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Congrats to them.

Alphamales are so pained and don't like this news.

Slayqueens are smiling at this news.


Alphamales - 0
Slayqueens - 4.

If only men will learn to stay off from the wives of thier fellow men.
There will be peace in the whole land.

Anyway, E be like say no side win this time.
Babalawo wey hypnotise pastor wife die.
wife wey dey hypnotise dey police custody.

My verdict is............

Slayqueens - 0.
Alphamales - 0.

Righthussle:
Marriage no be do or die affair. Dem no born you with anybody. I always tell my daughter say that man wey decide to marry fit still decide to leave you and heaven no go fall. Don't be carried away by "i love you" "i love". Be financially independent before you go into Marriage because na hunger and shame go kill you when that your sweetheart go leave you.

Be like Funke Akindele, build your own world and share it with your Husband, and know that he may one day leave your world.

Man marry you today no mean say him must dey with you till him die.

Wow. you deserve an accolade jare

paulolee:
story for d gods, who the kingsmen help?? so after all this suffer, I hit big n move to dubai or ibiza go flex, i would still return and greet my kingsmen because dm contribute moni pay flight ticket for me abi?
I don't Gv a F about d kingsmen, even if I die abroad or anywhere in Nigeria. I still dnt gv a F about were dm go take me to..
u talking asif its a must to be buried in ur home town, asif home town are mortuaries n asif dey are spiritual or heavenly blessings attached to that act..

Remain blessed my brother.

Don't mind that guy feel entitled. Na by force to associate ni?

Splitmind:
He should have married her instead and saved himself from all this shame.

So, he defiled a minor and make it up by marrying her?

And, you didn't for once think of what the girl want.

This is why cases like this will keep happening.

Hole that a Nigerian man cannot devour does not exist.

Be it underaged ooo
Be it mad woman ooo
Be it a stone that has hole in it ooo
Be it cow ooooo( the abokis are guilty of this one)
Be it their househelp ooo.
They now even sleep with thier fellow man.

Tufiakwa...!!!! Nigerian men will always rub you in the mud.

Here to read comments that will motivate me ooo.

i set up a small biz with the plan of adding my salary monthly to it. but, mehn, is not easy sometimes.

seborrhic:
But why would they turn off their car in the first place?
This is common with some Nigerian drivers.
In the midst of a traffic snarl and disagreement with other drivers,they just turn off their engines and deliberately block traffic from both sides and dare anyone to do their worse.
Now they are trying to blackmail the PRO.
It's an arrestable offence.
To show their foo lishness,when they later knew who he is and were begged by the DPO to apologize,they hurriedly did.Why didn't they stand on asserting that they hadn't done anything wrong and would be ready to go to court?

God bless you dear. they actually obstructed traffic, so why playing the victim card when they actually broke the law?

Fiscus105:
Attention Seeking Association.


Madam, thinking globally and say/act locally. There is power in tongues, it can make and it can destroy.

So many of your mates have learnt tailoring, hairdressing, mechanic among others, but for you, you keep ranting on one social medium to another, seeking for cheap and destructive fame.

I think you should learn from Portable, on how human being should learn how to talk little biko.

All this sermons untop say person self-service? if she come f. v. ck Na wetin go come happen?

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I weep for my country.!!

but, wait, is it that the hospital don't have standby Generator that's big enough to power the hospital.?

Our lackadaisical attitude to government work in this country is heartbreaking Sha.

AudioMonkey:

Just a bragging story hidden under the guise of setting the record straight.
I remember way way back then, watching one of his movies where he was wrapping gloves and practicing boxing. I only thought it was just for the camera, never knew he learnt boxing by heart.
Such enthusiasm in telling his story since he won the street fight. He enjoyed the show and would live to wish for such drama another day.

When you're a God fearing wicked man, you don't go about confronting or bullying people, you only create what is called setups, for those stubborn pikins wey no dey hear word. Once they trespass, you carry out the act of law abiding brutality.
All these boxers who are no longer in active service are looking for whom to devour. Sparring can never be like real life fights. They still have that restless fists for real fight. Avoid them for your own good. .
Don't say, he's just a retired amateur boxer.

I still remember Michael Tyson giving it wotowoto to that trespasser on the plane.

. which one is God fearing wicked man?

This was how a Lady beat conducter and driver silly in Lagos.

I have never been so shocked in my life.

jmoore:
Abacha is a saint compared to Buhari and his ministers.

walahi. Na true you talk.

GRAMMARJAMES:
Good Morning Nairalanders...

I woke up with a happy heart,. and Guess what?? I've been promoted to my Boss position (HOD) while my boss has also moved up to (MP).

I've decided to send an appreciation letter to her + a super Hamper.

