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What most nigeria young women cook this days is nothing put potty... I just pray I don't meet such lady in my life...

Ilovenigeria: I have this family friend that doesn't like cooking, Almost everyday she and her hubby will come to our house to eat. Even most times she will beg me to cook enough so she will take some home. Now she is accusing me of sleeping with the hubby because the man stops by our house to eat when he closes from work.
I have to tell the hubby to stop coming please. She later apologised to me sha and confessed that she gets angry whenever the hubby talks about our delicious meal. She is a pro now in cooking.

so who taught her how to cook?

Dbestmax: Lol....my eyes are well shined ..bt actually many guys don't consider cooking as a factor anymore with d emergence of Fast food joints here and there

Only boys don't consider cooking factors when getting married but Men does...

carefreewannabe: It may come as a surprise to you but I am a very good cook and for YOUR information to make you stop making wrong assumptions, I cook for my baby and when I cook for him, I cook with a lot of love.

But guess what, he can cook too. And he doesn't question his manhood when he cooks something for me.

And each time he does something for me, I say to myself, I will give it back to him multiple times.

I didn't ask for such explanation.... I only asked why you decide to hide the thread from me.... simple. what's my business if you give me million times

BananaBender: LMAO!

I need to hide this thread from carefree, the chic might just blow up after this

guy watin happen to carefree...If she don't know how to cook, plz don't hide it from her... she will need it to learn... Lol

shizzle11: op you have a point, a woman who cant cook isnt irresponsible per-se, but lack of culinary skills is a big minus for any woman in marriage. Cant imagine eating out simply cos i dont enjoy my wifes food after making available every needed food stuff in the house. Good knows i cant and i wont marry a woman who cant cook

That culinary is a big grammar. The woman is simply irresponsible...

Acidosis: Well Said!


In another dimension, Nigerian women need to quit wasting there money on Hair Products and getting there nails done. Some ladies spend 5 - 6 hours on these fake products, but can barely spend an hour on a decent soup.



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I hate to read stuffs like this ^ ^ from white women.

That's the truth... Women hardly spend time to learn cooking skills. All they care is their body and nothing else. Nemesis will get them one day...

Dbestmax: Op wia are u...15th century?

I think you are the one hiding from reality. This is not about century... Many women have lost their husbands and homes, simply because they can't cook well....
Make you shine your eye well well. Technology has nothing to do with tradition.

alutacontinua: I think I need to log out
what's with all these stvpid topics today?
Jeez!

guy no body force you to log in, so you can as well log out. If the thread of today is not interesting to you, you can as well create an interesting thread. Maybe your spouse don't know how to cook.

Any woman that can't cook is highly irresponsible and not also fit to be called a woman. It is part of the responsibility of a woman to learn how to cook as she is growing up either from her mother or foster-mother.

So when a woman fail to acquire the cooking skills as she is growing up, she has failed in her responsibility and therefore not responsible because she might end up producing children that are also irresponsible.

I get angry when with the statement " Men should teach their wife that don't know how to cook". That is ridiculous. If a woman don't know how to prepare a particular food the man like very much, that's a different case but to say she don't know how to cook... she is worth nothing,because she has wasted over 10 to 15 years to lean part of her responsibility...

A woman that can't cook clearly shows, she never assisted her mother in the kitchen or her mother don't know how to cook. That woman shouldn't be taken seriously because she will bring up children that are irresponsible as well.

I was expecting it for a long time... the marriage have been in total mess for a longtime...
That is what some celebrity get when they marry for wealth rather than love... Most of our women celebrity go after wealth and fame that's why their marriage don't last long...
They don't know that drama they act is different from the real world...
I pity her shall, but life must go on...

I ve been asking myself this simple question... Education is a means of acquiring knowledge and the school is like a platform where the knowledge is acquired.
The simple reason of going to school is to acquired knowledge, so we can earn a better life in the society. We go to school so we can get a good job with fat salaries, raise a better family... etc
Going to school is good but the idea behind it becomes a problem. " I ve not seen where a parent tell the kid to go to school so he\ she could become an entrepreneur or employer of labours but it's always go to school to get a good job. So at the end of the day, when people graduate from school without this good job, they become frustrated, disappointed and disorganized. This is the main reason we have thousands of unemployed graduates in the street...
Education is only a means to an ends but never an end... so one can go to school and become educated and still be poor... it all depends on how much we have to offer and how determined and focused we pursue our goals...
I simply went to school because, it's the societal norm that if I didn't go to school, I will become a less privilege in the society. So for me not to be and also be recognized in the society, my parents strive for me to go to school...
It is very necessary we go to school

Goodluck Jonathan is the real man... Carry go baba jonathan... I support you till 2019

Nothing really take me off... I just keep wondering what they might be thinking in their narrow mind....

