phylp: If people are dragging FCMB to sack Nuhu then it is rightly justified to drag and sign petition for the woman's office in US to sack her. What's good for the gander is good for for the goose!!! The woman even did worse than Nuhu by having her husband raise two children for 8 years with daily commitments, love, care and money and wake up one day to tell him that he has waisted 8 years of his life!!!I don't think any man can recover from that depression. Height of wickedness
Shokoloko: 1. Moyo was Ali's babe before meeting Tunde. This was open knowledge in the bank
2. Moyo and Tunde are BLACK AFRICAN YORUBA but the two children are FULANI WITH ARAB ANCESTRY. If Tunde is claiming he didn't know from day one then he is an slowpoke. A black yoruba couple CANNOT have mixed kids
3. The marriage survived 8 years: The daughter was 8 years when the marriage ended, meaning that Tunde married a pregnant Moyo.
4. Moyo left for the US in 2017.Tunde did not attempt to retrieve "his" fulani kids.
5. Tunde was engaged and his fiance was pregnant when he died. Apparently the guy wasn't looking to get back the kids.
My take is that Moyo and Tunde played a milking game on Mr. Nuru but Moyo ran away with Mr. Nuru's settlement
You forgot to add d part, where she filed assylum in the USA stating marital violence from the husband and got Tunde barred from visiting d kid's. So how do u expect Tunde to retrieve d kids?
You also skipped to recount that she only called Tunde during her supposed vacation in d states and informed him over d phone that d kids weren't his.
How cold blooded can she be? Can u imagine d shock?
You can refer to Tunde as a slowpoke but I won't. May his soul rest in peace.
Out of other people's mistake, you learn... As a man, work hard...
PerfectJUSTICE: Wonder they say, shall never end. These days you simply can't trust anyone anymore. Not even the ones closest to you. Hope you recall Moyo Thomas' story? The lady who allegedly got involved in an office romance with her boss that produced two kids? Report have it that this ungodly relationship led to the early demise of Tunde Thomas when it was discovered that he wasn't the owner of his assumed two children. Recently, it was discovered the lady, Moyo Thomas who has now relocated to America changed her last name, maybe to prevent bashing from people as her unholy relationship with her boss in First City Monument Bank, FCMB have been discovered. Moyo lawal, who now work as a recruitment manager with Park Nicollet Health Services in America now bears, Mo David, as reflected on her new profile on LinkedIn. Shockingly, few hours after the name change was discovered, She quickly removed her photo image but still left the new details untouched.
No peace for this heartless and unrepentant woman. This lady is a cold blooded witch. Karma is real!!!
azzima: It's UNETHICAL!!! In the US armed forces and the Police( which I am) as well, a superior CANNOT EVEN date a subordinate TALK LESS of a MARRIED Subordinate. Same goes for CEO's of major blue chip companies in the US, Many of them have been fired for dating a Subordinate ( google is your friend). It is TOTALLY unethical because you can use your superiority to force a relationship on a Subordinate that wants to keep his/her job.
Only same minds will agree with you. Nigeria itself is unethical.
Friday20: Of all the comment you are among those that made the best comment. In sane society this goat of a man will loose everything. If he has a wife divorce is sure then pay off, made bankrupt, he will be investigated and he would be gone.
I hate men that love breaking fellow men home they deserve severe punishment infact graveous punishment.
This is how hired assassin do waste bastard like him and people will be saying eeyah, oh sorry etc but they don't know who they have put in depressing state.
Most parents see sex talk with their wards as a taboo. Hence, the alarming rate of teenage pregnancy globally.
You see teenagers becoming parents at age 13! For goodness sake how can a baby take care of a baby?
I understand parents are too busy chasing money but we can't be too busy to be involved in our kids lives. Todays generation are very exposed to media and peer pressure. If you don't teach ur kids what they need to know at the appropriate time, the end result will be regrets and shame.
Wickedness at it's height. I believe this mother and daughter are taking their treachery too far.
Why wish to kill a man whose life nature has already placed at quarter bar?
Quarter bar indeed. And ur life bar is at 100% full capacity abi? R u better than the Erica's mum wishing him death? What assurance do u av about tomorrow? Insensitivity of the highest order. He go shock una...
