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thorpido: The calabar girl syndrome is over-hyped.You will still see this kind of thing in other parts of the country.

Tell him o.
And @ op, those girls,did they tell you they were from there? Most of those girls are people from other states, tribes. Everyone keeps saying Calabar babe this Calabar babe that............ Its just over hyped!!
I'm a Calabar girl ok? I don't do most of these stuff. I've got friends too who don't. And what is wrong with being hospitable? They got your number and you're seeing things...
Did they call you? Ask you out
I was in a taxi once. Sat in front with one Yoruba dude who was visiting town for the first time. He chatted me up the moment I got in. Got to find out he was going to UCTH and didn't know how to get there. Since I was going to school, I insisted he dropped at the stadium while the driver was saying MCC...... He finally dropped with me..
Then he said this: " So you are dropping here? I see why you wanted me to stop here too".. Geez!! He asked for my number and I told him no!! Seriously Cos I was being hospitable, you think I'm loose?
I believe that's what happened in the second case in your story.
WORD?? Stop making mountains out of mole hills!!

If MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS in Nature, as titled for being Cheats,,,and again, If MEN &SEX are Inseperable! Men are Dogs! as Tagged by ya'll ladies,What then are you Ladies known for?Remember, There's no SEX without ROMANCE!Just as there's also NO SEX without MONEY to most Ladies.. ..........

So, before calling guys names, first ask yourselves these questions,*
who holds d key to sex? YOU!*
Who accepts sex to happen? YOU!* Who takes off clothes first? YOU, probably!*
Who involves in sex chats a lot?
In fact, who like am pass? YOU!*
Who loves Kissing &Romance a lot? YOU!

With these things/Acts kept away from your side,, would Guys come making sexual advances at ya'll without your Permission or Involvement?

Abeg Abeg Abeg! Make i no hear say Guys na dis or dat again oo! As long as dem no force/ Rape una, they are Not to be blamed for anything! Neither are Ya'll.. Its just a Natural Reaction of two opposite Non-related Bodies (Lovers)!
Lol!Shey Una hear so?

donnypool: mr man, how many girls have you toasted that shouted kidnap on you?

Eh eh?? You've not seen very rough toasters o! The #itsByForce kind.........
Anyways, these people shouldn't have taken the law into their hands! I mean, even if they were kidnappers,is this the best
Thought we'd learnt better from Aluu??

Every woman is beautiful. Religion doesn't determine how beautiful a woman will be...........
Don't start what you can't finish!!

Charles4075: O.P. This is so not true.. A guy who wants to cheat, be disrespectful and arrogant will definitely be regardless of his being rich or poor..

Tell em!! Guys that cheat will always cheat! Whether rich or broke abi poor...
Just that babes flock around rich guys, making it look like they do it more.
I've seen rich dudes who don't cheat

Nice but I have my favs too.........
1Peter2:9
Romans 11:5
Romans 9:16
Isaiah 43:18-19
Phil. 4:6,8,13
Isaiah 60:1-3
Deut. 28
And more!

Seriously? Didn't you get to the part where its said "doro na Tiwa, Messi"? Shey doro na Tiwa Savage and Lionel Messi abi? And you omitted Bello's part. Why? Cos it doesn't fit?
I'm not trying to diss you but your analysis is wrong!!"
Anyways, its been written ok? You can't stop all these stuffs.......

MissUnderstood: But what happens to the women who are not like the typical Nigerian lady who keep meeting the typical Nigerian guy who is also superficial. I agree that women these days are superficial and callous when it comes to deciding who Mr right is. But there are women out there who believe in building a relationship from scratch and growing with someone but they get burnt.

Sometimes the man who is still in the process of growing doesnt know what he wants. He will probably stick to a girl who wants him because she wants him. When things start to go well for him and the SUPERFICIAL Nigerian girls start noticing him and throwing their materialistic selves at him. He starts to see that The girl who wanted to grow with him isnt what he wants anymore. Suddenly she's too plain for him. He wants a light skinned girl who looks like she fell out of MTV Base.

So when he leaves this girl that grew with him, it becomes hard for her to start this same game all over again with another man and can you blame her for now wanting the man she now believes would know what he wants.

We've evolved into a world where we create our own unhappiness. There should be no yard stick with these things. Guys fall for the girl who look put together and girls fall for money forgetting that "happily ever after" is something that material things cant create.

Yeah, you're right. But what can we do?

Nice...... all true.
Really liked nos. 2, 11 and 18

For me, I think 4400 was dull..(a series)

JadeWilliam: My sister wil fight u if sh heard u say One tree hill was crap:Her best series;2geda wit Gossip girls;Heroes;Desparate housewives&The OC.Back in our sch days

#Seconded!
One Tree Hill is my best series so far

Skateboard: LOL Are you sure you are an introvert? Checked your profile, went through your created topics.

So what name would you give me?

