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KreativGenius:
Stop borrowing pipu money simple. When they come asking, tell them your funds are tied in investments

Thanks Brother

tayo60:
Pele o eleyinjuanu! Sit down there dey lament until they suck you dry. Why will they pay back? Because everyone sees you as a philanthropist. Pls, can I also get 5k from you?

Hmmm..I seriously will start turning a blind eye now

The funniest thing is that WHEN I NEED HELP ...I DON'T SEE PEOPLE TO HELP ME!!

there was a time I misplaced my Scientific calculator...I trekked the whole hostels..rooms... nobody could spare his for Me..not even the ones I've helped!

People don't render me help when I'm in need..but I am always too quick to assist

olaleks007:
Walai if bank employ u





Just come back here and give me ur address

I seriously Wont work In a bank..I get moved easily

LordKO:
Your ability to differentiate and maintain balance between gullibility and compassion will automatically solve your problem.

1)A guy was crying seriously sometimes that I am the only one he could turn to because the school fees portal would be closing today and that his money would be coming from home in few weeks time..

I turned him down..buy he kept asking till I gave him part "5" ...till today...the guy hardly pick my call sef

LivinaPatrick:
You're not serious,how can you be shy to ask for your money...hunger never comes knocking

1)I do think about the friendship and relationship

Like I know,going the tough way to claim the money will means the end of the friendship..that's why I am always Giving the Dudes chances maybe they will change and pay back

Learnstuffs:
My brother, are u a Microfinance bank or ATM?

Hmmm

Seriously..it's time I start acting tough

serenegroup:
when next another person comes to borrow from u. give him or her the list of people owing u and the amount, tell them that whenever any of them pays back you will loan them. it works for me. Be wise next time with your little funds. people are not smiling and the town is dry.

Thanks boss..I think I will try this

1239876543210S:
I don't mean a prostitute. I mean someone who you just met and haven't invested anything financial in her yet.

I am funny...and I do know how impress gals on our first meeting!

I hope I won't turn down the people that are really in need!
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My name Is ? and because of what I faced while growing I was able to Earn little to compliment the 3k my mum do give me monthly as an undergraduate..and let me remind you that I am really Nice..I am compassionate..and anytime anybody is in any problem I do feel the problem like it's mine!

The issue right now is that it seems people around me. School friends,Mates,everybody around me just discovered it because they are sucking me DRIED daily! With their usual financial needs...and them claiming life and death with the needs!

Like daily .daily! And I am not rich at all..it's just that I can have 0.0k just to give my last "K" to help someone with them promising to pay back! And now I am seriously HURT! because I no longer trust people words!

Since March a gal has been owing me 15k
A guy since June is owing me 5k (For his school fees)
My friend is owing me 4k since July(I borrowed him when he claimed he is not having cash and that he would be giving me back the second day)
A gal Begged me to borrow her 2k to get a form in a ushering agency and that she would pay back since!

This past weeks...the request has skyrocketed! Just yesterday I borrowed 4k out to 2diff guys!!

The issue now is that MOST don't pay back!! I am hurt because I am always broke and I only help just because I don't like someone being Helpless!

Lol..and I can't ask them for my money because I am shy when it comes to money matters!

WORDWORLD:
Fykes, every society runs on choice of ideals. If a society chooses to run on DISHONESTY for example what do you expect will be the fruits of such an EVIL TREE. Ponder over the quote below:

"It appears to me that the causes of the last Civil War lie embedded in the nether realms of such degrading and depraving evils as unemployment; mass ignorance; endemic and debilitating diseases; low productivity; abuse and misuse of power, bribery and corruption; favouritism and nepotism ethnocentricity and tribalism; much poverty and much discontent." Chief Obafemi Awolowo.
- Address to The Nigerian Trade Union Congress (1970): Reference, In Voice
of Courage, 1981.

Let me enumerate Nigeria's choice of EVIL IDEALS that has been running Nigeria as highlighted by one of her Eldest Statemen who fought for her so called Independence so as to make clear to you.

1. Ethnocentricity and Tribalism
2. Bribery and Corruption
3. Favouritism and Nepotism
4. Abuse and Misuse of power

The above are still the ideals running Nigeria today and WORSE.

Yet still ponder on another quote below.

"We have in our midst about 1,000 rich Nigerians who in the past cleverly rigged the sources of the wealth of our nation, and we are now tactically poised to oligopolise all the munificent avenues of riches that may supervene now and in the future. The rich, and the highly-placed in business, public life, and government, are running a dreadful risk in their callous neglect of the poor and
down-trodden." Chief Obafemi Awolowo.
- Address delivered to Ondo House of Assembly (/980): Voice of
Wisdom, 1981.

