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Do you mean N50,000 or N5,000?

Price pls. I am interested

I feel your pain. Have you done a car scan? A lot of Abuja mechanics are not sincere at all.

I like the spec of cars you advertise. Well done.

soloehis:
Why is the back plate number different from front one? The back is commercial (red) and the front is blue

Sharp guy!!!

Anger is a feeling of resentment or annoyance towards somebody or about something. It is a normal human emotion. However, when it gets out of control and becomes destructive, it can lead to severe problems at work, in your personal relationships, and in your overall perspective of life. Anger tends to control us so much and turn the best of days into our worst nightmare. It is a sudden ill-feeling that leaves the victim devastated and distraught if it is not managed properly.

People have various degrees of anger management issues. While some people have been able to manage theirs considerably, some people have not been able to put this ill feeling under control.

How do people handle anger?

I have interviewed a few children about the way they or their parents manage anger. A child told me that he was watching an Arsenal match with his dad and one particular player having missed a lot of chances of scoring goals, his dad just brought out the DStv remote and smashed it on the ground.

Another child told me that her mom had a call on her smartphone and while her younger brother was trying to help the mother get her expensive phone (from her handbag) across to her, mistakenly dropped it on the floor and the phone practically fell apart. This act infuriated the mom so much that she spanked the poor boy badly that the boy had to cry his heart out and go to sleep afterwards.

A teenager told me his dad just goes to sleep anytime he is angry while another teenager said her dad practically deprives her and her siblings from taking part in some activities they usually enjoy.

I have interacted with people who just complain about everything around them that after a while, i knew i had to withdraw from such people to prevent learning such attitudes.

Some spouses take pleasure in yelling at each other to vent their feelings of frustration, but does it really make them feel better? No, it certainly doesn't.

Here are some anger management tips you may wish to practice.

a) Think before you speak.
In the heat of your fury, always think before you say anything. It is better not to say anything you will regret much later.

b) Express your anger when you are calm
When you notice you are not 'boiling' anymore, you are free to express your concerns about the issue and get it thrashed out.

c) Go for exercise
Recurrent anger issues could be due to a build up of stress and disappointment. You may need to go for a walk or go to the gym to do some good exercise and calm your muscles.

d) Take a timeout
Adults need their own timeouts just as kids. You may need sometime out of your normal routine to read a novel, visit a friend, go watch a movie etc.

People have different temperaments and this affects the way they handle issues. Anger needs to be controlled as soon as it develops within us.This will help us make reasonable decisions we will not regret later on.

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Please add me up in your next class. Am interested. 08034533668

dominique:
Good morning all, I was able to speak with Chucky234 yesterday. He said there's no internet network where he is, that's why he has not been posting here. He told me he will refund NexTrend once he gets the money back from the owner of the vehicle. I asked him why can't he refund him with his own personal money and get his money back from the owner. He said that he may eventually resort to that but he wants to get hold of her he owner first. He wants to assure Nextrend that he will get his money back and he sort everything out once he returns. I expect him to post on this thread later this week.

Well done, Dominique! Chucky234, you can do it. Yes you can. God will enable you to do it. The future is brighter for you. Well done!!!

Please someone should answer this question without insults to anyone. As a guy, can you meet a lady on a dating site, propose marriage to her without planning to meet her to know if both of you are compatible. This OP's case na arrangee marriage. On the criminal aspect of the deal, Chucky234 has questions to answer sha.

Chucky234, i beg you for God's sake. Come and settle him. We nairaland members will rate you high if you pull this off. Collect his account number. Start paying back. No matter the grievance both of you can work it out. Both of you need to shift grounds without involving the police. Peaceful conflict resolution is encouraged.

Philadelphia:
Has anyone noticed that since the OP posted this, Chucky234 has not advertised any vehicle for sale. This is how scams work. The moment the con artist is discovered and his scheme exposed, they go into silence for life.

Are you sure he didn't register a new moniker? I will be surprised if he didn't.

If you are relocating, Abuja is a very decent place to live. Great schools for your kids. Lagos is a No-No cos of crime and very serious traffic management issues.

I feel this is the conclusion of the matter. Nextrend should collect this car since he erroneously did not inspect the car himself or send a 3rd party to confirm the state of the car. You cannot trust the judgment of an online car dealer to inspect the car, pay and deliver. That can only happen in heaven. I am not sure Nextrend will win this case if he goes to court. Though its a costly mistake, buyer should take the car, sell it. At most he will lose like N250,000. I have lost such an amount by buying a lemon about 9 years ago, i moved on. I have recovered fully. Ignorance is not an excuse for your error Nextrend though i feel your pain. Period!!!

Nnamdichidi is a car dealer i met online. We have discussed on phone severally and i know he has been into cars for long. Interested buyers are encouraged to verify before making any purchase. I am not an accomplice please.

2016Deity:
Be careful

The guy is real! nnamdichidi is real.

NnamdiChidi:
First body,alloywheel,auto gear n fac ac.Contact is 08035426091.Price is 700k

Interested.

Bros, i love this your ride. Chiebube.

Any nairaland car dealer that knows the whereabouts of chucky234 should please send nexTrend a PM in the next 48 hours. If you also know chucky234's family members, kindly give nexTrend the address through PM/e-mail. This is to ensure this fraudster Chucky234 is arrested and detained as soon as full scale investigation commences by the police. Once again, thank you all for your co-operation.

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Which type of ATF did you use to service your transmission before your trip? Abro, seahorse or type IV? Please be sincere.

Mubz:
Hello, Why don't you sign up on www.wesabi.com to increase your customer base. It's entirely free to sign up. WESABi is a nigerian platform where people who needs services meet people/firms who render different services too.
I'm sure you will be glad you did.. Al the best

Many thanks.

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What type of engine oil do you use? 20W50 or 5w30?