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Captives of the mighty. Continue...run, being an hostage in ur own country cos of greedy leaders...
This is so pathetic. Denials and liars everywhere... can u imagine and we are complaining about govt. Those useless seniors must face rape case o. Minor or no minor they are evil children.
Saao: maybe the boys gather to fight him in solidarity with their mum. What most men goes through in the hands of women, is only God that knows.
I'm not sure what transpired. Whatever the case, marriage is not a do or die affair. We need to learn to LEAVE toxic relationships to LIVE another day!!!
sunnybobonwa: American Based Nigerian Doctor Shoots Wife and Commits Suicide
A US based Nigerian medical doctor has shot his wife and thereafter turned the gun on himself.
The incident happened in Texas , Saturday morning .
The couple whose wife is a nurse are blessed with three children.
No one could tell the reason for his action but this is how USA based veteran journalist Azuka Jebose reported the incident.
"*Morning Texas Tragedy*
At sunrise this cold Saturday, Dr. Ben Okigbo, a medical doctor in Houston, pulled up a handgun and fatally shot his wife. His wife was a nurse too. A few seconds later he turned the gun on himself. These hours their three children are dealing with the tragedy of losing their parents at home. We will never know why Dr. Okigbo, decided to kill his wife and commit suicide thereafter.
It’s my understanding that Dr. Okigbo was originally from *Idumuje Unor* while his wife was from *Akwukwu Igbo*, both towns are in Delta State of Nigeria.
Cops says he strangled his wife before hanging himself but also strangled d kids but they survived it. Whatever d narrative, stay safe
WriterNig: A heartbroken man has shared a video online and exposing his cheating wife and back stabbing friend who has been sleeping with his wife for sometime.
According to the man, be needed a proof after noticing the unusual relationship and vibes going on between his wife and his black friend and he decided to install camera in different parts of the house including the doorbell.
In the video, the husband can be seen making a video of himself speaking and monitoring his wife at home and saw the moment his friend drove in with his wife in their home. He was watching the whole thing through his phone.
According to him, his wife said she was going out with her female friends and his back stabbing friend said he can't hang out with him because he wants to go home and sleep as he has to wake early for work the following day because he has to report early in the office.
While watching and monitoring them almost at the moment of kicking off their usual adultery by offing the light, he decided to drive in and the wife noticed his car engine sound and the two started running around as she tries to hide his husband's friend from him not knowing he has been watching them for over 5 minutes.
And as usual, as a people,we sit back, relax and watch these useless government destroy both present and future generations resources to become slaves in their own land. Okay o
seanjost: Is this not true... what exactly do ladies do for each other?
Birds of a feather flock together.
I have read several comments that says ladies only borrow clothes, accessories, mocks and run down each other.
I beg to differ and say I've bn opportuned to have met and be surrounded by ladies of substance.
Intellectually sound ladies that goes all the way to encourage and mentor other ladies to be financially self sufficient. A typical example is a friend by d name Seun Akinlotan who mentors young ladies in South West Nigeria to become entrepreneurs despite d fact that she lives in the USA. She's on YouTube and Facebook. You can verify and see her works.
I have friends that might not give you fish except you are in dire need but will teach you to fish so as to become self made and financially independent.
I've got ladies that helps you to become a better self careerwise. Show you the ropes and the rest is left to you.
My friend arrange gigs when I'm broke and splits profits so I can take care of my needs.
Personally, I reach out to ladies in need of financial help around me and sometimes anonymously through my church.
Another example of a selfless lady is the late Ibidunni who helps families with fertility issues. She did bless a lot of families before her demise.
Not all ladies are makeup and dress up slay queens. Not all ladies mocks or gossips about each other. It all depends on ur circle and I choose mine carefully.
CastedAyo: Ghanaian actress Jackie Appiah has refurbished a paediatric ward at the Korle Bu Teaching Hospital for children suffering from sickle cell anaemia in Ghana, Igbere TV reports.
The 37-year-old shared a video from the well furnished and decorated ward on Instagram on Thursday.
She said it touched her heart to embark on the project after a friend of hers lost her life to sickle cell anaemia.
In 2015, she celebrated her birthday with children from two orphanages in her home country.
