₦airaland Forum

UyaiIncomparabl:
Lol. Ok.

You too, lol.

It looks like you're not interested - I sent a message from samuelbeeu@yahoo.com to the email address on your profile two hours ago, but you haven't responded.

MrBrownJay1:
As much as you think it's ok for people to write rubbish online...I'd rather call them out for it.

As for your low self esteem rubbish about bullying.... I suggest you grow a pair.
Bullying KO, cowying Ni!!!

Arsene Wenger's father I sight you!

UyaiIncomparabl:
Do you have the aforementioned qualities?

No, I don't. I actually have something else to gist you.

UyaiIncomparabl:
The topic is self-explainatory I assume.

I will be clocking 35 years old next month, on the 21st, so time isn't on my side any longer. I'm so tired as to the threats friends and my parents have been dishing out to me recently. I really think I need to settle down. I'm a very fair skinned beautiful young woman, age is just but a number, you should know that. I'm petite and a bit bulky at my bossom region, not so bulky though (smirks). I'm highly intelligent and in dire need of someone who's highly intelligent than I am. I'm very Sapiosexual.

For starters, I'd appreciate if you're dark skinned, but if you're a little on the light side, I might consider you but I'll appreciate better that you will not be as light skinned as I am. You must be very rich, please. If your parents are also rich, then that's an added advantage to your CV. You mustn't be ugly. You must be very neat. No short men please. 6ft and above, but not too tall either.

Ages 31-37. You must be based in Canada or the USA, having a citizenship of either countries is a very sacrosanct advantage. You know how Nigeria is these days. I'm tired of the stress it gives me, I really don't like stress. I'm too soft.

I admire charismatic men, so if you think you fit my profile, do not hesitate to hit me up.

I repeat, only if you fit my profile. I don't want kids sending me mails. I'll be irate if this happens, and hell usually let loose when I'm very irate.

Nairalanders, I'm tensed please. Make this easy for me, and you too of course. Let's be positive.

Amuocha, I believe you can call on your master to take this to the front page, thanks.

Lalasticlala. Mynd44. Farano.

I sent you a message. Samuelbeeu@yahoo.com. Respond, please.

KevMitnick:
Reset your system network settings using command line. Please Google how to do it

Wow, hehehe, guy, na your mama born you I swear.

Worked like a charm. God bless you.

KevMitnick:
Reset your system network settings using command line.

You mean "ipconfig /renew" or "ipconfig /release"?

I did that but it says No operation can be performed....

It doesn't say that for the modem network interface even when it is connected (media state is not disconnected)

Elp melee!

Guys, I bought this universal MTN F@stlink modem from one guy and it works fine on all network.

I use it with Airtel.

I don't know, can anyone help me out? I changed the IP using

Interface IP set address name="MTN HSPA" 10.xyz,...,..,,, I didn't change the default gateway


So what do I do? I can't browse on any network

Please help.

Guys, I bought this universal MTN F@stlink modem from one guy and it works fine on all network.

I use it with Airtel.

I don't know, can anyone help me out? I changed the IP using

Interface IP set address name="...,..,,,


So what do I do?

lilwetdick:
you cant remedy cheating, stop acting like a doctor finding cure for a disease that is non existence

cheating is a way of life. understand it and move it

you can satisfy humans

I am not trying to remedy cheating in any way or form; I'm just curious - trying to understand why people, especially women, cheat. They are a few women and men who are not genuinely satisfied in their marriage, sexually. Am I right or wrong? Instead of screaming "no justifiable reason to chea," what solutions can be proferred?

And I hear, women are more likely to cheat if they have given birth to more than one child and the hubby's sexual organs is small and thin-- as in, doesn't have girth and is not long enough. And the men do not enjoy it, either.

Biko, these women are not justified to cheat but do you think they may be sexually incompatible in the first place?

And btw, I am a strong anti pre-marital sex advocate.

Is Sexual incompatibility a difference in sexual desires (high libido, low libido), or does it involve the size of the sexual organs?

I am trying to understand why people cheat and how to remedy that. Serious replies only. Is being upfront the most suitable solution?

There's this subreddit on reddit called adultery where people (one of the couple brags, or justify their cheating behaviour), and I would like to prevent that for myself. Maybe I should just ask them, too, when I hear your opinion.

What do people hide when they say "we are incompatible"? Two people are crazily in love, one has a 3 inches penis when erect and the other is a single mom of two. Would you say they are sexually incompatible?

Or one has a 3 inches penis that's slightly curved when erect and the other is very promiscuous in her twenties. Are they incompatible?

