sapphiere: A group of Nigerian men was seen wearing baby pampers while waiting to cash out at an ATM stand in Lagos state, Nigeria. WonderTV media reports. Watch the video below:
Niom: Nothing to prove that it is Omosexy's hubby. So no case here.....
The chat has his name- Capt Ekeinde abi its photoshopped? The painful thing is dat d side chick might av bn the one that sold d screenshots to gistlovers
PerfectJUSTICE: Nollywood actress, Omotala Ekeinde has been a subject of discussion online in the last 24 hours. The movie star was accused by a blogger, Gistlover on Instagram of 'mingling' with former national chairman of APC, Mr. Adams Oshimole. The actress refuted and even called on her fans to report the page. Interestingly, the same blog has publicised alleged leaked chats of the actress's husband, Captain Mattew Ekeinde with a side chic. This is happening hours after the first report.
In the chat, we see the alleged lovers playing and making plans for a reunion in the UK. The captain is seen inquiring about the girl's boyfriend and insisting he'll have to 'shift' when he arrives London after lockdown.
Nigerians have reacted to the story, many emphasing that there is no faithful man in the world. They express disappointed and displeasure on the matter(If true). And fear for the actress's marriage. Read reactions below:
All these bloggers and their quest of fame at the expense of peoples life and happiness.
Of what use is acquiring wealth without peace of mind? Can't gist lovers learn from LIB?
ashacot: It is new dawn for America and the world at large as Joe Biden was sworn in as the president of America after defeating Donald Trump.
However, it will be a memorable day for a Nigerian girl named Josephine who contributed towards joe biden victory. She received a call from the new president of the united state and she and her family are so happy.
The Oyo state girl answered the call from Joe Biden who showered praise on her for her smartness leaving her proud dad all smile. Congratulations president Joe Watch video
Christie06: Yes.. It's for movie publicity. But I believed it at first The captions of Azeez on pictures he uploaded on IG looked seemingly true.
Ohh my gosh �, I was so worried for a while when he said his love was blind o. I thought it was real and instantly I followed him on IG to know what his problem was cos Aunty Ramota is a tough nut to crack o
Jmw2kblogposts: I came back home from work one afternoon to do something real quick, from about a mile away i could hear a feminine cry.
When i got into the house i met i met my two sisters eating lunch, the elder one was trying to console the younger one who was crying. I asked whats going on and at first they didn't want to say anything obviously because its a WOMAN'S THING. I had to pressure them into telling me because i had to help out somehow because my sister was shedding tears profusely!
They finally told me she was going through her monthly flow, i was heartbroken. Why do our young girl have to go through this torture on a monthly basis??
RESPECT WOMEN!
Let her add Moringa powder to her daily beverage or water. she needs to incorporate it into her daily diet and she will be fine.
Vikkygeee: I hate it when people just choose to stupid unnecessarily, sometimes it's better to shut up if you don't have anything sensible to say,the world relay the opinion of stupid people like that and generalize that all Nigerians have that same dumb mindset . My American friends once showed me a picture of Nigerians campaigning for trump with a caption that says, This is why your country is underdeveloped, the people don't appear to be intelligent
Agreed. Only bias/stereotyped people makes a decision from the acts of a few. Nigeria has a population of over 200M and the acts of a bunch does not define us as a whole. He has a right to his opinion, likewise you. You can tutor him without insulting his person.
Vikkygeee: It is only an ignorant and unintelligent person that mistakes failing as doggedness. -He has the lowest poll of an outgoing president in the history of the usa -unemployment as increased by over 30% since he became president -impeachment processes has only been carried out 4times in the history of the country, he has being impeached twice. -he led an insurrection on the country's capitol which led to the death of 5people. -417,000 died in 11months to a virus he called a hoax -he built a wall he promised Mexico would pay for but he ended up spending tens of billions of dollars without Mexico paying a dime Only a foolish lackey would not see him as the failure that he is
Do you have to insult him to relay your opinion? or perhaps you have a personal vendetta with op
First of its kind departure. A part of me feels sad for him but one thing that registers is " power is transient, so tread carefully" Also happy for some of the last-minute pardons which are well deserving. However, its on record that he was the toughest president of USA.
Vevejoy: Plesse forget the errors and focus on the content.
So here's my issue.
I've been married for 6yrs and it's been a blissful journey- of course with minor issues here and there but nothing to worry about until May 5th 2020 when I'd say things turned upside down.
