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Anything you do to her naso dem bad boys do do your daughter

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No dey do like that it's my fair

[quote author=Smokey5 post=85871069]Federal universities,colleges and polytechnics.......in no particular order ....will start receiving minimum wage arrears alert from this weekend (only for those who are enrolled into ippis .spend prudently...[no dey do like that it's nt funny]

Tell him to go on fruits fast for a week and Cee the out come it worked for me a y way.

[quote author=Bossontop post=77770218]
Thank God for the increase sha[Allah have mercy on uss All]

[quote author=chukel post=85508089]28k increase. Conmess[what level]

[quote author=Ladyhippolyta88 post=85574174]He is unstable wallahi an unstabble president presiding ovver nuclear weapons]

[quote author=yultater post=85573905][send your children first]

[quote author=DonFreshmoney post=85572867]Lets the royal rumble begin..

USA, FRANCE, UK, ISRAEL, GERMANY
VS
IRAQ, IRAN, CHINA, RUSSIA AND NORTH KOREA

I need to see World WAR in my lifetime so that I can tell my grandkids how is it to be in the battlefield with America soldiers..[who told you that you would live to see your grand kids radiation alone will make you impotent talkless of children amd grnd children ask japan for gist uptillnow children are deformmed american have banned showing it in public thats all]

polytechnic staff are you on ipps platform (any poly staff in the house)

I hope this guy didn't just usher in world war III

aalangel:
I won't give birth for Flavour. I had the opportunity as a jazz singer those days to misbehave, but I turned down the offer cos I won't sing in club and still sing in Church. It's just a choice.

your saying it with the tonation of achievement 8

bulbutcher:
Aug. . . . .? ? ?

Yes

women think differently than men read a write up on this forum called
congruency testing or rationalmale.com
what they value and what they find atractive. its nt what you think
a stimulating read.

i wish you understand women better, their thinking is different.
their is a write up in this forum congruency testing or rational male .com
if u understand this u go run frm women

Google top ten. Best top loaders
Or .most reliable washing
machmachines.
Best washers or the ones DAT last longest with :owithout faults

LadySarah:
hahaha

women think differently than menote] search a write up on this forum called congruency testing or rational male .com
Very educative and an eye opener
Notice women art nt commenting cuz they undstand.

[quote author=Angelfrost post=85370910]Lol... What a pathetic response from an uncultured, near retarded dimwit.

Take your own fvcking piece of worthless counsel; mind your business, and find how you can make something out of your "amazing" life come 2020!!! Happy New Year in advance! Cheers!!!

P.S: Don't ever respond in such insolent manner again. If you are tired of this forum, deactivate your account and get the fvck out! You need not wait for a ban!!![women think differently than menote] search a write up on this forum called congruency testing or rational male .com
Very educative and an eye opener
Notice women art nt commenting cuz they undstand.

How did the west convince us DAT polygamy is evil
But having baby mama is spot on.
I'wd rather my sister be 4th wife than first babymama
Its 2 faces fault.

bodaola:
Last week. I invited a girl to my house and one thing one thing we started smooching... When the smooching is going on. She said, i Dont want to do this. I said why, she said... My wedding is 28 of December.

In shock i was like, so you will soon be a married woman. She said yes. Even should me I.V on her phone. I was wowed.
Then i tend removing my mind off this. Not until she said she's already Hot that she needs my dick now... She pounce on it and we ride on. While we were fuvking, her Fiance called and she instructed me to keep quiet. Then i did.
During the Convo, the guy asked her where is she. She then replied she's at aunty Hannah's place. She came to bargain about the wedding planner shit. Then the guy said OK and dropped the call.
We continue fuvking, but my mind was off it. At that time, i began to feel heartbreak. I felt the pain. I began to think my girlfriend is fuvking another guy apparently. Mehn! As we are talking now! I just broke up with my girlfriend. I can't allow any woman do this to me in future.

See, i Dont think I will get married. I sorry mum, I will do baby mama thing. No! Women are thieves!

what you do to sm bodys daughter na so pesin go do your daughter or sister

You cannot negotiate genuine desire.


Validational Sex

When women look for that Alpha Seed in their peak ovulatory (proliferative) phase, the sex they seek is a desired sex with a man who meets evolutionary criteria. He’s the ‘hawt’ guy, or the man who leaves a woman with an perception of danger or excitement. A lot of men who don’t meet this criteria have a tendency to over-exaggerate this type of man as the ‘Alpha Chad’ and make a ridiculous parody of him as an ego protection mechanism for themselves. Let me state for the record here that every aspect and adjective that this type of guy embodies is mitigated by conditions and contexts. It is just as likely that this conventionally masculine dominant guy is only so according to his most immediate social situation. So spare me the “Chad Thundercock” anxieties.