Well I'm here now.
Me?? I try to make convos even when I'd rather be alone. Try not to be rude or a snub........... Not sure I do that well though.
Always alone, reading.
At times though, wen I'm in high spirits, I could do things I normally wouldn't do.

kreamidiva: I hate tissue paper.

Baby wipes is the best.... ladies try it.

Yea........ I prefer wipes too

blank: Not really. Wanted to know if you kiss and still use the same mouth to praise God.

Lmao........kikikikikik

Yomieluv: One of my girlfriend does that now,she flashes me anytime she needs my attention,have warned her severally,she won't listen,am planning to dump her.

Am not the owner of MTN that must always call back any missed calls.

One of your girlfriend abi
God is watching you

A friend said this::

I just turned 25 year old two days ago. And as usual my mum will call me up and pray for me and tell me how old I am and that means that I'll need to get married. Growing up, I have always thought I'll find the perfect Soul mate that would always love me. But as I have grown older, I've come to realize that it will never happen. There is no man that will not end up cheating on you or in some case, exhibit domestic violence. I have seen a lot of families go through either or both. I dont think I envy my friends getting married. I'm beginning to doubt if I should get married at all. Is it necessary? I know we are in Nigeria and this is frowned upon but I need sincere answers. Is marriage worth it?
Me?? Oh I think it is. Very much so. I don't think you should stay married if you're miserable...but you must try it....at least once in your life time. What do y'all think?

FakeID: I need a runs girl in lagos or warri my whats app is 08110831179 or bbm is 74D88CAA Am waiting to hear from you ladies.

Even you? FAKE ID

In an interview with Encomium magazine this week, singer Emma Nyra explained why she likes to show off her cleavage. Which young lady doesn't? Lol. Her response below..."It's not that I flaunt them butpart of your selling point as afemale artist is your body, your voice, your look, your hair, everything. Chidinma's lack of hair is her selling point, you understand. Each part of you is your selling point"Asked why she flashes the boobs even though they are not big, Emma responded;"Its confidence, you understand. Somebody like Toolz for example, her selling point is her body. Before her voice, it's her body. As a woman, her own packaging is always different. I have grown up to be comfortable with the way the skin is because I have accepted the fact that I can't change it, I have to accept the way I am. Men don't look at me, the women look at women.If I go out with or without makeup, a man will not notice. But if I go out andI see a woman, she will say Emma Nyra you are looking different from how I see you on TV. She would comment on everything to my eyebrowbut a man won't look that deep unless he is into fashion and everything. I have learnt to accept myself. If you are not confident about yourself, people won't buy your brand" she saidOn her opinion on bleaching, Emma said;"I grew up with white people and I noticed that white people tan. They wanted to look like me whereas I wanted to look like them while growing up because I wanted to belong. This bleaching thing, Indians do ittoo, even Americans do it too. Its been so bad lately because the society's perception of beauty has to do with it. The lighter the better, whereas, in Europe, the darker the better. Dark hair, dark skin, its a kind of class. That's how they do their own class system. Our own is just, we have grown up watching aunties bleach. When I fist came to Nigeria, I went to a store and I couldn'tfind a regular cream, all I saw was whitening. I went toDubai, the same thing. Indians and Arabs, they bleach. I am more concernedwith clear skin, not light or dark or whatever because I grew up seeing girls wanting to be dark. So it didn't affect me that way. I don't support bleaching, I don't think it's right. Some people wear padded bra, some where padded bum. As a woman, you can choose whatever you want. You can change your nose, your breast, anything. But as for bleaching, because of the long term effect, I don't think it's good for

In this piece which he posted on his Facebook wall, comedian Alibaba discusses the Nigerian woman and the challenges of finding Mr Right. Read below...

I have a serious matter at hand that I want to share. In fact, I should have shared this long ago, but the primary message from a friend that prompted the matter, was lost in between the series of inbox messagesfrom those strange girls that are looking for romantic friendships on Facebook.

In a nutshell, a lady friend sent me an inbox message on how it's harder to find a good man in Nigeria. And that the men who are"manageable" (her words, not mine) are so scarce and if you ever get them they are either married to a lady that does not deserve them or just repenting from a bad marriage from one of such women. Or even just lost faith in the whole marriage thing.

Continue...I later ran into her at a club. After the usual introductions that have become common place with these social media network of friends... (You are my friend on twitter, Facebook, Tango, INSTAGRAM... That kind of thing).... I chatted with her a bit and found out from what she told me, that, many women are now settling for anything in between MR Right, MR Not just ok and MR Nearly right. As she put it, it's now a case of looking at what a guy checks out in the top 10 box... And if he has 3 out of10, snap him up... Work on the rest 7, if you are lucky, you can get him to add 3 more of those top10 qualities... And begin to pray it lasts for as long as you both can manage.

Much as I tried, to get her to rate me, she said, she can only rate someone who is on her radar. So ladies have relationship radar? Yes of course. You think you were not in Mary's radar, and she waited for you to come back after you... ? Ouch!!! (That was my guy who was listening in on our private conversation) I wasn't on Mary's radar.... I managed to mutter. Then she fooled you wellllll. She quickly added.