We live abroad and struggled to have kids but God finally blessed us with a beautiful daughter in Sept 2019. Child care being super expensive here, we wanted one of our moms to come help us with the baby when I return to work after my maternity leave. So on the eve of our wedding anniversary which was the 4th of May last year, I asked my husband for the say 10th time about beginning the procedure of bringing a mom over to help since I'll be returning to work. He asked which mom and I said in my exact words; "of course my mom" because I know that when a woman gives birth, her mom usually go to help her. Did that change our story? My God, marriage has been one hell of a thing since that day.
My husband said I am selfish, disrespectful, and want to dominate him. He said things will never be the same again and since then, my marriage has been a stress zone.
My husband is numb to my feelings. He's been ignoring me, I've been a nag I'll admit since tue incident last year. I now talk alot and mostly complain about everything whenever we are together. It's sad and I've actually had conversations with myself to ignore him and stop nagging but I continue to do it, I need help on how to shut up and observe.
I can cry from now to die kingdom come and this man wouldn't be moved. He cannot shift his stance because of me at all. He does whatever he likes and disregard everything I say. E.g before this crisis, we had an appointment to see our Dr to start trying for baby number two because the Dr's advised that since we just had a baby, it's best to try for another soonest given that we had challenges conceiving the first one. This man cancelled the appointment with our Dr and has blatantly refused to start trying for a baby right now. He says when the time comes he'll let me know. Up till now the time has not come despite the fact that delaying may impact our chance of conceiving again. What a life!� � �.
Also, he has decided that no parent will come and I'm back to work already. My poor baby who use to sleep till 9am now suffer in this winter getting up at 6am to be dropped off at daycare all because her father is angry and want to make sure he doesn't do anything that will make his wife smile. He'll rather spend thorns of money paying for daycare even after I've told him that I don't mind his mom coming. Mind u, I have a very good relationship with my inlaws, especially my mom inlaw so it's not an inlaw fight.
The worst of them all is that despite living abroad for 17yrs, this man believes so much in native doctors to the extend that I can't even explain. Infact it's something that I've always fought him about and talked against. I've even complained about it to his family. And guess what, when I talk against, he tells his native drs who of course has ignited the fire in our home. Can you believe that in this chaos this man took me on a vacation in August last year that he wanted to clear his mind so we can start a new chapter and be happy again only to tell me that I have been trying to use a charm on him in the past months thats why things got rough. He said the 3 women I am using appeared to him but he is stronger ����. I am laughing because I felt pity and ashamed for him. How can a grown man be this vulnerable to suitsayers? I have never in my entire life visited a native doctor for myself not to talk of going to take a charmI didn'tvisit the native drs when I was strugglingto have a baby and this man thinks I'llvisit one now to charm him. Wondering y he will even believe such a thing. Infact I don't even know any native doctor. So when he said that, I told him that if I had known that his change of attitude is because of this stupid reason, I would not have fought for my marriage like I did. Of course I got so mad and told him a piece of my mind. I am even ashamed of telling people that despite this man's exposure he consults native Dr's in Africa more than even the people in Africa. Infact if they say yes that's what he listens to. He has even paid a flight from here to Africa because a native Dr told him that his dad who raised him to be the man he is today is trying to kill him and he should come for protection.
I decided to tell his mom about the accusation. His mom told me she scolded at him and warned him never to say such nonsense. Well I just pity him and I'm praying for him. But truth is I regret my marriage to him because of these his believes. I just don't believe in divorce and don't even have the heart to move out I would have done so. Mind u, I am 100% independent so it's not an issue of being scared of surviving alone.
Well one Sunday night as usual I talked to him like crazy and he said "all he wants is for our relationship to work and he will put in his best effort with support from me. I said I want same and will put in my best effort with support from him too*. This happened around september and things have been like normal on and off since then.
I have a few worries which I'd like you to advise me on the way forward. - My husband is heartless. No matter how I lament, cry, beg, approach him nicely. Infact no matter the manner in which I bring up an issue to him, he doesn't get moved at all. He stays on his stance and doesn't care. How am I suppose to live with a man like this. He goes mute when I try having a conversation with him.
- I have a weakness of talking alot which I acknowledge and I'm doing my best to work on it though I'm yet to change completely. But I can say there's a huge improvement. Infact I'm able to walk away now.
