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What a SIMp, you've not even made ur intentions known and you're planning on sending Airtime

So u carry this nonsense behavior enter new year?

You did what every sane man would regret by beating your wife and then forcing yourself on her.

But given the sexual condition of your marriage it is bound to happen sooner or later, and then cheating will starts from there, that is not to say your actions are justified, very far from it; your actions are outright condemnable.

If your wife won't allow you have sex with her then have you tried talking with her to know why? If you have tried and they're was no response from her and the issue couldn't be resolved by both parties, have you tried getting a divorce? I know it not an easy thing to get a divorce on sexual ground when you're still in love, maybe you should have involved her closest friend, parent, elder sister (if any) in trying to find out what's going on with her.

Now you have to go to her parent/your parent and explained what happened and then have them help you out....

You fvck up Sha!

Lol... They should make one where Tinubu came after Buhari and set fire to the car

siofra:
So I needed condom for research and I went to get some at a drugstore.

When I got there, I asked the salesgirl for condom and she smiled and winked. I smiled too.

As I was leaving the store one ugly man that has been watching me came to block my way. This stupid, yellow man started insulting me and calling me olosho. I don't usually quarrel in public but I insulted this man and his bleached skin.

See me see wahala o. Does he know what I want to do with it? He said he was angry because I wasn't shy about it that in his time....blah blah blah. He spewed the usual nonsense about virginity nairaland redpillers usually type on this forum.




I'm so angry right now.

National Researcher to search your well no go easy ooo, I'm sure many old zaddies has must have searched and died inside your well

He should have allowed this poorly constructed ship to sink in peace...

Omo see job loss looming

That's why these big pot belly & overweight men go for small girls and leave their wives for young boys to handle.

Young girls don't care about the weight or big belly

While young boys don't care about the slacked pu**y

It's a win win for everyone

I guess people are no longer interested in bank jobs

Mazzatov:
This is a serious sh*t I’ve been battling with, I met this banny around September, she’s a single mother, but I don’t care about that, as no one is above mistake we started off...
Now my problem is this banny gave me Syphilis, I’ve been battling with it since first week of November, I’ve treat myself at the hospital, I spent 12k there and this sores are still on my prick
I just need help on what to use again, this sores are itching me so bad


Now I know why some men hates girls so much, I always support girls but with this experience, it hurts me so much
I just need help to cure myself....

Lol... Met one online, we got chatting and discovered she has a child, as our chatting progresses I invited her so we can hangout and get to know ourselves more but she popped the question what will you give me, then I realized say na coded olosho , we agreed on price but I didn't go through, I just ghosted her... I was thinking she's a modest person because she indicated on her profile that she's looking for a serious relationship but alas na format

oladiddy:
My wife and I have been married for over 3 years now with a beautiful daughter who is 2years plus but things are falling apart everyday.

Whenever we had arguments she will want to sabotage my job. Couple of months ago, we had an argument and I was to give update to my team via teams meeting (I work from home)..My wife keep raising her voice, I left the living room and went to bedroom lock the door behind to continue with my meeting but surprisingly to me, my wife went through the window and started the drama again.

Just yesterday there was another drama and she picked my phone unknowingly and call my overall boss.

Note: it is from this job am sponsoring her Masters in one of the centers in Uniport and also feeding the family. More than 70% of my monthly earnings goes to her. I am not a social person..I don't drink and either spend lavishly.

My wife is a very proud person and she has this obvious non challant attitude which are all seen by family members. Everybody keep talking about her but she's not changing. Although I have my own differences as well but she believe I can't control her. She's not submissive at all...I can say that over again and again.

Even while she's doing her masters, I was the one taking care of my daughter at home (thanks to covid)..in fact all my team members knows my daughter as my second colleague. I believe we all know how working from home with kids is like.

Please I need your advice. I am already thinking of divorce but the fear of loosing my daughter to her custody is my biggest challenge.

I am loosing my mind.

Please push to FP!

Tell her you're tired and you would like her to leave or you will be forced to throw her out, then call her parent and tell them you're no longer interested in the marriage to their daughter....

eeewise:
Got a call from a friend who is 23 without much family support (orphans) that she ran some tests and is a month pregnant.
She needs advice on what to do?
She has little or no family support system to cater for a child

So thinking of termination of pregnancy but naive on how to go about it

Any suggestions on what to do exactly

I'm trying to give myself advice here...