50calibre: Loooool this funny talk only exposes you naivety.

I don't think you've had much experiences with women, it's apparent from the way you talk. You think life is like movie, draw her closer bla bla bla Lool

Pray you don't meet women who will push you to the edge. What women lack in physical strength, they more than make up for in their ability to annoy and irritate, it's a natural gift.

Everybody had a breaking point, it's a matter of who & what will find it.

I can't rule out beating up a female, I don't want to, I don't pray to, but I will if I have to.

I have been pushed to the wall several times in the past... I was having this hot tempered girlfriend in the past. One day we had an argument abt the TV station to watch, so I was trying to cool her down, the next thing I observed was a lamp right to my faced... I was lifeless for some seconds, when I gain consciousness, I saw my blood on the floor. I beat her up that evening that she lost one tooth. I still later apologized but up till today, I regret even beating her despite what she did... I swore never to raise my hand on a woman again... it's never the best option...

Women are mysterious in the way they behave... most of then same the same thing and speak the same language...
1 I am on my period or I am on.... I was only fooled once but after them, I take it as nothing until I see myself. I don't take that funny joke seriously again because so many that ve told me, after I press on, I later find out, it's a big lie...
2 I was raped @ 9. I ve meet so many ladies that told me they were raped @ that particular age... I became confused about the age 9, but I know for my mind that most of them na washiiiii....
3. I don't love sex. That is the biggest fooling a woman can tell a man... that is just to scare you, but the truth is that most of then that say such actually love it...
4. My birthday is next month... some ladies celebrate their birthday like 5-6 times in a year... For every new guy, the next month is their birthday. But as a sharp guy, I know how to get them...
If a woman tell you 100 things.. 99 of them are lies...

Real Men should not raise their hands on a woman not only their wife or lovers. Beating a woman is not the best way to resolve any dispute or crisis.
I know some women are very rude, raw and can't control their mouth but the best way is to avoid them or simply talking sense into their ears than to raise your hands on them. Some women push their husband or spouse to the wall to lay hands on them... Women please stop struggling or feeling too big on him...
I will never support any man that beat up a woman, be it spouse or friend or sister. They re weaker vessel and ought not to be beaten up.... Lover her, cherish her and draw her closer...

I remember my days in the university, when you meet a girl, asking her to be your girlfriend, after asking you several questions. she will indirectly asked? Do you live in school hostel or off campus?, if you live in school hostel, just forget because she will decline you, but if you live off campus, then she asked the next question. Do you have a roommate or you live alone... if you do have a roommate, she might not find it comfortable but if you live alone and she do like you, indirectly, it's a yes to her...
When you live alone you are more attracted to ladies than when you live with a room mate... why do ladies prefer guyz that live alone?

I begin to wonder what actually do ladies need from some guyz. When you are trying to be a gentle and caring man, they just see you as someone who don't care about them. Some just believe the way to prove that you love them is by having countless sex with them, if not they get offended. I am talking from experience.
I meet this young beautiful girl sometime ago. I did the normal tracking level, collected her no and started to woo her until she accepted to go out on a date with me. I propose to her to be my girlfriend and she accepted... Meanwhile before I meet this girl I have told myself I would never have sex with any girl I will meet because it has ruin my past relationship... I tend not to like them after it.
As my girlfriend, she comes to my place most times, we play, cook and share things together but never had sex. After one month, she wasn't comfortable with the idea, that I must have sex with her... I love her so much and never want to loose her, so I refused to do it.
This make her get offended that she decided to quit the relationship... but after the treat, I decided to do it, I saw Happiness I have never seen in her before...
I was like, why was she offended when I decided not to have sex with her... she ought to be happy that I am nt interested in her body but the reverse was the case....

The Parish Pastor of the Christ Apotolic Church in Otumara in Warri Delta state, Pastor J.O. Kayoda, yesterday September 25th lost his wife and four children, two boys and two girls, in a fire outbreak at their home. According to reports, all five family members were burnt beyond recognition after an electric fault in the area caused a fire outbreak in the missionary building of the church where the pastor and his wife stayed. The Pastor was said to be away in Osun state to attend a Pastoral conference when the fire killed his entire family.

According to a neighbor, the fire started at about 11pm and rescue operation to save the woman and her children was very difficult due to the iron protectors the house had.