The sex that women give “enthusiastic consent” for is validational for them. The easy assessment here is that women have a genuine desire to mate with conventionally masculine men who look and act the part – yes, behavioral congruency is vital. If you follow the research women consciously and unconsciously will actively put themselves into environments where the likelihood of their meeting a dominant masculine man who most closely matched that masculine ideal when they are in estrus. They openly and discreetly look of arousal cue from men who best embody what can only be described as Alpha Seed.

I should also add that women in “satisfying relationships” (meaning LTRs where a woman is still very hot for her husband/boyfriend) report an increase in sexual desire (proceptivity) for that guy during this phase. A lot of guys mistakenly think ANY woman will want to seek out extra-pair mating (cheating) opportunities when they’re in estrus. This is only true if a woman isn’t into her current man.

I don’t want to get too lost in the descriptions here. Rather, I want to focus on the associative feelings women get in and after having sex with that Alpha man during estrus. I would argue that Alpha Widows are made in the estrus phase. This is the sex women want to have and are enthusiastic in both the hunt and the act itself. This is largely (presumedly) the sex that men have with their wives-to-be before they marry. It’s this validational sex, the sex that women fantasize about, that men and women want to get back to once they are committed to each other monogamously but now have a dead bedroom. This sex validates a woman’s ego in that it proves to herself that a man of this SMV caliber would want to pin her to the bed and have marathon sex with her. Remember, the latent purpose of this sex, on this side of Hypergamy, is to access the sperm from men with high reproductive value as defined by what our evolved nature predisposes women to be aroused by. Validational sex is sex by choice and genuine desire, and is satisfying on both a psychological level and an evolutionary level.
Transactional Sex

One of the benefits of a concealed estrus is that it allows women a few luxuries. One of these was the ability to confuse men of their paternity. Today this confusion is little more difficult because we’ve got DNA figured out well enough to make accurate assessments, but in our evolutionary past it was important to trick cuckolded fathers into second guessing whether a child was his or not before he killed it and impregnated a woman on his own (this is also why men evolved mate guarding behaviors).

The other advantage of concealed estrus was essentially prostitution. Now, to pretty this up a bit, lets say that women who were sexual with men outside of their fertility window found that sex could be leveraged with non-Alpha men (men they didn’t want to have children with) to encourage them to help with a lot of the chores more Alpha men were less willing (but not entirely unwilling) to do. Enter transactional sex.

As mentioned, the most overt form of transactional sex is prostitution, but it’s impolite to call every woman a LovePeddler. In fact it’s impolite to even imply a woman may be having sex for other reasons than validational sex. Today women are contemplating whether or not transactional sex is itself rape since it technically meets the definition of rape (sex women don’t want to have). I discussed this “grey area sex” recently in another essay, but it’s interesting to see women wrestle with transactional sex in an era where the Future is Female and women ought to only have the (validational) sex they want to enthusiastically have.

For most men (i.e the 80% Beta men) transactional sex is where the rubber meets the road. In fact, I’d argue that for most Beta men transactional sex is the only definition of sex they ever really know. That’s kind of sad to think about, but most men never really experience the unfettered feral lust of a woman they’ve chosen to spend the rest of their lives with. I got into this in Saving the Best and Hats Off to the Bull, but I think it’s important for the average man today to acknowledge that it’s highly likely that their wives have shared parts of themselves with, and have lost all inhibitions with, men in their sexual pasts they may never know anything about. That’s a cold bucket of reality a lot of men who unplug from all this have to confront.

Marriage today is almost entirely predicated on on the transactional sex side of Hypergamy. I’m not saying it has to be, nor am I saying it always is, but I’m fairly comfortable in speculating that for most married women sex is reward she uses in the operant conditioning of her husband. And the very fact that this is effective with most husbands throws the power dynamic and Frame of the relationship firmly over to the wife. This has the effect of disqualifying that man from ever (or very rarely) being a candidate for validational sex within that marriage. And this too is another aspect of the transactional sex dynamic that modern feminists are contemplating today – if a woman doesn’t want to have sex with her husband, but does anyway, is it rape? But again, NAMALT, not all marriages are like this or have to be like this. I would also argue that a confident man whom a woman admires, who she recognizes as being above her SMV even if slightly and who has internalized Red Pill awareness within that marriage needn’t be doomed to transactional “duty” sex in his marriage.
Transactional Sex

One of the benefits of a concealed estrus is that it allows women a few luxuries. One of these was the ability to confuse men of their paternity. Today this confusion is little more difficult because we’ve got DNA figured out well enough to make accurate assessments, but in our evolutionary past it was important to trick cuckolded fathers into second guessing whether a child was his or not before he killed it and impregnated a woman on his own (this is also why men evolved mate guarding behaviors).

