₦airaland Forum

Very poor life expectancy

Stingy and poor men calling kind and rich men simps.

ChizzyBuna:
She will be alright

She is a woman
She will definitely get help online

If na man come up with same story
Dem go even think say na Skit

One twitter simp will send her 1 million
Just watch and see

How can you say this.
What does the word survival mean to you.
Do you know how many have died this period because they couldn't go to the hospital?
Do you know how many kids that are out of school now cos their parents can't afford to send them to school?
Do you know how many that have died in the hands of robbers and kidnappers because the government has not provided enough security?
If this is what you call survival, then I'm sorry for you.

meobizy:
Africans will always survive. It’s a human superpower which we surpass in.

I see that you are suggesting that the friend is sooooo dumb that he doesn't know what his child looks like.
Hahahahahaha hahahaha.
Wahala for who get dumb friend. He should better mind his business.

Wawelexy:
Oga ignore all these ones blabbing up there, if your friend is truly someone you care about and really close to, tell him... How will someone keep taking care of bills for a child that doesn't belongs to him? That's the highest level of wickedness a woman can do to a man.... Tell him to run the test bro, if it comes out positive, he will understands you only care about him, and if it's the other way round, he will be glad you saved him from wasted effort and future heart break. It's better to remain single as a baby dada, than to be married to a harlot and at the same time fending for another man's child.

A wh*re deserves no pity. Men supporting men

And the father of the child is.....

RapistOnBail:
Women are desperately wicked. Don't be deceived by their fake cries and innocence

I wonder what community you live in. In my area, there are many female breadwinners

nick50:
After all these husstles to feed and cloth the other weak gender them go still get mind to dey rub shoulders with us..nonsense

She doesn't look hungry. How does that serve her right? The more unqualified people that get into the position, the more our suffering continues. You and I, near the brunt.

Max24:
Serves her right. Let her go collect her Social Media CBN appointment from the Agulu SM president.. It cannot favour her and her family after singing baba wey no we'll he dey shout Emilokan ooo. Make Elupee 77 favour her.

If shame had much value, lots of men will have it cos men are objective thinkers and will go for value.

bro4u:
People no longer have shame again. Very funny world

Not exactly.
She will still be happily married.

toujurs:
A fool and more.

You were banged by men, who penetrated in-between your thighs while you were moaning, just to prove a point.

You are a big fool. Your bf can't take this. And you know

Don't be jealous. Same you will hail a young Nigerian man marrying a sixty something year old oyibo woman a sharp boy looking to japa. Let him marry. I know a man in America who married a young village girl and too her to the states, they still separated. It's God that helps us keep our marriages.

Namaster:
Are you INSANE?

You want to marry a 40-year old Nigerian woman who'll have the upper hand in the marriage?

She's in a gynocentric society and has citizenship while you do NOT. She'll control and manipulate you however she wants and you'll just have to suck it up!

PLUS at 40 years old, this woman has had at least 3 home-made abortions. Her age plus abortions means her ability to carry a child to term is EXTREMELY low.

She knows this. That's why she has refused to try for a child when her biological clock is already DEAD and waiting to be buried.

Most women her age would be eager to get pregnant and have their own child. The fact that she's insisting on marriage FIRST is telling.

She wants a guarantee that she'll NOT die alone. That you'll NOT run away if she's barren. That's why she's insisting on marriage.

She wants your companionship and doesn't care about what YOU want.

In short:

Go ahead with the marriage if you don't mind being controlled, manipulated and NEVER having children.

By the way when people talk about marrying for green card, they are NOT talking about Nigerian women.

Go chop first.

chubinwa:
He is a simple man

This is why Nigeria cannot move forward.
There are so many men and women who are judgemental.
Intelligent people are not judgemental. Being judgemental is a clear sign that you are a simp. A big one for that matter.
Have you asked yourself the crime he committed that made him beg like that.
Do you know what it means to be in love?
You that is calling someone a simp, list your achievements?
Let's learn to analyze issues intelligently like learned people if we are anyway.
Please remember that it's this same sentiment by simps that made us vote unwisely and we are all now in a big mess.
Let us renew our minds before the next elections.
Lol

All of you that voted for a man without a manifesto, see where you have placed us.
This is a big shame.

God why?
I'm in tears.

So you prefer her to speak evil of her husband.
She said that he was a nice man and you are not happy with that. Na waoo

Judolisco:
Omo.. Why u come dey tell us... Some things are better left unsaid... I'm sure your husband wouldn't have said the same thing about you

Home is where your heart is. If your heart is in Canada, that's your home.

shiwex:
Stop this nonsense about relocating.....lets fix Niger.. Go and ask all Japa people.. East or West. Home is best

Are the women gamblers?
Wisdom profits much.

naija4life247:
Okay nah. Let the analysis begin. Billions of men all over the world are providing for their lazy wives and their parents, yet no noise from the men

Study medicine.
There is no age limit to employ a qualified doctor

Who told you that it's from soft to hard. The job of a bank manager in Nigeria is very stressful. Targets to meet with no money in the economy.

Jewessgratitud3:
Soft life to hard life.

I guess when he got there and saw the pile of bills staring him in the face he had no choice but to grab the next available job.

If you are gainfully employed in naija, you don't need to japa. Japa is for someone who has no hope of ever getting a job in Nigeria. He'll appreciate any kind of job he finds there.

You rejoice when ' greedy girls' are used for rituals forgetting that it will surely come around to males.
I can imagine that this boy could have been one of those who typed ' I don't feel sorry for these girls '.
As you encourage ritualists to kill girls, your own turn is on the way.

