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rozzay: Points or not my bf cannot be wowo for d best interest of my future generations simple

Not wowo. Just average is ok. The way babes scramble for fine guys is something else.

[quote author=Ceasar1]She wasn't generalizing. What's the ‘Most’ there for mate?
Ask him o. Thanks

1.Most fine boys don't have sense of reasoning: they are just shallow minded,i guess a higher percentage of their brain went to their looks.

2.Most fine boys are womanizers: This is as a result of too many admiration from the women folks.

3.For the fact that most of them are womanizers,it makes them cheats.

4.Most fine boys, just like the rich ones,do not have regard for girls because they have seen the pant colour of almost all the girls in their area.

5.Most fine boys are carrying a curse,which was given to them by one of the numerous girls whose heart they must have broken.

6.Most womanizers do not go far in life,and fine boys who are womanizers are not excluded.

HOW TRUE ARE these points??

vizkiz: That awkward moment when you typed stuffs to reply with, but instead you just deleted it and updated sh*t...yeah that was what just happened

This your font colour. Is it a signature Or you just like the attention?
Just asking though

Nutase: Close ya leg and belle no go happen again

Meaning If na you, you for gree

afamgod: Yes it does help, to some extent though. I ve read many of similar articles before but ve not yet found a solution to my problem.
You see I'm just three years married and expecting my third child soon. I can't successfully Calculate my ovulation day due to the problem of irregular cycle. E.g. This month may run for 23days cycle, next month runs for 26days and the next runs for 24days. The durations are just soo scattered. Pls help me find a solution to this problem before people go 'yab' me finish. Every year i dey get belle.

Can't really say much in this case. I'm not much of an expert. But I feel if natural doesn't work out fine, you should try some contraceptives and see how it goes......
Be happy. Many are looking for what you have........ I know its important to space though.
Good luck!!

WHAT IS OVULATION?
Ovulation is when an egg (and, occasionally, more than one egg) is released from the ovary, moves down the fallopian tube, and is available in the fallopian tube to be fertilized.

WHAT IS YOUR FERTILE PERIOD?
To be fruitful and multiply, you must have sexual intercourse during the period spanning one to two days before ovulation to about 24 hours afterward. This is your fertile period. The reason: Sperm cells can live for two or three days, but an egg survives no more than 24 hours after ovulation — unless, of course, fertilization occurs.

HOW DOES OVULATION DETERMINE WHEN I CAN GET PREGNANT?
If you have sex near the time of ovulation, you'll increase your chances of getting pregnant. In normally fertile couples, there is a 20 percent chance of getting pregnant each cycle. About 85 percent of women who have sex without using birth control will get pregnant within one year. You can try to boost your likelihood of getting pregnant by learning to pinpoint exactly when you ovulate and by familiarizing yourself with the cyclic hormonal and physical changes that take place in your body each month. You can also use this knowledge to attempt birth control by avoiding intercourse near the time of ovulation.

HOW TO TRACK YOUR OVULATION
Work out the length of your average menstrual cycle. Day one is the first day of the menstrual period and the last day is the day before the next period begins. Ovulation happens about 12 to 16 days, on average two weeks before the next expected period. NOT AFTER THE PREVIOUS ONE. This is where many women miss it. So if your average menstrual cycle is 28 days, you ovulate around day 14.If you have a 28 day cycle, with ovulation typically happening on day 14, the ‘fertile window’ starts on day 12. If you have longer cycles, say 35 days between periods and ovulation happens on day 21,the ‘fertile window’ starts on day 19. If you have very short cycles, say 21 days and ovulation happens on day 7, your ‘fertile window’ would start on day 5.

HOW DO YOU KNOW YOU’RE OVULATING?
Women’s cycles can vary and are not always as regular as clockwork, so to know that you are ovulating and on which day of your cycle you are ovulating, observe your fertility signs throughout your cycle and record them on a chart. The most accurate methods of working out when ovulation is about to occur are:

CHANGE IN CERVICAL MUCUS. As your cycle progresses, your cervical mucus increases in volume and changes texture. The changes reflect your body's rising levels of estrogen. You are considered most fertile when the mucus becomes clear, slippery, and stretchy. Many women compare mucus at this stage to raw egg whites. Normally the mucous is a protective barrier, but during the most fertile time of your cycle, it allows sperm to get through the cervix, up to the uterus, and then to the fallopian for fertilization to happen.

BASAL BODY TEMPERATURE: Record your basal body temperature (BBT) each day before getting out of bed. A special basal body temperature thermometer will ensure accurate measurement. Your BBT rises about half a degree Celsius after ovulation has occurred. By charting your temperature, it’s easy to see when the rise in temperature and ovulation happens. This can help you work out your own pattern of ovulation. However, because at that stage ovulation has already passed, it does not help you pinpoint the fertile window but may guide you for next month.

USE THE OVULATION CALCULATOR: If you know the date of your last period, the length of your cycle and your cycle is regular, this will identify your ‘fertile window’ and predicted ovulation date.
LOWER ABDOMINAL DISCOMFORT: About one-fifth of women actually feel ovulatory activity, which can range from mild aches to twinges of pain. The condition, called mittelschmerz, may last a few minutes to a few hours.

