Talk2Bella: Don’t you get tired when people ask you this question? But here I am asking you, why are you single? Most people don’t know being single sometimes is a choice, but what’s a choice without a purpose or a reason? If you don’t know why you’re single then you need to know why no one is asking you out.
Everyone these days is single, a guy comes up to you and says he’s single, you know this very pretty girl and she tells you she’s single and you open your mouth in awe because you don’t believe such a beaut could be single.
What is the reason behind that decision you’ve taken to be single
Work?
Heartbreak?
Sexual preference?
Finance?
Time?
Lack of a dating type?
Honesty?
Location?
School?
Waiting on someone to notice you?
Age?
Gender?
Lack of interest?
Self-Searching?
Character?
Family Background?
Tell me your reason and purpose, being single is no fun without a purpose, it sometimes lead to depression, envy, suicidal thoughts and lonesome nights.
You begin to question yourself and your existence, most people who always scream team single {without a purpose} are dying inside, they need that companionship, someone to talk to, someone to listen to, someone to touch, someone to play with, they just need someone and most times because there’s a lack of someone they begin to give everyone a chance which becomes a cycle and leads to more heartbreak and then we hear the Forever Single Phrase all over again.
You need to know why you’re single, there’s enough people in the world to go around for everyone, heck people are getting married every Saturday, every day, and you’re there scream “SINGLE LADIES” “SINGLE MEN CREW” wake up, you need help ASAP screaming Team No Hoes won’t alleviate the loneliness you feel inside, screaming Team No Dykes won’t make you feel any better, you need a purpose for being single or without that you’re just someone who isn’t able to get a man or a woman.
While I was in the University, I didn’t date, not that I didn’t have a play companion, I just didn’t want anything serious because I wanted to finish school without distractions and I saw that as one, and when I finished school I said nah, I need a job before I’d date, no one wants to date a liability, when I finally got a job I was ready to date, I did for a while and realized I wanted more things in life than dating and I went for it.
This isn’t a write-up to make you feel bad, for everything there’s a season and a reason and without these you’re just floating on the plane of reality, not making an impact, not contributing, you’re just sliding in and out without realizing how opaque your life is.
This doesn’t apply to dating alone, why do you do the things you do? What’s the reason behind the purpose that’s motivating you? Don’t forget to drop your comment and encourage someone.
nah money ooooooooo and also character of the girl, but at times I find it difficult to meet them because at the end of their statement is am not your type and also most of the girls are dying for one fine bobo
Talk2Bella: Why do ladies feel shy to ask a guy out? You think its only men who deserve to ask ladies out, do you know there are some shy guys out there who might like you but don’t know how to approach it and here’s the shocker you might also like that person but you’re waiting for him to make the first move.
There’s no shame in asking a guy out, don’t play with your feelings, what’s the worse that can happen? He turns you down and so, how many guys have you turned down? Did they die? They moved on right so you do the same.
Do things that would entice him to you, don’t be the regular girls he sees out there, be classy, polite, nice, and do nice things for him also, take him out, buy him little presents, surprise him, spoil him, men do these things for us, we should reciprocate the gestures.
Before you embark on this mission, make sure he doesn’t have a girlfriend; I don’t want you wasting your time, alright? Make sure he doesn’t friendzone/sisterzone you, you need to break out of that shackle immediately because once he starts seeing you like a sister those feelings might be hard to reciprocate, find out things he likes, know his hangout spots, bump into him on occasions, open your mouth and tell him “Guy I like you, I don’t know where this might lead but I’d like to give it a trial if you’re willing to”
Don’t let anyone discourage you that it is the sole duty of a man to ask you out, it doesn’t make you cheap or lose, you just know what you want and how to get it, some men love women who have this kind of boldness, they appreciate you and see you as someone who won’t let them down because your feelings might be higher than theirs.
What are you waiting for? Take that bold step and be happy, and if it doesn’t work out don’t be discouraged you would definitely find the right someone someday.
My people, my name is bobby have been playing bet9ja for a longtime now and no matter the odds I choose still yet bet9ja will always find a way to cut my ticket. Please save me and I also need you best odds you like to play. Thank you
Sunnycliff: This is not good. When we should be getting computer savvy we are going back to analogue systems!
#negative change!
don't you no that the analogue system would have been better because there would be enough time for calculation and also cross checking of what you have done, but in the CBT you don't have time to re check
omhor: This dude seems confused here. Read the story again.
I read it and what makes you feel that am confused,(1) she gave her fone to an unkown (2) or did she forget that nobody be friend for jungle(3) if it where to be you would you have re turned it personally or you would have given to the pastor (4) the guy was so good to return the fone for her she could have said thank you
Towncrier247: Getting a partner these days has become easier and faster. You don't need to attend your friend's birthday bash with the intention of seeing the prettiest girl or the most handsome man in the group.
One of the ways people get hooked up is through social media. One could be scrolling down that Facebook page or Instagram admiring pretty and hunk faces and get a hook.
This is exactly what one man identified as Dee did.
The man found a pretty girl on Instagram, hit on her and within no days they were out on a date.
They fell in love and six months down the line they became husband and wife.
The man was respectful enough not to hurry the new acquisition into laying her. He waited, just like the Holy books advise, for the right time to get down on her.
