₦airaland Forum

misspatsy:
I don't manipulate anyone cos I don't need to,submission is power and can be used to control folks like you even without your knowledge. Its your type that form on social media but are asslickers to women in real life. You don't know what a responsible man is that's why you talk like this.
Such a bitter soul

whichever soul I am is none of your business. So the reason you actually submit to your husband is to control him. You see you're revealing who you truly are, a narcissistic self absorbed wife. Asslicker or not thats not your case to answer. They love it and submit more when I link their ass. Your guy should try linking your ass once. You need it!

misspatsy:
Lol....who mentioned gender equality now.Seems like someone dear to you hurt you that's why you sound like a scorned woman.
Take heart,it will pass.I respect my man because he is matured and well behaved,I don't wish to control him cos I need it not.
Go find a woman who would do same for you and stop crying

ODE who cares if you have a man or not. Why on earth will I be down coz a woman hurt me? I be amala for your eyes abi? I'm not like your man that you can manipulate like a teddy bear OK. A woman get to remain submissive to me. You try shit you get beat up. No chill! The sole purpose of Your idea of a responsible man is to turn him into a fool who can tell hi right from left. I don't buy into that.

misspatsy:
You are really pained oo

for your mind! You female want equality but can't stand beatings. Equality my yanshhole!! You want them to give you the free right to rule over your husband, freely cheat as you like and when you get treated the way you deserve, you can file for divorce and take away all your husband hustle for. An intelligent and responsible woman can work and still manage her home well. Only the thieves, cheats, whores and never do well wives would be asking for equality. Women begging men for equality, if we are really equal why do you have to beg for it Your role, existence, being, life world is to support!! Be proud of that! Like your great-grandmother were!

Mr sissy is so wrong on this one. Women need men way more than we need them. Forget about sexual urge or whatever. who tell you say I can't go without sex forever, only stupid irresponsible men can't control urges. The only reason I need women is to reproduce. Other than reproduction, they are USELESS!!! I repeat women are useless if not for reproduction sake!!! They can't even reproduce without men! Let's get real here Tell me what they have to offer other than reproduction and sex!! I don't need a woman to eat or take care of my home that's a fact

ariesbull:
Let's analyse it

Intellectually... North is far behind
Educationally... North is far behind
Technically... North is far behind
Technologically ..north is still far behind
Human capacity index ...north again is still far behind
Civilisation... Oh don't go there
Critical thinking ....north are basically aboki
Modern agricultural practise....north is still using crude equipment and doing nomadic livestock and seasonal agriculture
Environmentally..the desert has messed u up...you lavk the technical skill to fight desert as isreal did

We have given up on north....that's why we want out of our union with you


Can't you just see this glaring fact
So where is north ahead biko tell us

Don't cry for SS and SE.... They are ahead if you guys far far ...

but na dem don rule una longer than any tribe sha
Na dem get the wealthiest groups sha
And who told you they are far behind intellectually? The media abi? Your ignorant!
Don't believe everything you see or hear from the news......

queencalipso:
Oh!!!!!!!!!!!! I weep for my people. imagine the hate. battle for supremacy is killing the south and the north knows this; they capitalise on it and make you betray your selves. The northerners you call illiterates are wiser than the whole of you put together, with all your education and sophistication you allow your selves to be manipulated by a supposed illiterate. Shame on you all.

where education becomes ignorance

aiir2303:
ODE.......do u even know what playing the victim really is...i get it you just heard of the usage #sloppyHead

you are immature! The Internet does not give you reason to insult people anyhow you like. RoosterDrinker!! The ibo plays victim too much just like Africans and black race. They won't let bygone be bygone. Their forefathers fought the civil war and lost, agreement was reached, Nigeria never divided, all went home happy. Many years later the young ibos with history boiling in their minds plays victims and claiming Nigerians owed them. No one go try and divide Nigeria again. Anyone wey try am go die before his or her time

aliyuabbaashiru:
proud one

I know you know that I can't just believe you like that right

MrPresident1:
Lamentations 2:9

9 Her gates are sunk into the ground; he hath destroyed and broken her bars: her king and her princes are among the Gentiles: the law is no more; her prophets also find no vision from the Lord.