TELL ME WHAT DO YOU EXPECT TO BE THE BY-PRODUCT SUCH EVIL IDEALS WHICH KEEPS RUNNING NIGERIA? PROSPERITY?!!!

54% of Nigeria's Youth are UNEMPLOYED according a statistical analysis by National Bureau of statistics, 2012.

Today by mere observation we can say 70% are without jobs and so many who use to have lost their jobs. There is this MOST WONDERFUL STORY i will love you to read about standing up for one another by Born2conquer. One may be employed today and get married but along the line lose your job. If you are not married to a woman of SUBSTANCE, your life is finished and your family RUINED.

www.nairaland.com/4144892/mum........my-everything-everything#61914909

Thanks Brother ..Big blessing fall on you Sir

WORDWORLD:
Mrdickhead There is this MOST WONDERFUL STORY i will love you to read about standing up for one another by Born2conquer. One may be employed today and get married but along the line lose your job. If you are not married to a woman of SUBSTANCE, your life is finished and your family RUINED.

www.nairaland.com/4144892/mum........my-everything-everything#61914909

Thanks brother!

Seriously !

I dont have sex with prostitutes!

So why should I give money to you because I wanna have sex with you?

WORDWORLD:
Hmm................ just checked out this WONDERFUL thread again and i wasnt surprised that it wont be patronized nor aided by the modes so that it trends for people to learn the BEAUTY OF COMPASSION. The COMMON GOOD as to our humanity is not so much a PRIORITY in today's world. If it were to be SENSUAL THREAD it gets all the fuel it needs to trend. A WORLD THAT HAS LOST ITS SENSIBILITY FOR SENSUALITY. WHAT A SHAME!!! Born2conquer have you finally been paid by that firm you complained about. And kindly extend my greetings to your mum she is indeed a WOMAN OF SUBSTANCE. (I am going to save this thread its a TREASURE).

I've not been paid!

And I got a call from company that I can't call them out because there was no written agreement between us..and that calling them out would be a sort of publicity to them!

I've left them with my 150k

CONTINUATION

My mum is a type of woman who loves partying before Dad lost his job,she loves jewelleries... every week then my mum was always on one party or the other.but everything changed when my Dad lost his Job..

She gladly Left parties alone..and took the home as her party every Saturday,she will rather use the 4k for Aso Ebi To buy Rice,Garri, and foods at home..and use the 1k compensation tips she was supposed to give the event organisers to Buy books or balance any one of us School fees!

When she started Paying 4 of us School fees,it was so much heavy and I had to leave my private school to go to a public school..

And while all these storms were going on mum is always on her best Smile outside,in her family,and dad Family and it got to an extent people starts thinking dad still have money..lol ..dad monthly pension is still 12k though

Seriously...I am forever grateful for her..and because of that immediately I left secondary school I started working and creating my own jobs.


Seriously...Mum is the real reason our house is still together because sometimes DAD do talk out of frustration sometimes..and he is jealous though "MUM Bo-Bo, why are you doing this to me,is it because am jobless? And through out the rant..mum would be calm and she will still be the one to beg him.. though dad too will apologise later!

Even though Mum is the landlady..do you know who stands as the Landlord at Meetings? DAD!

If you see how mum succumb HER CAR to my DAD..you gonna think it was my DAD that bought the Car for her..(people are actually saying that)

I just can't list all out..

So anytime I receive my monthly allowance from home (3k ) on campus..I do accept it with tears.. because I know she's trying!

Her salary is always long spent even before she accepts it!

She's a woman..she's a woman...she's a woman

And above all..she maintained her body,mum would be clocking 50 next year but she still looks 25! No cream,no bleaching,bo wrinkles.. corporate dress..

Will I ever get a gal that will give me peace as my mum?
A wife as good as my mum will transform 1 naira to MILLIONS!

You will see her telling dad not to worry about us but he should use the money to start s business maybe it will work out....lol..even though the BUSINESS would Fail eventually..

Dad left civil service as a BOSS..And he used his best part of his years to serve the government

After seeing what marriages looks like on NL I have no option than to appreciate my mother..
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Read and follow me!
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Firstly,in my home , financial responsibilities was been shared by my Mum and Dad before Dad lost his job 10years ago..and they were doing it happily..Mum do pay my school fees and my younger sister while Dad was paying that of my Elder sister and Brother ..and it became a norm..each kids knowing who to Meet for his/her needs.

And should I tell you that..my mum is no more being treated like a daughter in-law in my dad's family house? I don't know how she did it but she became a daughter to the extent that all my DAD siblings do communicate with her like they will do with their sisters..and you see my Mum being in charge of Every family parties..

Right now..my Dad elder sisters are now very much old( 60s/70s) and do you know who their Gist partner is? My MUM!

Well.. something shocking happened in the year 2007 when my dad lost his job!! No house yet,NO NOTHING..with 4 KIDS! and mum was just in her level 9 then!