Can a marriage really work out out without a compromise from both parties? I feel like I am compromising alot but this man is doing whatever he likes. In all of these he doesn't cheat but has abused me physically 4times in our 6yrs of marriage which I'm still pained about. The worst abuse right now is emotional abuse and I've told him so several times.
We use to be an exemplary and happy couple up till this may 2020. What will you do in a situation like mine With? With a man like my husband who I'd say lacks empathy and a concience how do I deal with him? His mom said she talked to him but I don't see any difference.
I feel miserable right now in my marriage. Since I got married this is our hardest hit and unfortunately it got prolonged probably bc of his native Dr's who told him I am using a charm on him which he believed.
Help me out please
Dear Op, this is so long, I feel your pain and I'm glad you are able to express your feelings.
I understand your anxiety about having a second child immediately most especially after struggling to have the first. trying for a child in itself is emotionally draining and could be cost-intensive depending on your location. Your husband might not yet recover from the emotional stress of the first one, so just let him relax. I also understand ur anxiety might be from the perspective of age not being on ur side or you approaching menopause. but in all, please be calm and commit your heart desires to God. Good thing you still do have regular sex, in some marriages resentment might av set in and sex wouldn't happen. And its okay to want a second child even if you regret ur marriage at the moment. God forbid, if the marriage doesn't work on the long run, you have ur kids for same man rather than hopping around and you can concentrate on urself and kids. I will advice you try all methods and medications you used in conceiving the first except if it was thru IVF, then u require medical assistance which is emotionally draining in itself so understand your husband and just pet and pray with him.
As regards child care, let the matter rest since he's paying the bills. Your baby will be fine. just ensure the childcare is licensed. I understand the peace of mind you have knowing your child is with a trusted adult but you know, let it go for peace to reign. Childcare is crazily expensive in Canada most esp Ontario and a child ur age will pay close to 1500cad per month and people are able to save by bringing in one of the moms to assist. The worst thing is you won't qualify for a child care subsidy if you have a household income of over $55,000. and that d part most people don't understand. Childcare benefit isn't relevant if you earn well as it's favourable to low-income earners.
Also, you preferring your mom to come over is okay. Every lady feels free around their mom than MIL which could be due to vulnerability after childbirth, and usually, the moms take turns. However, it seems your husband doesn't feel free around your mum hence, his resistance. Yes, u might av a good relationship with his family but what is ur mums relationship to him? And why does he think you are dominating over him? do you always force your decisions over him?
I would attribute, your nagging as a coping mechanism since you said you began nagging after the incidence. This feeling is valid and okay. You cant be living as couples and your partner is mute to ur discussions all in the name of avoiding trouble and you guys end up sweeping issues under the carpet without resolving them. And him getting physical 4 times in the last 6 yrs is a NO-NO. He should learn to keep his hands to himself and talk as an adult. You guys need a marriage counsellor before things get out of hand. Your benefits at work should cover this expense or pay from your pocket for your own sanity. Please seek for help. You need someone to vent to and express urself to. And stop reporting him to his mom/ third party, it's obvious they have no hold or he has no reference for them.
Being emotionally abused is worse than physical abuse. You need to be in the right frame of mind to take care of your child before you start transferring aggression to the baby, God forbid. Please seek counselling.(Not church counselling o) Family service counselling will be better.
As regards him being numb to ur feelings and not caring, please put a trusted friend on speed dial for emergencies. I just hope u don't fall into medical distress whereby you are groaning and moaning and he ignores you. Yorubas say " bi a ban ja kin see bi ka ku"... (meaning even if we are fighting it's not up to the level of death). Abeg, secure urself. You need a friend, preferably a disciplined female friend that will honour ur secrets but you can feel vulnerable with. meaning you can cry, talk and relieve pent up emotions without being judged. also, this person can pray along with you. it could be a sibling. you cant be an island, we always need a shoulder to lean on.
As regards the native doctors, I'm assuming you knew he was into this stuff before you got married but you were less concerned due to reasons best known to you or you were hoping he would change. You cant change an adult, you can only tolerate. The bible says can two work together except they agree? and what relationship has light got to do with darkness? You guys are definitely not on same level faith wise and I'm scared his native doctors don't turn around to tell him you are after his life and he tries to kill you. He believes these people and will always act according to their instructions. This to me is very serious and deadly.
