Romance / Re: I Was Tired Of Waiting – Lady Surprises Boyfriend By Proposing During Date by Blackmind: 11:19am On Nov 02, 2022 |
Look at the girls comments on this thread... Just realized most nl girls are dumb asf |
Fashion / Re: Some Women Now Wear Remote Controlled Vibrating Panties ................... by Blackmind: 9:46am On Sep 08, 2022 |
This would only destroy them more 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Guys, Do U Fancy These Things Ladies Wear? by Blackmind: 10:21am On Sep 04, 2022 |
Artificial beauty issa "NO" for me 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Some Hard Truths In Life by Blackmind: 5:16pm On Sep 03, 2022 |
Never tell your problems to anyone because 80% don't care and 20% glad you have them. Don't be too kind, this world is too blind. Once you hit a certain age you become permanently unimpressed by a lot of shit. Being kind don't get you loved, it get you used. Never expect to get what you give, not everyone has a heart like you. All those quotes above are from movies 6 Likes |
Family / Re: I Just Need A Family by Blackmind: 8:31am On Aug 14, 2022 |
Go get yourself a new second wife ..... Simple!!! |
Family / Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by Blackmind: 5:50pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
They obviously both hiding something you shouldn't know about... Surely one of them must confess at the end 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: I'm 22 Today (pic) by Blackmind: 9:18pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
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Romance / Re: The Wild And Worrisome Ways Of Women by Blackmind: 1:11pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
Love this thread ..... Nice write-up op 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: . by Blackmind: 6:40pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Make she manage am like that |
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Romance / Re: Could She Be Playing With My Emotion? by Blackmind: 7:40am On Jul 29, 2022 |
Viktorinox2: Sharing this here for insights please. Recently, I had a misunderstanding with my girlfriend long story short, after so much display of attitude and name calling I asked her that I wanted us to reconcile.she demanded for was 5k claiming I'm too stingy and all that. Yesterday, I told her that I had sent 1gb of data to her, to prove to me she didn't see it she had to screenshot of the service reply and sent to me. There I saw something that surprised me . I'll attach the screenshot here . I feel she wants to use my head. She don already find new luv .... What else do you wanna hear from us |
Romance / Re: I Need A Jehovah Witness Lady To Be My Companion by Blackmind: 10:16pm On Jul 24, 2022 |
Choilila:
If you will be like this. What is this |
Romance / Re: Amazing Drawings From My Primary sch Pupils (pictures) by Blackmind: 10:00am On Jul 16, 2022 |
Why all of them resemble SpongeBob .... Still don't know why as a kid, we do cross x while drawing a human 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Please Where Can I Buy Vagina Roll On Or Deodorant? by Blackmind: 5:42pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
So you telling us you been battling with a stinky pu**y all these while ...... No wonder this forum is smelling 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Man Pranks His Girlfriend Before Giving Her A Surprise Marriage Proposal by Blackmind: 5:06pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Some Nigerian men dey propose to rubbish these days.... See girl with tinted hair, tattoos and indecent dress this man wan marry for house |
Romance / Re: Is This Back Side Real Or Surgically Enhanced(photos) by Blackmind: 5:54pm On Jul 13, 2022 |
Lol.... Obviously a transgender 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How A Feminist Overpowered Me by Blackmind: 4:43pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
mrrandomguy: We met over two years ago and began dating. It was not easy at first because of religious and ethnic differences. She is also bossy and independent which turned me off initially. I have shared my experience here before.
Soon after we began dating, I realised that almost all the women around her are like that. They control their husbands, boyfriends, brothers etc and boss them around, which is strange in Islam.
Later on, I realised that she belongs to certain women empowerment group which includes all kinds of women, young and old, from all walks of life.
I soon realised that it was a feminist group when I mistakenly saw their constitution. I saw different 'women' books on her laptop. I checked her browsing history and was shocked. I saw blogs and websites teaching women on how to control any man and make him feel he is in charge, how to domesticate a man, how tame a man, etc.
I decided to confront her, then I ended the relationship. She didn't even beg me.
Her aunt got to know about what transpired much later. She called to lecture me on feminism, what it stands for, etc. She then asked me to come see her at home. Getting there, I met my ex. They have planned the meeting. Her mother and one other lady was also there. They talked to me for some minutes and said I should beg her. I refused. Suddenly, her mum shouted at me to kneel and apologize to her. I bacame afraid so I knelt and begged her. Her aunt now said I must date her neice, and that I have to comply with certain rules. They ordered her to take me to a room. One thing led to another and we had sex. That was how we reconciled and continued with the relationship. I liked her more and more each day.
Early this year, she said we should take our relationship to the next level, that she wants to be in charge of certain things.
Firstly she said she wanted to move in with me. I couldn't refuse.
The second thing is my income and spending decisions. She said women are better money managers. She said I should sell my land and give her the money. I did, but when I asked her what she wanted to do with the proceeds she told me I shouldn't worry. The next thing I saw was a car. I never thought of buying one for myself. According to her, she need to be mobile when she gets pregnant, although we are still believing God.
I wanted a joint account but she decided against it. So I made a standing order at my bank for the amount equal to my salary to be transferred to her personal account. I do the transfers before, but sometimes I forget and she gets angry. She even ordered me to change the phone number for receiving alerts to her number which I did today. There is now peace in the house and I am really happy.
