₦airaland Forum

ahnie:
I dunno.
In my own case the bond I share with my kids is far more solid and stronger in quantum than the one I share with my husband.

Sometimes sef,I dey even forget say I get husband.

Pls nobody should quote me oh,I have gone to buy paracetamol.

Klass99:
You made me smile, I like your candour and narrative.
Some years ago, my classmate posted a very enlightening video about this in our Whatsapp Group.
It's a video I wish I had saved through the years. It will make a meaningful impact on wives and parents.

Mercychen:
They are little children. So it's natural for her to care for them more than an adult whos already old enough to take care of himself. So it's not a matter of preference.

Shifting attention to the kids most time is not always a deliberate act by the woman because if you view this from a neutral angle, you'll agree with me that, a child can not be crying either because it's feeling irritated or hungry, while the mother is there caressing the fathers head just to show she cares about him .that would be unreasonable of her. In fact, it's you the husband that will shout at her to go and tend to the baby.

The only thing I think the mothers can do to strike a balance, is by making it up to daddy (at night) when everyone has gone to bed as that is when they can have time alone together. And daddy too should learn to exercise patience till that time.

Hemanwel:
Good day, fellow nairalanders!

We have all witnessed the just concluded Anambra State governorship elections, in which Prof. Chukwuma Soludo, the All Progressives Grand Alliance (APGA), candidate was declared winner with a total vote casts of 112,229. In second position was PDP's Valentine Ozigbo, who polled 53,807 votes. Surprisingly in third position, we have APC's Andy Uba with a total vote of 43,285. And in fourth place was YPP's Ifeanyi Uba, with a total vote of 21,261.

In all of the results which I came across - both online and in the media - didn't see anywhere votes were cast for Dr Godwin Maduka, the candidate of the Accord Party. Now, what baffles me is that, during the buildup to the elections, one could put a gamble that Dr Maduka would be a real contender and a possible winner in the elections, going by his status as a technocrat, his philanthropic projects, and most importantly, his online popularity. Infact, I could boldly say he appeared to be the candidate who posed more threat to Soludo from realising his governorship dreams than any of the other candidate.

What the election has therefore taught me is that:

- PDP and APC are parties which are still a force to reckon with in Nigeria.

- A good candidate without the right political platform cannot make a headway.

- Prof. Soludo won the elections not because he was the most loved, or that he came across to be the best man for the job to most people, but because APGA is the traditional party in the State.

I will therefore encourage those who may be nursing any political ambition to make use of the right political platform to contest future elections. If Maduka had been the flagbearer of PDP or APC, I'm sure the outcome of the elections would not have been what it turned out to be.
Thanks for reading and God bless y'all!

Cc mynd44, lalastclala

ryloy:
https://punchng.com/anambra-election-some-collation-officers-not-good-at-mathematics-says-inec-director/

garfield1:
Play play,apc would have won anambra.

garfield1:
Play play,apc would have won anambra.

garfield1:
Play play,apc would have won anambra.

PoliteActivist:
With all due respect, you don't know what u saying. If my father tells me the sky will turn green, and I tell u that's what he told me, I haven't lied - wether the sky turns green or not.

In many instances God has said something, then later changed it. Otherwise what's the use of prayers. Besides. God can do whatever God wants.

Of course TB Joshua said that AFTER the elections.

The woman was indicting the whole Catholic diocese.

tk4rd:
The news of the Misbehaviour of Hon. Ifeanyi Ibezim is everywhere naa..
Even sef, the State APC chairman fainted when he heard the news.
He knew that their game is over.

onthehill:
https://igberetvnews.com/1404493/singer-zlatan-ibile-gifts-lawyer-rolex-watch-photo-video/

garfield1:
You didn't go inside na

flamingREED:
Carry your L without looking back for your own mental wellness.

Oga, we die here.!!

Na now my own work don begin.
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To many people, the election had been concluded, and it had been done and dusted.
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But to me, the main analyses, and studies, and checks-and-balances and asking of questions had started.

