Family / Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by BleedTears: 11:00am On May 31, 2022 |
DamnnNiggarr: My entire family which includes my brothers' wives and their kids and my sisters' families was once a peaceful and an enviable large family but right now, the devil wants to destroy the family through our wives.
My wife and my younger brother's wife who were once greatest friends are now mortal enemies, they don't talk nor regard themselves as humans, this enmity has lingered for long despite me and my brother's efforts and that of my entire family, both extended, to resolve the issues between them, over the years but all to no avail.
It becomes worse by the day as we have tried everything humanly possible that is within our reach to quell the situation, but no success. It is that bad that as I'm typing this, their enmity is starting to effect me and my brother's relationship, as my younger brother no longer calls nor chats me as he normally does. Even if I called nor chatted him, he won't pick up and neither the missed calls nor the chats would be returned.
I want to try something different, a totally different approach in tackling the situation, that's why I brought it here. I don't want anything to come in between me and my brother nor my family. I don't want anything to happen to neither my brother's wife nor my wife because the heart of man is evil, that's why I'm seeking for a resolution to the ugly situation.
please all your opinions will help a great deal in approaching it from a different perspective. please save my family.
*Modified* Obim, My wife is actually the cause of the whole drama, She accused my brother's wife of having extramarital affair with me due to how close I was with her as a result of the love they(my wife and her) had for each other. It lead to a very heated quarrelling and the lady vowed never to forgive my wife in her life time and my wife whole heartedly accepted the conquest. Obim said if that will keep her away from me that it's a welcome development.
Now, how it's affecting my family is that my kids no longer go on vacation to their place likewise their kids no longer come over to my house during vacation and many more troubles it has caused my entire family. Initially, My brother understood that it was one of the wahalas associated with women but I'm surprised and confused about his recent change in attitude.
If you're very sure you are not sleeping with your brothers as she said. Such accusation is not what you're supposed to take likely, you suppose to send her packing with immediate effect. On that vain that you're not sleeping with your brothers wife, tell your brother that I said you and him are very foolish to allow 2 total strangers to come in between both of you. Yes your wife is a stranger, you people are just trying to bond. She is not your relatives or your blood. What brought both of you together is the union called marriage. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Journalists Barred As APC Screens Tinubu, Amaechi, Others by BleedTears: 4:55pm On May 30, 2022 |
Why? |
Politics / Re: 2023 Presidency: APC Weighs Options As Atiku Shops For Running Mate by BleedTears: 9:44am On May 30, 2022 |
Please they should allow them to share dollars. They created this dollars scarcity by buying up dollars to use buy delegates, they should be allowed to share it peacefully like PDP.
If them no share the dollars , naira will suffer. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: PDP Primary: Anyim Congratulates Atiku, Decries Voting On Primordial Sentiments by BleedTears: 4:57pm On May 29, 2022 |
adioolayi: One of the failed Southeastern candidate...
Abeg, tell your people una failed them because you lack the will to reap at the party, PDP, you have supported all these years...
Warn them to leave Southwest alone to reap at the party they have also worked for tirelessly ...
Southwest have every right to demand for Presidency at the Platform of APC.
Make una direct your wailing to appropriate quarters and leave SouthWest candidates alone! Demand and supply. Don't keep your hope high, so you don't get BP when it backfires |
Politics / Re: 2023: You Will Never Be President, Igbos Will Reject You – Ohanaeze Tells Atiku by BleedTears: 8:49am On May 29, 2022 |
Yes reject him and pick tinubu 41 Likes 8 Shares |
Politics / Re: Tinubu Congratulates Atiku, Welcomes Former VP To Presidential Contest by BleedTears: 1:21am On May 29, 2022 |
All this people saying it will shock Jagaban, what if, just if Table come turn? |
Politics / Re: Gbajabiamila Wins Surulere 1 APC Ticket For Historic Sixth Term Unopposed by BleedTears: 6:51am On May 28, 2022 |
Abdulmumin412:
Was he Senate president before? Is he not a rep. Member? Sorry my bad na speaker |
Politics / Re: Gbajabiamila Wins Surulere 1 APC Ticket For Historic Sixth Term Unopposed by BleedTears: 10:22pm On May 27, 2022 |
Watin him wan go do, Can he get Senate president again? I doubt or be ordinary floor member like David Mark that time. |
Politics / Re: Atiku To South East Leaders: I Will Only Serve One Term by BleedTears: 4:36pm On May 27, 2022 |
Hahaha this format still dey work?
Only GEJ can say it and do it because the law didn't permit him to run for second term.