I cook and clean occasionally. She said I cook better than her and that it will be better for us if I cook more often.
I wanted us to make the relationship formal but she said marriage is overrated and that we should continue cohabiting. I fought against it but she won as usual. She is really intelligent. We are now thinking of having our babies outside wedlock.
We are both gainfully employed, we work in the same establishment but at different units. She is also a public speaker and have concluded masterclasses in mentoring, writing and content creation.
She said that I may have to resign and stay at home fully when her feminist activism and writing career starts paying-off. I don't have any excuse not to obey her because I must support her, afterall she is good at what she does.
Now, I don't have much say in how the relationship is run, even financially as she can access my money whenever she wants to.
She pays most bills from her phone. But what annoyed me most was the downgrading of our DStv bouquet. I can no longer watch certain channels. I complained about it but she said those programs don't add value to men. I agreed with her.
I cannot contact my family members without her being present. Whenever I do, I always make sure to delete them from my chats and call logs because she will check. She gave reasons, supported with bible passages on why a man must leave his family and cleave to his wife. I was surprised she knew those verses despite her being a Muslim. She told me they talked about many things in their women's meeting.
She has done many things in my life. I am really grateful to have met a lady like her.
Thanks to her aunt, mother and all nairaland feminists like FERNANDEZISBACK, Jeon, Islandlady, siofra, Candidlady, etc. I have finally realised why I should let a woman take over and control me. I know this ain't true, but shit's funny as hell .... |
Romance / Re: She Said No, But Its Not Yet Over.i Won't Give Up by Blackmind: 8:52pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
EmiDon11: Hi nairalanders., So sad that the girl i've been craving to start a relationship with has said no., Despite all my efforts to make her accept, she said that relationship is not what she want to be in, for now and not even in the next 5yrs coming. To tell you the truth, i didnt cry but tears rolled down of my left eye which i wiped up immediately. Jeon listen, i know that u a woman that want to build urself first b4 falling in love. I like it, u are a woman who dont want to depend on ur man but i assure you that even in the next 10yrs, i will wait 4 u. I will stop mentioning you on nairaland but i wont give up the love i have 4 you., U have stolen somebody's son heart jeon, and u cant help it out, not even me can., So jeon, i will start loving u all my life and wont stop., And i assure u that we will post our prewedding photos here. And i will also pray that kollins11,silentgroper,orgasmgiver and stallionhorse of all people will be alive to witness the event. It is not over till it is over jeon., LUV U JEON
Trust me, in 2 or 3 years time to come, you gonna be ashamed saying this 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How do i do this? by Blackmind: 8:39pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
tnerro1:
Future ba? of cause na ... Who else would say that? |
Romance / Re: How do i do this? by Blackmind: 2:50pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
Chase a check, never Chase a bit*ch |
Romance / Re: What I Experienced This Week After Getting A Job by Blackmind: 2:47pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
lifenija: That's 100k monthly n yet u dey act like wan broke asss, stop being a local yahoo boy, if u got a job already ask from ur company workers dey will give u.
Stupid format Try dey read first before you quote |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Wants Part Of My Allowee by Blackmind: 7:17pm On May 07, 2022 |
virginprincess: you are not only selfish but weak since you can't stand your ground and explain things to her,maybe when you get stranded in a strange land you will learn,you are a simp according to nairaland keyboard warriors(redpillers). You too dumb for typing this ... You couldn't condemn the girl entitlement mentality, you just calling the guy unnecessary names |
Romance / Re: Does A Lady Really Bring Luck To A Man by Blackmind: 9:29am On Apr 06, 2022 |
It's a myth.... Women don't bring good luck to a man's life .... Y'all should grow up and stop believing in such superstitions,pls 5 Likes |
Politics / Re: Angela Johnson: God Told Me I Will Be Nigeria’s First Female President by Blackmind: 5:55pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
This disgusting thing with ugly make-up wan become Nigeria president |
Romance / Re: “close Your Legs” Fans Tell Korra Obidi During A Live Broadcast - Video by Blackmind: 10:14am On Apr 03, 2022 |
Shit so disgusting.... Men these days dey marry rubbish 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Do I Look American? by Blackmind: 9:22am On Apr 03, 2022 |
What else do you wanna hear from here.... This woman and attention seeking eeh 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Wife Cheat On Me by Blackmind: 9:13pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Never take a cheat back.... 'cause once a cheat, forever a cheat |
Romance / Re: Reasons Girls Can Have Sex And Still Be Virgins by Blackmind: 8:55pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
What a dumbass post ... Obviously op knows nothing on what the word "virgin" means 1 Like |
Education / Re: Isn't This Too Much For A 4year Old. by Blackmind: 12:11pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Ain't no way they mentioned pornography in the options for a 4years old kid ... Which kind school be this |
Celebrities / Re: Throwback Video Of Will Smith Joking About Someone's Bald Head by Blackmind: 12:07pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Will is nothing but a big time simp |
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Romance / Re: What's The Craziest Thing You Have Done For LOVE by Blackmind: 10:47am On Mar 27, 2022 |
Jennyclay: I have not and I will never do any crazy thing because LOVE for an any Nigeria man.. Over my dead body.
Nigerian men doesn't deserve to be loved. Very wicked, evil, irritating and heartless men. Puke!! Alaye calm down, 'cause na person pikin you go still marry 8 Likes 1 Share |