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Some days ago, we posted an article titled “If your girlfriend does this don’t marry her” and we highlighted some signs that, your current girlfriend is not a wife material… We are not selfish people, so we don’t wanna focus on our ladies alone. Let us turn the spot light to our men too. Some men are “husband material” once you meet them and date them, in a few months into the relationship you would already know that this one can be a husband. However on the flip side. There are some men that are bombs waiting to explode and if you are blindly inlove with them and marry them. Then you are In for shit.
But because we @truenaijayarn are loving people and wouldn’t want any of our readers to end up in bad marriages we would take the time out to highlight some signs in a man that if a lady sees, she should run as fast as her legs can carry her.

1.HE LOVES TO SLEEP:Real men are made at night. If you are currently seeing a guy and he boldly tells you “Babe everyday I sleep by 9pm” you had better call that off. Unless you wanna feed him for the rest of your life. Even dangote, the richest man in Africa hardly sleeps at night. Then your boyfriend who isn’t the 10,000th man in his community, sleeps by 9pm everyday.

2.HE FLIRTS:Even when you are walking with him and a girl passes him. He would turn around and steal a glance at that Ass. Your are busy saying “he’s a man, all men cheat” you better call it off.. Cos you are dating a cheetah,and he would soon run and leave you.

3.HE SPENDS ALL DAY ON THE INTERNET:Internet is cool. But when you have a boyfriend and whenever you Come online on whatsapp he’s there, Facebook he’s online, 2go he’s online, Twitter… Is he omnipresent? If he’s not working or making money with all those, then cut that relationship off.

4.A PERVERT:Everytime you guys talk…. He’s asking for your nudes. And tells you that if you don’t send it to him. He would get it from another girl. Funny, a lot of girls would foolishly send.
Even after he marries you, a perv would always be a perv.

5.NO FUTURE AMBITION(NFA):You have asked him what his plans for his life and the relationship was… And he said “baby let’s roll with the flow, let tommorrow handle itself” this may sound cool. But it’s not. This is indeed a very Red Light. Unless you wanna beg with your lover at Ikeja cross over, you better run for your life.

6.HE TALKS TOO MUCH:Yea you may say “ah ah is talking bad?” no. Talking in itself isn’t bad. But it becomes bad when all a man does is talk. A man should be cool, calm and collected. When your man talks even more than you, then you need to back off. Unless he’s a TV presenter, then it’s cool.

7.DOESN’T SAVE:I know the girls wants a guy that would spend money on them, buy them clothes, shoes and all that. It’s good if he has a sure and steady income flow. But it is outrageous if he is still coming up in life and all he does is spend money either on you or himself. Teach him to save. Don’t be selfish especially when he’s spending on you.

8.VERY MATERIAL:If he is the kinda guy that wants to wear the latest shoes, shirts and have an iPhone6. Then you better rethink that relationship, if you marry him, you may not eat at home but you guys would have the latest LG plasma TV!For no reason, don’t get married to a man who is overly attached to material things.

9.HAS NO FAITH/BELIEF:This means, don’t marry a liberalist. A man must have a foundation on a faith or belief system. If your current boyfriend is the “anything goes” kinda guy. Maybe the day he slaps you he would say “anything goes”

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Some bosses can be a real pain in the ass. If you are unlucky to be working with a bad boss then you are in for one helluva job. Many times at work they are some really mean words you wish you could say to that Fat man standing over you and ordering you about,but then you think “Where would I get another job?”. Companies are already laying off workers and you are lucky to still have a job and you wanna lose it?
Hey, but nothing stops us from saying It in our minds. So let’s play around with some of those things we want to say to our boss. Please don’t use any of them and tell your boss you saw them on this blog o! We won’t employ you.

1.SHUT THE F**K UP:Lolzzzz… Many times your boss is just yapping on how lazy you are, how you don’t wanna work, how you should be grateful he hasn’t fired you. You wish you could just say “shut the f**K up” and watch with pure joy how his plump face turns bright red. But can we? Naah.

2.I WOULD SHOW UP WHEN I WANT:Hehehe… You are a bit late for work and your boss just can’t stop draining your battery with incessant calls. How you wish you could just pick up the call and say “I would show up when I want!” and hang up. If wishes were to be horses right?

3.I HOPE YOU DIE, SIR:This one is really mean, but don’t lie… Sometimes your boss had really gotten so much on your nerves that you wished you could just look him straight in the eye, and with a cool, majid Micheal smile and say “I hope you die,sir”…This would not only get you fired. It would put you in kirikiri prison.

4.I QUIT:Some people have actually gotten themselves to say this one. Just two words but probably the Hardest of them all. If you say this one, just park and go.

5.I AM GOING TO SLEEP.WOULD WORK WHEN I’VE SLEPT ENOUGH:Many of us love to sleep under that sweet, office Air conditioning system. But our boss would never let us have that sleep. Sometimes we wish we could just tell him to get lost and have that beauty sleep.

