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raumdeuter:
What excuse was he giving

Amoto94:
The problem with you and him is that once you're cornered you begin to shift goalposts.

afrodoc2:
Just seeing this. Yeah, you are right. The standing British Army was not that large. They had to build up during the war.

By the time the Nigerian military takes control of the skies, all that ordnance the British had would be destroyed at the depot.

Amoto94:
You're like these extremists who run with a narration whereas there's another narration that support the action taken by an individual they're castigating in a situation. If she doesn't want the person to be punished she's right to say she wasn't hurt. She has forgiven the person and she's not interested in pressing charges against him.

GloriousGbola:
And this is one reason why her faith and that of her children may never be the same after this.

Everyone quoting Hadith and Qur'an up and dan and then telling you to forget all that and lie in court.

Singapore1:
yeah just supporting your point

People also underestimate the financial burden that comes with it. This is Nigeria, the poverty capital of the world. If they successfully send him to prison, who is going to be responsible for the upkeep of the children and the wife? Sadly, this is why many women stay in abusive relationships: they'd rather be crying inside a Benz.

Singapore1:
No woman is going to be happy if her husband marries a second wife. Even the second wife won't be happy if the husband marries a third.

GloriousGbola:
If you dey sm you go find out. Because someone in hubby family will post the second marriage to fb or Instagram. Confam.

This actually happened to one of my madams friends.

She found her husband had married another wife via Facebook.

Theflint1:
No reason am like that o, there's muslim women Jarus would try this drama with and it won't end just like this. Make e just thank e stars say money, influence and power tilt way much in e side compared to the woman side, plus na traditional muslimah chick e marry, if not e for dey tricky. There's also the fact that Jarus walked back on his plan to divorce her, that was a major major factor in the way things settled peaceably.

GloriousGbola:
If jarus wife had been in ilorin all this time and never come to lagos she would have likely just accepted it like that.

Or found out about the wedding after the fact. One of my friends back in the day, that was how they found his dad had a second family in lagos. Though this was in the 90s way before social media.

Theflint1:
Yea, I bin know say case no really dey, even the Kiki chick know, na why she begin shop for other potential victims.

The case would have been dicey if Jarus didn't quickly jettison the plan to divorce his wife...make e go thank e wife, cause na she save e self-snitching ass

And true, Polygamy no cheap, if you neva chop belleful, no put body Certainly not with your modern chicks with teareye that would need you bringing more than just food and housing to the table...the demands on your polygamist from this era is very different from the demands on a polygamist from our parents era...I doubt Raumdeuter don consider dawan for e syllabus.

GloriousGbola:
What happens next is anyones guess. Because the proposed new wife is not going away.

KingTom:
Shey na nose piercers, male crop to wearers and pink hair spraying twerkers wan enlist into army to fight for their country? Except say na voluntary matter

GloriousGbola:
One thing that I picked from the arguments and back and forth is polygamy is more of an African Muslim thing than a world wide Muslim thing

There are majority Muslims in Indonesia, mayalsia, Saudi Arabia, Egypt, bangladesh, Pakistan

But it is only the Muslims in Africa who are aggressively marrying multiple wives. When you look at the chart you will realize it is not so much Muslim culture but African culture

nihilistjnr:
I'd be very surprised if Nigeria has up to 500k combat ready troops right now.

Britain had well over 3 million troops in WW1.

Their supply lines and logistics were also superior to ours.

The Nigerian army is currently in a terrible state. Underpaid, ill-equiped, unmotivated, undisciplined.

That's why Boko Haram was able to confidently attack an army barracks, kill over 500 people and get away with it in 2014.

GloriousGbola:
https://www.nairaland.com/8145286/jarus-wife-aminah-oyewole-denied




https://www.dawateislami.net/magazine/en/new-writers/false-testimony



what do the real muslims in the house have to say about false witness, tho?

i remember it as one of the greater sins - but i am sure Oasisx can clarify. probably just one of those dodgy hadiths

https://hadeethenc.com/en/browse/hadith/5519



when even comedians are going to hell for obvious lies

Theflint1:
Been listening to some WW1 history, and I dunno if it's a stretch to say if Britain was a neighboring country like say Cameroon or Ghana, their WW1 military force would defeat the Nigerian military force of 2024.

CC Afrodoc2, BlueRayDick, Gloriousgbola, Raumdeuter

Seun:
There is no fallout. The dude never liked me as a person. He liked my brand and my platform. We were never actually friends, though I tried.


When I posted my first viral tweet where I said polygamy is legalized adultery, I didn't know that Jarus was in trouble. But after that, I knew.


I considered deleting the "legalized" tweet for a moment, but the arrogant tone of his defence of wife beating and polygamy made me not feel bad for him. I saw him as the aggressor and not the victim. I considered speaking to him, but from his antecedents I knew I wasn't going to change his mind. I was likely to get cursed out and blocked if I asked him to apologise. Also, I feel very strongly about polygamy and domestic violence. I had to choose between offending Jarus and acting against my conscience and my principles. It was a very easy choice.

GloriousGbola:
the people who could have advised him were probably against his taking a second wife in the first place. so it is the 'it is your islamic right' geng who were advising him.

ironically, it appears that Islamic polygamy may be largely limited to Africa.

raumdeuter:
https://www.nairaland.com/8144835/seun-osewa-calls-out-helinues

mostob:
Right footed usually have the bigger shot power than left footed players. Most players who are known for ferocious shots are right footed. Roberto Carlos is one of a kind though. I think this is the reason why left footed forward usually go for technique instead of power. Salah, Robben, Messi, Di Maria, Dybala.

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Ibime:
I don't vote bro, leave that for civilians

raumdeuter:
You sef see how it is. He said he's not happy, we responded to him, instead make he reply he went to open a thread to ask for opinion then ghosted everyone on there
Next thing he might open a cryptic thread on Twitter about it
Imagine if you have to deal with him on a personal level. You either need a lot of patience or alcohol

iamoyindamola:
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The rating is high though

donjazzet:
I just wan regain my main account oo wey the political mod block.

Though it has to be said, Some arguments made here are sometimes painful to see.
I always happen to see same set of accounts that always defend domestic abusers. It's not a good thing.

iamoyindamola:
This seun thru whine himself you opened a thread about questions and you are yet to answer even one
Na blueraydick I come pity, Baba write theory hoping oga nla will attend to them