The other advantage of concealed estrus was essentially prostitution. Now, to pretty this up a bit, lets say that women who were sexual with men outside of their fertility window found that sex could be leveraged with non-Alpha men (men they didn’t want to have children with) to encourage them to help with a lot of the chores more Alpha men were less willing (but not entirely unwilling) to do. Enter transactional sex.

As mentioned, the most overt form of transactional sex is prostitution, but it’s impolite to call every woman a LovePeddler. In fact it’s impolite to even imply a woman may be having sex for other reasons than validational sex. Today women are contemplating whether or not transactional sex is itself rape since it technically meets the definition of rape (sex women don’t want to have). I discussed this “grey area sex” recently in another essay, but it’s interesting to see women wrestle with transactional sex in an era where the Future is Female and women ought to only have the (validational) sex they want to enthusiastically have.

For most men (i.e the 80% Beta men) transactional sex is where the rubber meets the road. In fact, I’d argue that for most Beta men transactional sex is the only definition of sex they ever really know. That’s kind of sad to think about, but most men never really experience the unfettered feral lust of a woman they’ve chosen to spend the rest of their lives with. I got into this in Saving the Best and Hats Off to the Bull, but I think it’s important for the average man today to acknowledge that it’s highly likely that their wives have shared parts of themselves with, and have lost all inhibitions with, men in their sexual pasts they may never know anything about. That’s a cold bucket of reality a lot of men who unplug from all this have to confront.

Marriage today is almost entirely predicated on on the transactional sex side of Hypergamy. I’m not saying it has to be, nor am I saying it always is, but I’m fairly comfortable in speculating that for most married women sex is reward she uses in the operant conditioning of her husband. And the very fact that this is effective with most husbands throws the power dynamic and Frame of the relationship firmly over to the wife. This has the effect of disqualifying that man from ever (or very rarely) being a candidate for validational sex within that marriage. And this too is another aspect of the transactional sex dynamic that modern feminists are contemplating today – if a woman doesn’t want to have sex with her husband, but does anyway, is it rape? But again, NAMALT, not all marriages are like this or have to be like this. I would also argue that a confident man whom a woman admires, who she recognizes as being above her SMV even if slightly and who has internalized Red Pill awareness within that marriage needn’t be doomed to transactional “duty” sex in his marriage.
Unnegotiated Desire

And so now we come full circle to the men I was counseling back in the day. Because all they’d ever known was transactional sex their deductive male brains attempted to solve their “sex problem” in the most logistical and pragmatic way – negotiate with her. If all sex ever is for a guy is a transaction – a quid pro quo – then it follows he’ll try to find the best way to ‘pay’ for his wife’s sexual access. Hunter Drew and I were recently discussing a man who Dean Abbot has been counseling and one thing we’ve all seen a lot of from young and old Blue Pill Beta men is this logical tendency for them to want to ‘sacrifice their way to happiness with their wives’. It’s as if the more they sacrifice the more they pay for that intimacy they seek, but what they never get is that this only buries their sex lives that much more.

One amazing turn around a lot of married and single Red Pill guys experience when they unplug is the attention they receive from women when they switch from a transactional disposition to a validational disposition with regard to sex. When a man unplugs and cuts himself away from his Blue Pill conditioning one change he makes is a shift from viewing sex as transactional to validational. In the beginning, when men are first learning Game and becoming more Red Pill aware about the nature of women they really don’t recognize this shift in attitude towards sex. When I say men need to make themselves the “prize” with regards to sex and their attention what happens is they go from the “how can I pay for sex to qualify for it with a woman” to “women will recognize that I represent and opportunity for validational sex”.

The Blue Pill conditions men to base their understanding of sex on a transactional paradigm. It’s all scarcity, and luck or providence that a woman might want to Bleep them. This is why women get aggravated by the presumption that men might feel they are ‘owed sex‘ in exchange for what they do for them. And why wouldn’t men feel that way? They’ve been conditioned for half a life to believe that they should follow the old social contract and become a man with a lot to offer a woman, a wife. This is the transactional paradigm; I build my life to better accommodate a woman and she reciprocates with sex. Women know this too, so all pretenses of indignation about are complete bullshit. What upsets women is that a Beta man would feel entitled to her sexuality for having accommodated her. Alpha men are entitled to it, accommodations be damned, because he’s the man they want to have sex with.

https://therationalmale.com/2018/03/07/transactional-vs-validational-sex/

bukatyne:
Funny lady.

Did she give you the money?

I think some men basically use money to buy love/sex/relationship. And I am wary of their type. Shows that they have got no substance.

dats deep
sm men ar jst naive

bukatyne:
@Bold, why do you think so?

I wish more ladies could comment.

@ last paragraph: cheating on whose end?

ladies wnt comment

women make wrong choices at a young age all the time so give them sm slack. scold support and advise them if necessary we all have sisters.

google what women want in a man the rationamale.com
women psychology is out of this world