₦airaland Forum

AkpaMgbor:
I’m getting married because I crave for a lifelong companion/friend..and also to have unhindered sex..I’m not getting married because of kids or who to ‘continue my lineage’....when I’m gone from this earth I won’t be aware if anybody is continuing my lineage or not, I won’t be aware,ashamed or proud of anybody here on earth...I will know NOTHING..but while on earth, I need a companion....

gonkin:
I would wanna marry for love, companionship, have my 3 kids and enjoy my life with my wife and kids.

I hate it when a lady wants to get married because her friends are already married. Imagine that, then after i marry she would start giving me attitude and refuse me sex. That's how cheating starts cuz the man is denied sex.

There are many girls out there like that. I just wish to settle with someone that feels me as a part of her. That feeling of having someone in your heart .

I pray God assists me with the right partner cuz the way some people complain of their marriage its like marriage is a bad thing.

I hope to marry someone that will love me more than i love her. Even wowo guy still dey marry na shuu

olujastro:
The older I get, the less I understand the meaning of the word love.
Right now I feel marriage is simply tying the knot with whoever you're dating at the time you are ready to get married. Whoever is the eventual beneficiary at that time ends up as your wife.
That's the way things are looking at the moment. All my fantasies about marriage have been wiped away by reality.

emperormossad:
When I'm matured enough for marriage, I'll marry for the right reason.
One thing is certain. I'll get married to the mother of my kids.

OptimusPrime3:
All of you intending to get married because of sex are in for a big surprise!

bigtt76:
These people don't even know how this things work ....you think all that millions he's raking in is all his? Do you know how much of it he needs to spend on tax, insurance, mortgage financing, health care, fitness and so on? Do they realize he's married? Do they also realize he now has kids or his playing days are getting over?

Family, please be patient ....your seemingly wealthy relatives are not your ATM o!

tabithababy:
Why did you agree to share responsibilities in the first instance??

Why did you tell him how much you earn??

I don't understand why a woman will collect her hard earned money and use it to feed a man. Are you his mother

Go and look after your health first.. If anything happens.. He won't hesitate to take another wife

ststyreal:
You are trying my sister I raise hand for you honestly. 80k with all these monthly expenses, how do you expect to save coupled with the harsh economy.

ImaIma1:
Sometimes when a woman assumes some responsibilities in the house and shows that she can handle stuffs, the husband tends to relax and leaves her to keep handling them and even more.

TheeDetective:
Indeed; but what I meant was that the husband also needs to take a pen and paper and do his analysis of how his 80K salary is spent as well. So even if a particular expense is fixed like rent he should put it on the paper as well as his other expenses too. In that way, both him and his wife's expenses are all written down for the month and then a budget can be drawn up for the month to avoid one party being burden down with more expenses than required.

ImaIma1:
Is this a medical fact? A doctor told you this?

Read about giving in to cravings and how it can affect a mother and baby.

Cromagnon:
not if you buy in bulk
once a month or on way from work


farm is the way in nigeria now o
poultry or fish or rabbit or snails or mushroom

TheeDetective:
Good points

But you didn't add that the husband should also do likewise @ bold

Funkybabee:
check my post very well becuz I have just said she should slice her jacket as per her size. Not every one of them are selling food or stuffs,what she require now is to plan her spending as u said and that is the reason I censured her on why she accept nourishment trouble since it's not a little task for 4people with the little one coming to join,the food,drug material e.t.c..

She ready need to sit her husband down to let him know about her spending,what she is facing and settle it ..

madone:
Na wa ooooo. That guy is a hero

nonye6194:
The God of Sarah is still out here, waiting for you to call on Him. Never underestimate the power of God even in the most little of things we do.

twosquare:
Well, what can I say? It is not easy to feed mouths. [s]It is good both of you split the expenses.[/s] I don't know if both of you are involved in government work. If yes, I suggest you do some flexible business that can add more to your income as a family, especially in this harsh economy. I'm not the one to tell you how to run your family, but I must say, getting a third child is really unwarranted. Two is okay. Always birth according to your capacity and how well you can feed and take are of them adequately. Things might not get better in the country and world at large, reason people give birth to less children nowadays. Also, please go for family planning already.

Simpleandsweet:
Hi Goodkay, first of all, calm down okay? You will be fine..eventually. .

2. If you have not been saving anything from your salary, please start NOW and in time, you would be able to take care of yourself better.

How did you guys arrive at that decision? And you agreed to it?

5. I have been through some stuff lately myself financially but it has sharpened my managerial skills better
Cheers!

Funkybabee:
And as a woman, you suppose to know how to do economics for feeding things and saving.u shouldn't used everything for feeding atleast there are some single women out there which their salary is not even up to that and they are feeding, schooling,doing alots of it with it what abt npower couple mehn sister cut ur cloth according to ur size,there are alots of things to do on kids apart of feeding eh..

kapelvej:
Hello all. Thank you all for your previous contributions on this link

https://www.nairaland.com/4447411/wife-finally-moved

I am writing to give and update on the topic above. Please I will appreciate all your advice and insults.
My birthday was five days ago. as I write, I did not get any single message from wife. Could she really have moved on ?

DaniDani:
Whites will carry out a research before coming up with report or expert opinion but we'll throw hasten generalization based on mere conceived hypothesis. Which research did you carry to prove that if one marry from his town, 50% marital problems are solved?

ImaIma1:
But i am saying the cravings are not do or die. My sister craved bushmeat almost all through her 2nd pregnancy...but her husband didnt have the time to drive to lag/ibadan express way to get it for her.

ststyreal:
I have told you earlier, everybody cannot be the same! Speak for yourself and those you know. What you can tolerate, I may not be able to withstand it. If you can manage your own cravings, I may not be able to manage mine.

ImaIma1:
Are you saying you must eat everything you crave...as in absolutely everything? Even if it is something they sell in Benin and you currently live in Lagos.

And if you don't get to eat it, what happens?

ImaIma1:
I think some women exaggerate it...they probably never get help from their husbands on a normal day and are trying to punish him .

I hardly had cravings i couldn't control. I never woke hubby up for food. I still did things myself...still cooked for him most times. And if i didn't feel up to cooking, i would tell him to get food.

An older friend said he drove to abule egba from surulere to look for masa (i think it is a Ghanaian food) and he once went to a mango sellers house at almost midnight because his wife wanted mangoes.

The question is...what do single pregnant women do? With no husband or man to send around. From experience i realized that this cravings can be controlled. Not the one that one pregnant woman will go and beg for jollof rice where they are cooking as she is passing by

Fianze93:
This is Arguably the best maternity shoot ever.

Classic I must say

IME1:

God help us.

Buhari I can go on. Majority of Nigerian youths are not lazy, we just lack the needed incentives, work environment and motivational words.