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GloriousGbola:
If jarus wife had been in ilorin all this time and never come to lagos she would have likely just accepted it like that.

Or found out about the wedding after the fact. One of my friends back in the day, that was how they found his dad had a second family in lagos. Though this was in the 90s way before social media.

Theflint1:
Yea, I bin know say case no really dey, even the Kiki chick know, na why she begin shop for other potential victims.

The case would have been dicey if Jarus didn't quickly jettison the plan to divorce his wife...make e go thank e wife, cause na she save e self-snitching ass

And true, Polygamy no cheap, if you neva chop belleful, no put body Certainly not with your modern chicks with teareye that would need you bringing more than just food and housing to the table...the demands on your polygamist from this era is very different from the demands on a polygamist from our parents era...I doubt Raumdeuter don consider dawan for e syllabus.

GloriousGbola:
What happens next is anyones guess. Because the proposed new wife is not going away.

KingTom:
Shey na nose piercers, male crop to wearers and pink hair spraying twerkers wan enlist into army to fight for their country? Except say na voluntary matter

GloriousGbola:
One thing that I picked from the arguments and back and forth is polygamy is more of an African Muslim thing than a world wide Muslim thing

There are majority Muslims in Indonesia, mayalsia, Saudi Arabia, Egypt, bangladesh, Pakistan

But it is only the Muslims in Africa who are aggressively marrying multiple wives. When you look at the chart you will realize it is not so much Muslim culture but African culture

nihilistjnr:
I'd be very surprised if Nigeria has up to 500k combat ready troops right now.

Britain had well over 3 million troops in WW1.

Their supply lines and logistics were also superior to ours.

The Nigerian army is currently in a terrible state. Underpaid, ill-equiped, unmotivated, undisciplined.

That's why Boko Haram was able to confidently attack an army barracks, kill over 500 people and get away with it in 2014.

GloriousGbola:
https://www.nairaland.com/8145286/jarus-wife-aminah-oyewole-denied




https://www.dawateislami.net/magazine/en/new-writers/false-testimony



what do the real muslims in the house have to say about false witness, tho?

i remember it as one of the greater sins - but i am sure Oasisx can clarify. probably just one of those dodgy hadiths

https://hadeethenc.com/en/browse/hadith/5519



when even comedians are going to hell for obvious lies

Theflint1:
Been listening to some WW1 history, and I dunno if it's a stretch to say if Britain was a neighboring country like say Cameroon or Ghana, their WW1 military force would defeat the Nigerian military force of 2024.

CC Afrodoc2, BlueRayDick, Gloriousgbola, Raumdeuter

Seun:
There is no fallout. The dude never liked me as a person. He liked my brand and my platform. We were never actually friends, though I tried.


When I posted my first viral tweet where I said polygamy is legalized adultery, I didn't know that Jarus was in trouble. But after that, I knew.


I considered deleting the "legalized" tweet for a moment, but the arrogant tone of his defence of wife beating and polygamy made me not feel bad for him. I saw him as the aggressor and not the victim. I considered speaking to him, but from his antecedents I knew I wasn't going to change his mind. I was likely to get cursed out and blocked if I asked him to apologise. Also, I feel very strongly about polygamy and domestic violence. I had to choose between offending Jarus and acting against my conscience and my principles. It was a very easy choice.

GloriousGbola:
the people who could have advised him were probably against his taking a second wife in the first place. so it is the 'it is your islamic right' geng who were advising him.

ironically, it appears that Islamic polygamy may be largely limited to Africa.

raumdeuter:
https://www.nairaland.com/8144835/seun-osewa-calls-out-helinues

mostob:
Right footed usually have the bigger shot power than left footed players. Most players who are known for ferocious shots are right footed. Roberto Carlos is one of a kind though. I think this is the reason why left footed forward usually go for technique instead of power. Salah, Robben, Messi, Di Maria, Dybala.

iamoyindamola:
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Ibime:
I don't vote bro, leave that for civilians

raumdeuter:
You sef see how it is. He said he's not happy, we responded to him, instead make he reply he went to open a thread to ask for opinion then ghosted everyone on there
Next thing he might open a cryptic thread on Twitter about it
Imagine if you have to deal with him on a personal level. You either need a lot of patience or alcohol

iamoyindamola:
Mr robot s1-4

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Let me know if it's interesting have been seeing it but didn't pay attention
The rating is high though

donjazzet:
I just wan regain my main account oo wey the political mod block.

Though it has to be said, Some arguments made here are sometimes painful to see.
I always happen to see same set of accounts that always defend domestic abusers. It's not a good thing.

iamoyindamola:
This seun thru whine himself you opened a thread about questions and you are yet to answer even one
Na blueraydick I come pity, Baba write theory hoping oga nla will attend to them

KingTom:
You sef, people dey ask one liners na hin you dey ask am question like therapist Egbon Osssssewa go dey regret why e open that thread. Not one question has been answered, and now you have political trolls drawing lines on sand and daring each other to cross

KingTom:
What a morning

afrodoc2:
seunmessage send seun message. Idan squared.

Ibime:
My oga at the top, I no follow for them oh. I remain loyal

Theflint1:
Kiki saw the video of his wife laughing with him, she knows that most likely that's a dead end, and that's why she's looking for other persons.

Theflint1:
Who says the Kiki isn't looking to escalate the issue beyond a simple case of DV?

Theflint1:
Exactly, its the logical progression of the issue, the only reason we can think it being impossible is how long we've known him and the sentiments involved, another random person and you'd understand why things have progressed the way they have.

liveLongNprospa:
What if you get people who say he did more to them?
Would you call Kiki evil? 😁

Theflint1:
Before feminists use you to run agenda, you'd have played into their hands.

It's not feminists that told him to snitch on himself, they were not the ones that told him to call in a radio station making needless justifications... They're not the ones that have told him to posture the way he has since this thing happened.

Jarus don dey social media since forever, he should know better...no be today feminists don begin run agenda. Jarus has made himself another scapegoat of their agenda.

Theflint1:
Lol, I really want to let it go, but Jarus loves the attention and keeps serving

If you're violent at home, and you seem to be doubling down on it, it's possible it's not your first time and you might have victims of battery outside your home...if it turns out there are no victims all well and good.

liveLongNprospa:
I get it.
But like I said, some people have lines you shouldn't cross.

GloriousGbola:
The people who advise you can vary widely

You have problem with your wife

Some will say manage situation
Some will say divorce
Some will say marry second wife
Some will say pray
Some will say counseling

Likely the friends who were championing marrying a second wife were the ones encouraging him and justifying everything.

If this had happened in any state other than lagos the matter would be dead

Someone would have taken ilorin eye to advise on lagos matter.