6.BADDAY SIR:This is actually the opposite of “goodday sir”. How we long to walk into the office on a Monday morning and instead of saying “good day sir” we actually let him know how we truly feel “Badday sir”

7.I WANT MY PAYCHECK NOW:Again some employees had been able to this and be heroes to the rest of us. Sometimes that end of month wait could be a long and slow one. We just wanna knock on our Boss office and tell him “I want my paycheck now” and watch him sign that check. If you do this and he’s actually signing something, Check properly, it may just be your sack letter.

Lol…. Am sure many of you can actually relate to some of those words. Are they any you wish to say, that we omitted. You Had better say it us than at your office. Again, Truenaijayarn won’t employ you… Lol

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Some bosses can be a real pain in the ass. If you are unlucky to be working with a bad boss then you are in for one helluva job. Many times at work they are some really mean words you wish you could say to that Fat man standing over you and ordering you about,but then you think “Where would I get another job?”. Companies are already laying off workers and you are lucky to still have a job and you wanna lose it?
Hey, but nothing stops us from saying It in our minds. So let’s play around with some of those things we want to say to our boss. Please don’t use any of them and tell your boss you saw them on this blog o! We won’t employ you.

1.SHUT THE F**K UP:Lolzzzz… Many times your boss is just yapping on how lazy you are, how you don’t wanna work, how you should be grateful he hasn’t fired you. You wish you could just say “shut the f**K up” and watch with pure joy how his plump face turns bright red. But can we? Naah.

2.I WOULD SHOW UP WHEN I WANT:Hehehe… You are a bit late for work and your boss just can’t stop draining your battery with incessant calls. How you wish you could just pick up the call and say “I would show up when I want!” and hang up. If wishes were to be horses right?

3.I HOPE YOU DIE, SIR:This one is really mean, but don’t lie… Sometimes your boss had really gotten so much on your nerves that you wished you could just look him straight in the eye, and with a cool, majid Micheal smile and say “I hope you die,sir”…This would not only get you fired. It would put you in kirikiri prison.

4.I QUIT:Some people have actually gotten themselves to say this one. Just two words but probably the Hardest of them all. If you say this one, just park and go.

5.I AM GOING TO SLEEP.WOULD WORK WHEN I’VE SLEPT ENOUGH:Many of us love to sleep under that sweet, office Air conditioning system. But our boss would never let us have that sleep. Sometimes we wish we could just tell him to get lost and have that beauty sleep.

6.BADDAY SIR:This is actually the opposite of “goodday sir”. How we long to walk into the office on a Monday morning and instead of saying “good day sir” we actually let him know how we truly feel “Badday sir”

7.I WANT MY PAYCHECK NOW:Again some employees had been able to this and be heroes to the rest of us. Sometimes that end of month wait could be a long and slow one. We just wanna knock on our Boss office and tell him “I want my paycheck now” and watch him sign that check. If you do this and he’s actually signing something, Check properly, it may just be your sack letter.

Lol…. Am sure many of you can actually relate to some of those words. Are they any you wish to say, that we omitted. You Had better say it us than at your office. Again, Truenaijayarn won’t employ you… Lol

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Children are cute and funny at the same time. Sometimes I just take time to observe children, watch them play, and interact with each other. They could be fun watching, don’t you agree? Am not married and I don’t have a child yet, but I look forward to having one. They are a bunch of blessing indeed.
However for those who already have kids they are some ways to improve your relationship with them. Nothing as good as having a wonderful relationship with this little people.
Let’s see ten sure ways to improve your relationship with them.

1.SAY I LOVE YOU:Lol, I haven’t ever heard my parents say “I love you” to me. I know they love me, their actions say it all,but they never verbally say it. In this part of the world our parents find it hard saying “I love you” to their kids. Tell your child you love him/her everyday no matter his or age. A simple “I love you” goes a long way towards developing and then strenghtening a relationship.

2.TEACH THEM FAITH:Teach your child whatever you believe in. Tell him what you believe in and why you believe in it. Reinforce those teaching always. At least this is something we do get right here in Nigeria.

3.PLAY WITH YOUR CHILDREN:Of course this rarely happens here;We are so busy and often look at our kids as what they are “kids” we would rather tell them “Go and play with your mates” as much as this is good. Sometimes this kids needs to play with people older than them. Let your kids see your silly side. Be the horse they can ride on till they actually ride a real horse.

4.EAT MEALS AS A FAMILY:This is really important. Don’t cook food and one is eating in the kitchen another in the room. No. Let everyone be on the dining table. Turn the TV off and don’t rush a meal. Ask them how they spent their day.

5.RESPECT THEM:Respect whatever choices they make as long as it’s not something that would be too detrimental to them. Allow them wear their mismatched clothes. Allow them arrange their rooms the way they want. You don’t need to be the decision maker all time.

6.ALLOW THEM BE KIDS:I have met with a lot of kids who are “adults” and it leaves me wondering if these ones are kids or adults. Some Nigerian parents goes overboard with the way they dress their kids. You would see a two year old girl, with bracelets, rings, necklaces all over her tender body. Allow your kids be kids.