What would you advice folks who do not wish to test-drive before they buy, for religious reasons? Being upfront with their partner? 0

nigerdoncast:
I am 33. to know me more caringemmy@gmail.com
Also, wish you good luck because is not actually easy.

Hit me up ASAP.

samuelbeeu@yahoo.com

I have something i want you to know!

[quote author=Mrpetersure20 post=80511388][/quote]Mr. Hehe, why are you quoting me? I am not talking about gambling abegi!

kia88:
I think we should talk



seriously....add me on WhatsApp

+2348064675129

I think you should contact me on samuelbeeu@yahoo.com. I've got something to yearn you.

molybdenum0012:
Ok cool. How can we reach you now?
Send mail to I will remove my email after 2 hours

Thanks


Modified:

Correct mail is Thanks

Send your email address to samuelbeeu@yahoo.com let's talk. I have something wonderful to tell you.

Chai! Naija guys which way now?



See as "God's will" "Chat me up" "This is my email/number" dey flow left right and center and right right again, O boy UK don suffer


I am also guilty sha!

genq:
I don't mean to gloat over your son's misfortune but this is what happens when a mother leaves the raising of her children to outsiders. Let me guess your wife is too busy to take care of the kids right? Because shes a "modern working class woman".

Go and ask women abroad how they manage to work full time and still raise their own children without househelp. Unlike these ones in Nigeria who after just one child, they can't do chores again. House helps are then put in place to assume the duties of a wife and mother.

Your son is one of many children out there suffering the consequences of these lifestyle choices.

That's it ooo bro. That's what happens when a mother leaves the raising of her children to outsiders

theButterfly:
If you click on the link you'll read that her husband is the one who wants to break up b|c he doesn't want to do chores, so he's the immature and childish one.

Mr. that's untrue. She wants other redditors to validate her rights to divorce. She wants to divorce him and she's seeking the opinion of other people who would say 'yes, go ahead" not the other way round. You don't have to click the url to know better1

princeking2:
Is this not the reason why our grandfathers refused to train a girl child in school?
Is this not a reason why our Nigeria society can never give delicate positions to women?
In fact is this not the same reason God created women last of all Creation and put her under a man.

This is my opinion: Divorce and go to your house or your father's house. Raise your children and tell them how scum full men are but also tell them you lacked sense and that was why you divorced their father.

Gbam: "....but also tell them you lacked sense.."

ednut1:
i still wonder why many ladies are desperate to marry. When its most time a slavery thingy lmao

Both genders are desperate to marry; the female gender is more pronounced because of Mother Nature that kicks in before 45, in many cases. You know what I mean!

But yeah, if marriage is slavery, why not remain in your father's house?

Keep off from the byproduct of stress-induced life - sex. And I mean children!

bukatyne:
Hmmmm

Does your cousin contribute money to the house purse?

Has she explored getting a maid?

Bukatyne, you're a married working class woman, so let's hear your opinion. This thread is meant for you!

Oko re o shishe le, ko fobo, ko kin gbale, ko fo toilet, are you going to divorce him? Why and why not?

What if he objects to the idea of a maid and still, wouldn't lift an inch? I am not saying your husband is passive or indifferent; on the contrary, I want to hear your opinion in what seems like a hypothetical scenario for you.

Mstick:
Reminds me of when I spent 2 days in my cousin's house. She has two kids under 2. She woke up, swept the house,mopped as she was doing that her son woke up she stopped half way attended to him and I helped her feed him while she continued her chores, by then the baby wakes up, she baths her, feeds her and handed the baby over to me.

She went back to cleaning, after a while she came out looking so confused. She just ran to the kitchen some minutes later she came out with food and she went back to the bedroom to call her husband he finished eating left the plate and went back to the room.

Throughout the day all she did was wash, cook, clean and take care of kids, this man couldn't even help. All he did was eat,sleep and TV. I felt so bad for my cousin.

I was supposed to stay a week but I couldn't. When she opened up to me I already knew she was just marking time in that marriage and it wouldn't last long.

He works and she also works, still when she asks him for help he says house work is a woman thing.

I'm curious as to why you were unable to stay for up to a week. Is it because you cannot stand the fact that she's doing all the chores alone? And to add insult to injury, they both work?

J111333:
I want to be very fair in my submission on this topic. Marriage in Africa is more like a modern slavery for women, should I say no thanks to exhortation from in laws but that's an issue for another day. Men marry who will cook, clean, raise kids, service them in za ozza room and still keep white collar jobs in most cases. I've heard of a man who gets off work at 4pm, but sits comfortably at the sitting room waiting for his wife who closes work at 5pm to serve launch and dinner.(food was in fridge oo, just microwave it, mba)
All these happen but any lady that ever revolts against such culture is termed a bad wife.
I don't support men dragging kitchen with their wives but a good husband should help out always be it with house chores or even in the kitchen and bathing of kids especially where the wife works too.