In conclusion, please seek help from a specialist (a marriage counsellor). You husband has pent up issues that he needs to divulge to a counsellor. If things don't improve, you might need to separate for a while to give yourselves enough time and space away from each other to reevaluate your marriage. Please note that separation isn't the same as divorce. It's better to leave so you can live for your child. May the Lord guide you through this thing called marriage.
CandyOps: Beating to death sounds a bit problematic to me. If I ever choose to get rid of my wife forever, I'd rather spike her drink watch her fall asleep and smoulder her with the pillows till her body runs out of oxygen.
You are a bigger cold blooded murderer to think this towards ur wife cos if it ever happens, u premeditated it. U no different from the killer. Both instances are premeditated. May God save us from cold blooded killers parading as spouses.
Ryan03: So so tanker matter. These days eh, once you see tanker near your vehicle, just comes down first, use leg run especially when you are in traffic
trendysturvs: Big Brother Naija 2018 housemate, Angel Awotarigha’s marriage has allegedly hit the rocks. According to our source, the marriage between Angel and his Canadian wife, Felicia, ended over irreconcilable differences.
They have since unfollowed each other on Instagram and deleted photos of each other from their social media pages.
The estranged couple got married both legally and traditional in Port Harcourt, Rivers state, in April 2019.
PerfectJUSTICE: DNA test has been the trend now due to the rise in paternity fraud all over the world and many are now suggesting that DNA test must be made compulsory after a child is born, though, this idea has not been implemented but hopefully, it may be deliberated on.
Few months ago, A man identified as CEO Rashad has been left heartbroken and in tears after a DNA test carried out showed he's not the father of the child his wife gave birth to, this is coming few months after he bought her an expensive designer handbag as a thank you gift for giving him a child.
Recall that CEO Rashad was into a twitter battle with someone who blasted him for buying an expensive handbag for his wife as push gift, according to the person, materialistic things should not be the way we spoil our woman. However, Rashad objected saying his woman deserves it and there is nothing bad about it.
Fast forward to today, CEO Rashad has taken to twitter to quote his old tweet where he flaunted his wife and the expensive bag. According to CEO Rashad, the baby which his wife birthed turns out not to be his as he is not the real father of the child. Rashad confessed to being heartbroken and says he can't even wish such thing for his enemy. The heartbroken man continued to say he can die tonight.
His tweets read "Comes to find out this might not even be mine. THAT’S NOT EVEN THE CRAZIEST PART. IM HURT ASF. I WOULD’NT WISH THIS ON MY WORST ENEMY. WHAT IS LIFE?, Sh*t I can die tonight".
After his paternity story went viral, Nigerians on Instagram reacting to it condemned the act of paternity fraud and also endorsing the compulsory DNA test idea. Check out some of their top reactions below:-
So sad! I hope he's able to pull through this heartbreak. Can u imagine the height of deceit and betrayal?
Lejuda: Wizkid's 1st baby mama Shola Ogudu has taken to her social media page to show her disgust at the things she sees in her son Boluwatife's DM.
Shola revealed that some young ladies send her 9-year-old son unclad photos of themselves.
The singer's baby mama noted that her son signed up on Instagram with her phone and also on his phone, however, she helps him to post whatever he chooses to go on the platform.
Recently, she went through Boluwatife's DM and saw the various messages that he has been getting. Shola then did an Instagram live on her son's page to warn the ladies sending her son unclad photos of themselves.
According to her, if such continues, she would screenshot their pages, and the messages they send to her son and share them on social media for everyone to see.
Read what she said below:
"My son is only 9-years-old and the kind of DMs he gets from grown women is something else. Is it that men have finished in the world? It is a 9-year-old people are sending unclad photos to. Stop it because if you do not stop it, I will call you out. I will screenshot your page, screenshot your photos and post it on his stories. Since you want people to see your beautiful body, we will help you to spread the word."
That boy can't be on social media unsupervised. And d only reason he should av a glimpse at dis age is for his clothing line which d mum or a manager can manage. Biko
BluntCrazeMan: It was in the news some days ago that: “The Federal Government Is Planning To Borrow Dormant Account Balances And Unclaimed Dividends” (https://www.nairaland.com/6349423/fg-borrow-dormant-account-balances). .. It was also in the news some days ago that: “SERAP Asks Buhari To Drop Plans To Borrow Dormant Account Balances And Unclaimed Dividends” (https://www.nairaland.com/6355484/serap-asks-buhari-drop-plan) .. But in the meantime, we the citizens can prevent our hard earned funds that were abandoned for some period now - from being used and then being finally looted and cornered into private pockets on the long run. .. Mostly to be affected funds are those Dormant Accounts that belonged to deceased persons, for which it would involve some rigorous processes in order to retrieve. .. Then, another most likely to be affected funds are Unclaimed Dividends. This one could heavily affect both living and deceased persons. And the Federal Government is actually targeting these funds. .. BUT THE UNCLAIMED DIVIDENDS CAN BE RECLAIMED. .. The Unclaimed dividends increased from ₦109.1 billion in Devember 2016 to ₦130 billion in December 2019, and it continues to increase.
