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Henrymorre:
the platform was a little difficult for me. I will rather deactivate my account on nairaland than on Reddit bro. Reddit is very very useful. With over 40 million acrive users.

Active users per what? Month? Year?

Acidosis:
God is interested in the life of mortal man. That's interesting. What about the life of the young man with a spinal cord issue?

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Looks like we are going on a tangent. I am trying to draw your attention to one basic truth taken for granted too often. What happened to him is just one of several things and situations surrounding his life. Life is like a movie only the great creator and his armies of angels can watch. That is probably one of God's favourite pastime.

Acidosis:
Since the fall of man, love has become the ultimate thing.

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Love? The ultimate thing. I must laugh. The divine pleasure when the creatures engage his attention can not be quantified. That is basically why he created us. Love is just one of a trillion things the creature can do bro. Like a movie, God is interested in the life of mortal man.

Acidosis:
Companionship, not sex, is the main thing. It is not good for a man to be alone (this was the statement that inspired the creation of the woman). If sex was the main and only thing, God would have created women without necessarily instituting marriage. Like dogs and goats, we would be programmed to sleep with anything we come across on the street.

Based on my interpretation of that statement, the woman is the only cure for man's loneliness.

Let's just say I would not agree with cheating under any condition. Whether one spouse travels out of the country for 5 years or another is bedridden. I would, however, agree to divorce if certain conditions remain unbearable. That being said, I would not show or give an iota of respect for one that files for divorce under conditions such as sickness or accident. This is just a personal opinion which a Magistrate may choose to discard or support.

It's a free world but certain things don't align with my belief. The same way some childless couples choose to remain together out of love, while others decide to go "out there" in the guise of replenishing the earth as 'cited' in the Bible.

I am not going to tell you that History is His Story or that He finds great pleasure looking at man and all the activities of man under the heavens. The wranglings, intrigues, shrewdness, folly, love, madness and all caused by procreation.I'll answer why I think procreation and certainly not companionship is the chief end of marriage and creation of the woman tommorow, but let me ask a simple question. Which pleases the divine the most, the utmost: that one more creature has been birth whose life, times, folly, piety would be something to behold, look carefully at, argue in great depth about or that a man loves his wife madly and the wife does same crazily too. Which one is of more interest to God?

Acidosis:
So why do you make vows on your wedding day knowing that you could run away one week after your honeymoon?

Why do you ask God's forgiveness knowing full well that you'd still sin?

I am, of course, not going to pat her in the back for seeking sexual gratification outside marriage, but one of the chief reasons, if not the chief reason for marriage is sexual gratification. It has been permanently cut off here.

Despite Paul's somewhat celibate stance, he still makes it clear that people should get married to fulfil sexual lust. So marriage and sex are like tube and tyre. One is more or less redundant without the other. Sex is not one of the many aspects of marriage bro, it is the main thing. That is how mortal man replenishes the earth.

Acidosis:
Know yourself, as in? I should tell you that I'm a dog that jumps from skirt to skirt or a sex addict? If I don't know myself based on my personal experiences, so what then do I know?

Where is the idea of frigid coming from? Is she a tree?

I have had more than 5 hrs conversations with a woman in this condition and her experiences are completely different from your imagination.

No man or woman, all creatures, Christian or pagan, born again or not, really knows what they can or can't do in certain situations and you are certainly not an exception. Period.

I said what I said because I believe the spine affects sexual function. Or just asking contextually, what would you do if your wife cannot perform her marital role in the sexual way. Like another poster said, it is easier said than done. Or let me be a bit lewd, what would you do if your wife's bosom and sexual canal had to be removed at once as a result of cancer? How long would you continue with non-penetrative sex?

Acidosis:
I won't remain celibate forever and won't cheat either. Penetrative sex between a man and a woman is not the only way to reach sexual satisfaction.

Please and please, know yourself. One of the hardest thing is, believe you me, to know one's self.

You think that non-penetrative sex for as long as you live would keep you faithful to the marriage vows? So if your wife becomes frigid and is unable to carry out sex due to a problem with her spine, you'd be satisfied forever with non-penetrative sex?

Acidosis:
Your mates became Reverend Fathers and Reverend Sisters at 20.

And if that seems like an impossible task, you can choose to masturbate.

