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Hmm, it looks like political officer holders contracting the disease is not normal. Divine retribution?

The answer to this is a resounding no, obviously. How about this thread I created: Jobless Fellows Who Marry To Avoid Sexual Sins.

https://www.nairaland.com/5965460/whats-opinion-jobless-fellows-marry#91316028
A good decision?

Oldoinyolengai:
Who told you marriage is an antidote to fornication?

Do you know marriage could be a barrel of sins?

@bold: to a reasonable extent, yes. It is an antidote to fornication. Do you know marriage could be a barrel of sins? Yes!!!

ZINIBANKS:
I don't even know which angle to start from lol I'll wait patiently for the elders

Lol.. You're the elder na

Oldoinyolengai:
Will marriage end all of your sinning behaviors?

No, it would not. Good point you have made here, to be candid.
However, the sin of fornication can metamorphise into other sins and you could be shut out for one sin too?

nickvanilla:
Every man with his Kaya. But according to a wise old man, a broke man is not entitled to an.......

Meaning broke men should not sow wild oats or do so religiously? Lol, which one?

oluwaseyi0:
Seems you missed out a part "his wife need to be working"

Lol.

oluwaseyi0:
What I know is that lack of sexual sins won't pay his bills, infact if he's completely broke he won't see the sex regularly from his wife, so many disrespect and nagging is what he will see

But on the other side, if he's not completely broke and the lady is also working considering his age they can manage themselves till things get better

Okay, I get you. Your own opinion is that it's okay to marry on NPower salary since it is being, according to you, "Not completely broke"?

samsard:
Only international high or low.

Owo wogbo.

Would love to post this in the Religion section but romance traffic is mad so I'd ask your opinion here. Back in 2012 while I was still very religious, I was an undergraduate packed in a room of 9 (not kidding) in a public university. There was one very religious brother who is way older than all of us in the room. Maybe in his early 30s or late 20s. Seems he has NCE or ND, I don't remember which.

When it was about time we write Harmattan semester exams, brother travelled to IB. He came back to campus only to tell us he's married. It was a very low key wedding because his pocket is not...

Okay, so he confided in me personally as brothers na, that he married to avoid sexual sins. He wouldn't have married when he did but he just had to. I really, really, really (Can't seem to stress the "really) congratulated him and approved of this action and still do.

Now, of course, less than 3% of females would marry you on NPower salary but what do you think of what he did? If you are able to get the needle in the haystack, would it be appropriate?

I had to ask this because of another Nairalander's comment: "Rome is not built in a day so the man might not be 'successful' when ready to marry;"

What is your opinion about this?

Pamela28:
You can't use South Africa paypal to withdraw to Africard.

Thank you.

samsard:
Are you sure it's an international high prepaid card and not the local one?

It's the local, sir. Thought it would work?

@samsard it seems I just wasted my 2500 and all for nothing. See the message UBA sent to my email address on why the linking was declined on the Lesotho PayPal: Available Balance: NGN 925.00
Description: PAYPAL 4029357733 LU - POS debit amount of 407.93 would exceed the international transaction limit of 0.00.

Seems the card no longer supports dollar debit. Too bad

samsard:
I don't think you need to convert. PayPal charges for conversion, so you might as well just withdraw like that if it'll go through.
I've not used my Lesotho PayPal in a while, but I believe it should still be working.

Thanks

samsard:
I could be wrong, but I don't think SA withdraws to Africard.

Thanks. Does Africard still work on Lesotho PayPal?

Also, just some technical question. I have funds in different PayPal balance in AUD and USD. If I were to cash out for Naira, what combination would yield the highest returns: converting Australian dollars to USD and then cashing for naira or converting USD to AUD and cashing for Naira? Currently 1 AUD is 268 according to the rate by a UBA service rep who checked for me yesterday.

samsard:
I don't think you can withdraw from South Africa PayPal. Unless maybe it's Saudi Arabia you're mistaking for it.

Thanks boss. Thanks. I want to get you right. South African PayPal can't be used to withdraw funds with Africard?

On a side note though, I created the account using drawnobet's tutorial (when he penned it down) so I don't exactly recall. Shouldn't it be a South African PayPal (.za)? Okay, how do I withdraw?

Guys, I'm confused. My SA PayPal only permits four digit zip code. My Afri card has five. Can I link it?

MedicH:
Before I have sex with anybody I make sure there's a camera in the room. I just position my laptop which I carry around everywhere anyways for my cryptotrading and put on the webcam while the browser is on so that it will stealthily record, then I save in a gigantic hard drive. Never trust a daughter of eve.

Bros please which website do you use to trade crypt? How profitable? What do you advise? How much to start? How much do you earn weekly or monthly?

Dobson43:
[s]Brother, I am glad you agreed with the other paragraph. If the case centered on just the sex scene after their alcohol intoxication, and the lady cried foul and took the case up immediately after submitting herself for medical evaluation and filed a case in the police station. Brother, that man would find it hard to get out of that matter. It seems like an injustice here but it is what it is. [/s]

She has no case.

captianfreeman:
Power of plenty money. When there is enough to go round, there must be peace.

What money can't do, too much money will do it easily.

I could not possibly agree more sir. In Heaven, for countless aeons, there would be exceeding peace. I mean even if God permits us there in our sinful state, there would be be so much peace because there is so much in God to go round.

longetivity:
they will sell it aanother day

You didn't read what I wrote up there.

Mcreloaded:
Lots of animal farmers are lined up and ready to buy the left overs.
They use the left over. Read to feed fishes, pigs etc.
Hope your question is answered.

Good answer. So the breads aren't made fresh again for local consumption? Like, how a microwave reheats food?

Local bread is so undesirable after 3 days. I would rather eat nothing than that.

Okay, they get returned to the bread manufacturers who then eat them? No. I don't think so.

I would be weary of eating bread that is made fresh again.

Mires:
If you are ready to settle down with her, DM. I will support you with N100,000. Best of luck

Wow. That's very generous of you. God keep you.

AltCtrlDel:
What will be your reaction if Dangote says "you look like my missing child"

There true. I am for sure your missing child.

thesicilian:
At times it's not safe to drive yourself if you have so much on your mind.
Besides having a driver is not always a status symbol, sometimes it's just a matter of convenience for very busy people.

I don't totally agree. So much can be on your driver's mind too. In fact, you're likely to crash in the hands of a poor driver because poverty breeds worries and worries could also kill. HBP etc, etc.

Kizzygentle:
Exactly what I said and some guys were attacking me. It's called domestic violence. When u forcefully have sex with your wife when not in d mood, U are domestically abusing her which I believe should be stated in d law. Guys stop Misinforming or encouraging husbands to forcefully have sex with their wives. It also damages marriage and causes infidelity. This acts makes d wife to automatically hate d husband and find solace in d hands of another man.
Like d 1st comment said. If you can't hold your konji, shalaye outside instead of raping. My 1 cent.

I'm sorry, having sex with your spouse is not up to you. It is an obligation.

HITsquad:
Men, Don't rape your wife, if she denies you sex, go outside and get it... Its not on you, it's on her! And it's not cheating!

You see the reason it cannot be called marital rape?

Meeyankee:
Coming from a simpii.. read the chat very well why threatening him with the most cheapest commodity which is sex.

I like your profile pics

Poloyanabo2:
[s]One man down, i repeat man down!
Covid19 you're needed at aso rock, come alleviate the sufferings of nigerians.[/s]

What are you saying?