7.DEVELOP A BEDTIME PRACTICE:Especially here in Nigeria. Alot of parents don’t tuck their kids in bed. Read a bed time story with your kid. Once they are able to read themselves, let them read you a page or a short book. Most teenagers enjoy being told Goodnight in a special way even though they may act as if they don’t.

8.HAVE A ONE-ON-ONE TALK:Find time to talk to your kids. Talk with them from time to time. Let them discuss their fears and insecurities with you. Even ask them about that girl or boy they really like… It’s better they be blushing in front of you, than in front of the wrong person.

Stop worrying and enjoy watching your children grow. But be part of their growth process.

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I and my fiance had made all the necessary arrangements for our wedding. She had made all the calls and yapped all day about how great the wedding was going to be. I just sat thinking of how much we had spent on this wedding… This thing na one day thing na… I muttered angrily to myself. I picked up my phone to call my fiancée so I could tell her to cut down expenses as much as she could… “The mtn number you are trying to call is currently switched off” the mtn lady told me, indicating that her phone was switched off.
I and Anita had dated for Six years before we finally settled to get married, was quite a long wait for us but it has thought us alot of things. For those six years I have never cheat on Anita and I was sure she hadn’t cheat on me too… Cos we were madly inlove.
Again my mind raced to Anita, in my minds eye I saw Anita laughing and jumping around with her friends, spending all my money!! I couldn’t take it anymore… If she finished all the money for a “Saturday” event… Shey we go chop on Monday at all? I quickly picked up the car keys and decided to take the bull by the horns.. This madness must stop. No be only me don marry before. Where would Anita be? Her sisters place! Yea, that’s where she would be. Anita loves spending time with her sister a lot they are birds of the same feather. I sped like a mad man cos I knew that if I let Anita hold on to my Atm card for any more second we would be begging for food a day after our wedding.

I got to Anita’s sisters house(Melony), i couldn’t hear Anita’s loud laughing. Yea, For the record My fiancée laugh could be heard from a mile away when she really does laugh. So when I listened and I didn’t hear her laughter I knew she probably wasn’t here.. But I decided to check anyways. I knocked on the door. No answer. Maybe they heard My car coming and hid so I won’t collect my atm card… I pushed open the door and went in…. “Anita!” I called out. No answer. Suddenly I heard the sound of high stilleto heels climbing down the stairs slowly. I looked up, and Behold I saw my fiancée sister In a hot short mini skirt, with just her bra on…. She winked seductively at me as she walked down the stairs.
She came face to face with me “Kenny, I’m sorry I didn’t tell you this earlier…. Am so crazy about you. I have loved you from the day I saw you with my sister, but I couldn’t tell you because I didn’t wanna hurt my sister. But then I heard you guys would soon be married and I wanna have you before you leave me forever. Just take me now. Consider it a going away present”. ”
My blood rose, I looked at her. She was absolutely beautiful….. I didn’t say a word to her. I turned around and headed for the door. As soon as I opened the door. I was met with loud clapping and cheering. My fiancée, her mother, father, brothers and friends where in front of me Clapping and cheering me, telling me how I am worthy to marry their daughter. That they had set this trap for me to see my commitment to their daughter. I excused my self, went to a corner and breathed a huge sigh of relief and smiled… Cos when I turned away from my fiancée sister and headed for the door, I was actually going towards the car to get my Condom!
Lolzzzzz!
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Why 90% of musicians fail is because everyone wants to be “The Artiste”. No one wants to give the push, everyone wants to be the one being pushed. So many musicians live very frustrated lives because they never achieved their dreams of being “The Artiste” they forget that not everyone can be The star…. If everyone is the star who would manage the star, promote his music, produce and distribute his songs.
Let’s see some other careers in music one can do, apart from being “The Artiste”.

1.PERSONAL MANAGER: The personal manager represents one or more musical groups or artiste and oversee all aspects of an act’s career. They give advice to the Artiste on decisions and contracts. When looking for a personal artiste it’s advisable that it’s someone who is like a father figure to the Artiste.


2.BOOKING AGENT:Booking agents work to secure performance for the Artiste or music group. Booking agents are extroverts who possess excellent communication skills. They often work closely with the Artiste manager and develop the talent toward a goal.


3.CONCERT PROMOTER:The concert promoter presents, organizers, advertise and in most cases finance concerts at performance venues such as arenas, festivals, clubs, church buildings etc.


4.ENTREPENUER(MUSIC BUSINESS MAN):A person who organizes, and assumes the risk for a music business venture.

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On Sundays We love posting things concerning Church, religious beliefs…. Basically anything that makes “Sunday” to be Sunday
If you are reading this post and you are one of those who attend “hip new generation Churches” well I thank God for you, you may not be able to relate to this things I am about to say. Some of us go to some really “serious” churches and this has helped us in no small way. But sometimes they do go overboard with the way they behave. So let’s see attitude our “holy people” display when their heads knock.