If you take a good look at the Election Results which the INEC uploaded on its Virtual-Results-Portal for the various Polling-units in “Abatete Ward” in Idemili-North LGA, you would begin to wonder if anything went wrong during the Collation, which might have led to the cancellation of some of the figures we are seeing on the results portal.
This is because, the results declared in the final official results are far far below what we are seeing in the uploaded results on the Virtual-Results-Portal.
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In some of the results, especially the polling-units in Abatete ward, APC got as much as 1028 votes, 658 votes, 441 votes, and so on.
But all these results were cancelled by the INEC during the collation of the results.
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(Are we recalling something here??
This is the same scenario that happened in Imo State, where INEC cancelled some crazy results, and the courts accepted those results back again as authentic results).
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We went ahead and asked INEC why they cancelled those results, but they did not give us any satisfying response.
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We also asked them why they left such crazy results still appearing on the Virtual-results-portal for everybody to be seeing them, whereas they had been cancelled them during the collation of results. They did not give any good response to the question either.
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The INEC didn't answer both of our questions.
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So, we had to go out of our way to know why the results were cancelled in the first place.
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First of all, we got to realise that the main reason why the votes were cancelled was because, there was electoral malpractice.
Some thugs snatched the ballot boxes and the Results Sheets and other election materials in many of the Polling-units in Abatete ward and moved all of them to the residence of Hon. Ifeanyi Ibezim (the Hon. Member representing Idemili-North and Idemili-South at the House of Representatives - APC).

The other party agents who were left confused at the polling-units later got to know the new location where the materials were moved to, and they alerted the security agencies who were on ground, and they went to the location and arrested him and all the people in his residence, including all those fake Results which they had already written at his residence.

Funny enough, the numbers of votes which they recorded for APC in most of the polling-units were far greater than the total number of registered voters in those polling-units.
Laugh nearly killed the people there when they were looking at the values.

Meanwhile, Hon. Ifeanyi Ibezim was released after a phone-call came in from Abuja and requested that he should be released, reason being that they should keep things on-the-low for now, so that they won't raise unnecessary dusts about the issue.
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Meanwhile, the reason why INEC uploaded such fake results to its Virtual-results-portal is still not understood yet.
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Possibly, the bought-over/bribed NYSC corps-members who were supposed to be the INEC adhoc staff, who were also the ones that wrote the fake results at the Hon. Ibezim’s residence, were the ones who uploaded those same fake results from inside the residence of Hon. Ibezim before the arrests were made.
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We implore and plead and beg INEC not to leave or allow those dirty and corrupt NYSC Corps-members to go unpunished.
This should serve as severe deterrence to all future Corps-members who might consider delving into such malpractices in the future.

PoliteActivist:
The point is, you have no way of knowing he LIED!!!

You can say what he said didn't come true - that doesn't mean he lied.

Maybe he misread what was told him

Maybe Ndi Eluigwe changed their mind (they are under no obligation to tell anyone, no matter that they did in the Bible, or elsewhere)

TB Joshua said Evangelicals' prayers reversed things.

What the woman was complaining about was not just personal

PoliteActivist:
The point is, you have no way of knowing he LIED!!!

You can say what he said didn't come true - that doesn't mean he lied.

Maybe he misread what was told him

Maybe Ndi Eluigwe changed their mind (they are under no obligation to tell anyone, no matter that they did in the Bible, or elsewhere)

TB Joshua said Evangelicals' prayers reversed things.

What the woman was complaining about was not just personal

lionD:
An agent of darkness. You're a loser from the pit of hell. The Lord is with Rev. Fr Mbaka

revolt:
bro I swear.....I no know who curse us. Ohakim started with a smoke screen. Rochas built paper roads and anesthetics that rain washed away.... Sam mbakwe still remain a legend. Built everything abia Stat still has till today. A.B.S.U is one of the legacies imo state lost that hurt us. Let's get that Supreme Court governor out. Thats what's most important.

misterme:
Imo is far far better than Abia State. Abia State case makes me weep

able88:
Should we tell them

abobote:
Anambra people are lucky to have a revolutionist like Prof. Soludo as a governor. Infact they have been lucky from Ngige to Peter Obi, Obiano and now prof.
I no no who curse us for Imo state, after Dr. Sam Mbakwe, we have not gotten it right, it has been from one 419 of a governor to another

kingsways:
God once sent a prophet to go tell the king to get ready because the king was going to die. Alas, the king cried to God and God changed the verdict and sent the same prophet to go back and tell the king that he wasn't going to die anymore. Even God can change his mind

Your problem is lack of spiritual wisdom. Instead of using your life to do something useful, you just wake up and start attacking a Man of God over something he said almost ten years ago that 100% came to pass back then

WilliamKhan:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/494431-anambradecides2021-inec-declares-soludo-winner-of-governorship-election.html