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MRosario:
Yes it isn't. I never said it was.

That is why I said in my previous post that orgasm is nature's way of rewarding us for voluntarily releasing sperm...

...which by the way is a foolish thing to do if we consider man as an individual, but if we consider man as a specie, it is the right thing to do.

Nature sees man as a species, not as individuals, that's why males are cursed with high testosterone, ejaculation and libido and in the same vein are rewarded with orgasm.

Mother nature didn't waste so much time fine tuning the sexuality of males in a specie, for the male to be celibate or monogamous.

But we can't have randy males roaming the world with erect organs looking for the nearest female to impregnate, that's why we invented marriage.

Marriage is totally a social construct, so you can't bring it up when discussing biology, you will never win.

pansophist:
Preferably, she should give me the green light and if I like her, I'll commence romantic negotiations. Wooing a man comes with a risk of being used as a fck material, not advisable. Men are like lions, they value the meat they hunt for themselves.

placeofallure:
Don't exactly get you

placeofallure:
Never to attempt a paper without reading the instructions.

Way back in the University, there's this 300 level core course I was to sit for. From the past questions we've seen, it's usually 3 questions and you would be required to do 2.

Now, I was one of the best in my department, I was more than ready for the paper. As I took the question paper, I just studied the 3 questions and picked the 2 I was most comfortable doing. I settled for number 2 and 3. I did it with all vigour and zest, then submitted. I was waiting outside for my friends to finish. It took them a while. They came out of the hall and we were exchanging some banter on the just concluded paper, I wanted to show them how I did it. As I held up the paper to say something, behold the instruction was staring back at me..... Attempt question 1 and any other one!!!! Choi!

I quickly rushed back in to see if I could be allowed to correct my error, I was denied even though the paper was still ongoing. Then I resorted to begging the lecturer on subsequent days to just allow me do number 1, he refused. This is a lecturer that was like my godfather. He never begins lectures without first asking after me. That was his way of ensuring I wasn't missing class. I was handed over to him since my 100 level by my big sister's friend and he has since been responsible for me. People thought we had an affair but we didn't. He was too serious minded. I carried the course over. He gave me 39 in that paper, pass mark was 40. Funny enough, I wasn't angry at him. After sulking initially, I accepted his decision. We need upright men.

Our friendship continued and he even ensured he supervised my project. His refusal to budge taught me a big lesson I'd never forget.

Dozis:
If it's actually true that she was killed...
If you kill someone today, highest 100 years you will equally die, so my question is, wetin you gain by taking the life of another?
Do not kill another person or commit suicide, just be patient everyone will still die.

Jafar1:
After all the insults wey dem don insult each other for their musics....

My guy, no take life too serious!

Toks2008:
You are Absolutely right but unfortunately, most of the ladies we now have will rather use the time when they ought to be productive to start looking out for a man that can cater for them rather than go out to cater for themselves.

Randy91:
You have not travelled out ALL your life...

Leave the shores of AFRICA to other developed continents, then you will see that WOMEN DON'T DEPEND on Men!!!!

They fuvking work for their money!!!!!

PoliticallyInco:
Give a lady money? How many ladies have given me money and who says I have to give a lady money.

These ladies have hands,legs and brains. So why should they be a charity case? God forbid I raise daughters this way. Just because nature gave you a few features to enable you bear babies, you have turned it into a commercial venture? If nature wanted you to rely on men so much it would have not provided you with arms, legs and a brain. One was quoted as saying girls are now wise, they are following the money. That is wisdom? Well okay. If stupid things make you happy who am I to talk. As long as you aren't getting the money from me and as long as you don't come complaining when your economic master that you are a slave to treats you like shit because he pays the bill, then I have no problems with your decision. Enjoy.

Or are we saying the society affects girls so much that they become mentally retarded at making ends meet? Are we saying the society has stunted their mental and psychological development to such a grave extent of mental retardation that they can't possibly work to make their own money and use it as they will. Was a curse placed on them never to make their own money and spend it how they like? Do they enjoy being economic slaves? Recently a lady said most young girls/students will die of hunger if married men remained faithful to their wives. While I am no saint, it is not that these girls will die of hunger. THEY WILL DIE FROM GREED! GREED FROM WANTING THINGS THEY CANT AFFORD AND HENCE NOT LIVING WITHIN THEIR MEANS.

