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whiteandblack someday you and your brothers will look back on your hustle together and smile about it. How you all lived in thesame room and compromised. Or you can sacrifice your relationship with your brothers because of selfish reasons like 'privacy' and 'happiness' of your girlfriend. If they're indeed your flesh and blood you will forget all these silly excuse you gave. Food doesn't seem to be the problem, neither does expenses but your privacy and girlfriend? Not that they've caused any sort of trouble!!! I'm disappointed in you.

Abudu2000:
bro it's frightening to, these fraudsters can kill for that 10% it's Crystal clear thats their major source of income and they would do anything keep the cash flowing in....too back for them times have changed, the sheeples have cut loose their leash.
#FreeTheSheeples

Bro I've been #FreeTheSheeple since o! But if you talk they can cut off your head. Religion whether Christianity or Muslim is prone to violence. A wise man once said 'Madness is just like gravity, all it needs is a little push'

The rate at which these men of fraud are coming out to defend tithe eh, they're protesting as if government withhold salary. If Tithe is really more important to the member's soul than their pockets it won't rattle them like it does now. Freeze has my support 150 percent

If this is true then the man must be a complete baboon

bot101:
The matter just taya me. Too many shallow thinking Nigerians these days. Critical thinkers ate now an endangered species in this country. I see these kinds of things everyday and wonder what the future holds for us as a people.

Train your child how you want them to not how people want you to. Because the average Nigerian envy the success of the other and always looks for ways to bring them down

sexy74:
Hmm, the are best of friends just as you noted and argue about spoken words or argue about the was tenses are used.

Please train your child the way you want to train her not the way people want you to train her. I know how listening to people concerning your family destroys it faster than having an affair. And try and talk to your daughter more, she's smart and do not deserved to be bashed here. I even felt bad for her

barapistis:
you need to see the title of the thread you responding to

this it

Conversation Between My Daughter And The Girl That Stays With Me


the above title tells a lot about the op

What should he have put?

hamzeiy:
Nigerians are just sooo irrational. Children misbehave a lot, at 3 years there is noting wrong to tell someone to bring you water. Instead of debating on whether dogs drink or lick water na day bad mouth a 3 years old child that is yet to know she is existing cause non of us here can remember our activities when we were three years old.
Obviously from the conversation both the child and chisom are leaving happily thus the reason they are debating in the first place.
@ op..your child shows early signs of intelligence, develop her even more,keep family issues away from social media so that unmarried frustrated adults that don't know the value of marriage,children or family wont bad mouth yours. And I advice you not to respond to any if them. All those shouting morals here mostly have undisciplined wards. Every person is suddenly a saint on social media

How I wish I could hug you. I might even create a topic emphasising on this. In Nigeria the only way to train kids is beat them. They talk beat them, they don't talk beat them. No wonder we have too many animals around. That child is damn smart for a 3 year old and it's obvious she and chisom are pals and can argue irrelevant things about how a dog drinks water. The Op should keep his family affairs of this now deluded site.

Momcherry:
Op biko stop replying these people that knows nothing about little kids. When my son was around 2-3 years he was so bad mouthed that he calls his father banana head when angry. We will just laugh over it. He was so very funny.
Now he's 7 and so respectful and obedient. When we remind him of some things he used to say, he becomes shy.

The average Nigerian are so little minded always judgemental and feels they can do better than their peers. When they have the chance, they fail woefully. Most of these people commenting are not parents

bot101:
Ndi psychologist, you don't know what happened before the request, you don't know the context of the request, you don't even know the environment. There are so many variables, it will be so difficult to come to an accurate conclusion, but yet you conclude. Please upgrade your reasonability. I am tired of living with so many mediocre youths (adults too) in this country.