Check out the content of the message below,

Dear Boss,
How time flies, just like yesterday, I could remember that year, 2016 it was! when you gave me a very important career advice “” It’s better you accept the pay like that for a start than going home to start all over””. This was after my Service year with COMPANY ABC. Here I am today, living up to my career dreams, with your help. It’s an incredible work experience to work under a boss whose skills and talents are notable. I get to learn something new from you every single day! Thank you for showing me how a great leader leads, I am so proud to be led forward by a person who is not only industry-renowned but is also an amazing boss, a mother of three looking sweet 16. Saying "thank you" is not enough for me to express how grateful I am for your support over the years. You are my mentor, and everything I have achieved to date is because of you.
I am thrilled to be among the ‘Junior staff’ whom the management recognized productive, thus a promotion that comes with an incredible salary increment. I appreciate the role you played in helping me get there. Its only normal and fair for me to replicate same by making sure your MP dream is achieved. The road may be rough, target may be increased, pressure may mount but I want you to know that I will always be there to making sure all these are achieved. I promise to work hard and smart to maintain the confidence and trust you have shown in me over the years. I consider myself truly honoured to have you as my boss.
From the dept of my heart I say Thank you Ma.!
Cheers….

NB
she hasn't received her promotional letter yet, but its crystal clear sooner or later, she will as she has already been taking the role of acting MP.
For those seeking for promotion in their respective place of work, I pray God Grant your heart desires, for those still believing God for their dream Job, I pray from this moment, your Job locate you in Jesus Mighty Name.

Amen to your prayer. Congrats. and, what you just wrote there is exactly what I will write for my boss one day. not all bosses are bad truly.

vickydevoka:
I pity the wife. If the man kill himself. She go knw say husband better pass brothers n sisters. Nobody go give u Money constantly. Them go tire. Woman use Ur brain

say this too when your wife bites off your nose.

What nonsense money are you talking about?

no be if you dey alive before you go dey talk about money.

Jostoman:
I love you Tiwa Savage, Don't mind those APC miscreants supporters above me they are always in serious pain wherever they see you smiling. Your happiness and Smiling is really giving me joy.

You love her just the way I love her.

she can never do wrong in my eyes.

HopeNeverDies:
Damnnn!!!! It’s not a Crime but Apparently, Some men do not like it when their wives or Gf got a job paying higher than his. It’s about respect of choice. Same way, if definitely you’ve had the opportunity to use iPhone 13 and your boyfriend still uses 7+, and u decided to settle for 6+ or 6s+ , it’s not that you’re stupid or some, but you just chose respect over your relationship....


Damnnnn!!! I feel his feelings

Thunder fire that his feelings.

JovialJune:
So many fools.on the internet space,

The wife cooked, sh stood up to her responsibilities,

Since he was once a bachelor and can feed himself, why can't he feed his cravings himself? Why wait for the wife to do it?

Since he is married, he will not be served whatever he wants, he must put his wife's feelings and convenience into consideration before he requests for anything so as not to be seen as selfish, marriage is not a master slave arrangement

Men will not be respected because they are men with ego, respect is reciprocal, respect is earned, you will only receive what you give out.

In this part of the world, you black men are the dregs of the world, you see yourselves as king, and the result of your stupidity is a corrupt country, terrible economy, insecurities, kidnapping, Yahoo, fraud, skull mining, cannibalism etc, you black destroy good things, yet still slaves to the western countries,

The horseband is wayward, the side chick has always existed before this incident,

Next time, since the foolish man is not dumb, he should open him mouth and tell his wife what he craves to eat, and she should not apologise when she is not wrong.

Na the woman wey come online come dey ask question I blame.

I swear, if a man disrespects me in that manner, that will be the last day I will cook for him. he will forever eat from that his side chick till the day he will die.

come on, what's the worst thing that can even happen in marriage sef that has happen before?

marry his sidechick? Na new thing.?
or, we divorce? Na still new thing.?

wetin dey shack Nigerian men sef? Na some ladies dey tolerate nonsense Sha.

dboY1123:
Thanks sir.. It is very hard

Eya, so sorry about your mum.

if you are a Christian/Muslim, make it your prayer point, Ask God for strength to bear this loss, he will do it.

it was what helped me when I lost my sister.

Gottiii:
I still can’t believe my elder brother is planning to send me a Es330 (2006) from the United States.

I have told him several times i can’t drive such car, I am already imagining the look of people when they see me. I mean people wey dey my area. People for area know say I be big boy.

I don tell am several times say I no need car wey dey less than yr 2017. The money dey but very stingy. I sure say na the wife dey give am wrong advice.

The car clean sha, full option but below my level. I go just sell am.

Abeg, make una advice me.

I just want to ask, how did your brother's wife enter into this discussion of your brother's stingyness.


you type will keep blaming women for every of his mistake till the day you die. mugu

Advice kill you there. monkey

ProfGday:
You can't have these kind of money without little looting here or there... We heard about how this Lady dated Banbagida & Abacha.

While her type are busy making money upon money, your type is busy hearing of who dated who.

idle talks..!!

SARSCoV2:
I knew dude was another 2.0 version of Efe

If you don't have a vision while poor, you can never have a vision when rich.

You just be directionless like gas molecules.

The guy cooked his way to top in bbn.

I wish he will just focus on opening eateries and restaurants.

Just see nonsense.

I no do again, Na by force??

they claim they are trophies that should be won, and, when you say don't want trophy again.. they go wacko and become nuisance.