Hope this helps............

naijaboiy: errrm...actually looking for a comment to make

Or just booking space??

No! No way!! No job? No income? How do we get by??

About 90% of single ladies would wish that the relationship they get into is SERIOUS.
While. about 90% of guys are not yet ready for marriage, hence wouldn't entertain the thought of engaging in SERIOUS RELATIONSHIPS. .......

.For a man to get ready for marriage, he must be convinced within himself (Without external influence) that IT IS TIME TO SETTLE DOWN. By then,

* He must have had a steady income

* He must have had a good arrangement for his own apartment. To Mention A Few.

Now, since most young men are not ready for marriage (For diverse reasons), this still does not stop them from going into relationships. Now, with the mind-set of NOT BEING READY FOR MARRIAGE, these guys can only 'sincerely' sustain AN ORDINARY RELATIoNSHIP. But most ladies see ORDINARY RELATIONSHIP as a waste of their time. Infact,If a lady discovers that her relationship is ORDINARY and leading to no-where,She would most likely quit. Unless, she decides to stay put

*for the MONEY.*for the mind-blowing INTIMACY.

*for the guy's beauty or prestige

*to cover for her loneliness.

*to solve miscellaneous needs. Etc Most ladies that become overly materialistic in their relationships do so on realizing that the relationship was actually leading to no-where. Hence, they decide to suck the guy dry. A deed that a lady that is convinced of her VERY SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP would rarely do. It is because of these above facts that SOME guys pretend to have plans for their girlfriends, when truly in their heart of hearts, they are actually on AN ORDINARY RELATIONSHIP with their girls.

*This is why heartbreaks would not Stop.

*This is why some "very sincere guys" that know these facts avoid SERIOUS RELATIONSHIPS (Or as they say, Avoid Commitments) so as not to hurt ladies.

*This is why most single guys go for RUNS GIRLS, as against lying to ladies about their true feelings and plans for them.

One may ask: How Then Can A Lady Know If Her Guy Is Serious or Not.

ANSWER:- You may never know unless it becomes obvious to you. Some guys don't like going for RUNS GIRLS...*And still, they re always in need of sex partners...*And still, they tend to feel lonely without an EXCLUSIVE girlfriend. THESE TYPE OF GUYS WOULD SPEND, SACRIFICE, PRETEND AND LIE PERFECTLY TO HAVE A WOMAN OF THEIR CHOICE.

Some ladies know this, hence, they have imbibed the tactic of DENYING THEIR MAN, SEX TILL MARRIAGE as a way to protect themselves from these kinda guys. The disadvantage of this policy however, is that the THE GENUINE GUYS THAT WOULD REALLY WANT TO MARRY YOU WOULD STILL WANT SEX.and a 'No' from you to them would suggest to them that there may be something about your sexlife that you re hiding... Hence, you risk losing them.

In the end,Loneliness would take over the scene. If you re a lady and you have a guy working things with you seriously towards walking down the aisle,Then Lucky Are You. The same applies to the guys too. Relationships are just too complex.It is a necessary dilemma that we must all pass through..........

Allwility: Whenever your partner starts complaining about something that been there all along, it's most likely they are abt to jump ship. OlamiB has been in that rship for three years...did she suddenly realize her bf is broke??

Yes, we know that. But it could get to one you know. I dated a broke guy for 2 years and it was so not funny!! At least a little will keep the ship moving.............
Decided I'd rather be single than be in that. So I'm not materialistic. Don't like flashy stuff. And being single kinda keeps me real.....no expectations and all.
My friends don't influence my relationship, ok? But at times lil things matter.

Keketu: what do you need if for?? so you we know if am fine ?? gay!!!!

I don't get it. I think you meant "what do you need it for".
And its "will", not "we"!
Wise up please.
Your grammar no follow

So I'm guilty of this. I mean, is it proper to open your eyes while praying??
I've often said closing or opening the eyes is a thing of the mind..........
I feel keeping the eyes open may cause distractions. Your eyes may stray to things.
But I've met this guy who feels I should always close my eyes when praying........
I need to know others' opinions on this............

1. Sometimes
2. No no
3. Not in my church tho
4. A few times. But not in church. mostly during camps. Their own dey too much
5. Do. But I pray too, even with eyes open
6. Never
7. Never
8. Guilty
9. Guilty. Who no like better thing?
10. At times. not unnecessarily
11. Only if I have to get it out then....lest I forget
12. No
13. No
14. No
15. Not really. Had a chat with someone at camp. Service wasn't ongoing sha
16. Guilty
17. No. We don't give long announcements
18. Used to. Not now
19. Not guilty
20. Me?
21. So guilty!!
22. No way!! That's unforgivable!! Can't try it
23. Did. Once.
24. Kk. That's so none of one's business!! Its a decision thats personal.
25. Never. Once in, stay in.
26. Not me
27. At times.
28. Guilty
29. No way!!
30. Hmmm?? I don't sit in front sha

Please I'd just like to see if there's anyone who just got in..........like for the session mentioned.
Its kinda vague but pls reply and I'll email you.
Thanks

[quote author=Silkmoth33]mumu ppl go dey give demselves title to impress no one but themselves.[/quote
Mumu people like you will be commenting without reading or fully comprehending a post!!
Idiot!!