So what exactly are you saying? Did she doing the right thing?

If someone is a serial cheater and the other party tells you he/she wants to divorce; I bet you'd not ind it problematic. How about house chores where the man is very negligent?

Most Nigerian marriage is slave labour, according to you, fine. What's the way out of this modern day slavery? Divorce?

gssdobi:
very funny, Children getting married these days, Imagine a Divorce, because of housework, just employ a house keeper and make him pay her salary.Abeg you guys should not kill me with laughter.

Not children actually, but feminist. It's only feminist (I said only) that would drag men down that path. As a woman, there's a way you'd talk to the most stone-hearted husband, either by constant tears, frown or any means that they would just listen to you. But even if they wouldn't, divorcing over this reason isn't just childish but stupid. So even if he doesn't do less than his fair share of housework, why not just do what needs to be done, do your part, do what you can do and just keep quiet. Is life that hard? White women matter tire me!

LadySarah:
Do the ones You can do and leave the rest.You didnt cone into marriage to kill urself.

LadySarah I think I have to agree with you. No one should wear themselves out with house chores but I ask, if you were single (or a single mom) would you do these chores? Yes, maybe that's a stupid question. You husband doesn't do his fair share of house work, would you divorce him? Why and why not.

Bunchersstab:

Why you con dey laugh? End-time things!

I want to hear the opinions of ONLY married women...

What would you do as a married woman when you husband doesn't do his fair share of household chores and you guys are both working? He works longer hours than you do or you work longer hours than he does? Divorce him? Oh yes, it happens pretty regularly in the western world or maybe I should say the US.

How about if you're a stay-at-home-mom and he opens a shop/kiosk for you?

I was reading a subreddit on reddit

https://old.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/cf6iha/husband_would_rather_break_up_than_do_chores/

She created the thread 2 hours ago and one commenter, u/WonderTwinkles, said and I quote

"Leave him. He's a child in man clothing.You will have a much better life without such a drain on your existence.
Source: ended an eleven year marriage for similar reasons. Life is HUGELY better. Got married last year to a man who cleans up without even being reminded, AND he treats me like I treat him, which is like gold."


Another one, u/mars_cat, said
Definitely work toward leaving his ass. It's not just about the chores, it's about the way he treats you and expects you to cater to his every demand. As you're preparing to leave, don't do ANY of his things. If you're doing laundry, only do yours. If your cooking dinner, make one meal for yourself. Disconnect his game system and hide the cables (maybe hide them in the laundry or somewhere he can only find it if he does some chores). A relationship should be an equal partnership, and disagreements shouldn't include insults and petty actions. This guy does not deserve you. He think his life would be better without you? Nah, your life would be better without him.

Lemme not bore you with quotes after quotes but the vast majority of comments kinda hint that she should leave. Over what? The guy wouldn't do less than his fair share of the house chores! I don't know if those commenters are trolls or if it has gotten to that.

I know our cultures and tradition are different but if the vast majority of people are encouraging her to leave for what our people here would see as a trivial reason, a very silly excuse by the woman, don't you think there's good reasons to be utterly terrified? I am livid.

So my question to you, dear married women of Nairaland, I know there aren't many of you here but we would still like to hear the opinion of the few anyway. Would you divorce your husband over his indifference to household chores or BETTER PUT complain bitterly about it online or in your circle of friends, and I mean it? Divorce, as in, mio shey mon? If yes, why? If no, why not?

I'd love to hear your opinion. Thanks


Edit: Damn, she deleted the write-up

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I swear with Allah that create the heaven and the earth, I'm not lying.
May Allah continue to enrich you all, you can assist them if their is capability or help rebroadcasts to those that may help insha Allah.
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When I read, "I swear with Allah that create the heaven and the earth, I'm not lying." Seriously, I would love to help you but I am not in a position to do so right now. I pray that God Almighty provides help.

drawnobet:
The info is up to date.

Yes, you will be able to cashout to your prepaid card if you follow the info.

It details the steps to getting a PP account that will accept withdrawals. The notifications for transactions on the Africard will be send to your mobile phone so that is where your verification code will be sent to. You can use another bank card to verify for now and get the Africard when you want to make your withdrawal.

Thank you very much for your input. Is there a way to check the balance on the card?