₦airaland Forum

From a close friend Joy
I happened to meet a lovely guy that asked
me out on a date. I also developed feelings
for him and agree to go out with him.
The mistake I made was to go on that date
with
a very close friend.
During the outing the guy picked interest in
her and
forgot that fact he was on a date with me.
He has stop picking my calls and killed every
feelings he
has for me.
I am not feeling too well because I can't stop
thinking about
him. Am confused and don't know what to do.
The guy is
a nice guy and I don't want to loose this good
opportunity that
just came to me. Girls watch who you call
your friend. Never
underestimate your friend with your man. I
pray that God will
intervene in this case.

You guys re really wonderful... I will evaluate the point and draw a reasonable conclusion... I will try to buy or see if I can download the movies u guys suggested... Am feeling little relief now...

The intelligent guys on campus know what am talking about... At times I just say to know book good ooo... Because we nor too dae spend for ladies...Lol

It might be the smile or swag which I use to dessiminate knowledge or level of intelligence... I nor say na me fine pass ooo...

@ mynissingrib... My lowest GP in sch has been 4.1... Am nt too briliant but I know I am good...

This started like joke in my secondary sconday... When I just explain a topic for the girl, she just could not stop looking for me not only to teach her but to be with her like a boyfriend... I didn't take it serious.
When I got into the university, the drama started in full swing... When I teach most of them, they just look into my eyeballs and smile... After the lecture they just can't stop indirectly wanting my attention.
A lady was bold enough one day and told me my way of explaining things can make a girl fall, but she didn't give me reason... Anyway I used it to my advantage shall...
The question is that what makes this lady to fall easily? I know am very intelligent N cute but not the six packs type... I think there is somethings more to it...

Everygirl claim they re beautiful N guys also claim they re handsome... Hmmm... Anyway I only follow the most beautiful ladies because am most handsome N hot...
Make you nor vex ooo... Na my time to glow...

I bring goood news and happinex... To all my prospective Batch C Members... Have you guyz started your online registration?

@ MoyoGeneral... I really appreciate your advise... It makes me feel relief... I think total concentration is what I need right now... I will try my possible best to stop this emotional truma from affecting my studies... I think I should just serve one master which is my books for now... My Fear is that I might Just be hurting an innocent girl that ve showed me so much care and love... Even though its affecting my studies... Am afraid of loosing her

@ glitest i understand your point... limiting my calls and visitation give her the impression am doing something behind her... i have tried to make her understand but she felt i should give her more attention than my studies..

when i was in my first year in school, in had a very good GP... in fact i was the second in my department. The same continue in my second year... i became a scholar which i was in secondary school. Everybody just want to associate with me because i am very social despite i am a book worm. All through my first and second year i was never in a serious relationship... i just play along.
In my third year, i meet this beautiful lady who caught my attention and i was able to get her easily because she knows i am a smart intelligent guy... We started and it was so sweet because she was a very nice girl who was always there... we spent most time having fun because the relationship was still fresh and i also want to do things to please her... During the process my time of reading was limited... I assisted her more in her academic work and less for mine but we are not in same department...
I was shocked when i checked my first semester result... my GP dropped, i was very angry and i decided to quit the relationship but we talked about it and i let it go... i told myself i will try and improve on my reading skills... In my second semester my result was better but it was not what i have targeted to obtain... It was so obvious to me when my friends i was doing better than top me in my third year... that is when i concluded my relationship is taking me down... i thought playing around and not having anything serious is the best because that is what i did in my first and second year and it work excellently..
I decide to have a break in my first semester fourth year... no visitation, no romance, no calls or messages... it really affected her but i just have to do it to top my class which is my priority... that semester in had the second best GP... I so smiled and said i can still come out the best. i later settle with her and apologize. I knew my relationship with my girlfriend was my barrier.
I am at the verge of quitting the relationship so i can have my full time to invest in my academics so i can be at the top... i told her last week and she was crying... i just don't want to hurt her because she has been a loving and caring lady... she has stood by me in so many ways but i just want to go back to be the scholar i have always been... i am confused. i don't know if quitting the relationship is the best decision... i really need your advise...

when i was in my first year in school, in had a very good GP... in fact i was the second in my department. The same continue in my second year... i became a scholar which i was in secondary school. Everybody just want to associate with me because i am very social despite i am a book worm. All through my first and second year i was never in a serious relationship... i just play along.
In my third year, i meet this beautiful lady who caught my attention and i was able to get her easily because she knows i am a smart intelligent guy... We started and it was so sweet because she was a very nice girl who was always there... we spent most time having fun because the relationship was still fresh and i also want to do things to please her... During the process my time of reading was limited... I assisted her more in her academic work and less for mine but we are not in same department...
I was shocked when i checked my first semester result... my GP dropped, i was very angry and i decided to quit the relationship but we talked about it and i let it go... i told myself i will try and improve on my reading skills... In my second semester my result was better but it was not what i have targeted to obtain... It was so obvious to me when my friends i was doing better than top me in my third year... that is when i concluded my relationship is taking me down... i thought playing around and not having anything serious is the best because that is what i did in my first and second year and it work excellently..
I decide to have a break in my first semester fourth year... no visitation, no romance, no calls or messages... it really affected her but i just have to do it to top my class which is my priority... that semester in had the second best GP... I so smiled and said i can still come out the best. i later settle with her and apologize. I knew my relationship with my girlfriend was my barrier.
I am at the verge of quitting the relationship so i can have my full time to invest in my academics so i can be at the top... i told her last week and she was crying... i just don't want to hurt her because she has been a loving and caring lady... she has stood by me in so many ways but i just want to go back to be the scholar i have always been... i am confused. i don't know if quitting the relationship is the best decision... i really need your advise...

My name is Prosperus. I graduted from University of Benin, Benin City and studied Geology... Nice to meet my fellow prospective batch C members in the house... You guys re doing a good job...

My dear change is the constant phenomenon in life... Brilliant student get dull when they get admitted into school due to negligence and some other school related factor... some student who are not too smart might even become brilliant when they gain admission into school... Its all depend on ability to defined your goal and know what you want and keep on it on a daily basis...
Point of correction, there is no school that don't consider merit in admission... No school will want to admit "all dull brains"... schools still consider merit.... i was in my house sleeping when uniben and uniport offered me admission... i didn't met any fly in the school to work my admission...
Schooling is a race, if you don't keep on the pace.... you might end badly
That's my point

you can do it if only you stop the procrastination... Develop the interest and it will start coming....

Looks and dressing...
front and back....
intelligence and manners
mode of communication...
Height(I DON'T LIKE SHORT GIRLS FOR ONE BIT)

Good to be part of the prospective Batch C House

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