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Nemeka:
Using oestrogen based crystal ball, I can say indeed "police is your closest friend".

But can't guys testify of things like this when they receive such?

#menMustTestify #policeIsAlsoMenFriend

The driver is male, from the story...

My colleague @gbo_lee explained what happened to him and amazingly this guy made calls, another patrol van came by...

Are they blocking a free kick?

mrvitalis:
3 billion dollars will cultivate, Mill, D stone and Polish over 1000000 hectares of long grain rice.. That's over 120 million bags of rice..

Seriously something is wrong with our brains

We consume anywhere near that quantity/annum.

$3B was pulled out of some ass...

tdbankplc:
Solve problem of tribalism first before talking racism.

Why would racism surprise anyone, after they've seen how much we love ourselves here on NL.

This is the funniest shid I've seen in a long time!

Girl's like a broken record.

Victor my man...

"It's a penaity!"

kabrud:
Hahahahahahahahaha, these akpu-eating flat heads will never cease to amaze me.

Hahaha. Now this is funny.

DrRasheed:
Using our secret police, intelligence reports, the president has the power to ignore the law for the betterment of the country. So dont talk about legality here. The corrupt judges had toy the fate of innocent citizens.

Choose A Woman Who Chooses You...

"If a man wants a woman who doesn't want him, he cannot win. His
neediness will undermine any possible relationship, and his woman will
never be able to trust him. A man must determine whether a woman
really wants him but is playing hard to get, or whether she really doesn't
want him. If she doesn't want him, he should immediately cease
pursuing her and deal with his pain by himself."

David Deida, The Way of The Superior Man.

ivandragon:
for discerning minds, I hope you can read in between the lines of the statement & see the implied threat...

negative reports of the FG is a breach of national interest.

I see am o...

CFCman:
The country is very much a patriarchal society. Those men felt you knew very little about cars/accidents.

You've not had a "conversation" with a hysterical woman before...

And woman are not very good decision makers. They'd rather a male handle it.

divinehand2003:
Na the same day this guy take these pictures ooooo. These are the signs of packaging.

Different days.

Check the windows...

[quote author=undecidedYoruba post=50024971]Imo state has already become Okorocha's personal property just like Edo is oshonmole's[/quote

So it would seem...

But it once seemed to be Ohakim's, and Udenwa's, before him.

The future is unwritten...

rozayx5:
now they are using 270 Million to cut grass in the desert...

Talk2Bella:
I smell trouble

does this have anything to do with the other group of terrorists who visited the president in aso rock?

please if u don't understand the humor don't quote me

They can find you - through your blog - and blow you to bits...

Apologize.

"Marriage is a wonderful institution, but who wants to live in an institution?" ----- Groucho Marx

mrk74:
Thank you very much for your suggestions. I'm very honest in this and I've also tried my best to be objective. She is a wonderful wife and I've boosted to family and friends even before marriage that she is 99% of what I want in a woman and truly she is. Concerning the talk, I had pointed out that we had such a serious talk just before we began our marriage process and I think she had genuinely accepted to adjust and for over a year we didn't get to this point, though I think there must have been some instances I had simply overlooked. As per this very item, it's a very common cooking item that most people can't do without but it gives me running stomach when the quantity is much. My late mother always used it in her cooking but she was very moderate that mistakes were like 1 in 50 times or probably less. I only told her to stop after she can't adjust. And she knows very well the trouble it gives me. But the request is like a sacrifice on her part but the alternative is for her to add this when she wants to eat and the objective will still be achieved. After we've had this slight row and I threatened not to eat her food again, she has again promised not to use it. But from experience, I won't be surprised if she gets back to it after a while. I'm also of the opinion that if she actually apologizes, she will take it more serious and will be more likely to uphold her promise.

Imagine if every time someone arrives late to work, the boss ONLY says some words (with no implied consequence behind them), and asks for an apology

...order will break down...