1.YOU CAN’T WEAR TROUSERS AS A FEMALE! Yea, once you enter the church the way heads would turn to look at you ehn! You may even have to check yourself well if in your rush you forget to wear your trousers and came to church in panties. The next thing that happens is that the usher would rush at you as if you are holding a dangerous weapons just to tell you that you shouldn’t wear trousers into the church

.2.When everyone is praying and you are praying with your eyes open. The next thing you would hear is “My friend, close your eyes!” abeg where in the Bible did God say we must close our eyes when praying?? Na wa o.

3.You cut your hair in a style…. E.g punk, Afro and all the rest,and then you’re asked to come and preach or take opening prayer…. Just find any nearest barber to cut your hair. If not when they eventually let you do it… If eyes could kill. you won’t make it back home that day
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Just want us to have fun this beautiful Sunday evening. You know sometimes wives fear the “mother-in-law” problem even before they get married. I have heard some unmarried girls say that theythey can’t get married to a guy whose mother is still alive and I ask “na you wan kill am?” and even if she does due. Remember one day your son would wanna get married. What if his girlfriend also wants you dead too?
You know the problem with The “mother-in-law” issues is “the” problem with women.
Women are often very troublesome and it’s not news that women are hostile especially to themselves.
So imagine when a woman who carried her boy for nine months, raised him up as a good man now meets another woman who seems to want to take her boy from her.? What do you think would happen..
So now let’s paint a scenario leading up to our post title.
Kaleb married Tania. His mother “mama Kaleb” decides to come spend sometime with her son Kaleb. Mama Kaleb has never really gone along well with Tania. She didn’t like her from the first day Kaleb brought her to introduce as wife. She isn’t from their tribe, she talks too much, she can’t cook as good as mama Kaleb, she is just a leech… This is what mama Kaleb thinks of Tania. Tania is a beautiful woman, 26years old, hardworking and business savvy. she has been married to Kaleb for over six months. Though she loves Kaleb so much even their tribal differences couldn’t keep them apart,But she can’t say the same for mama Kaleb. Since the first day Kaleb introduced her to mama… She knew mama didn’t like her, she could feel those eyes sizing her up and after the sizing it seems she didn’t pass. She knew mama didn’t approve of her.. . That day she heard Kaleb and mama yelling at each other. But she just married Kaleb cos she loves him so much and didn’t see herself with anybody else but him…. But mama was in the way….! On Wednesday, Kaleb who is a business man had left as early as 5am to see to his business.. Leaving just mama and Tania at home! (wahala).
Tania knew mama wanted a fight and she was ready to give her one if need be, but she would avoid her the best she could because of Kaleb. Mama pranced around the house like a lion. She would look at the Floor to see if it was properly mopped. She checked the TV and with each one she checked she nodded her head in disagreement and muttered something in her language which made Tania more nervous because she didn’t know what mama was muttering under angry breath. Tania had tried learning Kaleb’s tribe language but it didn’t seem to be “entering” her head…. She only understood basic things

Then the camels back broke when mama yelled “Tania…. Abi Wat is that your name sef! Come her my friend!” Tania knew there was trouble cos from experience she knew that when a Nigerian parent called you “my friend” it wasn’t in the right sense of the word “friend” Infact it was quite the opposite

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Just want us to have fun this beautiful Sunday evening. You know sometimes wives fear the “mother-in-law” problem even before they get married. I have heard some unmarried girls say that theythey can’t get married to a guy whose mother is still alive and I ask “na you wan kill am?” and even if she does due. Remember one day your son would wanna get married. What if his girlfriend also wants you dead too?
You know the problem with The “mother-in-law” issues is “the” problem with women.
Women are often very troublesome and it’s not news that women are hostile especially to themselves.
So imagine when a woman who carried her boy for nine months, raised him up as a good man now meets another woman who seems to want to take her boy from her.? What do you think would happen..
So now let’s paint a scenario leading up to our post title.
Kaleb married Tania. His mother “mama Kaleb” decides to come spend sometime with her son Kaleb. Mama Kaleb has never really gone along well with Tania. She didn’t like her from the first day Kaleb brought her to introduce as wife. She isn’t from their tribe, she talks too much, she can’t cook as good as mama Kaleb, she is just a leech… This is what mama Kaleb thinks of Tania. Tania is a beautiful woman, 26years old, hardworking and business savvy. she has been married to Kaleb for over six months. Though she loves Kaleb so much even their tribal differences couldn’t keep them apart,But she can’t say the same for mama Kaleb. Since the first day Kaleb introduced her to mama… She knew mama didn’t like her, she could feel those eyes sizing her up and after the sizing it seems she didn’t pass. She knew mama didn’t approve of her.. . That day she heard Kaleb and mama yelling at each other. But she just married Kaleb cos she loves him so much and didn’t see herself with anybody else but him…. But mama was in the way….! On Wednesday, Kaleb who is a business man had left as early as 5am to see to his business.. Leaving just mama and Tania at home! (wahala).
Tania knew mama wanted a fight and she was ready to give her one if need be, but she would avoid her the best she could because of Kaleb. Mama pranced around the house like a lion. She would look at the Floor to see if it was properly mopped. She checked the TV and with each one she checked she nodded her head in disagreement and muttered something in her language which made Tania more nervous because she didn’t know what mama was muttering under angry breath. Tania had tried learning Kaleb’s tribe language but it didn’t seem to be “entering” her head…. She only understood basic things