Her king and her princes are among the gentiles, they were all dispersed into the wilderness. The descendants of king David are in Nigeria because Judah is in Nigeria/West Africa.

Nigeria?? You are kidding right? Where did you get your information? And pls don't tell me it's the Bible coz the Bible never mention that Israelite are negros or Nigerians

2undexy:
are u thinking wah im thoughting....lol

I'm thoughting what you're thinking ooo

Who is a member of the Mason cult here

babasolution:
Why are u so against religion are u a satanist

no im not, im more interested in how how world religion, christian included, are at war with one another and still claiming to serve one God.

I just read something now it says both religion are from Abraham. But why kill one another. Are they in some kind of competition to please lovely father Abraham Are we just puppet in the hands of religion??

sennyaca:
Op don't mind these people ohhhh, she can actually study PSYCHOLOGY, the course requires basically Math, English, biology with any other 2 subjects...... How do I know? I studied PSYCHOLOGY

what job is there fo a psychologist??

Project400:
Would you love to develop your interest in tech gadgets in a classroom or a skill acquisition centre? Your decision to make something good out of life is commendable.

a skill acquisition Centre..... Is there one??

Project400:
It is true you made bad decisions, but now you've realized your mistakes. Truly, the best time was yesterday, but the next best time is today. What you give to life today, is what you get tomorrow.

The question is: what effort would you put today to correct the past mistakes? Are you willing to drop the guilt and shame, and forge ahead to achieve your aims?

Where do your interests lie? To go back to school or acquire a skill? Do you have sponsors?

What's the ideology behind your motivation/restitution? To reshape your purpose in life, or to compete with friends?
Remember, friends also contributed to the errors of yesterday at Federal Polytechnic, Ado?

You certainly will excel with a right attitude and approach to life.

I love tech gadgets. It's not to compete. I wanna be able to make something out of my life. To know have a worth because I really feel worthless

Many around me thinks I'm a cruel, insensitive and heartless dude even my very own mother and siblings. I mostly don't argue with them but I have my reason for being who I am. There are so many cause of hurt and pain in this world. People get hurt always, those around us and away from us. We hear bad news everyday and I believe it's not a new thing anymore. So whenever stuff like that happens I just wave it off. I know it'll pass like every other challenges. They always go away. Unlike some hypocrites I don't feel anyone's pain. I lend my help when I see you need help but if you think I'm going to shake my head, cry when you cry or spiral down depression because you have a problem, count me out. I don't worry about even a death of a relative. What I believe in is that when you put everything in place, things hardly go wrong but when it does, don't blame yourself it's not your fault or anybody else. My father was strangled on the neck by seven men. He died in excruciating pain. Normally I would seek revenge either personally or by law or what can be more painful than that? But why feel the pain, how would feeling the pain help. When you give in to grief it haunts you forever, the vacuum cannot be filled. It makes you want to fight back, go dark, normal justice can never be enough. The best you can do is snap out of it. Now that's easie

For a brother....So I passed out of secondary school when I was 15yrs I looked around for admission and at 18, got an offer to study estate mgt in fed poly ado ekiti. I really didnt find anything interesting about the course I wasted my time, mingle with bad guys thinking I was still young and making really bad choices. At the end of the day I didn't defend my project I dropped out of the school. It's been 4 years and I'm 22. I'm regretting all of my actions and would love to go back to school. But I'm really ashame I mean just staring over at 22 when my mates in secondary school are graduates and now working.

Rossikki:
You are so quick to latch on to science when it comes to criticizing other books, but your bible, which is the biggest piece of unscientific, unverified gobbledegook ever penned by man, you worship like a brainwashed cretin. There is more truth in the Lost Book of Enki than a billion bibles.

what truth? That some alien races came to earth some many years ago and implant their DNA to form a new specie of human? that there's no God, or the God we believe in might actually be an alien or somewhat. You see we have lots of scholars, brilliant scientist, philosophers, wise men of God, and many more extra ordinary people dedicating their lives searching hidden truths of everything. If zechariah sitchin the author of the Lost Book of Enki was right, this same people wouldn't have shut him up.

