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Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by Nobody: 9:00pm On May 06, 2011 |
Blood_Shed: no no brother. if you know you can beat that person, and they do too why should you feel like you must demonstrate your physical superiority? why not 'let them have it' verbally? i can tell you from experience beating on someone out of anger or to prove you can does not make you feel any better. Telling them off, on the contrary, is guaranteed to get you the best results and words kill people in a different way! Unless it is in self defense it is never okay to fight or beat up someone just because you can, that would INDEED make you a punk, having to exert your strength on someone who cannot fight back. That is wasted energy and you prove nothing. Same thing goes for physical on verbal abuse. JUST BECAUSE I talk to you harshly, although being human i may lash out, it is also not right to jump on someone for talking. I know it happens, I too struggle with restraining myself when disrespected but at the end of the day if you are not being beaten and need to take up arms or use your fists in DEFENSE, let it go. Blood_Shed: *sighs* here we go. |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by BloodShed1: 9:02pm On May 06, 2011 |
Nekai: No, don't even try and get me to agree with that. Not retaliating is just saying it's okay to do it again. So you have to let that person know it can't happen. Yeah, idealistically you're not supposed to resort to violence. Now realistically, if someone provokes you enough to reach your boiling point, you're gonna react, I don't care who you are, and to me it's necessary. even to blow their heads off if you could get away with it (I know I would). The more someone irritates me, the less important their existence is to me, to the point where I can stab them and not feel any bad about it. Just like you stomp on a cockroach or kill a rat with, I dunno, a broom lol. Natasha,,: See this people? You're lucky for now. But don't get mad if you roll up on the wrong man and he just puts your @$$ in a coma, plugged up like a PS3. And I wouldn't have any sympathy for you then, ro anybody else like that. |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by Nobody: 9:05pm On May 06, 2011 |
There are lots of Africans on Crenshaw, but sadly, the ones I know hardly mingle with their AA brothers and sisters. You'd be surprised that each group(AA & A) thinks the other group hates them. Tons of African men--mostly Nigerian---have dealt lots of AA women a bad hand by enticing them with the allure of marriage and companionship only to jilt them when they have gotten what they really wanted: a green card. Likewise, tons of AA women have destroyed our African brothers simply because they see some them as naive and innocent and easy to manipilate. It truly is a sad situation, one that I don't see getting better any soon because most of us still stick and roll with people that belong to members of our nationalities and/or tribes, unless of course, we want need something. As for the bullying, that is simply not true, but are we prejudiced against each other and view the other as inferior? Sadly, in most cases, yes. |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by BloodShed1: 9:07pm On May 06, 2011 |
MzDarkSkin: Ah, you you're advocating what I am but verbally? It's still damage done though. And I don't talk much. I'll respond verbally ONE TIME, and if they carry on, then, well, they can't be mad about how I react. Idiots don't understand reason, THATS WHY THEY DO WHAT THEY DO! So they gotta get regulated. Simple! MzDarkSkin: Nah, lol just calling it what it is though, even you can't deny that. |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by BloodShed1: 9:14pm On May 06, 2011 |
omo_to_dun: But that's life though, you get in where you're accepted. Over here inthe UK there's a rift betwen Africans and Afro-Caribbeans, but relations have gotten better over the years between the two groups. But I don't see any group as my "brothers" or "sisters". whether, white, black or whatever, I get in where I fit in, but most people I associate with just happen to be black. Well, that's not what I heard, well maybe not in Crenshaw, but I know many Africans who compalined that they get called African Booty Scratchers and monkeys, even over here by the Carribbeans. Botom line is, just because you're of the same race, doesn't mean f&ck all. it just means you're the same race, thats it, and you shouldn't feel obligated to improve relations with others just because of your race, background or whatever. |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by Natasha2(f): 9:22pm On May 06, 2011 |
Blood_Shed: Nekai:Its like the both of you read my post but did not comprehend I admitted the fact that its very wrong and nothing justify's it didn't I and when did I talk about cheating? |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by MrsChima(f): 9:24pm On May 06, 2011 |