My mum took up the mantle..but left the leadership position for my dad! Mum started paying for 4 kids needs with that of my dad,housing,Electricity,clothings,feeding..and the good thing about it is that NOBODY OUTSIDE OUR HOME KNEW MY MUM WAS THE ONE PAYING! like people expected our house to crumble,marriage to fall after dad lost his job or mum to go pompous! But she got more to Dad..always reassuring him of a better tomorrow!

My mum got a land..Bought it in Dad and hers Name.. when it was time to pay for the land money...He gave the money to Dad to pay.. (people outside thought Dad bought the land)

Every steps of the house building was left in dad's Care..and Mum will send money to Dad for the house building.. Contactors and others were relating to Dad!

And that act was what made dad so comfortable living with us!

I seriously can't list how humble and caring my mum is!

We were left to suffer after dad lost his millions/ job but this is 10 years after.. we're yet to beg for a single naira outside !

The marriage is still very much strong !
My Elder sister is now a Banker!
My Elder brother is done with his HND!
and I am about to be through with my studies and I am doing quite okay
My younger sister is still in a Private secondary School!

All expenses being Paid by MUM without anybody OUTSIDE knowing! Even though she nags sometimes at home but she never complain to anybody outside the four wall of our home.

She got a CAR recently and all wasn't behind my dad knowledge.
She gave my Dad support when he was at his weakest!

Note: MY DAD FELL AT THE VERY TOP...AND HE LOST ALL HIS INVESTMENT AFTER HE WAS SACKED!

I love you mum..for bringing us this far without complaining! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!

Note:She is the first Child of her own family with 14siblings..and daily you will see her attending to her siblings children's needs..

They thought my MUM is rich..but daily seeing her Account balance do make me bleed with tears

Rayhandrinni:
Hahahahaha why do I have a feeling this girls name is either bisi or any yoruba related name

She's a Ronke o

Mologi:
I feel your pain bro!!!


And when a guy calls himself Virgin.
its feels weird!!!

You were never a Virgin....
its just that you have never been dicked/pussied!!!

Exactly

There is no virgin

MhizzAJ:
You even added 'to God be d glory' in your write up... How God take enter this matter now

What d hell is Nunu

Stop looking for means to fornicate

Did you read my post!

Dear..I couldn't Straff her..even though I tried to satisfy her and make her cum by using my Middle finger on her pussy but I couldn't insert my penis... my penis was so soft.. couldn't go hard

LordIsaac:
O.....this generation!

Which generation are you in

LordIsaac:
O.....this generation!

Sir

mhizesther:
I don't understand, nunu? pussy? What's hairy?


Pulled out clitoris?
Well, it's finished

I seriously tried to get hard but NO!

Seriously...at this point in my life the only thing I wanna preach is Pre Marital Sex!

I don't know what could have happened to me if I got married as a Virgin!

1)I thought I was a sex Addict when I was a Virgin (because then..a single brush touch from a gal do set me on fire) but now..lol... I can calmly talk to any nude lady without my mind wandering

2)Well.. recently there is this gal I've been meaning to straff ..and along the way I learnt that she already had a baby while she was in school ..well..I ignored it and I never bring up the baby topic.. (I don't wanna spoil my own package) well,the lady too actually dunno tell me she alread had a kid.

Well. .to God be the Glory..she came to my house and after the pre-intimacy..and I've gotten so hard.. on sighting her breasts... mind got disappointed and I kind of lost interest but I was doing strong head because I don make mouth for her gan!

But when she got totally unclad! MEN! I shrunk like my dick refused to stand up again..even with all her touching and everything...I just stayed down like that...

1)her breast was looking so sagged and having this nylon feeling

2)The nipples has been sucked out and the areolas drawn backwards

3)Why the fvck will a lady leave her Nunu Hairy!!!

4)The pussy lips are already drawn out like worn out Ponmo ..and the clitoris has been kind of pulled and ripped off!

Seriously...

I can live with the Stretch marks but those ..I can't at all! and when this gal packaged her self while she was leaving my house...she was looking so gorgeous like KIM K.. she folded the boobs into the bra before wearing another bra


I can't imagine Marrying a gal and then discovering all this on our honeymoon night

Someone I would be stuck with forever!!!!

FirstCounsel:
Do u have proof u were employed by "the company?" what were the terms of ur employment?

1)The meeting was recorded

2) and I have my chats with the manager

The SENATOR told us to start working immediately that we shouldn't worry about formalities

WHAT I SUFFERED
1) After I got the job in July,i rushed home to break the good news to my Mother (she's been the one taking care of I and my other siblings single handedly) she was so happy that she couldn't control her tears..and I told her "MUM YOU DO NOT HAVE TO WORRY about my SCHOOL FEES AGAIN"
This is the 3rd month and I've given a false hope to my mUm..it hurts me seeing her daily!