It got me thinking... What does a man need to show to get on any woman's radar? Money, sense of humor, fame, dress sense, good job, intelligence, good diction, good physique, some visible signs of affluence, confidence,... She let me continue for a while, raised her glassof Henessy VSOP, downed it, and said,"He must first be AVAILABLE. Then you can begin to check out the rest." So I asked, do I look available? She said, "Of course, to the people who do not care if you are married, you are very available! Not to me, OOO. Mary was my boss at Platinum. So that strikes you out."

So I asked the next possible question, "so what can I do to look unavailable?" There is nothing. You are even an easy pick. She added. Any man who has a source of income, popular, dresses well, tall, handsome small sef, has a car, is in the circles of successful people, looks like he has potentials to become somebody important and can pay the bills...Our conversation started having K-leg when she lit a cigar, not cigarette, Cubancigar and started smoking.

I took a goodlook at her, and realized that, these women who are looking for a MR Right all over Lagos, may just have met him but he is also looking for a woman who doesn't drink alcohol or smoke anything at all. That is the wahala. As you are looking for MR right, he might be dodging you because you are all shades of wrong...While you are looking waiting for a guy to walk in and fit into your radar, you aredoing some things that also confine you to the "never my type" hemisphere...So, in conclusion, just as good men are hard to find, "manageable" ladies are unicorns!!!!

What is GOOSE for Uganda... Is GOOD for PERU

Speaking with journalists in Abuja, President Jonathan appealed to members of the Nigerian Union of Teachers, NUT to return to the classrooms onSept. 22as there is no known case of Ebola in the country at the moment. Below is what hesaid..."We have been able to manage Ebola and the whole world is happy with us and we must tell the whole world that we have managed Ebola and no Nigerian should be segregated because of Ebola. In fact Osun State was to have their festival and the news came to me to cancel it I said no,Ebola is no longer a threat in Nigeria and we must tell the world that we have been able to contained Ebola."Yes, Ebola is in the West Coast, it could happen in Ghana, it‎ could happen in Senegal or any of the West African countries or beyond but they have not closed down their institutions. If we still have Ebola definitely we will not open any of our institutions but we don’t have Ebola. I dare ask is NUT ‎saying that until the world is able to end Ebola is Guinea, Liberia and Sierra Leone before Nigeria should open our institutions? It is not right. Government is not a fool, it is not any labour body that asked us to take that decision, we took it because we felt that we must protect our citizens. This is one government that discusseswith anybody that has issues to discuss. Even NUT has no reason to threaten industrial action because of Ebola, the governors took that decision. I called all the governors of the states to come with their commissioners of health. On the day of that meeting I did not even allow them to speak because they will play politics. I asked all the commissioners including the Secretary of Health in Abuja, to brief us ‎on the steps they have taken and they listened to their colleagues because it was also a peer review process. If you are hiding certain things by the time you hear your colleagues you will go back and get things done. We are sure that even if one mad Sawyer comes again, nobody will contract Ebola. We have managed Ebola very well, the world is happy we must tell the world that no Nigerian should be suspected of Ebola and that is the position of government. I will plead with NUT and other unions that this does not require industrial action. They should commend government, they should work with us,they are Nigerians, all Nigerians must work together to make sure that we contain Ebola. Why do we want to create problems where it is not necessary, it is uncalled for.” He said

I'd say its called growing up... When you're there, you find out things are not the way you and ur pals thought it was...... You change ur way of thinking.
But of course, it doesn't mean you should change drastically.
For me, I just had to distance myself from those friends in school cos they'll just make me feel bad. You know that feeling u get wen everyone's talking and nobody notices u or acknowledges ur presence Sucks!!!!
So I just keep 1 friend who doesn't make me feel like shit!

Marcelinho: So r u telling me they don't exist?
better still so u r out of the picture

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Me? Give a man pocket money?
You've gotta be kidding me!

Marcelinho: 1. If your Girlfriend come to
your
house and join you in drinking
garri, marry her.
2. If you take her to a
restaurant
and she picked gala/ pure-
water instead of expensive
meals, She is
understanding marry her.
3. If she sees someone with
Bugatti but decided to follow
you
with keke, my brother na your
bone be that. 4. She come to
your house and
wash even your brothers and
sisters clothes, marry her fast.
5. You gave her 50K for
shopping
but she went for okirika and
bring back 45K to you, marry
her because she read
economics.
6. She will call you everyday
and
ask if you need recharge card,
brother claim her o!
7. If the girl used to give you
her
pocket money every week, She
loves you marry her.
8. If both of you enter bus she
will
pay, That is a good sign
9. Whenever the girl is eating
with
you and she's eating only bone
while you eat meat, marry her.

Remain there. Keep looking for this woman. I'm sure whoever's searching for her will get there.... Just not in this lifetime