Any other person that say it is a liar 366 Likes 35 Shares |
Politics / Re: Peter Obi's Exit Is Not The End Of PDP - Reno Omokri by BleedTears: 12:31pm On May 26, 2022 |
Galaxyowerri: This foolish attention seeker, I didn't bother reading his rubbish!
Look at a so-called Mr know-all always sounding like a primary 6 pupil.
The truth is that Peter Obi realized that Wike and Atiku were going to use stolen dollars to bribe delegates instead of supporting their best chance at winning the election. They couldn't rise above their personal selfish interests for the common good of the party.
All those army of youths across Nigeria that saw Peter Obi as their new hope are going to descend heavily on PDP same with Igbos that saw Peter Obi as their chance to rule Nigeria.
Since this charlatan who goes about arrogating to himself as Mr know-all doesn't even know basic common sense, then it shows how senseless and delusional he is. Na really Mr Know All. Everything him dey chook mouth like woman 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Stingy Elder Brother by BleedTears: 10:16am On May 23, 2022 |
Gottiii: I still can’t believe my elder brother is planning to send me a Es330 (2006) from the United States.
I have told him several times i can’t drive such car, I am already imagining the look of people when they see me. I mean people wey dey my area. People for area know say I be big boy.
I don tell am several times say I no need car wey dey less than yr 2017. The money dey but very stingy. I sure say na the wife dey give am wrong advice.
The car clean sha, full option but below my level. I go just sell am.
Abeg, make una advice me. With all due respect, you don't even have a brother in cotonu. You're just pipe dreaming. Go take hot agbo make e clear every symptoms of malaria from your body. 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: Orji Uzor Kalu: Equity Means South East, Otherwise The North East Can Have It by BleedTears: 8:50pm On May 16, 2022 |
Not far from the truth if you ask me, but then who go ask me? Nobody 12 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Hafsat Abiola: Why I Will Stand With Yahaya Bello, Not South West Aspirants by BleedTears: 5:47pm On May 16, 2022 |
It's allowed, when leg start to pain you, you will sit down or you enter the moving train. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Why are Nigerian celebrities keeping quiet over Deborah's gruesome murder by BleedTears: 10:33am On May 15, 2022 |
God1000: I remember when George Floyd was killed in America by white police officers, Nigerians protested in Abuja and Lagos.
I'm not saying that was bad though, he was a black man like me.
But here is my grouse, Africans and nigerians in particular are always quick to show support when something happens elsewhere, but they will not do anything when it comes to fellow Nigerians.
By now, there should be massive protest across the country demanding for justice, but none of that is happening
No one is holding any vigil for her, why are we doing this to ourselves?
Ruth Kadiri Said 2 Likes
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Politics / Re: Reno Omokri Asks Media To Apologise For Saying GEJ Will Contest APC Ticket. by BleedTears: 10:44am On May 14, 2022 |
arantess:
Reno has insider information having worked with GEJ in the past
Where did you get info that he backed out Info from road side beer parlor |
Politics / Re: Reno Omokri Asks Media To Apologise For Saying GEJ Will Contest APC Ticket. by BleedTears: 10:43am On May 14, 2022 |
naptu2:
Wonderful! You were present when all these happened and you spoke to GEJ and he told you what he did?
Isn't that wonderful? The thing just tire me |
Fashion / Re: Eyelashes: Why Do Nigerian Men Pretend They Are Not Attracted To This On A Lady? by BleedTears: 6:59am On May 12, 2022 |
siofra: Why do they pretend like they don't like false lashes on ladies?
Ever since I fixed it on Saturday, I've not been able to rest.
I get at least 10 toasters a day.
