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How we think when we don't have enough courage or money to relocate�.

Pojomojo:
Team JAPA are among the lazy and irrational citizens. I wonder why many don’t think of the reason why they found themeselves to be citizens of Nigeria.

JAPA mentality IMO you have no plan to influence your nation or your society, it appears you’re not in tune with the purpose of your existence but only focused on your personal interest.

We’ve been lied to that life is what we felt it is when actually it’s extremely the opposite of what we’ve been told.

Don’t be surprised that citizens of civilized countries are tied of their country just as we’re tied too. Strict laws we don’t follow here, you’ll get there and comport yourself meanwhile, their citizens are tied of such laws cause they know some countries are lawless.

Wow, humanity on the run to nowhere when nothing is chasing them but themselves and they lament it’s life.
This money for relocation is enough to set up a micro enterprise to meet the fast growing population in Nigeria / Neighboring African country, with a plan for upgrade of the business as the cash flow increases. There is no free launch any where in the world. Africa has a lot of gap and opportunities to be filled and harnessed. All the same relocation is good with respective individual evaluation of the opportunities and risk.
For every thing in life, there is time and season for every one, so it is always good to get prepared for the opportunities.

My advise is that individual should relocate on personal reasons and not because your close friend or family member has travelled to the UK or Canada, The case varies and individual potentials, opportunities and luck varies.

A family of 4 that have truly "Japa" to the UK knows your total initial cost is highly exaggerated for the popular one-year masters.

1. School fees can be paid at an official rate (less than 500 nairas) and some schools require a 2k or 5k pounds deposit. This drops the tuition deposit to about 1m to 2.5m. If I assume a 5k deposit, it saves 2m nairas compared to yours.

2. For proof of funds (in interest), you need tuition balance + living expenses. Most school tuition is less than 13,000 pounds, and there are schools with less than 10000 pounds tuition. If you deposit 5000 pounds (2.5m nairas) for a 13,000-pound school, you will need about 8000 pounds (4m nairas) more for the tuition balance. You will also need 29,000 pounds for living expenses for a family of 4 outside London. (29,000+8000) pounds= 37,000 pounds (about 17.5m naira). At 3.5% interest, 17.5m naira will yield 612,500 naira. Saves about 1.9 million nairas compared to yours.


To-be continued..
All the best.!
Peace

Frankly, I can't drive a newly acquired Lexus on the streets of a state with little or no security and with invasion of terrorists.
People have guts.☹️

Negative comments and behaviour towards people are the reason they commit suicide.
Because you are not very enlightened, you don't understand that people differ mentally and it's not always their faults if they can't handle certain things.
You call people names like 'simp'.
Intelligent people are able to identify those who need help. They support such people with kind words and encourage them to see therapists.
Intelligent people don't use negative words on serious issues like suicide. They know better.
People who live amongst the unintelligent, hide their problems so that they don't call them names. When they get overwhelmed without a solution, they think of suicide.

You are supposed to be a support system not a destroyer.
But I don't blame you. Our thinking and words are limited by our exposure in life. We can't give the positive support that we lack.

We are talking of death here which can come to any of us unannounced.

Be kind.

There are people on this nairaland, reading your comments, who have problems and are suicidal and will not seek help because they fear that you will reject them and call them names.

Please be kind to the dead so that the living can be more comfortable to seek help.

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She should've added you as a spouse and added your daughter in her application.
She can't pick her child without your consent. You'll always be carried along.
There is no problem.

99.9% of those condemning this event will feel very honoured if they are invited.
Nigerians and dog in the manger attitude are like 5 and 6.
Hypocrisy everywhere.
Lol

Yes, for N300m, I will go back to nursery 1.
Spend all day at school writing abc, spend all afternoon and evening having fun. Spend my school holidays in Bahamas etc.
Just imagine how sweet life will be.

The man is likely impotent.

InfinityFabric:
She will still open legs again. Women no dey too get sense like that.
Don't be Simp! Don't be Simp! Don't be Simp!

How could it have taken brilliance and intelligence to live in an airport for 18years? When your brilliant man exhausted his income from the film, he had to return to the free accomodation as he couldn't pay any more.
I can see the brilliance.
Hahahahahahahaha.

CoronaVirusRelo:
18 years!

Dude should be immortalized!

It takes fvckin brilliance and intelligence to do such.

18 years! Dat’s some Kentucky fried fvcks!

That's sometimes the case.
Westerners think I'm over 15years younger than I am.
Most of them age and develop wrinkles faster than blacks.

It is very easy to identify those who never went to school. It's not your fault. I can't blame you for that.
Bros , let me educate you so that you'll stop washing your dirty l...in the public.
Some men have zero sperm count. I'm sure you have never heard this before. Don't worry. There is always a first time.
Nairalanders should learn to educate the less privileged not insult them.

VeryWickedGoat:
Barren women deserve to be single. Stop stressing innocent men.

She listed her qualities.
Read!
She is educated and can pick up a job to support her husband.

