rully2:


And what makes every woman a slut

ogugua88:

Agree with you on what?

Freestyl:

Why hit a woman when your mom is one or do you hit her at home? SMH

ogugua88:

We're not all the same just as all men aren't the same. All men and women have something different to offer on a plate. That's a fact. Meet every single man and woman in the world if you wish to disprove me lol.

ogugua88:

Somehow I read everything else you wrote without difficulty. I don't know why you're asking me such now or being rude about it. I should be asking you sef considering you said I was defending women and I haven't done that in this thread lol.

I will now though by saying that women are far wiser than you think. A lot of them tend to think every scenario possible before acting, especially when it comes to men. They don't act first and think later like some men tend to do. So, I know what I'm saying when I say women can regulate themselves but decide to behave contrarily. Like I said earlier, I don't know their agenda or why some of them act funnily because I'm not one to display this kind of behavior. I'm speaking from personal experience here.

I'm not in Nigeria so I wouldn't know.

ogugua88:

I see you still don't understand the meaning of the word "can".

Jenifa_:

instead of complaining about a tough job, give it to a woman. she will take it from you without batting an eyelid!!


anyway though, I kinda feel some of you guys' pain but seriously, you need to forget your ego. men and women are becoming increasingly on an equal footing. women are taking advantage of their newly found opportunity while d men are slacking.
ex. men don't want to become nurses or teachers because it's a woman's job but a woman will jump at a chance to do a "man's job"

ogugua88:

I don't lol. You know some women will disagree with what you're saying haha. Maybe they will. Like I said, that's them, not me. Things like that have happened in my past and I've usually explained myself on the guy's behalf lol. I don't act a certain way unless I know I'm 100% right about something lol. Women can regulate themselves just as men do.

beejaei:

^^^^

@Blood_Shed


Very well put. There should be a masculinist movement to demand equality for men in the workplace and in the home. Enough is enough. We will no longer stand to be discriminated against.

ogugua88:

Most =/= All.

I'm not a feminist but I can do things myself. I see myself as an equal and I conduct myself as such. I wouldn't slap anyone because I don't want a slap in return. As for the rest, na them sabi. I don't know their agenda or why some of them act funny lol.

ogugua88:

Lol, I want an e-prize please

On-topic though: behave ladylike, and you'll be treated ladylike. Act like a female dog, and you'll be treated like a female dog lol. One cannot have his or her cake and eat it too.

Mrs.Chima:


Please! Somebody help! I am almost on the floor!

swiftycool:

Sometimes its easy to tell a man to walk away when he is seriously provoked to anger, alot of people advocate replying verbal abuse for the like. but the truth is some abuse are more devastating than a hundred slaps. A friend of mine slapped his wife for the first time after she called his dear mum a prostit*te, he claimed he tried his best to walk away but her continous singing in this line on him drove him mad, he had to make her stop. Pls i need a Lady's opinion, is this justifiable

Nekai:

Ok, we'll see. 

Tcrack:

ONLY WEAK MEN BEAT WOMEN.

BABE!:

hmmm--my very good friend. Sarcasm right?

Nekai:

Was I talking to you?

Well now that I am, lol, I was just stating a fact and asking a question, that's all.


Blood_Shed I'm not giving up on you. By the time I'm done with you, you'll believe in the intelligence and positive contribution of the female species.

BABE!:

Anyone can hit anyone---so far, they are equal strength-wise.

A man should not hit a woman-----well, hmmm, not in all cases. What happened to self defense? So if a big woman is about to "kill" a lanky guy, the guy should die in silence because "a man should never hit a woman". Abeg!

Disclaimer: I dislike violence. Destructive Violence is bad. Stay away from D.violence. Stay away from trouble.

Nekai:

He is responding to the subjects question by saying if a woman hits a man, a man can hit a woman. Why should I be accepting respinsibility for something I don't do?

Natasha,,:

Its like the both of you read my post but did not comprehend  I admitted the fact that its very wrong and nothing justify's it didn't I and when did I talk about cheating?

Mrs.Chima:

I agree everyone isn't your brothers and sisters either regardless of what color.  Just because we have the same skin tone doesn't make you my brother nor my sister.  I could care less who like who and who dislike who.  The world will still spin and you will die eventually.  

To some people hitting others is how they feel good about themselves regardless of silly the reasons are.  How pathetic.  

omo_to_dun:

There are lots of Africans on Crenshaw, but sadly, the ones I know hardly mingle with their AA brothers and sisters. You'd be surprised that each group(AA & A) thinks the other group hates them. Tons of African men--mostly Nigerian---have dealt lots of AA women a bad hand by enticing them with the allure of marriage and companionship only to jilt them when they have gotten what they really wanted: a green card. Likewise, tons of AA women have destroyed our African brothers simply because they see some them as naive and innocent and easy to manipilate. It truly is a sad situation, one that I don't see getting better any soon because most of us still stick and roll with people that belong to members of our nationalities and/or tribes, unless of course, we want need something. As for the bullying, that is simply not true, but are we prejudiced  against each other and view the other as inferior? Sadly, in most cases, yes.

MzDarkSkin:


no no brother. if you know you can beat that person, and they do too why should you feel like you must demonstrate your
physical superiority? why not 'let them have it' verbally? i can tell you from experience beating on someone out of anger or to prove
you can does not make you feel any better. Telling them off, on the contrary, is guaranteed to get you the best results and[b] words
kill[/b] people in a different way! Unless it is in self defense it is never okay to fight or beat up someone just because you can, that would INDEED
make you a punk, having to exert your strength on someone who cannot fight back. That is wasted energy and you prove nothing.
Same thing goes for physical on verbal abuse. JUST BECAUSE I talk to you harshly, although being human i may lash out, it is also not right
to jump on someone for talking. I know it happens, I too struggle with restraining myself when disrespected but at the end of the day
if you are not being beaten and need to take up arms or use your fists in DEFENSE, let it go.

MzDarkSkin:


*sighs*   here we go.