I don't know what's at stake but she should muster all the courage she can find and keep the child...
Will she surfer? Yes! Yes!! Yes!!!, But she should keep the child still and resolve within herself to do better going forward, she should use this period to get herself a viable skill..

Yes, shaming and mockery will come but it will be for a short while and then everyone will forget her mistake, and with her new skill and determination to succeed legitimately she'll excel and exceed all expectations.

Go and buy itel, infinx or tecno

This is where the North differs from the other sensible region...

The North will support even the worst of them if it means a Fulani/hausa will remain president, even if they'll have to suffer throughout...

I read another dishonourable with big stomach infrastructure was also disgraced recently in Imo.

Kudos to the eastern youths.

Lawyers in the house, I'm a bit confused here!, A lawyer should please explain the legality and illegality of this appointment for me.

Soffyh:
you you people ehn may God no let you experience brokenness sha

Amen oooo,

But I think it's irresponsible to borrow from loan app and use the money to buy food and data


Option A : If you need food then ask/borrow from your family, friends and neighbors

If you need data, then to what purpose?
If it's for work that will yield profit then apply option A above.
If it's for leisure then you should go and look for a job.

arthurwillia:
Lol you wan borrow money to chop and buy data? How do you Intend paying back? Hmm ok o

Lol.. he go borrow from another loan app to pay back the other loan app

This is typical Mother in-laws character, please leave Father in-laws out of this nonsense behavior.

Optimistic4life:
Year 2021 February to be precise, my husband served me a divorce notice. Though I saw it coming as we have been separated for some months.
The case is still in court though.

We are blessed with 3 kids under 10.

Soon the divorce will be finalized and we will both move on.

How easy is it adjusting to a new life as a divorced lady?

I just want to let it out as I have never discussed this with anyone. Just my immediate family members knows about it.

What is life like out there for me?

The shame, mockery, coping with kids alone, moving on etc

1. Nobody is going to shame or mock you except you have a bad character and you're the major contributing factor for the divorce

2. Except the court decides otherwise, you're not raising the kids alone, they can stay with either parent and still get time with/visitations from the other parent, and the court also will decide on how the kids will be provided for.

3. You can still decide to get married if you meet someone who is willing to settle down with you.

Just move on either way!

Curious346:
Kai..


before you advice her, but PLEASE REMEBER WE ARE TALKING OF A JOBLESS MAN HERE.

He is a fashion designer/tailor and not jobless.

But he is also a drunkard, a wife beater, An infidel: someone who doesn't provide even the basic necessities for his wife and children.

The court should just dissolve the marriage so the women could enjoy some relative peace and happiness while compelling the man to pay for the maintenance and upkeep of the children.


Coouuuuurt!!!

Both are good options, please refer me to anyone you decide to reject..... Wishing you all the best as I look forward to your response.

I need that Job boss.

I'm shocked you still want to see him, was it because he failed in an attempt to kill 300 persons mid air, you have failed as a father and your son will die alone in jail.

Deborah98:
It's not perfect,easy or rosy anywhere. My parents marriage is a perfect example of marriages that only true love, patience and understanding can build,move and sustain a marriage. Can someone please help me answer this,when love fails what else keeps the marriage? You see why I said more than love, money,beauty and body structure make sure there's something you're seeing in that person that other people are not seeing. Forget it,if it was love I'm sure many of us who have aged parents will counter this claim because many of our aged parents are or were polygamous. So those their wives and women was it love that kept them? No it wasn't. Find out what it was and try to build yours around or above it.

I make bold to say that marriages that has stood the test of time wasn't because of love or money but respect.
I'll take respect over love at anytime if I am given a choice to make.
While respect is reciprocal in marriage there is no denial that respect is seen to be given more by the woman in all of these long lasting marriages.

Make of the above what you wish, but if you don't have unwavering respect for your man, then your marriage may not last long or last forever...

My first dislike for blackberry phones wasn't because of its features or OS nor its design but my first dislike for the blackberry phones was because of Nigerian girls

I remember at the peak of the blackberry wave then in benin city on this eventful day I was going through where all roads converge in benin, popularly called Ring road and I observed that almost all the girls were having/holding blackberry dangling on their left hands while their handbags was hanged on their elbows, and one thought that came to mind was why can't these girls keep the phones inside their bags like normal people do.