Rossikki:
It is a historical account and it doesn't claim to be "inspired by God" like your magic book whose authenticity you have never investigated, let alone "confirmed".

you see!!! You don't even know the history of the book yourself. Book of Enki was written by zechariah sitcin a man who lost touch of reality and start inventing crazy conspiracy. The book of enki isnt an ancient text it was written by a random guy like you. Scientists had to reject coz it lacks many things. They call it pseudoscience. Don't go around praying or fasting on a lost book of enki. It's a random fairytale story! Not different from PA fagunwa's ogboju ode ninu igbo Irumole. They are just tales

Ganjafama:
Ignorance is a disease. Go and read the Lost Book of Enki. He is not talking trash.

okay sir, that's good. Go and base your life, your existence on earth on a lost book of enki. Mr know it all. You shouldn't believe everything you read! Can you confirm the authenticity of the book?

Amberon11:
Lol.. ain't nobody selling their soul. I'll give you a call shortly.

this is my number I need your help too 08080098777 or you can just drop yours I'll call you myself

Rossikki:
Here Is Where The Bible ''God'' Comes From


The bible is essentially a rip-off of the ancient Sumerian texts. Many parts of the bible are verbatim copies of the Sumerian Epic of Gilgamesh. In these Sumerian texts, which existed at least a thousand years before Genesis was written, Yahweh and Satan (of the latter 'bible') are basically presented as two brothers, the extraterrestrials Enki and Enlil. Enlil, the older sibling, was the director of the creation of man by virtue of permission granted him by Anu, the chief ruler of the Annunaki, and father of both. Enlil gave the task to Enki, to create a 'slave race' with low IQ (intelligent enough only to obey orders), after the Annunaki population on earth began complaining about the hard labour in extracting gold, their main mission on earth. Enki, with his sister Nirhusag, used genetic engineering to create 'man', mixing their alien genes with those of earth hominids. The race created (human) was more intelligent than Enlil had dictated.

Enlil was Enki's older brother who was always wary of Enki's propensity to 'overdo things', in this case, fashioning a being that would equal the Annunaki in intellect and power. Enlil was opposed to this, and sabotaged Enki's plans. It was actually Enki who placed man in the 'Garden of Eden' ('Edin' in the Sumerian texts)

After Enlil threatened the new race (man) to obey him alone, Enki approached 'Eve' and told her to ignore Enlil, and 'eat of the fruit of life', so that she could gain intellect. She did, and gave Adam, who 'ate' as well. This enraged Enlil, who drove them out of 'Eden'. Enki provided them with clothes and food when they were thrown out. This is where the bible gets deceptive. In the bible they write that Yahweh did it all, ie put them in the garden, drove them out, and then clothed them and fed them when they'd been driven out. In the Sumerian epics, it was very different, as shown.

The bible and koran are essentially Enlilian documents, brandished by Enlil's followers, painted to make Enlil the 'good God' and Enki 'the evil one'. Meanwhile, it's actually the other way round, with Enki trying to free mankind from Enlil's holier than thou tyranny. Christianity and Islam are both Enlilian religions, with Enkian faiths largely relegated to the background, their followers having suffered historic defeats to Enlilian forces, and their beliefs now dismissed as evil, savage, and retrogressive (eg African, Asian, & Mexican religions).

But if there's anything we've learned from human history it is that BOTH Enki and Enlil will have their respective periods of dominance. Question today is, how long does Enlil have before Enki strikes back to reclaim what he considers his creation??

One thing you CAN be sure of is, Enki will not stand idly by while Enlilian religions and divisive philosophies cause the destruction of mankind. Before that occurs, Enki WILL intervene to stop it.

you're a king in the kingdom of trash sayers! A god in the world of nonsense talkers!!

Vinshu:
He is aware. Because I share them with him. As I am aware of any gift he receives, so is he aware about any gift I receive.