Productivity will suffer as people will get to work, everyday, by 3:59 PM - or not all.

If your wife's boss tells her, once, never to smoke in the office again, he will only need to say it that one time, and she would never repeat it.

Why?

Because there would be a swift and unforgiving consequence...

Consequences keep civilization in orbit.

Remove it and people will behead their neighbours, torch others properties and loot markets...


Although both relationships are different, the dynamic behind why your wife will comply with her boss' request command and not yours is the same...

Motivation 101: People take action that moves them towards pleasure or away from pain.

If all you'd do is whine, with there being no repercussion, then there is no motivation for her to stop.

If she adds the offending ingredient in the food, don't whine, don't complain. Simply don't eat it...because it genuinely upsets your stomach.

The same way you wouldn't drink a glass of laxative, if she serves you that in place of coffee.


You might ask, "so how is not eating the food a potent consequence?"

Oh it is! But not by itself...

You see, it is your sacred duty, as a man, to "escalate her escalation". If she gives your peace of mind, feminine sunshine and compliance, you take these up a notch and reward her accordingly.

On the other hand, if she gives you unpleasantness and discomfort...

You don't play chicken.

You escalate this too and reward her accordingly. "To be prepared for war is one of the most effective means of preserving peace", said George Washington.

See, whenever she puts that stuff in your food, she's essentially not giving you food. And if she's not feeding you, she isn't being wifely. And if she isn't being wifely, you stop being husbandly.

You can appeal to people's sense of duty, responsibility and fairness, until the cows come home, and they will still take you for granted and do as it pleases them.

But add one ounce of repercussion to the equation and their behaviour lines up nicely.

"Speak softly, but carry a big stick" ------ Teddy Roosevelt

mrk74:
Please don't just view. I need your suggestions/inputs.

Let me add that I believe in leading by example. I take her suggestions seriously. Where I don't agree we discuss it and I get her to understand and willingly agree with me. The only complain she has ever had pertaining to me was about me calling her by her name (actually short form of her name) instead of her pet name when friends or visitors are around. I just wasn't used to it but I had apologized and adjusted.

You'll learn a lot from the married folks here: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill

Start from the sidebar.

Sort by "Top > All Time" as well, and check out the top posts.

holluwai:
Money is a bittch!

Make it your biitch...

First thing you should do is get educated.

Read posts on SeoMoz (now Moz), QuickSprout, Backlinko and maybe AuthorityHacker.

Google has some of the sharpest knives in the kitchen fighting web spam.

You don't stand a chance with shitty content and drive-by spam.

Get educated...

Rape moto...

Babe's an attention seeker.

eyinjuege:
But seriously OP, how can your wife just wake up one day and say she's not interested in the marriage again? Just like that
And her parents seem to be in support?

What exactly went wrong in the marriage?
It's such a strange story.

Nothing strange here man.

Man not balling. Wife go.

Fair-weather wife...

Boleyndynasty2:
So his clean? He can afford a crib in Dubai?

When we were kids, there was this urban legend of pythons vomiting diamonds at night...

Dude's a snake merchant. Do the math.

ColdHardTruth:
OP, truth is that almost every human would steal if they're SURE of getting away with it 100%

You should change that to YOU will steal 100% of the time - if you'd get away with it.

okpukpu:
Who else notice that man behind the scene?

To me, he's the star of the shot.

That intentful look...

menix:
I am beginning to suspect you...

Me sef dey suspect you too...

"Wey your particulars?"

blaze7x:
"However, when the police were confronted with the superior firepower of the kidnappers they ran away, leaving her and the other victims in the hands of the criminals."

My br, the problem of Nigeria is multifaceted .The NFP is not well equipped. In fact i get infuriated each time i see the wood they give to our security agencents as gun

I feel for the woman

May God save us

But seriously, on a good day, no be assault rifle police suppose dey carry.

We are not in a war zone (technically speaking ).