Listen, If the lady isn't a minor or an aged relative then she is not getting a dime from me just like that. In other to get a dime she has to earn every penny of it by working twice or thrice as hard to earn it. It would not matter how many positions of the Kama Sutra you know, how good the head you give is, how wet you get when I slam into you from behind sending your juices splashing everywhere, or how good your food tastes, or how domesticated you are, or how saintly your character is. And oh I also don't kid myself that I am the best man out there. Just as you aren't the best woman either. So please make your own money and "eat" it alone. Let me make mine and enjoy it in peace with legit dependants. See ladies, there are a few ways to earn money from me and I promise you,you must work thrice as hard to earn it and secondly it isn't through any form of sexuality or the stereotypical gender roles of a lady.


I live for myself first, then my young and aged dependants next, then the less privileged, before I then consider a woman.

FarahAideed:
One of the hardest job to lose in Nigeria is Chevron full time , most people that lose get traumatized as nothing ever looks good enough for them

Benesis:
Burnt 200gig in a week

Chatflick:
I'm a Forex trader

Chatflick:
Here is mine... Sim1 is 21gb while Sim2 is 9gb

Badonasty:
As far as I’m concerned na South African votes carry this girl reach that 2nd wey she carry...dem too like big breast

backtalkG:
Women and money

RealLordZeus:
$40 PayPal needed asap. Drop your contact or hit my siggy

sanmtiago:
Just have money in this life women will do anything just to have a taste of your blokos and money. Vagina people no follow at all.

Idemujoseph:
Ogbane= it had completed
Torwagba= it must be complete

Omonoba1:
E must complete

Omonoba1:
E don complete

Arrewa:
First of all... I'm not an Islamic cleric.

I have studjrd both the Quran and the Bible.

Outside of the Quran there's no way I can prove the existence of anything concerning Islam.

Religion is faith.

However I strongly believe in humanity.

I believe that if you are doing the right thing... Helping the less privileged, planting trees, standing tall for humanity... If there's heaven you'll surely make it!

We don't have the right to question ones existence.

The God that created you a Christian didn't hate you.

We have trillions of people who are not Muslims.

I can't Condemn them to hell just because they're not Muslims

Arrewa:
alright...

Arrewa:
Alright bro... I will add you to my Telegram let's discuss this.

I already have your number here with me... Sorry for not making up time to chat you up.

I will try my possible best to chat you up tomorrow on Telegram.

Let's discuss about this.

bukatyne:
You are welcome.

Deborah98:
[s]Wisdom is the principle thing in all your getting get understanding.....[/s]

crackhaus:
Lol, it may never get to that.

The idea of common-law partnerships/marriages would usually make sense when you consider these criteria that should be met:
– Having child(ren) together
– Living together/shared accommodation continuously, not intermittently.
– Shared ownership of property
– Shared bills/addresses on IDs

If the two persons in the OP had all of this, the court judgment would honestly make more sense to anyone considering that they had built a life together but simply did not take marital vows – spousal support here would be very understandable.

But what happened between those two was nothing more than boyfriend and girlfriend matter, none of the usual criteria for CLM were met.
So is that judge not mad like this...

MrBrownJay1:
He didn't spend on her, he changed her life entirely, thus because they were common law husband and wife, she can now claim to be accustomed to such lifestyle, and desire to continue living like that. If the man was broke and she was the only one working and taking care of the dude, then the man could sue and ask for the exact same spousal support.



The marriage refusal is irrelevant since the man kept being with her this whole time, and whether they are married or not, the law is the same.



Not at all....even if the woman did absolutely NOTHING, she is still entitled to spousal support in order to continue living the lifestyle she has been made accustomed to by this man. You are confusing spousal support with a settlement to get half of what a husband made during marriage. Different ball game. She doesn't want half of what he made during their union, she just wants to be able to continue living the lifestyle she is accustomed to (thanks to this man)



I think it is fair as everyone knows the law... And any fool who thinks it is ok to have a lazy spouse at home while using money to put them in a certain lifestyle, while that spouse does absolutely nothing, shouldn't/cannot drop them at the snap of their fingers. Stay in your lane instead of trying to change desperate people's lives



Simple common sense would fix such issue....have your woman WORK, Have her contribute to whatever lifestyle you guys are into, have her PAY for such lifestyle, if you are rich and bring some poor woman to your life then within 6 months you have to make a life decision: keep her around and possibly have to pay her spousal support OR get rid of her (or have no paper trail that would link your life to hers)