I tire o! And look at the way the 'maid' replied. Nigerians can jump to conclusion eh. Always finding faults. I was in a bus yesterday and the smart little girl was referring to her mom as 'your wife' to her dad. Little kids are always direct. They don't sugar coat things

Algerian1:
kamarat dont exist in arabic , same for swag , poeple love to invent fake news , never heared about . for black skins in Algeria theire is the word , Kehal or kahlouche wich is from the arab akhehal that mean Black . so its not racist when some one said khehal to talk about a black man .

What would it cost moving to Algeria?

It doesn't matter if she was a slay queen or wrong, murder should be the last thing any human should do. It can be anyone in that bag guys. Stop this judge mental attitude. It's even more disgusting than the picture

I know some guys will never miss the traffic news

rawpadgin:
Truth is, Chelsea wasn't wasn't spectacular, Man United was just too poor

Jose has succeeded in changing the mentality of the team from attach, attach, attach to defend, defend then nick a point or 3

Exactly. Jose Mourinho shot himself in the foot

Lacazette with the sort of goal which makes you wonder why Wenger started a £50 million striker on the bench

selflessmaya just gave the best marital advice I've seen on nairaland and I'll ever see on nairaland. I can bet my Bsc cert that the Op wife was sexually assaulted as a child/girl. I once dated a girl like that. They're overly jealous and when angry you do not want to be around them. You'll wonder if there are 2 different people and they could be mistaken as an angel. She also masked her pain with religion and church. Thats why marrying someone because of her religious dedication will be a stupid thing to do. Many people pretend under that guise. That's what you get when you use religion as a yard stick to pick a wife wrongchoice

Lockhart Steele
Lockhart Steele, the editorial director for Vox Media, was fired, the company said, after he admitted to "engaging in conduct that is inconsistent with our core values." Vox is also investigating claims made in a blog post by former employee Eden Rohatensky in which Rohatensky accuses multiple co-workers of sexual misconduct, and detailed one particular incident involving "one of the company's VPs" while riding in the backseat of a cab with other co-workers. Rohatensky did not mention Vox or any co-workers by name in the post.
After getting fired a month later "due to lack of productivity," Rohatensky reported what happened with the unnamed VP, but later learned that "his punishment was being told he could not drink at corporate events any longer."
Vox has hired a law firm to look into the accusations, and Rohatensky has met with the investigators.

http://edition.cnn.com/2017/10/25/us/list-of-accused-after-weinstein-scandal-trnd/index.html

Michael Oreskes
At the end of October, Oreskes was placed on leave from his position as a top editor at NPR after two female journalists came forward and said Oreskes had made unwanted sexual advances towards them. The alleged incidents happened two decades ago, when Oreskes was working at the New York Times and the women were seeking jobs there. Both women said Oreskes kissed them during career-oriented business meetings. A third accuser, who works at NPR, filed a complaint about Oreskes' behavior in 2015 after she said he "hijacked a career counseling session into a three-hour-long dinner that delved deeply into personal territory."
Oreskes admitted to wrongdoing in an internal memo obtained by CNN.
"I am deeply sorry to the people I hurt. My behavior was wrong and inexcusable, and I accept full responsibility," Oreskes wrote.
"To my colleagues, I am grateful for every minute I've had to work with each of you," he wrote. "NPR has an important job to do. Public radio matters so much and I will always be your supporter."

Mark Halperin
At least a dozen women have accused journalist Mark Halperin of sexually harassing them or assaulting them, with at least some of the incidents coming during his time as political director at ABC News. At first, five women accused Halperin of propositioning employees for sex, kissing and grabbing one woman's breasts against her will and other forms of inappropriate touching. Days later, more women came forward with other claims, including that Halperin masturbated in front of an ABC News employee and that he violently threw another woman against a restaurant window before trying to kiss her.
Halperin issued two apologies in response to the accusations, saying in the first he "did pursue relationships with women" that he worked with but that he now understands "that my behavior was inappropriate and caused others pain." He did, however, deny grabbing a woman's breasts and pressing his genitals against the bodies of three other women.
Widely considered to be one of the pre-eminent political journalists, Halperin, 52, also co-authored the best-selling book "Game Change," which was made into an HBO movie starring Julianne Moore as Sarah Palin; and anchored a television show on Bloomberg TV. He served as an analyst for NBC News, making frequent appearances on MSNBC's "Morning Joe." Both NBC News and MSNBC severed ties with him once the allegations surfaced.