Then the camels back broke when mama yelled “Tania…. Abi Wat is that your name sef! Come her my friend!” Tania knew there was trouble cos from experience she knew that when a Nigerian parent called you “my friend” it wasn’t in the right sense of the word “friend” Infact it was quite the opposite

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If you followed our posts you would have read where Truenaijayarn talked about Dino melaye and Remi Tinubu spat… Well seems Kogi state senator Dino melaye is not afraid of Bola Tinubu who is the husband to Remi Tinubu. Everyone who follows politics knows Bola Tinubu is a political God father and should not be messed with.
But it seems Dino melaye is going to prove us wrong. He posted some pictures of himself on Twitter walking down bourdillon road(An estate where Tinubu holds sway).

The Senator representing Kogi West Senatorial District, Senator Dino Melaye on Saturday ignored threats from the South-West zone of the All Progressives Congress (APC) as flew down to Lagos and also visited Bourdillon Street in Ikoyi…. Lolz

The South-West chapter of the APC had threatened to deal with him if he dares to visit the region after his quarrel with Senator Oluremi Tinubu.
The party advised him to apologise to Oluremi or stay away from the south west zone
Dino was said to have threatened to manhandle the Lagos Central senator for allegedly calling him a dog and thug. Dino threatened to beat her and impregnate her

On Saturday, Dino posted pictures of his arrival at the Murtala Mohammed Airport on Facebook
He also posted a photograph of him walking down Bourdillon Avenue in Ikoyi, Lagos, an upscale street where the APC national leader lives and holds court.
Dino threw caution to the wind and said Tinubu couldn’t end his political career his picture had this caption: “This is Dino walking freely on Bourdillon in Lagos. I walk down the street right now. Eyin da? (Where are you all)… Lol, fearless man! This is APC-south West zone statement to him. The statement reads in full…
“All Progressives Congress members (South West Zone) feel scandalized and traumatized that we are in the same political party with the likes of Senator Dino Melaye who was credited with using the sovereignty of the floor of the Senate Chambers to address Senator Oluremi Tinubu a Very Distinguished Senator and wife of our Leader Senator Bola Ahmed Tinubu in very rude, indecent and uncouched language. We are surprised that any person elected into the Nigerian Senate could remind us of the often repeated lyrics “Vagabond in Power” by Fela Anikulapo Kuti at the Berlin festival performance.
On the other hand, going by the antecedents of the undistinguished Senator Melaye, his current conduct in the Senate is predictable, he had “married” and divorced three women who all had stories of violence visited on them by him. We wonder if Dino thought Mrs. Tinubu was in the class of his slave ladies. Dino we know was rejected in 2011 by his constituency at the polls, only for him to clandestinely contest the senate seat riding on the popularity of the All Progressives Congress to climb to the hallowed chambers of the Senate. But the leopard never shed its skin. Melaye is nothing but a disgrace to the Nigerian Senate.
We at the All Progressives Congress (South West Zone) call on the undistinguished Senator to publicly withdraw his tantrums and apologize not only to our own Mrs. Oluremi Tinubu but also to the entire Tinubu Family, Womanhood and the All Progressives Congress in the South West Zone. We invite all our women society organizations to see this as a fight against the denigration of the Nigerian woman.
We call on the National Leadership and indeed the National Chairman of our Great Party, His Excellency Chief John Odigie Oyegun, to call the disgrace of a person in Senator Melaye, a wolf in a sheep’s skin to order. From reports of his performance and activities in the Senate, this incident is typical of Dino’s record. We wonder if Dino will not one of these days carry out his threat of beating up a Senate colleague.
We call on the Ag. Inspector General of Police Ibrahim Kpotun Idris to note the threat issued by Dino Melaye, that he will kill anybody who testifies against the accused persons in the Senate forgery case. We think Dino threat is not just running his usual verbal but his outburst was a demonstration of the hatred he harbors for our Distinguished Senator Oluremi Tinubu.
Meanwhile Senator Melaye should regard the South West Zone as a no go area if he refused to tender a public apology and desist from such unruly behaviours on any colleague from any party of this country in the future.... Lol.... This Man sha
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Relationships can be a beautiful thing when the going is all good and sweet.
However when that sweet relationship eventually ends it can bring with it high level of emotional trauma.
Guys and girls are wired very differently and the way a lady reacts to issues may not be the same way a guy reacts… Of cos except he’s gay.. Lol.
So let’s see some funny ways that guys react to break up.