Just like today with the iphone we all know how super expensive the blackberry was in it's days of glory and how girls that can't afford to pay rent or buy textbooks in school could magical use the power of clitocurrency to purchase these machines.

But look at blackberry today and how they've been rendered useless like the puna of yester years.
Now iphone is taking it tolls on the puna of young/ill-matured Nigeria girls, what an endless cycle of wasted clitocurrency and old ragged puna.


RIP to the Puna that was scattered, babies born out of wedlock, abortions, STIs and STDs as a result of Blackberry being introduced to Nigerian girls

ivolt:
The DSS were on an illegal operation. That is the difference.
If they had a legal warrant, Fayose would be arrested along with the target.
The constitution is free, download one and read.

Lol

zikter:
What are you saying? Wike is not fighting any lawlessness, rather he is a tyrant on another level. Just that many of you are hypocritical and two faced to accept one form of tyranny as good and another as bad. Do you know how many people died in Obigbo? Who ordered the killings if not wike. Yet you comfortably condemn Sanwo-Olu on lekki while turning a blind eye to what happened in Rivers. Those hotels he demolished then, how lawful was it? If what you typed about being educated is what education is, then I am not educated

Are we still talking about someone being in-charge of his state and not being controlled by FG? The bottom line here is that sanwo is a weakling!

NOETHNICITY:
Same Fayose was beaten by a woman police officer and he started shouting that he was in sefia pain
You can't fight the fed government
Same Wike used fed might against a sitting governor, we haven't forgotten
Wike is lucky Buhari doesn't play politics

Buhari plays ethnic bigotry, nepotism laced with government and organizational cluelessness not politics, you're right on your last submission!

zikter:
Stop saying what you don't know. The security architecture is vested in the FG. If the FG decide to be tyrannical to wike or any governor, there is nothing they can do. Will wike fight the entire police, military etc? I guess you were not of age when dictator Obasanjo orchestrated the kidnapp of Ngige who was a sitting governor then. We all condemn tyranny when it does not favour our alliance. You are hailing wike's tyranny now but I am sure you have condemn Buhari or others on the same situations

Since when has standing against lawlessness become tyranny? Wike might be razz in his approach to things but don't forget that he is a lawyer and his wife is a judge, they know the law!

You that is old enough to remember when Obasanjo had a clash with ngige, do you know and understand the legality or illegality involved in their power tussle?

I thought you are supposed to be educated! The FG cannot just decide to be tyrannical where there is rule of law except in situation like Nigeria where we are practicing rubbish democracy and tagged it "Federal system" ...You can't compare wike to mumu Buhari in anyway...

Do you even understand the concept of the Federal system of government!!!.... You really should go back to school and study very well!!!

ivolt:
Another illiterate.
The governor's authority and power are clearly limited by the constitution.
Lagosians obviously don't want a tout as governor.

Wike would have been disgraced in similar situations if he tries to exert a power he doesn't have.

Are you sure? Do you remember when DSS wanted to arrest Pastor Suleiman in Ekiti and how Fayose stopped the arrest...

The fact is that sanwo is a weakling as expected due to party and godfatherism syndrome...

Wike is not in APC and so he can disregard and go against any unlawfulness by the APC government just like Fayose did because he wasn't in APC too

Limassol:
So a few bad eggs means thousands of scrap collectors of hausa extraction are all thieves? Do you realize how stupid you sound? Besides, are you now supporting jungle justice?

"Few" you say!... All of them had/have one time or the other gone into someone's compound while no one was around to pick (steal) stuffs that aren't for them and that makes them thieves....

I don't support jungle justice, but let's be logical here, the Hausa scrap collectors were killed after they committed a heinous crime by stealing from Anietie and then brutally murdered Anietie because he confronted them.

I am aware that two wrongs don't make a right but those Hausa thieves and killers deserve being lynched unlike Anietie that they murdered unjustly.

Estellie:
Oh shut up! Y’all soo annoying

I see you're in pains .... Mission Accomplished

Now go an buy some good stuffs for your man � � � �️�

Abi women nor dey progress for ur family