Saw this somewhere::

There are things that guys can't just tell ladies point-blank, but really wish that they understand it, on their own. Admitting this publicly too, is a No-No for them guys. This may shock you !!!

1). When we come wooing you, whether for flirt or real-love reasons, it is solely because we find you SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE. We cannot fall in love with someone we don't find sexually attractive. You see why saying NO SEX does not make sense to most of us ? Lol

2). It does not make sense to urge us towards marriage. It is really NOT THAT IMPORTANT TO US as many of you think. Just keep being that sweet girlfriend that you are (Enjoy the relationship while it lasts) and pray that when we finally decide to settle down, you would be the chosen one.‪#‎smiles

‬3). While dating, if you give us too much of sex, we'll get tired of you. If you refuse to give us at all, we 'll also get frustrated and tired of you. Moderating it, is solely in your hands, to keep the hunger for you, firing. Surprised?

4). We never 'joke' with ladies who encourage us to save money. Ladies who advise us on how to build our future. Infact, that is our hallmark of Wife Material. If the guy you re giving this advice is ready for marriage, He ll Never Miss Out On You.

5). How much money we give you occasionally is NOT the true measure of how much we love you. We might be in love with the girl we spend the least on. We spend more on ladies that give us mind-blowing sex. Don't mistake it for love !!!

6). Trust us without pestering around. Don't ask us whom we were with. Don't search our phones to know who we called. Don't make us know that you re suspecting us. If you can love us without playing a CID orFBI in our lives, then you 'll become the woman of our dreams. Lmao

7). The greatest insult that we cannot bearfrom you, our women, is the one you rain at us BECAUSE WE DO NOT HAVE MONEY.It pains us to the marrow.Infact, after the insult, when we later and finally make that money, you better run for your lives.

Members of the Lagos State House of Assembly moved a motion yesterday September 24th asking the state Governor, Babatunde Fashola to rename the Infectious Disease Hospital, IDH, where Ebola disease patients were recently treated, after Doctor Stella Adadevoh.
The motion for her to be immortalized was moved by Hon Adefunmilayo Tejuoso and seconded by Hon Muyiwa Jimoh. The lawmakers said Dr. Adadevoh's act of stopping Sawyer from leaving the First Consultant hospital after she found out he was infected with the deadly virus, saved many lives.The Speaker of the House of Assembly,Adeyemi Ikuforiji directed the clerk of the House, Segun Abiru to communicate the decision to the state Governor. If approved by the Governor,the hospital will be known as the Stella Adadevoh Infectious Disease Hospital.
Hope he approves...

I don vex!

Not all intelligent girls are proud. And at times it could be its not pride! If her IQ is higher than a guy's, its only natural if he feels she's proud or showing off............. A lot of people have said that to me. I like challenges. A guy who can outwit me will always have my respect! Its not pride! Its knowing who you are. I know it could get to the head, though.
@ op, you've not been lucky.... There are still intelligent girls who aren't rude, saucy or proud.......... Just keep looking
Or you could settle for someone with a lesser IQ, you know
Good luck in your search!

@ op, I think you got it all wrong! This virginity issue is over hyped!
Who told you virgins don't fall easily in love or lust? In this age? When its so easy to deceive? I mean, most non virgins are as a result of the above! And who said non virgins are infertile?? You'd say abortions. But, hello! peeps don't do much of that these days. Anyone can be infertile, its not about being a virgin.
I believe most virgins have got attitude problems. I know, ok? I was once there. They feel on top of the world and all that. But there's more to life than an untouched hymen! They have this stuff of feeling better than anyone. Are proud and insulting to spouses.
And hey, did I mention I've seen cases where wives who got married as virgins ended up cheating?? The moment they start, its hard to stop.
What else
Most of the people claiming to be virgins are just so from lack of opportunity!
Bite me!!!

chemystery: Why do you think giving someone you contact means being loose? Do you know if he want to appreciate your hospitability? Not giving someone your number doesn't mean you are loose but means you are not friendly. There are other ways you can show you are not loose and this one is million miles out of it. Or you wanna tell me I'm loose for giving those ladies my number? Hope you now see you are actually the one trying to make a mountain out of a mole hill. You said most of those girls are from other states, but the two I met were from CR state. Even as the girls took my numbers, I don't see them as loose but friendly and jovial.

Friendly and jovial??
I didn't get that in your post. From your post, it can be deduced that the girls were committing a heinous crime by asking for your number.
And if I had given that guy my contact, I'm sure he'd come to NL and say how loose Calabar girls were............. I'm sure he thought I was making a pass at him. Just cos I tried to help!!
SMH

I'm just lost ok?
I'm 21 June........ I feel like a Geminian and Cancerian. Dunno where I belong
Some say Geminis end at June 21

wikiman: Marriage works for patient and calm people but not for windy and Breezy ladies......

Did you get that
Not sure.

Samscofield: Let the blame game begin. Watching in 3D.
#Blametheothersex

Me first......... I blame You