If you have children, then it would be irresponsible for her to have an empty Kitchen. If no Children yet and she is alone most of the time she can decide not to cook regularly, eat in her friends house, eat junk food, so as to save some of the feeding money you give to her to buy some of the trivial things women love like Gold, makeup and cloths. Please note that these trivial things are common to majority of women even the good ones, they are ready to starve to get some of the latest, if they don't have them they will not be happy.

In those days our parents dreaded grey hairs and the main hair style was afro. They had their hair fully grown, white hair is more pronounced when the hair is overgrown. So one of the duty of female children then was to pick out their fathers white hair. Those that didn't like picking would dye their hair. I saw my sister picking my dads hair when he was in his late forties. Now today we see many men in their forties looking like boys and they don't care about picking their white hair or dyeing their hair. They look and feel like boys and don't feel ashamed of thier white hair. Some of our parents were already established so we remember them as fully grown men from our childhood but they were actually like the young hustling men with grey beards today. The times have changed but grey beards has been there longer than we know it is just our perception of time.

Beautiful writeup. Black history is really coming up and many Blacks in the US are digging up old history. The slave trade that destroyed the Kindgom of Judah in Africa(The Kingdom was called Ajudah or ouidah). These history seems like thrah but when you read closely it makes complete sense. When Bob Marley sings about Africans as the Isrealites we thought it was due to drug use, but as years go by it makes more sense.

The Bible corraborates many of these history and when Solomon says "i am black" you understand what he is saying, when Amos says the Jews are like the Ethiopians the scripture becomes clearer, when Isaiah prophesies that God will bring back the Isrealites from the lower part of the Nile you understand what it means. When the first prime minister of Egypt asked why Isreal left Palestine as Black people but came back as whites you will understand what he is saying. There are books that documents these things, they will never be taught in schools.

How come traditional marriage. I thought traditional marriages are done according to the tradition of the woman. I am not understanding.

The little girl is awesome

I visit this building almost every day. I believe it used to be barclays bank(Not sure but barclays is inscribed on a part of the wall)

Please help her continue saying it. These people are wrecking peoples lives with this network marketing. The effort used in network marketting could be used to start a small retail business that is far more profitable.

Picadilly which stares Sam Loco and himself. My best Nollywood movie.

Mistranslation from the king James Version. Ghost is defined as "In folklore, a ghost is the soul or spirit of a dead person or animal that can appear to the living." Ghost is associated to dead souls. The correct translation is Holy Spirit. Holy Ghost is not used in modern translations.

And he doesn't know that the original Hebrews were black. Even Solomon said it, "I am Black".

God wants servants to worship him because they love him. Jesus asked his disciples to preach the good news of God's Kingdom. Christians today instead of preaching good news go about spreading bad news like how someone is held in bondage by ancestral curses, how someone is held back by occultic powers, how we need to make endless repetitive prayers to break free from the powers of witches and wizards to make things worse they threaten us that we would spend eternity in hell for sinning for about seventy or eighty years which definitely makes no sense. Jesus called messengers carrying bad news workers of lawlessness.

This Valhalla and Odin thing doesn't make sense, if you are not a Christian, or a Muslim then why not worship the God's of your fore fathers if non of these interest you then remain an atheist. The Viking tribe is a foreign European tribe that has seized existing, the current people in Norse land places like Norway and Denmark don't speak of Valhalla and Odin, why are Africans like this. We imitate the ways of an ancient violent tribe, worship their gods their children has abandoned

Let me contribute a bit. I don't know ur wife. I don't know ur sisters, but Women are a bit different from men believe it or not. Your wife wants a man not controlled by his sisters, if she fells you are controlled by them she will eventually hate you.

Your sisters will definitely want to control you, without regarding that you are now a man. Your wife will hate that. If they are contributing to the marriage ceremonies don't let your wife know. After the wedding or right now start turning down some of the request of ur sisters, like little brother can you help to pick my husband from the airport.

Please note that women control Men and most times the men don't know. Their husbands may complain, "You are disturbing ur younger brother too much", and their reply would be, "Don't worry he is my younger brother".

No Woman wants to marry a man controlled by another Woman or Man. If he is to be controlled then they should do the controlling.

Watch yourself if you have madr these mistakes if not you know what to do, the other post has already mentioned useful decisions to make.

Don't confuse advanced mathematics with mathematics done by engineers. Most advanced mathematics has nothing to do with calculations. They are analysis based on logic. If you take courses in mathematics or computer science hoping to solve mainly calculus problems you may be disappointed. Mathematics done by mathematicians or computer scientist is mainly about proofs and modelling. As a mathematician you may be required to prove that 1 is the smallest natural integer, model real world situations into mathematical equations and so many more.