She said, “This year, my management team and I decided to bring together over 60 kids from the Teshie and Osu orphanages to a kids play house at airport residential area to celebrate my birthday with them.”
Jackie was born in Toronto, Canada.
She has starred in many Nigerian movies including Black Soul and Bitter Blessing.
Very nice gesture.The room looks therapeutic. I hope the hospital mgt are able to maintain it.
trendysturvs: Earlier today, Luxury designer, Malivelihood and Deola Smart had their wedding that saw many dignitaries. Their huge cake has been the talk of the fans and guests online.
Reports have it that it took 4 months to bake and 12 bakers who worked on it.
Seemed like a fairy tale to me... things we do for love are crazy. I wish we could her the woman's side of story. How come none of the kids were his? Seems the husband had infertility issues that he wasn't even aware of and she thought dating the classmate and aving kids would cover up for the husband's shame. Inside life is very deep...
CaptainZubi: For about 5 years now I've been battling extreme tiredness . Asides that I sleep alot most especially at afternoons. At night,nonce I sleep around 11pm and not going to work the next day, I can wake up by 10am or 11 am.
During afternoon and night sleeps, the sleep is usually very deep (REM phase or whatever you medics call it, please correct me) and usually characterized by heavy dreams.
Even during work, I'll always take the risk to create some time to have a little sleep. I've been battling this for about 5 years now. What could be wrong.
You might be anaemic. Consult a doctor and check your iron level and run other tests. 5 yrs is a long time to keep quiet though.
Family › Re: .. by britiko: 9:37am On Dec 04, 2020*. Modified: 9:54am On Dec 04, 2020
Deardoveylove: The truth is, I desire to marry him because we already have a child together. I love the relationship between him and our son. I want to have a peaceful family. But everything went bad when he traveled out and decided to stay mute without supporting me. I would have gotten married to someone else all along, but my dad wouldn't let me. He's of an opinion I must marry the father of my son. He's back, not doing well financially. He has explained all that happened, appologied and everybody still wants him for me. He's been so committed and caring since he came back. we're preparing to get married by January, but the issue is this,
I'm confused.
We are always having disagreement and each time we had, I can't seems to forget all the bad ways he treated me in the past. I always emphasize it to his face. Severally times, he would go down on his knees and appologies over and over again. Yet, I can't feel that love in me. Secondly, he don't want me associating with my friends. These are people who were there for me all through the time he left, especially my male friends. Who always buy gifts for my child. The last time. My ex bought a wristwatch for my son from US, he personally hide it and wouldn't let him use it. He calls me more than 20 times a day. That alone drives me crazy. He's always calling to know where I am, who is with me and who calls me.
He always wants to be around me. No breathing space at all as if I'm going to run away. I can't even have my life outside him anymore. The last time we had an argument, I told him I can't marry him, I saw his reaction. He behaves as if there's a diamond in me he needs to own. I feel scared sometimes. I don't know if this is love or something else. He has been away all this years, while all these just of a sudden.
I'm confused, once I marry him, we're married forever and I don't want to make mistake.
How, what should I do to make him stop acting all he's doing? He act as if he's in competition with all the men in my life.
Experienced people in the house please, advice.
This story resonates so well.
He can't change .You can never change a grown man, you can only learn to tolerate. He's possessive and would be manipulating and controlling. When confronted about his monitoring attitude, he will claim its because he loves you. He will also manipulate you to do away with close friends that help you, even ur family members. (He might claim that once you are married, its you and ur family) Never fall for that, else you will be at his mercy even when he maltreats you.
My dear you will never be independent of taking decisions. He would complain you are not carrying him along and that's why he wants to know every bit of ur move- to be in control.
There is avery thin line between love and hate and when he abandoned you, you crossed dat line. If you agree to marry him, you will always recall the hurt. If care is not taken, it will cause resentment from you towards d relationship and unfortunately, you don't av a control over that feeling. And that's why you don't feel any love for him even when he apologizes about his past.
Now to your future, do you want to endure your marriage just because he's ur sons father and society expects u to marry him or you really want a happy marriage with someone you love?
Its up to you to decide. I will say, Let him go... Life is too short to be married and be unhappy in it.