1.THEY PRETEND NOT TO CARE:When that relationship ends the guy would pretend not to care. Delete the girls number. Would tell all his other friends that he is very happy as the relationship has ended. Would laugh, dance and continue his life very normally.

Continue reading here: http://truenaijayarn.com/how-guys-handle-break-up/

A 55-year-old man, (names withheld) is now in police net, for allegedly defiling a seven- year-old girl.
The incident occurred yesterday in Ogidi, Idemili North Local Government Area, Anambra State.
Daily Sun gathered that the girl had gone to ease herself when the man asked her to come.
The girl was said to have rebuffed the suspect’s approach on the ground that her mother had told her not to answer strangers.
Not satisfied, the suspect allegedly pounced on her, stripped and raped her.
It was gathered that as the girl was struggling to free herself from the grip of the randy bachelor, she sustained injuries .
Her Uncle, Mr Emeka Onuegbe, who spoke to Daily Sun said, “the girl was bleeding profusely when she returned and told the mother what happened.”
The Ogidi Divisional Police Officer, (DPO), Mr Hassan Musa, confirmed the incident and said that investigation has commenced on the matter.

It amazes me why a 55year old man Would stoop so low as to rape child. Do we blame the devil or do we blame the man for being unable to control his desires.
By the time more news come out on this matter you would hear the man say “it was the devil who pushed me” The devil was on his own and you are accusing him.

I move a motion that all child rapists should be castrated!
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Sex is something that is almost inevitable except you choose to become a nun or priest. However many parents especially in this part of the world choose to shy away from telling their children about sex. You know the saying “what you don’t know doesn’t kill you”. The truth is “what you don’t know actually kills you”. Ignorance or lack of knowledge on a particular thing is very dangerous.
A baby that doesn’t know that a knife can kill would probably play around with that knife and if there is no one around to take away that knife, that knife might actually kill that baby.

Growing up when I was a teenager. I was never taught about sex by my parents. So I grew up totally ignorant about sex and if not for the help of God I would have actually discovered it in a wrong way, and you know how it feels when you discover something by yourself for the first time.

Statistics have it that about 80% of teenagers in Nigeria aren’t taught about sex by their parents. Even the mention of sex by some children can lead to them being severely dealt with by their parents.

Teenagers are very inquisitive and want to know more than they already know. So it would be tantamount to foolishness when you think that you can hide Something like sex from them. Sex is everywhere now, on the TV, Internet, advertisements, even TV commercials sells sex to sell their products. So when you don’t teach them trust me they would eventually find out.

I have met with alot of teenagers who even when you put a gun to their heads would never say “penis” or “vagina”
Why? Cos their parents has told them that those words are forbidden.
Remember that time when your parents would tell you that “Don’t go near that boy o! If you do, you Would Carry Belle”
And this hindered relationship for many of us with the opposite sex. Why do Nigerian parents want to Raise dunces? Who can’t stand for themselves or look the opposite sex straight to the eye to ask for a pencil. And when these teenagers eventually discover sex it becomes a big problem Cos the sweetest type of discovery is self-discovery. Self-discovery leaves a more lasting impression on one’s mind than something someone else said.

Yesterday we posted an article on little girls becoming pregnant at early stages in life. Read our post when babies becomes Curses.

Some of those cases mentioned there were probably not told about sex. But they had sex anyway and even got pregnant.
I implore our mothers and fathers please tell your children about sex. Eventually they would have sex but it’s better they have sex at the right time. Tell them what happens during sex, tell them about contraceptives… Also tell them the dangers involved in unprotected and illicit sex.

WHat do you think about this issue? Should sex be hidden from our children or should we tell them about it first?

Suffer not a witch to live? Exodus 22:18.This has been the slogan of many home in Africa, precisely Nigeria. We Nigerians are very superstitious people we attach spiritual relevance to everything we do. You can imagine telling a Nigerian “sir the elevator is going downstairs, so you are going down.” and he quickly claps back at you “I will not go down in Jesus name”. That’s how “close” to God we are. Children has for many decades suffered mercilessly under the hands of many of the religious fanatics. Physiologically, mentally and emotional abuse on account of being witches or demon spirits.
Some churches exorcize these children by flogging them with whips, leaving them out in the cold to die, starving them of food in the hope that the demon in them would get hungry and flee…lol

Earlier this year we read of a child who was abandoned by his parents in akwa ibom on account of being a Wizard. When I saw the Child pictures which was scattered all over the Internet. I didn’t see a wizard. I saw a child who had been abandoned by his own parents who were supposed to take care of him. I saw a child who was emaciated and hungry.
This boy had been left to die on the streets of akwa ibom until a white woman with tattoos saved him. You may be surprised why I had to include the “tattoos” to describe her. In Christianity “tattoos” are not exactly an example of being a good person let alone a good Christian. However this supposed bad person did a good act that am sure heaven would recognize.
Exactly what happened in the Bible days, when Jesus Christ told his disciples about the parable of the good Samaritan. Where, supposed men of God walked past a man who was at the jaws of death.