You didn't answer me. Please the second paragraph and answer my question. Thank you.

Acidosis:
My point is we shouldn't justify the woman's consideration/decision to abandon her husband. The moment you're married, you've become a family. It shouldn't matter whether extended families come to our aid or not. These same extended families will be heavily criticized when they come to claim inheritance.

You shouldn't call her useless because she couldn't endure it again after 2 years. I think, you don't really know yourself. Know yourself. Every single word of Holy Writ and every character in the Bible warns us never to say, "I can never do that. I can never try such a thing. That cannot happen to me." Even our Lord Jesus had to tell us to beseech the Almighty to deliver us from temptation.

Two years seem like 2 days to you, right? Okay, what do you suggest she do. Her husband is permanently unable to satisfy her, how long would you remain celibate if you were in her shoes? I want a definite answer. Thank you!!!

spinna:
Chai ...the film in the bush pass any movie studio or season film..
Nature is metal and the great cretaor is Awesomely Awesome..what an honour to be given dominion over this great creation

Hmm. Well said

SmartProf:
Battle ground! Wike thanks for being a fortress, you have my respect. Nothing predicts a future behaviour as much as past impunity. Regardless of who is right or wrong in this dirty crisis, the courts are not closed, so why this intimidation?

You're living up to your name. Thank you.

Danielfx:
Nigeria their country....

Anyway, i sell cars direct from contonu with paper rap

Their country kuma? Or our country lol?

Abdulsobur02:
Chai see wetin human being dey eat. Are you that hungry?

Lol. Ebin pa baba!!!

pDudd:
Back then in UI, I was tall and I had a chunky friend I used to call Big Dog. Big dog was a dark skinned Yoruba guy who had body and had Yoruba swag.

Now if you went to UI, you will know Sultan Bello Hall and it's dome called "Bello Dome." Lots of people used to do wedding receptions in Bello Dome and it was often a thing of repute to be a student in Bello Hall and be able to sneak into one of those wedding receptions.

One Saturday, they were holding one of those receptions and from the arrangement and decorations happening in the morning that day, it was like that reception was going to rock. And that period, kobo not dey anybody pocket and all boys were hungry. That's how I contacted Big Dog all the way in Zik Hall and told him to show, because we must enter that party. We used our last kobo to go and barb hair and ironed our whitest agbada and decided to enter.

Normally those parties require IV card to enter inside because they knew that students may want to fall inside and enjoy free food. But me and Big Dog looked like dignitaries. Infact, Big Dog resembled an Otunba and I resembled his boy. That's how both of us entered and got to the place where they are checking IV. Big Dog just talked one jagajaga alaye Yoruba talk and next thing they opened way for us because they thought he was a big man . They led us to one nice table that was already decorated with small chops.

Chai, see enjoyment. Small time they will bring juice, after a few minutes, they will bring wine, then malt, then bottle water, then peppersoup, etc. Small time they will check on us to know if we are having a good time. Me I dey form yankee ajebutter and Big Dog dey form Chief Otunba Big Dog. Omo! We chop every every. They kept bringing different types of food to our table and asking us if we are ok. Hahahahahahaha. That's how broke boys chop life that day.

Big Dog, if you're reading this, I miss you bro.

You just made my day lol. You deserve a follow.

Righteousness89:


Yes I am...

But I am not in town at the Moment..

Oh okay.

Righteousness89:
I am Not a Doctor, Neither do I understand all the Grammars Written there.

But I am a Son of The One that Creates and Recreates .

If you can Join a little Faith , with My Faith, and Believe my Words , Your Friend or Whoever will be Instantly Healed...

FATHER IN The Name of JESUS, I Cancel whatever is being called in that System!
I Command Recreation of That body..
I Declare Her Healed in The Name of JESUS..

Thank you JESUS...

It is Done!

Are you based in Lag?

solmus:


RIP


Fatal Accidents happen everywhere in the world but only in Nigeria mock the dead by posting their pictures in awkward shameful position

If you don't tolerate people snapping you while sleeping or naked then please don't snap the dead

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Mr. this is not a snapping the dead case. Who certified them dead? Besides, how do we know the incident happened?

I, for one, need hard concrete evidence to take anything on the web as true. People need to see these things to hold their leaders accountable. The dead know nothing. The living is sacred. The dead is not. Baseless comparison.