Here below are the steps to follow in retrieving unclaimed dividends.
Step 1: Input your first name and last name into the Official “Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC)” Search link: https://sec.gov.ng/non-mandated/ in order to get a list of all your shares from the SEC. This will give you a screenshot of all the companies you have shares in, and the registrars in charge.
Note: if you have changed your name due to marriage or other reasons, search with your previous name and also try different format of name e.g those with prefixes e.g 'Olu', 'Oluwa' etc
Step 2: Take note of your registrar’s name and your Shareholders Account Number for each of the companies you have shares in - This Is Very Necessary. (Note: A Registrar, is a company that keeps the shareholder’s details for other companies.)
Step 3: Click on the Registrar’s name beside the Company's name, then download and fill your registrar’s E-mandate form.
Step 4: Submit your form by mailing the filled forms to the Office of the Registrars, or by submitting it at your bank, or by searching out for the official email address of the Registrars and Uploading the filled form to them through their email. (Note: some companies may require you to go to your bank and get a bankers confirmation, so they can initiate the e-dividend form for you.)
Once this is done, your account will be credited automatically with the e-dividend going forward. .. It is best to go to the official website of the Registrars as well as that of the company itself, before proceeding to download and fill the forms. This is because, there might had been lots of changes since the last time you abandoned shares. For instance, the company's name or registrar’s name might have changed, or maybe the company might have changed their old registrar to a new one. In some cases, the Shareholders Account Number may not be available on the SEC search site, in that case, you have to send an email to the registrars of such Company in order to have your Shareholders Account Number sent to you through email.
Thank u so much. Just did this and found my gt bank and dangote flour mills. I bought these as a youth Corp member over 22yrs ago and wasn't sure how to go about retrieving d dividends.
Akposy, happy new year. Couldn't respond to ur mention on d other thread. Seems its private. How are u doing. Wishing u more wins in 2021. Stay blessed.
Its believed that when people die prematurely, their soul relocates to a place where they are not known and they continue their lives like nothing happened. But the day they are discovered by people that knew them previously, they mysteriously dissappear forever.
Drinokrane: Former presidential aspirant Adamu Garba has withdrawn his court case against the founder/chief executive of Twitter International Company, Jack Dorsey, Igbere TV reports.
Mr Garba tweeted, saying he had asked his lawyers to withdraw the case, adding that the purpose of the lawsuit had been achieved.
The former presidential hopeful had dragged Mr Dorsey before a Federal High Court in Abuja over his alleged sponsorship of the October 2020 #EndSARS protests in Nigeria.
— Adamu B. Garba II, Msc, MNIIA, FIDPM (@adamugarba) January 10, 2021
The motion on notice was brought pursuant to order II Rules 1, 2, 3 of the Fundamental Rights (Enforcement Procedure) Rules, 2009 and Sections 34(1), 35(1) and 41(1) and 43 of the 1999 Constitution.
Garba had sought for an order stopping the operation of Twitter in any part of Nigeria.
Justice Giwa-Ogunbanjo had adjourned the case until April 22, 2021, for continuation of hearing.
Following the ban of US President Donald Trump from Twitter over the invasion of the Capitol building by rioters, the CEO of IPI Group Limited has been trying to woo Mr Trump to join a similar instant messaging platform, Crowwe.
Of all these billions lost, how much goes to the citizens of Lagos as social welfare? Rather they are being exploited daily paying tolls for a road that is hardly maintained.
Can u see how much these heartless leaders are making for themselves yet citizens lives in abject poverty?
We need to think deeply and vote for candidates that can liberate us from this captive. Vote Sowore!!!
Education › Re: Awin International Schools, Uyo: Sexual Abuse Rocks Akwa Ibom School by britiko: 11:45pm On Jan 21, 2021
May God save us from cold blooded killers parading as spouses.