I agree everyone isn't your brothers and sisters either regardless of what color. Just because we have the same skin tone doesn't make you my brother nor my sister. I could care less who like who and who dislike who. The world will still spin and you will die eventually. To some people hitting others is how they feel good about themselves regardless of stupid the reasons are. How pathetic. |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by BloodShed1: 9:32pm On May 06, 2011 |
Natasha,,: Yes I know, but you STILL DO IT! Hwther you know it's wrong or not, you still do it. That's the point! If you go around hitting people, don't be mad when something happens to you. And I wouldn't care either. Mrs.Chima:Yes, retaliation feels good. Knowing that you got even feel s good. Do you know what doesn't feel good? Being disrespected and letting it slide. I have to retaliate, I just have to. If I ignore it, then I'll just get them another day. |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by beejaei: 9:34pm On May 06, 2011 |
What kind of reasoning is this? What is cowardly about beating someone that is weaker than you? What is "disgraceful fear or timidity" about hitting a woman or anyone? It does not make sense. The fact that you hit the person mean you are neither afraid nor timid. And the reason you do not hit the policeman is because he has a gun so he is "stronger" than you. That does not make you less than a real man, that makes you a sensible person who knows what fight to avoid. |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by MrsChima(f): 9:38pm On May 06, 2011 |
Blood_Shed: Do you and good luck. |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by Natasha2(f): 9:39pm On May 06, 2011 |
Blood_Shed:I never asked for you to care did I don't worry things are easier said than done I won't come here and say when I 'm pushed to the wall i won't retaliate cos i would be lying I definitely will |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by Natasha2(f): 9:41pm On May 06, 2011 |
and If my future sugar hits me (though he wouldn't) and I know I deserved it I won't complain cos I have never hit someone that didn't deserve to be hit |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by BloodShed1: 10:03pm On May 06, 2011 |
Yes you would deserve it |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by Nekai(f): 10:03pm On May 06, 2011 |
Nekai: beejaei: Re-read the quote. If you are the type of person to respond with your fists, you should be that way with everyone who provokes you. If you are only picking fights that you can easily win, that makes you a coward. |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by Advocator: 10:05pm On May 06, 2011 |
The only time you can hit a woman is when you are f-u-c-king her from all angles. If you are mad at her, then punish her with your d-i-c-k till she cries out loud. Other than that, a man should never ever ( I emphasize) put his hand on a woman. |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by Natasha2(f): 10:05pm On May 06, 2011 |
Blood_Shed:lolz okay no probs see ya around |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by Nobody: 10:09pm On May 06, 2011 |
<Turns on british accent> <put's on sexist air level 1> Like any feminist will tell you, I think most of those "man-to-woman" manners went out of style some years back. Now in this age of "equal opportunity" comes also the weakening of the v@gina defense forcefield women have enjoyed over the past years that keeps men from returning their slaps/punches/etc. There comes with this age an "equal understanding" of sorts that if a women swings any of her foul appendages at a man's face, and it connects, that she better be ready to get buck afterwards and should express no shock as to whatever the outcome of her actions may be, be it r@pe or otherwise . In fact, she should be deemed clinically mad to have expected nothing less from such an action. By that logic, 80% of our young ladies today can be categorized as clinically mad. =) --- ---- ---- <put's on sexist air level 2> You know, I understand most women are incapable of such viably important feats like logical reasoning, understanding of physics . . . and quantum dynamic properties . . . but a time must come where one such as I must explain these things to you, lest the shear terror and fright of having to think through things by yourselves could make your faces start to age at a rate of 5 years per minute and your hair to fall off from "over-thinking". Yes, by my magnanimous kindness, I will save your faces from such a fate, for I would hate to have to wake up next to it if I didn't. Yes, I would rather you remained pretty. Now, listen carefully . . . See, one of the fundamental laws of physics is that energy is never created nor destroyed, but only transformed from one form to another. are you following? . . . Good =) Now, the v@gina forcefield women enjoyed over the ages had to run on something. But despite the glorious protective radiation pouring forth bountifully from their crotches, alas, these women were lacking in one area . . . personal FREEDOMS. . . . are you still with me? . . . yes? impressive! . . . I must say Now that