LINSAR:
So what is the man going to be benefitting from you as his wife?

What part of the body was hit by the bullet. Can you tie it to stop loss of blood.
Google recovery position and keep him in that position while waiting for help.
Confirm if he is breathing.

90%.
Who conducted this research for you?

Pierocash:
Then prepare to remain single all your life. 90% of men have either receding hair line ,or bald.

Same goes for a man who has had too many girlfriends. He never makes a good and committed husband.
By the end of the day, your opinion doesn't matter and your theory doesn't work in every situation.
Hahahahaha.

FuckTheMod:
If she's not a virgin, it's completely useless and unreasonable to try this, because IT WILL END IN TEARS.

Any girl with more than 2 BODYCOUNT is not worth any effort, unless you're a big fool.

What joy would a man derive from a girl that has been passed around

Girls usually give consent for sex, so a girl who has been with more than 2 guys is

LOOSE
WAYWARD
LACK OR HAS VERY POOR MORALS

Having multiple BODYCOUNT comes with a lot of mindsets and emotional damages.

Most girls with many bodycount can never stay
LOYAL
FOCUSSED
CONTENTED
and
COMMITTED TO ANY MAN.

THIS IS BECAUSE THEY'VE BEEN THROUGH A LOT AND A LOT HAS BEEN THROUGH THEM.

Which one did your older relatives buy back then.
If he bought on mortgage, can you buy on mortgage? Do you think that repaying mortgage is a piece of cake?

omonnakoda:
How does that show intelligence?
Many Nigerians living in UK bought houses on mortgages
It does not show intelligence

Not sure what you mean by nuying a house at that time for that amount?

That is what money was worth then

Since then there has been inflation

It is the same whether you bought a house in Lagos , Abuja or Owerri

The price of cement or bread has not stood still

The price of Land in Lekki has increased even more in that time


This is not proof of intelligence.

They just want to enjoy money, power and fame.
It's coming on a platter of gold.

Karlovych:
So women can actually allow themselves to be made second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth wives and so on as long as the man is rich, influential and famous.

For all the so much talk of ending the patriarchy look at what the so-called well educated ladies are subjecting themselves to, spits.

My bear bro, be very careful. Those advising you to quit your marriage are in hell with their partners. They are not happy that you are living a good life with your wife.
The next woman you'll marry might have had several abortions but will not tell you.
Stick to the devil you know.
Let your wife know that you love her despite your discovery.
Let her tell you the truth and ask for forgiveness.
Leaving her to marry another woman will never guarantee your happiness.
Even if another man claims the chikd in future, you'll remain the 'daddy' he knows. He will never forget you.

It's your opinion.
And guess what?
It doesn't matter.
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Righteousness2:
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You mean too many simps.
Hahahahahaha

Kajaard:
Ladies please stop accepting money and gifts from men if you know you are not ready to date them. There are too many emotionally fragile men that cannot handle rejection well. Be careful.

Awesome

See village people.

It's so easy to identify people who don't have enough home training. Lol.

Nonexisting:
Paedophile evening newspapers, always looking for small boys to hang their already wasted pussies on after wasting their youths in olosho business.

Don't listen to hypocrites telling you to divorce her. They don't like you.
Ask any of them if they can help you care for your kids like your wife does. They will never accept.

Men cheat and women cheat.

Find out what the problem is. Resolve it if possible.
If not , you can choose to go your separate way with proper planning for the kids

Try to be a Rev Father. Why are you married or planning to marry one of these deadly/ heartless species. Or don't you mean what you typed?
Lol

Richie77:
I fear person wey no fear women.

He lost all his kids. Do you realize that a parent will rather die than lose his kids. Do you think he is much happier?

Tetrahedron:
God fought for him big time!

Try to be a Rev Father. Why are you married or planning to marry one of these demonic/ heartless species. Or don't you mean what you typed?
Lol

Peterpanny:
This gender wicked pass devil himself.
Demonic element.
Person go use him money marry woman,You no know say na your death you marry so.

You get mind poison your own husband after three lovely children.
Lord have mercy oooo.

Try to be a Rev Father. Why are you married or planning to marry one of these deadly/ heartless species. Or don't you mean what you typed?
Lol

sotall:
Damn!

How can a woman want to murder the father of her three children?

The heart of this woman is desperately wicked.

Try to be a Rev Father. Why are you married or planning to marry one of these deadly/ heartless species. Or don't you mean what you typed?
Lol

charlesdinho7:
a snake is far better than a woman. the human female species is a devilish being. very heartless species

Husband's unconditional love is not weakness and it's not slavery.

SenecaTheYonger:
Your GF is a loser subhuman with low IQ that doesn’t know how to use her powers for good.


Tell her to manifest riches into your life when you’re having sex with her. Tell her to always picture you with riches when she’s riding your cock or when you’re piping her.

Tell her to do this or you’ll break you with her

You wish.
The devil comes to kill, steal and destroy.
Mission accomplished.