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Sportsweb:
David is asking for Joint-custody not full

Read my previous responses on the matter . I no fit Dey repeat myself

folake4u:
I know right. Nigerians are funny people when it comes to their favourite artiste, they believe he can do no wrong.

Kidnapping a 3 months old baby is WILD and false representing the daughter's mother is INSANE!!!! How can a normal child grow in that household?

The reason they throw logic on the matter is because he's a "cheerful giver" and doles cash anyhow in the guise of giveaway. The average Nigerian worships money.

I like Davido's music a LOT but Truth has to be said.

The fact that it appears Davido’s father was in on the child abduction is really worrying honestly . It just gives an impression that David is a child that get what he wants with his dad’s support irrespective how messy the situation may be . 🤦‍♂️

larride:
Is Imade living in between her puxxi?

What's the correlation between seeing his child and them knacking?

Seeing his child is his right as the father, if they will knack, it will be both of them consenting to knack, it has nothing to do with Imade.

Maybe you can show us from the chat where Davido is demanding for sex first before visiting his daughter.

If u choose to play the ostrich so be it. It is ur prerogative.

Davido claimed her denied her access to the child , she countered his claim and called it a lie. Go to instagram and see screenshot of chat between Sophia and Davido’s father in which she mentioned how he’s deliberately chose to be absent in the child’s daughter even on special occasions .

The koko now is both Davido and Sophia have submitted their argument to the court let’s wait and see in whose Favour the court will give judgement in its infinite wisdom .

folake4u:
It is quite appalling when people throw away logic when it comes to Davido.

I'd prefer if people read the entire court process before taking sides.

U see that number 75 ehn….i keep wondering Why will anybody gloss over it and just dismiss the issue just like that ?

People really throway logic on the matter no lies .

Graphic image of how Wasiu was bundled out of the tournament .

Adieus!

larride:
Davido cannot take the girl out of the country but Sophia can.

Sophia can deny Davido access to their child but Davido cant ask for joint custody.

Make sense.

He intended to take her from her mother illegally in the past and was stopped .

Nothing stops him from trying again. Nigeria has not gotten better since the last time .

The lady has already said she didn’t deny him access to the child . U are only willing to believe Davido’s version of the events without considering the lady’s story as well.

larride:
Again this is pure Davido hating, nothing more, nothing else. Sophia is not the only Davido baby mamas and all of them has custody of the child of while Davido can visit and has access to the child. How many of them has Davido forcefully taken the child away from? You cant mention any Davido precedent to back your assumption on.

Davido is not asking for joint custody because they found cannabis in Sophia blood, Davido is asking for joint custody because Sophia has refused his access and visiting right to their CHILD.

Sophia is the one in the wrong here, not Davido.

Sophia has debunked the bolded . She claims she’s not denying him access to the child but access to her body . Go and check Linda Ikeji for a screenshot of Davido asking her for phone sexxx and she obliging . That has been tendered as evidence in court to prove her case.

GloriousGbola:
snatching children from difficult wives/concubines is a part of yoruba culture we dont talk about

https://www.nairaland.com/1840419/when-rich-families-cause-pain

i was trying to recall this story above. the child is fortunately with the mother now

it is very rich to say you are taking imade from hr mother because they found cannabis in her blood when davido the father also smokes cannabis . so what exactly is the difference here?

nothing will stop Davido and his family from snatching imade from sophia [on nigerian soil] they have shown they are capable of it

if you knew davido personally, would you let your child go for a sleepover at his place? would you allow your child to be at his place unsupervised?



the big booty lawyer from the witchcraft state has a friend on sophias team. and they apparently have receipts. so let us sit back and watch it all unfold

U Dey mind him ?

They both probably smoked cannabis before knacking each other sef. Even Davido himself will not be unreasonable to use that cannabis in the blood argument in court . Sophia’s lawyers will jolly well designate Davido’s house as Fela African shrine where cannabis is their food

larride:
You are accusing others of sentiments when you are doing exactly that while discarding the whole context of this joint custody wahala.