2)I'VE PURGED DEEPLY INTO MY LITTLE SAVINGS!
I wasn't broke because I do not over spend..but after I got the job..it requires me to spend more( Subscription wise and some other activities) I really didn't worry about the amount I was spending because I thought"By the end of the month Alert should be coming in'

This is the 3rd month and you can't imagine How far I've gone spending my savings.. I might be going completely Broke soon.

3)THE TYPE OF JOB ain't the one you can do without people knowing:
Now I have relatives on my NECK daily and friends..and 100% of them thought I really have but do not wanna give them.

4) Should I tell you what's more traumatic?
It's because I trusted the COMPANY owner..he is a SENATOR in Nigeria..and the joy of me meeting a SENATOR and him giving me the APPROVAL was so much that for like 3 days I was just so happy and giving out to people!
This is the 3rd month and the SENATOR I trusted his words failed and e no longer pick my calls or reply our messages

I can't start listing all!

What's more painful is me KNOWING this people have the money but they don't wanna pay.

Or
Is it that the SENATOR everyone do praise daily as a PHILANTHROPIST Is nothing but a SCAM or lives on the SWEAT of people like me!

Or

IS it me not seeing Jobs Help from people again?
"Haa you're too big for this job...see the current job you're handling Na"

Or "guy,i can't do this for you o.. because you're working and you've a job"

Help me

I NEED A LAWYER


LALASTICLALA please help me

I need a Lawyer ASAP!

The company I am working for is OWING me my 3months salary!
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And because I work from home they no longer respond to my messages.
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And when they reply it is to say "Calm down,we're trying to confirm if you're really working" for the past 3months!
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When it is glaring we're Working!
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It seems the Company just hired us to use and dump us!
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And this so called company have been hiring AMBASSADORS almost every week!
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Why don't they wanna pay us? They probably think there is nothing we CAN do .. because we're just a surviving citizens with no VOICE!
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I NEED A LAWYER..and I have proofs

I need a Lawyer ASAP!

The company I am working for is OWING me my 3months salary!
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And because I work from home they no longer respond to my messages.
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And when they reply it is to say "Calm down,we're trying to confirm if you're really working" for the past 3months!
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When it is glaring we're Working!
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It seems the Company just hired us to use and dump us!
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And this so called company have been hiring AMBASSADORS almost every week!
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Why don't they wanna pay us? They probably think there is nothing we CAN do .. because we're just a surviving citizens with no VOICE!
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I NEED A LAWYER..and I have proofs

I need a Lawyer ASAP!

The company I am working for is OWING me my 3months salary!
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And because I work from home they no longer respond to my messages.
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And when they reply it is to say "Calm down,we're trying to confirm if you're really working" for the past 3months!
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When it is glaring we're Working!
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It seems the Company just hired us to use and dump us!
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And this so called company have been hiring AMBASSADORS almost every week!
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Why don't they wanna pay us? They probably think there is nothing we CAN do .. because we're just a surviving citizens with no VOICE!
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I NEED LAWYER..and I have proofs

I need a Lawyer ASAP!

The company I am working for is OWING me my 3months salary!
_
And because I work from home they no longer respond to my messages.
_
And when they reply it is to say "Calm down,we're trying to confirm if you're really working" for the past 3months!
_
When it is glaring we're Working!
_
It seems the Company just hired us to use and dump us!
_
And this so called company have been hiring AMBASSADORS almost every week!
_
Why don't they wanna pay us? They probably think there is nothing we CAN do .. because we're just a surviving citizens with no VOICE!
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I NEED LAWYER..and I have proofs

Lawyers on Nl help me! I've been so depressed! And it is already affecting how I behave

I need a Lawyer ASAP!

The company I am working for is OWING me my 3months salary!
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And because I work from home they no longer respond to my messages.
_
And when they reply it is to say "Calm down,we're trying to confirm if you're really working" for the past 3months!
_
When it is glaring we're Working!
_
It seems the Company just hired us to use and dump us!
_
And this so called company have been hiring AMBASSADORS almost every week!
_
Why don't they wanna pay us? They probably think there is nothing we CAN do .. because we're just a surviving citizens with no VOICE!
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I NEED LAWYER..and I have proofs

NigelCundy:
Send me an email at olaoluwabolu@gmail.com I'll give you my phone number and we'll communicate on whatsapp

okay sir

mhizesther:
U can always choose to ignore

Hmmm..
Ignore the question?

Onila but you get sense before!

Your threads do make sense..you do post about people cultures from all over the world "beautiful people from this and that"

But recently it seems your brain has been hacked! You just go about opening Stupid thread all in the name of attention!

Why!

Leave this fuckery to FrustratedRat and Mamagee