lack had to be filled, and as always, there is a cost for all things. The cost of freedom especially, being responsibility. The cost of generating the right amount of responsibility energy needed to power the personal freedoms field to the point of generational persistence. . . was enormous. A person only has a finite amount of energy that can be diverted to things. Here's the catch-22, The responsibility energy required was not at all compatible with the energy needed to power the v@gina forcefield. Not in the slightest (for only an irresponsible person would attack someone and magically expect no retaliation). So from that point, women had a choice. Either its the V@gina forcefield, or it's the personal freedoms field. Do you understand? . . . NO? Look I know this must be extremely boring to you as I'm not describing how to properly apply eye-shadow neither am I gossiping about what that slut-wench Angela did last summer, but perhaps if you TRIED to listen and stopped doing your nails while I'm talking, you'd comprehend these BASIC things. Anyway, on with it. They chose personal freedoms, thus where we are today. Which is fine actually. Quite happy for the lot really. But then there are the confused few who, by nothing less of shear stupidity, assume they have both the personal freedoms field AND the v@gina forcefield in tact. And in one fell-swoop of un-thinking, engage in an assault to the face of a man in form of punch, slap, kick or headbutt, expecting all to be well afterwards . . . expecting the man to give honor to the nigh-impenetrability of her (non-existent) v@ginal forcefield and turn away. Well, these female cretins often end up very disappointed don't they? Right then. Explaining this to you has made me quite ornery. You may remove my trousers </end all sexist air level1> </end all sexist air level2> </end british accent> wow, where did that come from? |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by Nekai(f): 10:22pm On May 06, 2011 |
2buff: Say no to drugs. Violence is wrong both ways. |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by BloodShed1: 10:23pm On May 06, 2011 |
What I find interesting is women only accept responsibility if it can also be projected to somebody else. "Both are wrong", "They do it too". Typical. |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by Nekai(f): 10:28pm On May 06, 2011 |
He is responding to the subjects question by saying if a woman hits a man, a man can hit a woman. Why should I be accepting respinsibility for something I don't do? |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by BloodShed1: 10:30pm On May 06, 2011 |
Nekai: FV<K OFF MAN! Was I F<CKING talking to you? Well, now that I am lol, I was just stating a fact, that's all. |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by BABE3: 10:35pm On May 06, 2011 |
Anyone can hit anyone---so far, they are equal strength-wise. A man should not hit a woman-----well, hmmm, not in all cases. What happened to self defense? So if a big woman is about to "kill" a lanky guy, the guy should die in silence because "a man should never hit a woman". Abeg! Disclaimer: I dislike violence. Destructive Violence is bad. Stay away from D.violence. Stay away from trouble. |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by Pweety4me(f): 10:37pm On May 06, 2011 |
Ignorance of speech! Would u be happy to see ur father hit ur mother?seriously speak with sense! |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by BloodShed1: 10:38pm On May 06, 2011 |
BABE!: Uh, well, Uh, Umm, he should, uh, because a man should never hit a woman, even if she's 3 times your size and has an axe over your head, be gentle and just take it. |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by BABE3: 10:39pm On May 06, 2011 |
Pweety4me: Were you talking to me? Coz I don't wanna mis-reply. |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by Nekai(f): 10:41pm On May 06, 2011 |
Blood_Shed: Was I talking to you? Well now that I am, lol, I was just stating a fact and asking a question, that's all. Blood_Shed I'm not giving up on you. By the time I'm done with you, you'll believe in the intelligence and positive contribution of the female species. |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by BABE3: 10:43pm On May 06, 2011 |
Blood_Shed: hmmm--my very good friend. Sarcasm right? |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by BloodShed1: 10:45pm On May 06, 2011 |
Nekai: I literally LOL'D I almost laughed myself to death, seriously, my cosuin just walked into my room all concerned. |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by BloodShed1: 10:46pm On May 06, 2011 |
BABE!: |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by BABE3: 10:47pm On May 06, 2011 |
^^ What in 4uck's name is going on? |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by Pweety4me(f): 10:50pm On May 06, 2011 |
BABE!:No babe the poster ofcos! |
Re: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by BABE3: 10:51pm On May 06, 2011 |
Pweety4me: ha! A for fear o---lol |
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