1. Davido is not looking for full custody of the child, he's asking for joint custody.

2. Davido is asking for joint custody because Sophia is denying the man access to their daughter. Davido hasn't seen the child in over 1 year and everytime he request to see her, it's always one excuse after the other. Go to Twitter and see all the revelations that's coming out from the case. Even Davido father had to intervened and talk with Sophia about not denying the family access to their daughter and that one even disrespected his father. She wants to continue collecting child support from them but want to deny them access to their daughter, who will accept that.

3. Yes, the unfortunate incident happened with Ifeanyi but Davido wasn't even at home when it happened as there was carer who was tasked to take care of the son but what happened, happened but the same Imade fell sick for days when she was still breast feeding and test revealed cannabis in her blood, Sophia was tested and cannabis was found in her own blood too which means Sophia put their own daughter at risk.

4. Ifeanyi was a toddler when the accident happened (God rest his soul) Imade is not. What his asking for is joint custody and no man should be denied access to their child.

It's fine not to like Davido, but none of you siding with Sophia will accept what she's doing to Davido.

Your last paragraph sums up everything u think this is all about. You think it’s about not liking Davido . Smh 🤦‍♂️

Is Sophia’s lawyer arguments valid or not ? Did the deceased child not die due to negligence ?

The Dabido requesting joint custody , how many days of the year do u think he spends in the house ?

The highest he should get from the court is access to his child when he’s available and the child is on holidays . The child should remain with the mother till pay the father visits when he’s available till she turns 18, then she can decide on who she wants to be with . Simple !

Nothing concern me with all those sentiments of dem no like Davido. If Sophia was anybody here’s sister and she had to go through what she went through when the child was almost taken from her , that person too will not support an arrangement that allows Davido full access to the child in which he can jolly well jet her out and the mother will see shege before seeing her child

GloriousGbola:
Quite literally she can drop imade at Davidos house, come back to pick her and be barred from entering the house. And she will not be able to do anything about it as a naija matter.

She will just cry on social media and the same people chastising her now will tell her to rest abeg.

Some will even go as far and tell her to be grateful that her billionaire baby daddy wants to raise the daughter for her 😂

GloriousGbola:
https://www.channelstv.com/2023/03/24/chrisland-school-staff-vendor-to-face-charges-for-students-death/
the school principal, a teacher and the owner of the vending machine are in jail awaiting trial over a child's electrocution.

i will ask you a simple question. if ifeanyi had died in this manner in a school swimming pool, who would be liable?

you would be calling for the head of the school proprietor

Davido built a swimming pool in his house and did not put in place measures to child proof it. he hired an inexperienced village girl as a child minder. his house is not so much a home as a frat house

he is out of the home most of the time.

you can always search parental liablity child death if you want more clarity

if imade had been staying on and off with davido , it is the same way she would have stumbled into that pool

major accidents NEVER happen in isolation. they are ALWAYs preceded by minor incidents. but negligent individuals fail to read the signs and act accordingly. what makes it worse is that this has happened before, when dbanj child died in the same manner. you would expect a parent with sense to have learned from this and put all precautions in place if a swimming pool is a must . note the emphasis on parent with sense.

if i wanted to be extra mean, i would have said ifeanyi was an inconvenience for him. what stops me from carrying my pikin with me on a social visit? the visit to the ooni was social.

What u see with people chiding Sophia’s valid argument is just what Nigerians do when their fave is involved in a matter ; they will just decide to disregard logic and go with sentiment .

Anybody who unfamiliar with our hypocrisy would think Sophia was pulling a Tonto Dike vs Churchill on Davido. Tonto literally changed the name of their child , denied the man access to the child , goes to the child’s school on Father’s Day dressed in male attire , etc

On the contrary it was Davido right from the child’s infancy that tried stealing the child from the mother . He almost succeeded in shipping the child out of the country if not for Dele Momodu’s intervention. How do u expect that same woman to trust u with the custody of the same child?