He is not so insecure to be concerned about whom I'm receiving gifts from because the person giving me the gift knows that there are no strings. I don't pretend to be single outside. Everyone around me knows I'm married. So whoever is giving me a gift especially men, and expecting something in return is in for a shocker.

aunty stop lying joor.... Who you dey mumu for hia he's in a for a shocker indeed!! It's either you've gone omotola jolaade on your husband or he's a natural mumu if he can't ask you about these cheerful givers because he doesn't wanna be tagged insecure. And I personally think you're a proud woman. And all proud women definitely sleeps around. You do too.

kennysteve77:
Arguably, some say the Nigerian Police is not as efficient as their counterparts in developed countries, I still wonder how they make even the most ruthless criminal to wet his pants when apprehended. I think those guys deserve some credits for the incredible way they turn wicked criminals to comedians during interrogations. Below are few of the hilarious confessions of those criminals in fear of men of the Nigerian Police Force:

1. If I'm allowed to go now, I will never rob again in my life

2. I was the only nice one in our gang. I have never killed before, I often fight my gang members telling them that what we are doing is not good.

3. I am ready to tell you anything you want to know. What if the officer wanted to know the velocity of the moon round the sun?

4. My mummy is hypertensive and must not hear that I am a robber. If she sees this on TV, she'll die...

5. I already planned to stop after this last operation not knowing that I would be caught. Officer please help me!!!

ADD YOURS...

I'm surprised you find sad plight of men amusing. And don't defend your actions by saying they're criminals and deserves it. Finding the pains of others amusing is a prove that you're impaired psychologically. They, being criminal or not, you don't have a right to enjoy or relish in their sufferings. Or else yours is on the way! Read, learn, be wise. This message is specially for you. Be wise.

Mindfulness:
I absorb such moments and I remember them again and again because it makes me feel good.



You don't have to do it here but try to remember more. Who were the people involved? What did they say? What wear you wearing? And most importantly, how exactly did you feel? Confident, proud, happy, joyful? The sheer memory has the power to make you feel good NOW and again and again and that's what EVERYBODY wants: to FEEL GOOD. And the secret to happiness are happy thoughts.

I wish someone would have told me that when I was 22. I needed much longer to figure that out.



We ALL have had them. It's up to us whether we want to recall them in our memory and feel bad or replace unpleasant thoughts with happy ones.
Remember that you your happiness depends on your attitude (=way of thinking). Master the Art of Positive Thinking and life will become marvelous. I promise.

pls does it mean I'm medically impaired if I seem not to remember any emotional feelings from the past? The way you describe the event with your little cousin.... I can't do that. You remember every details. I can't express myself well here. Can you give out your phone number? I love to speak with you on phone. I want to hear you teach me what to do.

shonasleek:
Kiss and tell folks, hate them with passion.
So it happened, how does it change the condition of the country... Small boys everywhere!!!

lol you know you like it

Mindfulness:
Sincerely you do but you can't think of any now. Huge difference.

I am really interested in a good memory of yours. It doesn't have to be anything big. Come on! Give me one!

Let me start, my recent best memory is the moment my three-old-niece told me that I am her favorite aunty just because I promised to buy her an ice-cream. Her eyes lit up and she hugged me tightly and wouldn't let go and told me how much she loved me just because of this ice-cream that she is not supposed to eat every day but that she loves so much. And then she took my hand and we went to buy ice-cream and it was a beautiful day, warm and sunny but not too hot and the air was so fresh and I noticed the different flowers that are flourishing so beautifully right now. And I took a deep breath and the child was jumping up and down happily next to me and we were singing a happy song and she made me laugh because sometimes she twists words. And the person who sold the ice-cream was very nice and friendly and was chatting with the child and I appreciated her kindness and the smile on everyone's face. And then we went to the park and met a mother with her little beautiful daughter and the four of us ....


I could go on and on.


It is the appreciation of such things that makes life beautiful.

I admire the way you remember every details and moment, must be a really great moment for you. I'm 22 now and the best moment I think I had was when I won the neatest boy in school and that was a long time ago. I felt really good that day. I've had really unhappy past anytime I look back and realized the bad decisions we've made as a family.