I only feel for the woman he pushed into trouble.

walahi, the woman for stab stab his nyash plenty times join too.

hope4nigeria:
When you say I don't need man's nonsense, some things are better leave the way God created them, check well, every single woman or every women staying without partner have mental issue

Jeeezzzzzzz.!!!

seriously?

so, women with partners don't have mental issue?

in my facility, I can't count the number of married women we do admit for mental breakdown due to abuse from their partners.

so, just wish Genevive quick recovery and spare us this sermon of partner this or that.

BabaIbo:
Marriage they say is a beautiful thing but if you ask many men out there what marriage is to them or what marriage has brought to them or will they get married if they are given chances to rewind time, their responses will be in negative form or NO.

That same step(marriage) is the next step to be taken by me but I have one unanswered question. I am a young man in my 30s, currently free from any dating relationship and about to begin my search for a life partner, but I like being cleared/well-informed about something before going into it.

Pardon me for this long note I am about to dish out and the question I will be asking at the end.

For sometimes now, people around me have been telling me I am next in line to get married, some telling me to ensure I bring a responsible lady home and all that.
My mom do tell me she won't rush me to get married but as an observant person you will notice she really wants me to bring a woman(wife) home.

My dad told me sometimes ago that if I don't have a lady, that maybe they should search for a young good girl for me early next year.
My younger ones are expecting me to take that step so they can start planning on theirs and all that.

All these are for their own good or benefits, I am not saying they don't deserve it but I have been trying to get a tangible reason to get married i.e what is the SPECIAL thing(benefit) it will add to my life, I am the one getting married not them.
"Na me wan wear the shoe."

A bikeman, popularly known as Okadaman that do come to my place told me story about himself and big opportunities that marriage has made him miss.

In addition to his words and those I have heard from others, the fear of things going south, disappearance of peace of mind and all that are other factors.

Presumed(anticipated) benefits which are not as they are expected to be again are)

CHILDREN: Children can be gotten without marriage, for example: C. Ronaldo, Mikel, and others did that and they are doing well.

GOOD MEALS: Foods can be gotten from outside or prepared by the man or any other person that is not a wife for the man. Moreover, how many of them can cook well like our mothers? I'm a better cook than most ladies I have come across.

COMPANIONSHIP: That is an overstatement in our present society. It is even more noticeable in dating relationship than in some marriages these days.

SEX: That is the cheapest service/thing to get after air and water(clean water is even more expensive). Moreover many marriages are lacking sexually. It is worse if the man has high sex drive aka high libido.

SUPPORT: I don't want to go there because it is an open fact that instead of getting support, the man is being leached/milked of the one he has.

HOME: I can still remember how some married men will pack their cars at the junction, stay inside their cars for long before driving home, some go to the bar/relaxation centers to chill before going home, some don even like going home. You all know why?

With all these in mind, I want to ask this question that has been bothering me because I need to sort it before taking the step...

Now, my question is "WHAT IS THE BENEFIT OF MARRIAGE TO A MAN IN THIS OUR TIME?"

PS: I used this image because what marriage did to the man in the picture is in the open

Since you have listed everything and realise you can get them without being married.. Then, Don't marry nah.

please, I beg you, Don't marry. Shikena..!!

RedCentaur:
I just had migraine while reading this.


Cohabiting for 7yrs? Birthing children without doing as little as paying your dowry?

The elders are coming.

why are you having migraine?

must everyone do this marriage thing?

I as a woman, I want only kids from a man and no marriage, shikena.

Jeon:
WELL I HAVE NOTHING TO SAY...
SINCE THE ANIMALS WITH FRONT TAIL CLAIMED TO BE POLYGROUNDNUT IN NATURE..

you are mouthed

NijaDueprocess:
Please I needed help to evict a stubborn tenant. After I left the country and handed over my property to a lawyer, a tenant has refused paying his rent for almost two years without reason. The matter has been in court for almost two years without success. The court keeps adjourning the case. The tenant refusal to pay the rent has pushed other tenant to start owing too. Please kindly suggest the best way out of this situation.
Location of property: Abuja.

Tell him you want to renovate your house and he should look for a place to move temporarily.

he will definitely refuse, then, on a good day, when he least expects it, carry carpenter to go pull the roof of the house out.

that way, he will be forced to pack out, and other tenants will behave.

Some people deserve ment

To be sincere, we need people like Wike to take over from Bubu and clean his mess.

Proudlyomonna:
Death to the bastard rapist.
But biagodu you dis yeye girl,so the only thing wey you live for na to dey look for rape news upandan
Hmm na wa oo, wehrey too much for this forum sha �

if your gender weren't on raping spree, she wouldn't have news to post.

walahi

the male gender is a threat to humanity.

what manner of atrocity will this gender not commit?

tufiakwa

instead of blaming op or his wife. why not we nlanders come together and contribute 100naira each to support him and his family.
we are more than 3,000 people on this forum.

so, let's say.., #100*3,000=300,000. (it will go a long way to take this family out of suffering).

This country is damn too hard everybody, so, whenever we can help, let's not hesitate to help.

If someone can take op's case, investigate it to ascertain if everything he said it's true. then, I'm sure #100 each won't be a big deal for us here.

Let's show a little kindness.