It is only logical for her lawyers to argue that a toddler in ur care was deceased and that’s a ground for u not to be granted custody .

But Nigerians with sentiments think it is a blow below the belt .

afrodoc2:
Wow! Is that the notorious/famous ogbono thief?

Old things have passed away doc . Paul was once Saul

TemporaryHansel:
I need my account(Elder0001) back too. Unlike you, I wasn't under any ban. I deactivated it by myself because I was in a bad mood. @gloriousgbola can you help me plead my case with the mod you contacted to help you restore your account? I didn't break any rules, neither am I on ban. I want it restored.

@seun

U don finally accept now say u be elder Abi ?


Cc: Ibime

GloriousGbola:
she is absolutely correct

if davido and chioma could not take care of ifeanyi, you think they can take care of imade?

if davido was in a western nation, he would have been liable for the death of ifeanyi

davido is not father material. neither is chioma

parenting is not posing with your children on instagram

the fact that imade is a girl makes it worse.

davidos house is constantly full of lost boys who are not ready to grow up. any of them could be a child molester

Everybody knows this is the truth, but fandom and stanship will not allow people see things for what they are .

A man that lost a child to parental negligence is seeking custody of another child from another woman he’s not married to and they expect the woman to just hand the child over . Why ? Because his name is Davido and he must always get what he wants ? Smh 🤦‍♂️

If I was the judge in the case, I will only pronounce a judgement that allows for him to have regular access to his daughter maybe allow for the daughter to spend few holidays with him, but make the mother her primary custodian .


Even those saying “ He asked for joint custody “ are just being disengagious . Shebi joint custody means they will have the child stay with both parents 50/50 throughout the duration of a year Shey? As a musician who travels frequently on tour , do u see Davido as a co-parent who will be there for his daughter whenever it is his turn ? Will he be carrying her to Australia, Canada, etc whenever he has a musical tour ?

As una Dey blame Felix for Portugal exit , make una try blame Wasiu small too o.

Wasiu just Dey gba all through the match . If he’s not playing the ball into the stands , he is busy trying to do bicycle kick with defenders’ skull

Make Wasiu just go collect UEFA coaching license make he rest abeg . E don do ! He came , He saw, and he need to rest .

Leyqute:
Portugal is the only team trying to win this game. Deschamps Dey gba

This is typical Deschamps pattern

oliverano:
Forget own goal. Muani is on the pitch and will make up for this....

The yeye player just played a replay of the world cup miss 😂

Leyqute:
Nah. Their team is good already. It was Nagelsmann who chose not to start Fulkrug.

I don’t really understand u.

I mean let Haaretz sit in the bench and let Havertz play . It’s obvious Fulkrug is a better striker , a more dangerous threat to any Centerback and can also do hold up play .

All those talks about Haaretz being the player creating space for others I’m not buying it. The guy Dey gba both at Arsenal and in Germany

Germany needs to build a team that has Havertz on the bench and Fullkrug as their top striker .

The the guy is a very good striker in the mould of them Luiz Suarez not a waste pipe like Havertz

raumdeuter:
What excuse was he giving

He said the ref is in such instances is expected to look at the position of the hand of the player . He said yes the arm makes his body bigger , but he was clearly moving the hand away from the ball backwards so it’s no penalty as rightly given by Taylor on the pitch .

Meanwhile, I’ve such handballs given wella simply ur arm makes ur body bigger without any further shalaye

I like serious players like Kimmich. No 4cks given!

A man’s got to do what a man’s got to do

See the yeye explanation Mark Clattenberg dey give for obvious penalty . SMH

Havertz just useless

Amoto94:
The problem with you and him is that once you're cornered you begin to shift goalposts.

Where is the goalpost shifting here?

GloriouGbola called out the fact that the lady lying in court is actually a sin which the clerics are willing to overlook.

Then u said there's nothing wrong in refusing to give testimony.

But the news report said the wife "denied the allegations". Like she literally lied under oath despite her husband's and her own admission of the occurrence of domestic violence.