Coinvision:
I'm simply tryna enlighten young guys out there not to settle for less.

If a lady cannot give you her younger and fertile years, don't do same bro!!!

Hmm

11Anonymous:
Nigerians buy iPhones, not because they love it but because they want people to think they have enough money

I would argue that what you said is true of any other nationality

adonainana:
He goes by the name FX Exhanger sometimes Pato exchange here on nairaland

He scammed me of 0.01 btc just 40,000 naira

[21:46, 10/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: Bro I’m still available to trade with ooo
[21:46, 10/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: I have coins
[21:46, 10/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: 0.19
[21:46, 10/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: It’s naira I am looking for
[21:46, 10/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: Let me know if you can help me
[22:06, 10/07/2020] Pato Exchange : Have told you we can't go first moreover am an admin here I can't go against our management policy.. I work with rules..
I don't understand you fully
[22:06, 10/07/2020] Pato Exchange : I mean I understand you fully*
[22:06, 10/07/2020] Pato Exchange : If you're willing to go first then we are in.. We do business.. Long term business
[22:24, 10/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: Hmm
[22:24, 10/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: What’s the full name of the person the naira would be coming from
[22:24, 10/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: And who is in charge if you are just the admin
[22:52, 10/07/2020] Pato Exchange : From Kingsley okwudili Sir
[22:52, 10/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: Is he the ceo of the company nd
[22:53, 10/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: I don’t think u informed me about this earlier
[22:53, 10/07/2020] Pato Exchange : Man you're welcome here this is your first trade with us, first impression matters.. We are in for business if it goes through
[22:53, 10/07/2020] Pato Exchange : About what
[22:54, 10/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: About the ceo Kingsley okwudili
[22:54, 10/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: Anyway
[22:55, 10/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: Do you have your 40,020 naira ready for 0.01 worth of btc
[22:55, 10/07/2020] Pato Exchange : No probs, we haven't really chat that much, you know you messaged us last money about buying btc but we later didn't from you
[22:55, 10/07/2020] Pato Exchange : Is ready man
[22:56, 10/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: What’s your bitcoin address
[22:57, 10/07/2020] Pato Exchange : 37HZJjDax6R3aq39ty4tWHgvJNTHy57HdG
[22:57, 10/07/2020] Pato Exchange : Send me screenshot here once done
[22:57, 10/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: One sec
[22:57, 10/07/2020] Pato Exchange : Okay
[23:11, 10/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: Hi
[23:11, 10/07/2020] Pato Exchange : Am here Bro
[23:11, 10/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: Please let me know when you see any notification of any incoming payment from your end
[23:12, 10/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: My wallet just says pending
[23:12, 10/07/2020] Pato Exchange : Alright is it from blockchain?
[23:15, 10/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: Nah my wallet is from somewhere else
[23:16, 10/07/2020] Pato Exchange : Alright
[05:55, 11/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: Morning
[05:55, 11/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: Pls check your wallet
[12:14, 11/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: ?
[12:14, 11/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: ?
[12:14, 11/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: ?
[14:35, 11/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: Hello
[14:36, 11/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: Hope you know this was not the agreement
[14:37, 11/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: I am going online now to share your phone number
[14:37, 11/07/2020] Mr Kiksy Money Transfer: So expect what you wanted to expect

Up to today her has not credited me my 40,000 naira after i sent him 0.01 btc

He has been ignoring my calls and he has been ignoring my messages

PLEASE EVERYONE HELP ME CALL THIS NUMBER AND TELL HIM HE IS A FRAUDSTER


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Sorry sir. If he really scammed you, then may God horsewhip and stab him. This is honestly one of the reasons one should be terrified of sharing skin with some whom we are collectively jumbled together as humans. Pelè!!!

StarUp:
Issorite...

Sorry oo, are you not the nairalander whose hubby posted your pre and wedding pics?

Maxymilliano:
A very honorable Judge indeed and a pride to the Judiciary she is.

This is how things must be done, the constitutional process must be strictly adhered to and the legislooters that collected 10m from Aketi to impeach the deputy must be taught how things are done in a transparent manner and not Kogi style

I'm clueless. How did it happen in Kogi

SmartProf:
Lol...this man got a black market judgement from the Supreme Court. He feels to me like a non-eligible player captaining a football team in a world cup tournament.