It is from these models that engineers use to solve engineering problems.

Baptist High School, Borokiri, Port Harcourt (1949), point of correction, the date is 1948

kwalakwala123:
Chineke meee God of Isaac
Which kain yawa b dis naa. Something similar happened in my village then. They guy got the news while they were already inside the church. He got angry and collected the microphone and ask if any lady will like to marry him right there. Luckily enough for him one fine girl stood up and her parents follow her up to the alter and gave their blessings. The dad requested for just 10k as dowry, which the guys family provided it right there inside the church and the pastor prayed for them. The food and drinks was served immediately after the prayers and the couple travelled to down to Lagos the next. Only visible home five years later with 3kids two boys twins a fine girl. The lady con fine eeeeh.....
But as for the run away bride to be never got married till i left the village.

This is wonderful. The groom that did that is a correct guy no one can fall his hand. The girl that did that is really bold entering into the unknown

Rubbish post

You are not impotent. Anxiety is your problem. Had it been you were impotent you would never have had an erection. To have sex with a lady you don't need 100% hard erection that is a myth. Rock hard erection is needed if the lady is not wet and you want to force your way in. Most times you just need a normal erection and sustain that for some time, during sex you can make it rock hard from time to time, please relax and find a loving and understanding woman. Goodluck.

Don't rush to draw conclusion. If a man stays without sex for a long time he becomes impotent. So many people that are Christian virgin men marry ladies that are too experienced sexually, and after marriage their wives put them under too much pressure which in turn increases the state of being impotent. If a Virgin man marries a virgin woman, they progress gradually until the man regains his potency. An understanding woman will not put a man who has not experienced sex for a long time into unnecessary pressure because it increases the problem.

If it were today nobody would have noticed her. Today's Nigeria doesn't care about such things.

Lies. Egypt was occupied by blacks, the whites that are there were not the original ancient Egyptians that built the pyramids of Egypt. The black man has added so much to history but was not documented. What the blacks are suffering now is greedy leaders and poor education.

It is possible that your wife is undergoing psychological challenges. A place like Saudi Arabia can make a woman lonely. When a woman feels lonely she becomes bitchy. You can look for games both of you can play together. Look for spots were she can find responsible female company. Above all be her prime companion try this and see if she is still bitchy.

I read the bible from cover to cover after my final exams in the University. After that time I did it again using about two translations. If you read it you will find many things you will never learn in church. Many things the pastors don't know or are hiding from people. You will find out that hell fire is not real, it means destruction. You will find out that God will destroy evil people and righteous people will continue to live on earth. You will find out that Jesus is not God. Read for yourself it will blow your mind

DisGuy:
Nigerians, we just love associations, perhaps just to be called Chairman organising committee, Secretary General, Treasurer, High table members

associations with no benefit, just regular application forms with scratch cards to boot!
Seminars, Talkshop, Workshop, Retreats

What is wrong with that. All over the world such things exist. There is PHP users group in every country. Recently Prestashop had their first meetup in Port-Harcourt. Iron Sharpens Iron. Besides you need to co-operate with others to do big things

MMM is a scam read about the founders past Ponzi's scheme from https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sergei_Mavrodi.

1 Undeserved Favour:
This religious belief makes many persons to become wicked in the most unexpected ways.
Wickedness: You may start engaging in sharp practices to forcibly cause the undeserved favour. You may actually become lazy in your chosen field, not wanting to improve yourself because you have undeserved favour. You may feel that it doesn't matter whether you're the best or not you are still in line for the top position.

If a more qualified person is chosen for the position and you may be expected to co-operate with the person you may refuse to work with the person, you may choose to start slandering the person. If the person doesn't share the same religious beliefs as yourself you may start slandering the persons belief. It may become worse if the person is a member of a religious group that is not popular in your working environment.

The truth: Your work should also reflect as part of your worship to God(Anything your hands finds to do do it well Ecclesiastes 9:10). Your work should reflect the spirit of excellence. You should be the unmistakable choice by your bosses. When you are appointed for a task people should not think that there were better options it is just that you were favoured. They should know that you are the best option and it was not given to you because you know how to lobby. You were given based on your character and expertise.

What you should do: Pray to God for an excellent spirit. With an excellent spirit there would be no need for unnecessary lobbying and backbiting. You should look for ways to do your job better and faster. Also try to be nice to everyone you meet, avoid describing people as low level.

