₦airaland Forum

drlance:
She kept lying about this guy who happened to be a medical doctor, I am unemployed but sell phone accessories and do mini importation on the side but doing my Masters.

It happened that one time she told me she was to travel to Asaba to meet her family members, on hearing this I was happy and looked forward to talking to them.

After spending the night at my place I put her in a bus to Asaba, she didn't pick my calls till the next day.

The next day she posted an outing pic of herself in an eatery I didn't see it as anything but it's the next one that broke me.

A guy took a picture of her with her phone while backing a glass door so I could take that he wore a blue shirt I called that day and when I asked playfully to talk to the family members she asked me "what kind of talk is that ?"

Not long from then I got tagged in a picture on her wall on Facebook, low and behold it was a selfie of her and the Medical doctor in blue shirt and the caption "I love you forever, my personal person" someone she said I shouldn't worry about but he is asking her out, that she knew months before meeting me. She was supposed to be away for 2 days and ended up coming back after a week.

On seeing this I called to demand for an explanation if they were related, she sighed cut the phone on me and didn't pick my calls ever again.

She left me for a Medical Doctor!!

One month later now she calls me out of the blue to ask for 2k to buy foodstuffs. Which I gave without saying a word.

Fast forward to today I got a job with the government and relocated to Abuja.

She called me later shedding crocodile tears and begging for me back.

People of Nairaland, what would you have me do? What will you do if you were in my shoes? It's not my fault she didn't see the bigger picture.

She isn't the first woman that has left me for a better person.

You're a big fool

soberdrunk:
Bentley doesn't come with a floor carpet?

please go and remove it for them

obamartins:
Trust me, no one will call you poor. There is life after wedding, so no need to impress the world. People will always complain.

Wedding is just a day ceremony. ....

obamartins:
I just stumbled on my marriage note where I wrote down all my expenses while I prepared for my marriage and decided to share. This topic is to guide those planning for their wedding on how much on the average they should budget for their marriage. Although the amount you will spend depends on what you want and the tribe/family you are marrying into. I actually budgeted N1,200,000 (1.2 million) but ended up spending close to 2million.

I got married November 2018 to my beautiful esan girlfriend of 4 years. Here is the breakdown:

Pre-wedding
1. Lab test for HIV, Genotype and pregnancy (as instructed by the church) - N5000
2. Transportation to take her to see my parents - N10,000
3. Ring 18 karat gold (engagement, and wedding rings) - N75,000 (from aboki)
4. Wedding certificate - N4000
5. Wedding seminar organized by my church - N4000

Federal Registry:
1. Affidavit for spinsterhood and bachelorhood-N2000
2. Main fee - N34,000

Traditional marriage
1. Drinks - N140,000
2. Yams - N40,000
3. Salt - N4,000
4. Bride price - N10,000
5. Make up - N20,000
6. Food - N200,000
7. Transportation - N20,000
8. Photograph - N6000
9. Canopy - N6000
10. Palmwine - N2000
11. Palm oil - N12,000
12. Native kola - N3000
13. Introduction - N12,000 (did introduction same day as traditional marriage)
I love esan marriage, they don't put hole in one's pocket

White Wedding
1. Drinks and food - N300,000
2. Reception hall - N105,000 (a Catholic church event hall)
3. Decoration - N50,000
4. DJ plus MC - N35,000
5. Guest house accommodation for my parents - N15,000
6. Souvenir 100 unit (Jotter, bag and notebooks) - N93,000
7. Photographer - N20,000 (soft copies)
8. Video coverage - (Hmmmm! Money no reach)
9. My wife's wedding gown - N35,000 (rent)
10. Me and my bestman's shirt and suit - N36,000
11. My wife's makeup and accessories - N50,000
12. Hotel room for after wedding panpangolo - N18,000 for 2 nites
13. My shoe - N2,000 (it's a long story)
14. Cake (4 steps) - N15,000 (my wife baked it if not e for pass that amount)
15. Transportation for my parents back home - N10,000

This are the little I could remember, I will update as soon as I get them. It was supposed to be a budget marriage but I spent close to N2,000,000 despite cutting off as much expenses as permitted. What was ur marriage budget? Did you stick to your budget or did some unforseen expenses prop up? Please share for the benefit of those planning theirs.