Lol. Your fine choice of words though.

Godoverevery:
Bro isn't easy as a man....the pressure at the moment is just too much.
Nobody care if a lady is making or not.

That's true sha, but I would rather be a male, anyday, anytime, everytime, and five times on Sunday lol.

Godoverevery:
2020 have been not a very good year has a business man....finance have not been really good.
Relationship for a man is an extra burden because woman don't really understand how hard things are at the moment...am working twice has hard now and after the stressful struggle am meant to give her money and support her despite having a job of her own.
All I hear is complain of her wanting to change her phone, changing her walldrop etc...I am meant to do all this things by her.
if she is in financial distress am meant to help by giving her money but if is the other way round she can only borrow me with constant reminder of when am I paying up until I pay back.
Anytime she coming for the weekend I must send her money to get food stuff,take her out and when going back I must give her tfare.

Been a lady is really sweet in this part of the world.
Relationship is nothing anymore.....90% of ladies see it has another means to make money.

My fiancee was leaving today and I gave her money(10k)...so i scoped her to give me like 1k out of the money to buy fuel......her face change instantly,she said hope I didn't forget I am still owing her some money....the money I am owing her was the one she used to get food stuff (4k).. foodstuff we both ate...i just weak.

[s]why didn't I come this world has a female
[/s]We men are really suffering..... Relationship doesn't favour us anymore.

What? Did? You? Just? Say? The life of mortal man is so hard mehn, but If I were to come to this world, I would rather come as a male. And seriously, if I came as a female and you asked me the same question a trllion times, I'd reply each time: I wish I were male. Lol.

PoliteActivist:
But Nigeria in 1961 looks something like this

Proof. I want another proof that blacks were the ones responsible for the development back then. It's just like saying blacks developed South Africa. Blacks who had seen it all came back all the way from America and developed Liberia? Liberia?

Blacks weren't in charge of the Nigerian economy and government then. O pari!

iloveojonime:
life is indeed what happens while we are busy making plans

True talk

babasolution:
This nigerians that post these things are bastards,get out of Nigeria go and live in your fucking London,keep comparing yourselves to the whites like fools,how was China in the same 1927 and now,civilation is a gradual process some get in first come later,Africa will rise the black man will rise,if you like keep thinking you under a curse,when Africa rises black traitors like you will be killed.fools

Excuse me sir, it is no honor for an adult to be in baby's clothes anymore than it is to lag in any aspects among your peers. Sons of the same mother, Eve, your White mates are advancing in the sciences, circumnavigating the earth, travelling to space, advancing in medicine, trying to make the world a better place not just for themselves but for everyone as a whole, but are talking of the rising of the black race in the 21st century. For how long do we delude ourselves with baseless hopes? Did we somehow come into existence just recently? If you lag behind among your peers, isn't that enough reasons to be introspective? The black man cannot point to one thing that gives him an edge over his peers except voodoo, witchcraft, chronic corruption, vice and more vice. No black nation has or can hold an organized society, not even in Carribean black nations?

And the painful thing is that you don't seem to see that your optimism instead of being honest to yourself and reason is actually pretty useless.

It is highly debatable about China's development in 1927. Are Chinese whites? In a sense yes a

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wJWnXmCgRQA3

StreetFight:
Yes, shameless people fight over their enemy's goodies. May God not make us beg our enemy for food.

Amen

See this video and if you still join any political party, then I'm sorry to say this but you are one of the problems of this country.

How can a country be way ahead in 1927? That's 7 years less than 100. Not 1972 oo. In the youtuber's description, he said London hasn't really change. Nigeria has really changed and yet there's no change anywhere.


Let's be honest to ourselves, Africa as a whole is living under a curse. A curse that affects every thing she does, interacts with, and lays her hands on. Attribute it to second or third causes but that doesn't change the fact: Perpetual servanthood. It's not racism. It is called being honest.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5kml92pPjx0

1903 London would compete with Abuja sef. Shame!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-5Ts_i164c

1zombie1:
I cant believe this is on front page of the Africa most visited online forum, airforce baba baby

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Do you really think so? How about South African, Egyptian, and other nationalities? Just asking.