Denounce all forms of evil.

How did you know that she wishes to settle.
Have you discussed that with her before now?

LadyRosa2:
Hmm...Well, I dont think she is entirely liberated in the real sense, deep down she wish to settle. But the past keep reminding her not to.

Edited videos are meant for the gullible.
Don't be deceived by everything that moves on the Internet.

It's much suffering if you don't have the means. I mean if you are broke.
Otherwise, you would have hired a day helper to take care of the kids during the day and prepare their supper before going home eah day. It's easy.

Oganla101:
Bro, how mentally and emotionally are you prepared for the lonely road ahead? I am speaking from experience. I don't wish what I suffered taking care of three kids alone on my enemy.

Use?
They were only fulfilling what the tradition requires for an elder.
Abandoning your family tell you how much your dad was actually valued.

Tonero5200:
No matter how useless a man is, once he dies the household of the family strength changes. It might not be financially rather emotionally and physically.

Here are my reasons

My dad is a man who drinks alot to the extend we the children are embarrassed for him because we can't go to functions he goes to... because as he goes, he comes back in a different way.

So we do everything possible to avoid where he is at, but on some occasions we cant..depends on how close the celebrant is. Then we bore it in mind that that day we might get to hear something that offends us.. the shame and embarrassment and might retaliate or ignore.


Being one of the senior men alive, they always come to pay homage everytime despite being the way he is..to settle dispute and to also pray for them.. and also tell them about history how we related and mention names of our forefathers, tracing back their Roots step by step..he knows all..because his father also told him. so they respect him for that as an elderly man even though dry gin is his best friend. all they can do was to talk and laugh behind his back. When he's sober they dare not make jest of him.
I repeat they dare not.


But now he's been dead about 4years ago and I tell you we that normally get the first invitation of marriage ceremony or any functions happening in the extended family no longer gets invited.

Nobody has come in to ask hwfar from us the children since he was buried. They see us as not important since the elderly man is no more.

Our family house that used to trooped in by different new faces almost every week don't see it no more


I am not talking about money here, I am good... But even if I don't have...my elder brother who is a graduate the back bone is there...but I am just stating the obvious fact...

THAT everybody has use no matter how useless you perceive them to be and one day you might get to realise that.


The thing is that during those period we don't even take it as anything. Instead we the children gets angry whenever they comes to inform him for a function because we know that week we will not sleep at night...but as it has its advantages so those it has it disadvantages.

Marry pride today, divorce him tomorrow.
So much for the pride.
Hahahahahaha.
You wish.

talented321:
She reject 300m dolls over the sweet nigerian gbola..
After they will say the boys don't have anything to offer..
Madam who will reject his 1m dolls inheritance over you?
Men are the pride, but simps are not among...

Correct!
This won't happen if the father of the child was a responsible person.

Jeon:
So funny 😂 😂



So parents should leave the boy child in a wrong way right?




You will be among the persons, in fact you did b3 their leader in crucifying her for keeping the pregnancy and stepping in the single motherhood. She don't want to be a single mother, so allow her to be.

Modified
Those quoting me will be among the Men shaming her for keeping the baby, and it will decrease her value in dating,attracts predators to her [dump and use ] because single mother can welcome anything out of desperation.


I said what I said, dont waste your time to quote me because I won't reply to silly mentions.

Truvelisback:
Nobody vex me ooo. I just noticed that kids of this century have lost it. Although, I don't blame them, I blame the parents. Awful things we couldn't do as kids in our time are what nowadays kids are doing and it's really astonishing.

Don't blame the parents, blame you and I who cajole people into marriage when we can see clearly that they are not prepared for it.
' your mates don marry '. This is part of the result and we will all suffer the consequences.

What does lost body count mean?
As long as she gets married and have kids that will remember her in old age, she has lost nothing.
Hahahahaha

Zonefree:
Your hate for Nigerian men can never restore your lost body counts.

Las Las, you will return to your vomit and marry one of the girls.
I'm so sorry for you.

izonborn098:
He no go pass all this useless girls running after this petty petty yahoo boys, thank god she is alive, i believe she will learn her lessons. Nigeria girls are too disgusting and greedy for my liking abeg.

It's not sweet.
It rather sounds selfish.
I assume that he is older than the wife and should naturally die first. Why wish that a younger person dies same day with you.
Anyway, I don't think Adeboye said this.
These bloggers will not leave people alone.

dahmie2013:
How sweet...

This Tunde of a man must have said same you just said when he was at your level in life, hence he didn't think twice before divorcing his first wife. Now, a mere runs girl wants to take him to his grave. It can only work for you if you decide to become a reverend father.

FuckTheMod:
Some men are fõõlish sha

You struggled and managed to marry a leftover, a girl with multiple bodycount, still paid her dowry or bride price IN FULL
A girl that has been through "A LOT" and "A LOT" have been through...
Someone that has been passed around like football by multiple men, in some cases, MARRIED MEN and some have even done abortions...

YET, YOU GO STILL MARRY HER AND ALLOW HER TO DEY GIVE YOU HEADACHE AND PROBLEM

I dey talk am, the girl wey go give me problem in relationship or marriage for this life, DEM NEVER BORN AM ... Try me and see me drag you through hell, WITH EVERYTHING THAT I HAVE, EVEN IF IT'S THE LAST THING I'LL DO ON THIS EARTH.

I'll rather be dead than to tolerate nonsense.