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Babies are to be a bundle of joy right? Right. But do you know that this bundles of joy, happiness and cuteness can be Bundles of sorrow, shame and tears
My mother would always tell me that when you eat what you can’t handle you would get choked
Many young girls from the age of ten and upwards has been thrown into the family way by callous men. The Bible said that for everything under the sun there is a time and season.
When one gets something that he or she isn’t supposed to get at that time. That thing become a curse.
There Is a time for a woman to take in and bear a child. When it’s not done at the right time.. That protruding Tummy which is supposed to contain a bundle of joy and happiness,now carries shame and disgrace becoming an emblem of Shame.

In Nigeria alone, sixteen million teenage girls get pregnant every year. 3.5million go through safe abortion though more than in a million cases complications such as cervical cancer, ovarian cancer and uterine perforation and so many others arise. In so many other cases the abortions lead to death or near death experience.
These pregnant teenagers have been recorded to Abort their babies, flush them down the toilet or leave them to die. Punishing a child who didn’t ask you to be Lost in that throes of 10minutes passion. Babies paying for what they nothing about.

A case which happened at Paxton international school. A secondary school located at Agric, ojo. The teenage girl who was known as a very quiet and reserved teenager. Suddenly stopped coming to class and further probing revealed that she was pregnant. This was shocking to people as this girl was a very quiet girl in school. Some months down the lie the baby bump was gone. The poor baby suffered for someone else’s sin.

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Every singer that I have come across wants to hit high notes.
I am one of the Voice directors in my church choir. I did a little survey to know the problem my singers are having concerning their voice,and one thing all of them had in common was “wanting to hit high notes”. This problem is not common to my choristers only. It’s a prevalent problem everywhere. Singers wants to hit high notes and be applauded as “that girl that sings high note”

The problem is they don’t realize that singing high notes is not very much important. Singing high notes is not what makes you a good singer. What makes you a good singer is your Tone quality, tone color, musicianship. People focus on high notes and forget to work on their low notes. Remember “pitch” is not just about going up its also in the going down.

Pavarotti wasn’t a singer with so much high pitch singing. But he was one of the worlds renowned singers of all time.
What about angelique kidjo who is a Grammy award winning singer. She doesn’t have that Celinedion pictch we all wanna sing.

You mustn’t sing High notes. Your voice range may not go into the “high zones” but you can definitely still be an amazing singer.
However, you can extend your Voice range by doing some voice exercises.
The key is play around your range. Be so comfortable singing on the range you have and express freely with it. Be confident in who you are and the voice you have. Instead of killing yourself trying to sing high notes. Work on your Voice tone instead-that beauty your voice carries everytime you open your mouth to sing. Work on your breath-even if you wanted to sing high notes and you can’t properly manage your breath you would eventually end up losing your voice in its entirety.
Work on your musicianship which is the total package of any musician.
I know alot of singers who don’t even have good Voices in the way we think of the phrase “good voice” but are going places because they aren’t just Vocalists they are musicians,who have mastered the art of musicianship.

However if you must sing high notes. There are voice exercises you must be religiously do. Note that voice exercises can be boring and stressful but commitment to it would eventually yield results.

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Portugal lifted the european cup yesterday night with a 1-0 defeat over france. Cristiano Ronaldo said Portugal deserved to win Euro 2016 “after years of sacrifice” following their victory over France.

Ronaldo was was forced off by an unexpected knee injury cried bitterly


Ronaldo was set to steal the night however was disappointed. As the injury ruined his big night.
A strong but legal tackle from West Ham midfielder Dimitri Payet left Ronaldo clutching his knee on the turf. Ronaldo tried to carry on but eventually it dawned on him that he couldn’t continue
Former Chelsea winger Ricardo Quaresma came on to replace him.
However sorrow turned to joy as Eder scores the winning goal and Portugal held on to it to lift the coveted euro cup. Another tears flowed again but this time it was tears of joy.

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Today is Sunday. And every Sunday TRUENAIJAYARN would bring to you gist, articles,Our thoughts and people’s thoughts concerning God, church, Jesus, Beliefs, doctrines And much more.

So this post being our first edition of #SundayYarn#let us start off with some things that people come to church to do.

1.SLEEP:You would be surprised that many people wake up, dress well, looking all fly and cool only to come to the church to sleep. Especially when pastor starts preaching. Once praise and worship is over. They would just sit down on their sits, adjust well on the seats and off they go…. Church bye bye!