But online all of them pretend to hate it. Why Those are not African. As an African man, your your Orange Shaped Booby medium to large,standing firm like a rock. That's what attracts me. Your Big eyelashes is a turn off, but if you have that my specs, I can forgive you your sins |
Religion / Re: This Is Apostle Suleman's Nude Photo - Stephanie Otobo Says by BleedTears: 3:34pm On May 09, 2022 |
Didi2d:
At 2009 was he a Pastor? The issue here should be condemned. The year don't really matter,
Well, I noticed Pastor was smiling when he saw boobs during a video That is exactly the point showing picture of what happened when he wasn't a pastor. That 3G network proves it because that was far back as 2007-2009 |
Religion / Re: This Is Apostle Suleman's Nude Photo - Stephanie Otobo Says by BleedTears: 3:29pm On May 09, 2022 |
bmdmix14: 3gb means sizes 3g means speed LoL na typo officer. You didn't see H+ I wrote, which is 3.5G |
Religion / Re: This Is Apostle Suleman's Nude Photo - Stephanie Otobo Says by BleedTears: 3:05pm On May 09, 2022 |
[quote author=Odewaleadesoye post=112667245][/quote]
Absolutely correct |
Religion / Re: This Is Apostle Suleman's Nude Photo - Stephanie Otobo Says by BleedTears: 3:01pm On May 09, 2022 |
Na 3GB dey show for that phone, not even H+
That should be 2009 or so 8 Likes |
Phones / Re: NCC Issues Licenses To MTN, Mafab Comms, As 5G Services Roll Out In August by BleedTears: 4:33pm On May 04, 2022 |
BuhariNaWah:
What's misplaced priority about this ? If 4g is slow where you stay, then RELOCATE! And that is exactly his point, is 4G supposed to be slow in any part of the country by now? |
Family / Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by BleedTears: 12:33pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Gee64: I observed that the woman for whatever reasons always play the underdog in marriage. She is often regarded as a 'helper' playing almost a docile role in decision-making in the home.
Most people use religious precepts to relegate the rights of a woman to the background: as being the house-keeper and 'child-bearer'. But in modern times, many women play the role of 'provider' in the home, therefore forcing the man to also assist with household chores.
In modern times, Even in civilised climes, women now seek to either being independent parents or share same authority as the man in the home. But where the man does not feel comfortably with this, the result is divorce. I want to assume that this is the major cause of domestic violence in majority of homes.
Most women feel more comfortable being single parents than to submit to the egocentric excesses of the male folk.
What is your stand on this issue. I personally speak as a male. Oga abi madam, go and marry. Do your family anyhow you like, even children equality put am for your family 5 Likes |
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Politics / Re: Aminu Suleiman: Cheque For Bola Tinubu Nomination And Expression Forms Ready by BleedTears: 7:54pm On Apr 20, 2022 |
Let the buying Begin 1 Like |
Crime / Re: I Was Chasing Clout - Lady Who Tweeted That She Was Being Kidnapped, Raped by BleedTears: 11:19am On Apr 14, 2022 |
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Foreign Affairs / Re: Multiple People Shot In New York City Subway by BleedTears: 3:43pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
They're learning from 9ja 4 Likes |
Politics / Re: Osinbajo For President Yoruba Music Video: Osinbajo Lo Le Se by BleedTears: 12:27pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Haters go and die 1 Like |
Politics / Re: 2023: Osinbajo ‘A Pawn On The Chessboard’ – Seye Oladejo by BleedTears: 10:00am On Apr 12, 2022 |
Hahaha 1 Like |
Politics / Re: 2023 Declaration: "Osinbajo Is Extremely Incompetent" - Adeyanju Warns Nigerians by BleedTears: 11:24am On Apr 11, 2022 |
Na tinubu dey competent |
Crime / Re: Can A Woman Actually Rape A Man? by BleedTears: 2:17pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
saphiere: I've been pondering on the above question fpr days now. I'm confused. I need answers.
People keep saying how men were raped by women. How? How is that possible? They never brought proof.
Intercourse has to do with penetration. Who does the penetration? If it's a man who does the penetration, who then do you say he was raped? Is he not supposed to be the one committing the act?
Men sex when and women do not sex men. So how do women rape men?
Someone please me with answers.
The highest a woman can do to a man is sexually harass him maybe seduce but not rape him.
How is it even possible for a woman to rape when she isn't the one performing the act?
Please I need answers.
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/01/can-a-woman-rape-a-man/amp/ I usually don't respond to post like this because I feel you're just pretending to be ignorant of the fact. First what is rape? Oxford Dictionary Defined rape as the act of forcing somebody to have sex with you when the person do not wwnt to by threatening them or using violence. 1. So now based on that definition, if you Saphiere carry gun or knife of bottle and threatened a guy to Bleep you or else you shoot him or stab him, if the guy Bleep you, it means you Saphiere has raped the guy . 2. A guy can be made to lay down and drugged to make his panis to stand while the woman climb him and ride him. So if this act is done with threat it is a rape. You Saphiere also pretend that you Saphiere has not ride your boyfriend before. Stop pretending 1 Like 1 Share |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Mexico Suspends Gasoline Subsidy To Stop US Drivers From Buying Cheap Fuel by BleedTears: 5:06pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Lol, Las Las na US come need the wall wen Trump dey build.
Igbofam come and see oh, in your language US structure is solid and can never need Mexico.
How market? I tell you say when country red those guy go buy Russian gas directly or indirectly. Either ways. 58 Likes 3 Shares
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