But things turned ugly when the two got to bed to have intimacy. The lady hit the bathroom, had a shower and on returning, our good brother realised she wasn't the same girl he had has always dated.
snipesdam: Last weekend @ Imo River Oyigbo LGA part of portharcourt, a hunter who taps palmwine was checking his traps when this reptile tried to lay ambush to his dog and was gutted by the Hunter.
Later that day, most of the tipper drivers and sand diggers where smiling as they enjoyed with pots of pepper soup and palm wine.
Pic Story Below
men the rate way this big snakes day come 9ja no be here ooooooo, maybe dem day do rescission for obodo iybo nah why dem day come over
I honestly thought I would see cheaper rates like these N500 to get 1G N1000 to get 2.5G N2000 to get 5.5 G
This is what Nigerians need At Times like these and not what is posted above.
by guy bounce to the offside of life by using grand master of data, GLO RULES YOUR WORLD but now you have to rule their world N1k will give you 3.5gig N2k will give you infact check or dial *777# for more info
DONSMITH123: The UK on Monday appealed to Nigeria to abolish the death penalty, saying that capital punishment cheapened human life. The UK made the appeal in a statement issued by the British High Commissioner to Nigeria, Paul Arkwright, on the 2016 World Day against the Death Penalty.
Arkwright said that the British Government believed the death penalty had no place in the modern world and its use undermined human dignity.
According to him, there is no conclusive evidence of its deterrent value, adding that any miscarriage of justice leading to its imposition is irreversible and irreparable.
He explained that the past two decades had seen a significant rise in the number of countries that had abolished capital punishment.
“I am concerned therefore that Nigeria, a model for democracy in Africa, still retains the death penalty in its laws.
“In 2013 Nigeria carried out four executions, the first since 2006.
“At the time of the execution, all four individuals still had appeals to halt their executions, a violation of international law and I believe Nigerian law too.”
He said while no death sentence had been implemented since 2013, Nigeria had more than 1,000 prisoners on death row, the highest number of death sentences in Africa.
“In 2015, Nigeria recorded 171 death sentences. This year too, there have been death sentences handed down by Nigerian courts,” he said.
patriotic9jaboy: This is commendable. The corrupt judges homes have to been invaded and they must be locked up so as to serve as lessons to other judges not to undermine the powers of the executive. Too many corrupt judges hiding under the wig. They are hell bent on frustrating buhari's anti-corruption fight. The judges have never ruled in favor of buhari ever since be began several trials. Do you expect him to fold his hands and watch? How can a sane judge grant bail to the likes of Dasuki, Nnamdi kanu and El-zakzaky? Are the trio not a threat to national security? Buhari has to enforce his powers and forget democracy so he can clean up the rot in the system. Wike should not dare an order from above. Buhari obviously sent them and That is why he is the commander in chief of armed forces. He can get whatever he wants
Bia, bet why are you talking trash? This is a democratic era and not a military dispensation. Whatever crime they must have committed, let due process be followed. Simple.
enshi: My cousin holds HND distinction in engineering.. . Pls is it possible for her to enroll for her Masters in any university pls people help us with useful info
Princedaniel: 7. ETERNAL FRATERNAL ORDER OF LEGION CONSORTIUM
DEDY NA DEBT
Klansmen Konfratanity
The K.K.K. cult was started by five students at the University of Calabar, Cross River State in 1986 during the military era. It ideals were borrowed from a cult in California and bears another name known as ETERNAL FRATERNAL ORDER OF LEGION CONSORTIUM or KLANSMEN KONFRATERNITY (KK). Members worship a demon called “Ogor” as their god. Symbolized by a human skull, mostly that of a mad/insane man. Their beliefs and sayings: The affairs of a klansman before any other thing in life What concerns a klansman concerns all klansmen Status of other cult members are not considered or relevant Oath of secrecy abide to all members Peaceful man in a deadly mood, disagree to agree Members are referred to as: ”Klansman” or ”Klansmen”
ebosie11: Manchester United today celebrated Nigerian as she marks her 56th Independence celebration.Many Nigerians who are happy with the gesture took to social media and thanked the club.Below is what the club wrote and see how Nigerians reacted above......
'Happy Independence Day to all our fans in Nigeria!
We know you're a long way from Old Trafford but we feel your support every day. Thank you!'
that's nice, but why must 9ja sell themselves or dis grace themselves by those people saying A bag of rice is ......... And we don't have light and so on
Thefashionguru: Nollywood actress/producer, Mbong Amata, was the cynosure of all eyes as she stepped out in a jaw-dropping outfit to the #RokonSky Launch which took place in Hyde Park, London.
The mother of one flaunted her curves and some skin in an embellished off-shoulder corn yellow number while her natural hair swept up in a lovely hair do.
While some fans where absolutely in love with her outfit, some fans are screaming a big NOOO….
Acidosis: You see the problem I have with some single moms?
Your son is your life? what about your husband, no single word about him?
There's nothing inspiring about this, from my own point of view.
some people will say she is a good single mum, but come to think of it did she not heed to any advice? And also where is the fathEr of her son? And also hope she will not say that men are wicked? Because it is a man that put her in a mother way.
Romance › Re: Why Are You Still Single? by bobbybrown007: 9:40pm On Oct 21, 2016