John Besh
The celebrity chef stepped down from the company he founded after about two dozen current and former female employees accused him and other male workers of sexual harassment.
They described a hostile corporate culture where sexual harassment flourished. The accounts included inappropriate touching and comments from male employees and managers, some of whom tried to leverage their power for sex. Those who complained were berated, ostracized or ignored.
One former employee filed a complaint with the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, claiming that Besh "attempted to coerce" her during a "monthslong sexual relationship."
Besh, who has not responded directly to the allegations, enjoyed celebrity status in a city whose identity is tied to its food. His restaurant group employs more than 1,000 people in New Orleans, San Antonio and Baltimore in top-rated restaurants such as August, Lüke, Domenica and Shaya. Harrah's New Orleans Casino said it is terminating its relationship with the restaurant group.

Roy Price
Price, the head of Amazon Studios, quit five days after being put on leave after a producer accused him of sexual harassment.
Price was suspended after a story from The Hollywood Reporter detailing harassment allegations against him made by Isa Hackett, a producer of the Amazon series "The Man in the High Castle."
The harassment accusations stemmed from an incident in 2015 at Comic-Con. Hackett alleged that Price repeatedly made lewd comments to her, despite her rebuffs.
Hackett told The Hollywood Reporter that she reported the improper behavior to Amazon at the time.

Chris Savino
Nickelodeon fired the creator of "The Loud House" animated show after a dozen women accused him, in a story from the Hollywood Reporter, of "sexual harassment, unwanted advances and inappropriate behavior."
The accusers also said Savino would threaten to blacklist women he was no longer involved with.
"I am deeply sorry and I am ashamed," Savino wrote in a letter posted on his Facebook account. "Although it was never my intention, I now understand that the impact of my actions and my communications created an uncomfortable environment."

George H.W. Bush
The 41st president of the United States apologized to an actress after she wrote in a now-deleted Instagram post that Bush sexually assaulted her while she posed for a picture with him. Heather Lind said Bush touched her inappropriately from behind twice and told her "a dirty joke."
"President Bush would never -- under any circumstance -- intentionally cause anyone distress, and he most sincerely apologizes if his attempt at humor offended Ms. Lind," the former President's spokesman said.
Later, in a second statement, spokesman Jim McGrath said:At age 93, President Bush has been confined to a wheelchair for roughly five years, so his arm falls on the lower waist of people with whom he takes pictures. To try to put people at ease, the president routinely tells the same joke — and on occasion, he has patted women's rears in what he intended to be a good-natured manner. Some have seen it as innocent; others clearly view it as inappropriate. To anyone he has offended, President Bush apologizes most sincerely."
Two other women -- actress Jordana Grolnick and a woman who wishes to remain anonymous -- later came forward with their own similar accusations.

Ben Affleck
The Oscar-winning actor and director was one of the first to come out and denounce Weinstein's alleged behavior. But then he found himself the target of a sex harassment accusation after old videos began to surface of Affleck on "MTV's Total Request Live" with actress Hilarie Burton. She said Affleck groped her during an appearance on the show, which she co-hosted at the time.
"I acted inappropriately toward Ms. Burton and I sincerely apologize," Affleck later wrote on Twitter.

