our wallets, only thing we can't get back is our phone and money we had in our wallets.
We are truly finished!

It seems that initially Fashola was able to clip the wings of these monsters for some time but he now seems helpless to face down these terrorists. Maybe part of the deal for his second term was that he should allow Tinubu's army of area boys to resume their usual atrocities.
PoliticsRe: Hoodlums Regroup In Oshodi, Dispossess Motorists Of Valuables by blacklion(m): 7:53am On Dec 17, 2011
4bobo:
Believe the story to be 100% true. I work in apapa and take the route to oshodi every working day. Last week just infront of our vehicle at mile 2, a guy and his female colleague were robbed around 6pm in the traffik without the boys being armed as you will see them again anyday anytime almost the same place. Besides, the oshodi boys are always in groups and batches around charity in front of army baraks everyday. No police to challenge them again or ar they working together?They always desturb and threating tokunbo cars and trucks. But now they hv advanced to rob anyone even during day light. Next time you are in the area, be careful friends.
Apapa is a total hellhole. The robberies in the traffic jam at Tin Can and Mile 2 have been on for over 10 years plus. The Mile 2 robbers are mostly barracks pikin from the Army Signals barracks, that's partly why the police and LASG are helpless.
PoliticsRe: Hoodlums Regroup In Oshodi, Dispossess Motorists Of Valuables by blacklion(m): 6:41pm On Dec 16, 2011
Baawaa:
Fashola alone will face off hoodlums,but Tinubu still need them
Gbam!

This is precisely the issue.

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