Hahaha

JasonScoolari:
I don't feel pity for any fool who commits suicide because of a man/woman.

I don't know how some people will decide to take their own precious life because they got jilted by one good for nothing m0ron.

There are so many ways to subdue the evil spirit called depression and suicide is not one of them.

Pendo, you died a fool and may the Host of hell torment you every seconds over there.

The coward prick still dey alive.

May Heaven's bless that Chineye Okoroabia with the last comment.


Call me evil or any of the unprintable names your brain can come up with, I don talk my mind.

bro
you're right and I agree with your post

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Jamariwolff:
After breaking this relationship over a lil fight which involved him making fun of my academic performance, I blocked him on WhatsApp nd told him to stay away from me offline.
He's handsome and fun.
I'm not my self anymore, I'm presently awake from a hangover yesterday evening over this same issue


I miss those funny night chats with this guy, but I can't get my proud self to apologise right now.

If truly you believe that God forgive's, call him ask forgiveness. .... mind you, your proud self use to ask God for forgiveness. ... isn't it? no one is perfect and no one is above mistakes.

Nedfed:
We both live in the same estate, her husband worked with a private company in Abeokuta while we live in Ikeja
For the past 3 days now she as being bringing me food cos she no am a bachelor and she do come to my apartment at times to play cheese and ludo.
The way she dress must time shows what she want and it also seems am having an affection towards her also.
Shud I go ahead?
Kindly advice

Just look at your life and see how useless you're.
someone else wife and is your neighbor.
how would you feel if such thing wants to happen to your wife
you are disgrace to your family.
sleeping with another mans is a sin and if you try it, just be ready for the punishment behind it.

[quote author=KaBabs1 post=62988985]And that's a bad thing? I disagree with you. She's just being blunt and telling the guy that she cannot reduce her standard of living and live in the suburbs. A man must be a man and must able to take care of his wife and kids. She is not aware of this man's plans at all and that is probably why she declined his proposal. My advice is the guy should tell the lady his plans. If she rejects him again then I guess she's not just into him. You're a big fool

DoTheNeedful:
You are really a ShitHead for this statement, bloody attention seeker. There is no way any normal person will watch some videos of those people being made slaves in Libya and wouldn't be moved. I watched a CNN video yesterday and I was moved. Even the CNN reporter tried desperately to hold back tears. This is 21st Century for goodness sake.

You are sick

legitnow:
SOUTH EAST GOVS AND OHANAEZE OVER TO U.


HOW MANY TIMES BEFORE U PEOPLE WILL COME TO UR EVENTUAL SENSES?


HOW MANY PEOPLE DID NNAMDI KANU KILL BEFORE THEY WENT TO HIS FATHER HOUSE TO COMMIT MASS MURDER?


MUST WE CONTINUE TO ENDURE WEN WE CAN THRIVE ON OUR OWN, IN OUR OWN LAND?

You are a fool.

Raydos:
continue bombing, i just want you guys to know that even if you're freed and you have your own country, foreign investors won't still want to invest in niger-delta region,


cos everyone in the world now sees that region as one of the deadliest area in the world


you guys have already create that impression on everyone's mind - just mark my words! niger delta will remain a slum forever!

.. Your a fool.

Are they trying to encourage us to start selling bread in oshodi or apapa in order to become a model someday?

This yemi alade resemblance no fit solve N50 stamp duty ooo.

The idiot on black suit above, need's social media deliverance..

Olamide's mouth will soon put him into big problem.. You can cook for the whole village to eat, bt if the whole village should cook for you.. You and that ur goons no go fit chop am finish.

A gift is a gift, even if it's from my worst enemy., aint gonno return it.

Hmmm, watchout the way she's going to runout of the man's house after her wedding.. Where is her formal husband Dejò?

[quote author=Cholls post=43047639]my brothers and sisters we have long way to go in this country. .......this is not what dey call pool party in my dictionary abeg...........let me enlighten you sef.


Thats normal

What throwback is that

Na only oneday the egyptians take build the piramid


This are the major problem nigerian youths of nowadays are facing... They dnt wnt to learn, bt they all wnt to become a teacher, would that be possible

All this fake Niggas that claims to be Nigerian senators are'nt real.

Hmmm...

The woman don do her best as the english teacher wey she be.

Lol