2 I belong to the Only Religious Organization Accepted By God:
You may feel that your religious organization is the only religion God accepts and approve of. You may feel that your religious organization is the only group doing the will of God. While this may be true because a disciplined father may have only one set of standard accepted by him this feeling may drive you to wickedness

Wickedness: This feeling and thought may make you become arrogant and you may start segregating people and religious groups. You may start developing superiority complex and start looking at people from other religious backgrounds as not fit to live.

The Truth: The almighty father wants all his children to live and wants everyone to come to repentance. He is not too far from anyone and if we sincerely seek him we would find him. So many persons from various religious background are seeking for the true God and deep within their heart they are frustrated with religion.

What You Should Do: Instead of feeling superior you should have genuine pity for those outside your faith. Seek for ways to preach to them and look at them with love. In doing so you will not condemn them and they also will start accepting you. No human listens to someone that condemns them. That does not mean that you should accept the wrong things they do.

Study them and seek the best ways to approach and preach to them to join your faith. Doing so frees you from the stress of fighting against your religious enemies because enemies are now seen as potential friends

This Osu thing should have stopped by now but the wickedness of men will not let it stop. The truth is that many people died trying to stop traditions like slavery and we can't learn from history how white men and blackmen and coloured people fought together to stop slavery. The Osu thing is fuelled by frustrated people who enjoy to boast that they are freeborn and on sunday they carry big bibles to church and don't be surprised seeing them speak in tongues. Love whomever God has given to you if you are not accepted in your area leave them behind and relocate God will bless you for taking a bold step as he continues to bless many so called Osu families while the so called freeborn continue to live in frustration

Nigeria has a long way to go and that is the truth. The only time you may have a chance is if you are a politician, or if you are a breadseller that someone decides to favour. I will try as much as i can not to be negative because negativity is killing our nation. So many youths that came to serve as IT under me tend to carry this negativity and i just want to cry for them. Our politics is so bitter that you just want to stay out of it. Our Negativity makes us not to want to tell ourselves the truth. Once i spoke to my friends about what i didn't like about the secondary school i attended and they branded me as not appreciative. As Nigerians we just appreciate suffering and smilling, forgetting to seek continuous improvement. Nigerians are very intelligent but our brilliant students have stopped reading, they just don't understand why they should put so much effort. Our intelligence is also being destroyed by the favour mentallity. Favour mentallity that states that success is largely dependent on favour not hardwork. The proponents of these theory take arguments from the bible, but forget the examples of the patriarchs who were hardworking before they gained favour. So many things has gone wrong with our country and until those things are fixed living in America would still be better. Some may argue against american life as immoral but it is still preferable to the Nigerian hypocrisy. I rest my case.

Unconventionally Yours,
broswilli.

Kingy10:

Hello bro, do u mean there's a way I can buy something abroad with the official rate, shed more light please

Yes if you do normal online transactions using a mastercard or visacard the exchange rate is 199. If you buy physical dollar from the black market, you will pay more. Although there is a limit that the central bank has placed using online transactions.

I have been checking exchange rates and it has been 199 naira for a dollar. But on the streets i hear people saying dollar don reach 300 naira some even said it has reached 400 naira, i started wondering if i was in another world because i have been doing transactions at 199 naira for one dollar for over two months now. Just now i saw on this thread what they actually meant. On the parallel market or black market naira has been fluctuating but in the real foreign exchange market naira is stable. People should do more online transactions so that they will spend less. Nigerians should also stop spreading this dollar is 300 naira rumour.

Philadelphia:

If they are wrong, over 100 languages on earth cannot be wrong too as the seventh day of most languages in the world means Sabbath, rest or anything that relates to it.

Saturday in Igbo is Ubochi Izu-ike which means "Sabbath morning"
Saturday in Yoruba is Abameta the day 3 things happened (God Blessed, Rested and Sanctified). Exodus 20:8-11 confirms that God did these 3 things on the Sabbath day.
Browse and see what other languages in the world call Saturday. You'll be amazed.

Igbo's don't have a seventh day. Igbo's have a four day week. Whetever is called seventh day is a recent development by the early christian missionaries. Actually the sabbath is not really a day it is a concept. Because the almighty God is still observing his sabbath even till this moment. That sabbath will end after everything in the book of revelation comes to pass after which a new day will begin. God wants us to enter into his rest Hebrews 4:1-10

Even Native doctors see spirits and hear voices. It is abnormal to hear the thoughts of your fellow man. God has not given men permission to know the thoughts of another man. The reason is because thoughts of men change and if you know the thought of a fellow man you could cause a lot of problems, evil rumuors could start and would disturb the repentance of a man that earlier had an evil thought. The righteous shall live by faith, you don't need to see anything or hear anything to serve God. Find out the will of God and work according to it believing that he rewards those that serve him