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A lot of Young people are into one form of relationship or the other. Business relationship, casual relationship, Intimate relationship Etc.
However for today let’s talk about the one that quickly comes to mind when someone says “Relationship”… DATING RELATIONSHIP.
Let’s see some things that we consciously or subconsciously do that can break that relationship
1.BECOMING OVERLY FAMILIAR WITH YOUR SPOUSE :
This is very common amongst many relationships. When you started seeing that person. The first three months were all rosy and sweet. You were all over each other, never wanted to leave his or her sight for even a minute.
Fast forward to eight months. The “love” ain’t there any longer. When I say “love” I mean that feeling of your heart skipping when you see that person, you smile when you hear his/her voice, you Can walk even by 11pm at night just to see the person(Mumu)…That feeling is all gone and then you see the person, sometimes you talk sometimes you don’t just feel like it,so you don’t. He/she calls you and you don’t rush to pick the calls. You basically relax on those things you did earlier.
Being overly familiar with your spouse is one fast way to kill a relationship.

2.INCESSANT DISAGREEMENTS: Yea we all disagree to agree. But when disagreement becomes a regular play out between you and your spouse, it means that relationship is near its end. People eventually get tired of raising their Voices at each other or ignoring each other after a fight. Eventually it would wear them out
So If you are constantly making a fuss out of nothing for your partner… Please stop. It does get really exhausting.
Especially to the women folks who are always quick to jump into conclusions,and raise dust out of nothing.

3. THINKING THAT SEX IS WHAT HOLDS A RELATIONSHIP:This is a common fallacy amongst young people. Sex doesn’t make a relationship stronger, Infact it weakens it…What’s the fun in wanting to marry someone you have already slept with severally, probably she cooks for you too….She is already your wife na
Sex won’t make him/her stay. If he/she doesn’t wanna stay he/she won’t. So don’t sell yourself short. That is a relationship breaker.
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A lot of Young people are into one form of relationship or the other. Business relationship, casual relationship, Intimate relationship Etc.
However for today let’s talk about the one that quickly comes to mind when someone says “Relationship”… DATING RELATIONSHIP.
Let’s see some things that we consciously or subconsciously do that can break that relationship
1.BECOMING OVERLY FAMILIAR WITH YOUR SPOUSE :
This is very common amongst many relationships. When you started seeing that person. The first three months were all rosy and sweet. You were all over each other, never wanted to leave his or her sight for even a minute.
Fast forward to eight months. The “love” ain’t there any longer. When I say “love” I mean that feeling of your heart skipping when you see that person, you smile when you hear his/her voice, you Can walk even by 11pm at night just to see the person(Mumu)…That feeling is all gone and then you see the person, sometimes you talk sometimes you don’t just feel like it,so you don’t. He/she calls you and you don’t rush to pick the calls. You basically relax on those things you did earlier.
Being overly familiar with your spouse is one fast way to kill a relationship.

2.INCESSANT DISAGREEMENTS: Yea we all disagree to agree. But when disagreement becomes a regular play out between you and your spouse, it means that relationship is near its end. People eventually get tired of raising their Voices at each other or ignoring each other after a fight. Eventually it would wear them out
So If you are constantly making a fuss out of nothing for your partner… Please stop. It does get really exhausting.
Especially to the women folks who are always quick to jump into conclusions,and raise dust out of nothing.

3. THINKING THAT SEX IS WHAT HOLDS A RELATIONSHIP:This is a common fallacy amongst young people. Sex doesn’t make a relationship stronger, Infact it weakens it…What’s the fun in wanting to marry someone you have already slept with severally, probably she cooks for you too….She is already your wife na
Sex won’t make him/her stay. If he/she doesn’t wanna stay he/she won’t. So don’t sell yourself short. That is a relationship breaker.
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A lot of young people suffer from low self esteem and they don’t even know it.
I have been opportuned to talk to many young people and I realized that many of them suffer from low self esteem issues
The author of a book on the issue said “Believing that there is something innately wrong with themselves, these low self esteem sufferers experience self-esteem attacks (often called panic attacks) when they do something they deem to have been stupid, something they think others have noticed, and something that confirms their own feelings of inadequacy, …”

I myself once had this problem. I wanted to be everyone who came around me. This prompted me to join a lot of bad gangs in my secondary school trying to find some worth. And like I said earlier some of us didn’t even know it…. We would swagger around and pretend that everything is just fine, but inwardly there is this need to fill up a void of emptiness a haunting thought which keeps telling you”you are inadequate. Why can’t your nose be like hers,”

If not, how do you explain that whizkid posted a picture of himself in the toilet and vast majority of young people followed suit.... Continue reading here:http://truenaijayarn.com/low-self-esteem-and-its-symptoms/

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Late yesterday evening at around 6:05pm in Agric,ojo. A young child who looked to be between 8-10years old was knocked down by a Bike man who swerved off the road and Hit him leaving his leg badly damaged. People Gathered at the scene and the Child was rushed to a clinic in Agric, ojo. The boy looked to be in a very bad shape and was seen lying down helplessly on the Chair. The nurses refused to attend to him until the 7000naira for x-ray was paid.
The Okada rider who knocked him down look confused as his other friends who are also Bike riders thronged the scene. People could be seen shaking their heads in pity saying “This aboki people sef”
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