James Toback
The Hollywood screenwriter and director behind films like "The Pick-up Artist," "The Gambler" and "Bugsy" was accused by multiple women of sexual harassment throughout the years in a piece from the Los Angeles Times. The women said Toback would lure them to hotel rooms, movie trailers and other places for what was billed as interviews or auditions. But the women say these meetings would quickly turn sexual in nature.
Toback told the newspaper he had never met any of the women -- or if he did meet them, it "was for five minutes and (he had) no recollection." He said that for the last 22 years, it was "biologically impossible" for him to take part in the behavior the women described in the article, saying he had diabetes and a heart condition requiring medication, the Los Angeles Times reported. He declined to elaborate.
The Los Angeles Times said after it ran its initial story, more than 300 other women contacted it to describe similar encounters.
Actresses Selma Blair and Rachel McAdams also recounted sexual harassment from Toback in interviews with Vanity Fair. Blair alleged that Toback asked her to audition for him naked during a meeting and then requested that she let him rub himself against her. She also said he threatened her with violence if she said anything about the encounter.
McAdams met with Toback under the guise that they'd be talking about work, in particular, a role in 2001's "Harvard Man," which Toback wrote. Instead, McAdams said their meeting was filled with inappropriate comments from Toback that left her feeling uncomfortable.
Toback's agent, Jeff Berg, told CNN in October he would pass a request for a comment on to his client. Berg has since ceased representing Toback.

Kevin Spacey
Actor Anthony Rapp accused Kevin Spacey of making a sexual advance toward him when both of them were working on Broadway in 1986. Rapp was 14 at the time and Spacey was 26. Rapp alleged Spacey approached him in a bedroom at a house party and "picked [him] up like a groom picks up the bride" and put him on the bed, falling on top of him.
While Spacey said he could not remember whether the alleged encounter happened, he apologized. In the same tweeted statement on October 30, he also came out as a gay man. Many criticized his response, saying his sexuality had nothing to do with what amounted to possible sexual assault of a minor.
Spacey stars on the popular Netflix series "House of Cards." After the allegation became public, Netflix announced the next season of the show, Season 6, would be its final one. Though the announcement was based on a decision pre-dating Rapp's revelations, Netflix and Media Rights Capital, which produces the series, later announced production on the final season would be halted as well.

Harvey Weinstein
Weinstein's web began to unravel in early October, after The New York Times published a story detailing numerous accusations of sexual harassment against the powerful movie producer, whose films have won a number of Academy Awards. The Times story detailed three decades' worth of sexual harassment and unwanted physical contact accusations made against Weinstein by a number of women, including actress Ashley Judd. The piece also mentioned at least eight settlements Weinstein had reached with his accusers through the years.
It started a flood of new accusations from dozens of other women, including some who said Weinstein had raped them. Weinstein has denied any claims of nonconsensual sex. He was later fired from his own film company and his wife left him.
Rumors and stories about Weinstein had been circulating through Hollywood's grapevine for years, leading many to ask how such alleged behavior could go on for so long.

It's only been a few weeks since the sexual assault allegations against media mogul Harvey Weinstein exploded into public view. Since then there have been new allegations made against other powerful men in various industries seemingly almost every day.

From companies taking a second look at their sexual harassment policies to the tide of #MeToo stories flooding social media, the controversy has sparked the biggest national conversation on sexual harassment since the Anita Hill-Clarence Thomas battle in the early '90s. Prominent actors and actresses have come forward with stories that put fellow Hollywood A-listers sharply in the spotlight.
This list of men who've been accused of sexual harassment focuses just on allegations on which CNN has reported. There are accusations against other powerful men out there. As the days and weeks go on, this list will undoubtedly keep growing. This list also doesn't include powerful men like Bill Cosby, Roger Ailes or Donald Trump; allegations against them came before Weinstein.

Toks2008:
Unfortunately ladies keep reading this with emotions attached. What is up there is the ideal way most ladies want their relationship to be cos at the end, they still get a partner like treatment.

With all the sermons in the world,baby mamas are on the rise,divorce is the order of the day so why all the stress...?

I agree with you 100 percent. It's time we accept the fact that emotions fade. Look at male to male relationships, it lasts because they know what they want from themselves. People now rush in and out of relationship/marriages because they don't know what they want

DarkHenrie:
Isnt this stale news already?

I posted this barely 10 hours after Spacey tweeted an apology. Found out in the morning because of time difference, nairaland only found out days later.