U are the one who is actually twisting and turning here bro. U have not brought to the fore a scriptural backing that says one is allowed to lie while swearing in the name of God. That's where we are

afrodoc2:
Just seeing this. Yeah, you are right. The standing British Army was not that large. They had to build up during the war.

By the time the Nigerian military takes control of the skies, all that ordnance the British had would be destroyed at the depot.

We can even carry a plane load of mosquito , empty it on their camp and watch them suffer malaria to our amusement . We may not even need to use ammunitions sef to conquer them

Amoto94:
You're like these extremists who run with a narration whereas there's another narration that support the action taken by an individual they're castigating in a situation. If she doesn't want the person to be punished she's right to say she wasn't hurt. She has forgiven the person and she's not interested in pressing charges against him.

All u have done here is refuse to call a spade a spade.

The woman was beaten by her husband, the husband confessed same himself online and the wife also stated this in her tiktok post. A picture of her swollen face is on the internet.

Now she is in a law court where a Quran is presented to her and she swore to tell the truth and nothing but the truth.

She is asked about the beatings she received from her husband and she denied they ever happened.(even though every evidence provided by herself and the husband suggested otherwise).

What she is done is called " Telling a lie". Simple. There's no sugarcoating it.

Yes, we understand her reasons for doing that but it is what it is. GloriousGbola is right on this one.

Seun don vex lock the shalaye thread

GloriousGbola:
And this is one reason why her faith and that of her children may never be the same after this.

Everyone quoting Hadith and Qur'an up and dan and then telling you to forget all that and lie in court.

This is actually funny . 😂

E sure me say the same cleric that helped them settle the matter and reconcile them will be one of those that will tell her to do whatever lawyer ask her to do in court .

(I read his tweet responding to someone who asked how he was able to move on quickly from the issue after he posted his loved up video with the wife . He said some respected clerics like Chief Imam of Offa waded in )

Singapore1:
yeah just supporting your point

People also underestimate the financial burden that comes with it. This is Nigeria, the poverty capital of the world. If they successfully send him to prison, who is going to be responsible for the upkeep of the children and the wife? Sadly, this is why many women stay in abusive relationships: they'd rather be crying inside a Benz.

This is just the truth. It goes beyond just saying u want justice for the woman.

The woman will later see the justice as a cuss when people close to her ostracise her, the SUV she's using will be seized by the family members , etc

Singapore1:
No woman is going to be happy if her husband marries a second wife. Even the second wife won't be happy if the husband marries a third.

I don't recall saying otherwise.

GloriousGbola:
If you dey sm you go find out. Because someone in hubby family will post the second marriage to fb or Instagram. Confam.

This actually happened to one of my madams friends.

She found her husband had married another wife via Facebook.

Dey play!

I hope u know camera and video recording by guests was barred when Lagbaja's daughter wedded

https://www.nairaland.com/1369112/pictures-barred-lagbajas-daughters-wedding

Theflint1:
No reason am like that o, there's muslim women Jarus would try this drama with and it won't end just like this. Make e just thank e stars say money, influence and power tilt way much in e side compared to the woman side, plus na traditional muslimah chick e marry, if not e for dey tricky. There's also the fact that Jarus walked back on his plan to divorce her, that was a major major factor in the way things settled peaceably.

Lolz.

A woman like man will always think of self preservation. The initial resistance the wife put up was because the believe she be abandoned by the husband a whole lot of decisions will not go her way going forward since a new woman will be coming to share her place with her.She most likely saw the man as someone who could reason with her and jettison the idea if she raised her objection well enough.

She later saw things were not as she imagined and resorted to "spiritual help". I believe the moment that has failed to the extent she and the husband had a physical altercation; she was ready to settle for the place of senior wife (even though she was still disgruntled), but the horse has already bolted.

The thing is whether u are a traditional woman or Gen Z baddy, once ur position is secured u will settle for what u would ordinarily refer to as "less" . Some of Ned Nwoko's senior wives are not even the traditional women like that but they settled for polygamy so far their place is fully secured. There are several examples of such.