"Last night at about 11pm, some men in the area were going around, it was like they noticed there was a problem with the light. They were like trying to trace where the fault could have come from. In the long run, they came like three times and since they couldn't get where the fault was coming from, they left. At midnight, I heard the woman screaming for help so we came out. When I got there, I saw the pastor’s last daughter standing very close to the windows, banging on it. There was no way I could help her. I tried scooping water to put out the fire but it raged on. Later on, I saw the pastor’s wife, struggling with the door, she was shouting for help while trying to open it. The three other children were not seen struggling at all. It was like they died of smoke inhalation because we found them right where they were sleeping. The windows and the doors were all guarded with protectors, it was difficult to go through, if not we would have broken through to rescue them.” Bright December, a neighbor said


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Spekiang on the incident, the church secretary, Emmanuel Ogoigbe said the bodies of the deceased have been deposited at the mortuary
"We have not been able to ascertain the cause of the fire, the people who would have been able to tell us are no more; that’s the wife and the four children–two boys and two girls. The pastors had gone for a conference in Ikeji-Arakeji in Osun State, so they quickly alerted our zonal chairman, Pastor Orode. They are on their way, they should soon be in Warri. This is a tragedy, the kind we have never seen before. Our pain is that if the wife and the children had survived, we wouldn’t have bothered even if the building was burnt, at least the church would have still been able to raise money to rebuild.” he said


Source: The Nation

The Federal government has declared Monday October 6th and Tuesday October 7th as public holidays to mark the Islamic celebration, Id-El-Kabir.

tman4real21: the parents should be much concern in building their children's moral values not s*x education.Once ur kids' moral value is high, dnt panic. The school should only teach what is in their scheme of work abt Reproduction at their level. With time, da child will learn on his own at da appropiate tym. This very case is sensitive, they only need guidlines and daily prayers. Naturally, children wld always learn what ever that comes around them. Da female shld b directed on how to take care of dia body.

what are you even saying? Moral values and sex education is what most kid need. We re not saying we should expose the to sex but to teach them the sign and body language of their body...
You see some young girls these day who can't handle menstrual flow very well. During the period they get disorganized which might even affect their morale... that is where parents should come in... we all need sex education...

Guykhena: where did I mention it being wrong? A bit confused here,,,, cus I know "Not-Comfortable" is different from the word "Wrong"... And at bolded am pretty sure there's a thing in school called "Biology"(just pointing out)..
A survey carried out in 2012 showed a 'large' percentage of parents shy away from sex education when it comes to talking to their kids,,and when they do get into the conversation they always tend to manipulate words(which leaves the kids confused) instead going in raw(its uneasy for most,and an "Awkward Moment" fills the room)....

But when it comes to School,there's no string attached,they give it to the kids as it is,, and kids grow up with mindset that they go to school to learn,and what the teachers give to them,its more easier for kids to grab it in, than what parents give to them(hardly pay attention)..

You would agree with me that there are some instructions a teacher may pass unto a kid(in this case student),and the kid won't hesitate in carrying it out ,but when it comes to parents its an another ball game entirely...

my dear you re very right... parents gallantly shy away from giving their kids sex education. Most of what I learnt about sex was either from my teachers or friends or the internet...
Most parents have failed in that regard... let them know the names of the sex organs, their function and how to keep them clean and healthy, but they failed...
It's even a problem in schools nowadays because they see teachers who talk about sex education as a spoiled and corrupt person. Management in school will not even encourage teacher to teach such topic in the lower class in sch.
Both our parents and teachers have failed but the internet never failed in educating the kids...

MrIknowAll: EVeN thOugH traileR matcH d BacK, E nO gO eVeRLY go DoWN

hmmmm... see mata

MrIknowAll: BrOs, U asKed a QueStion, I AnswEred, Now U aRe SayInG nawa OOO

I was just wondering if that is what make you fall... what of if the back flat tomorrow

MrIknowAll: I GOT ATTRACTED 2 DIZ WOMAN COS OF HER BACK

just because of backside.... guy na waa ooo

agrovick: classical case of being at the right place at the right time. God bless your ministry

that's true my brother... when you re in the right place, the right person will surface...

agrovick: Op! I hope you didnt initiate her breakup with her bf because if u did, I doubt the chances of you two being together for long.
BTW, don't have a lover yet, though there is this lady in my church who always manage to look beautiful even with little or no make up, she is slightly tall and the way she positions her glasses; ojigbijigbijigbi. Good thing is we already exchanged contacts and we are in the primordial stage, I hope it works out sha.

my guy we have been together for about 2yrs now... it was not really easy for me like that... it was after much calls, pressure and personality I displayed.... the guy was just still new in the picture also... but I succeeded @ the end.
She told me the reason, she couldn't continue with him is that they are almost of same age and same level and also the guy reason the same way like her, that she wanted someone that is a little bit matured, taller and a little bit intelligent than her... I happen to be that nicest guy with the attributes... the rest na story

Raymondenyi: My brther; 9c question! Buh Me I don't have aa lover...
But whaat I 'll wanna see in aa laaady dat will very much attract me so so much..
Smartness, Tall, beautiful, ambitious lady, dat aspires to mek her self a brand name either business wise or academically, some1 with her own visions n dreams, an independent mind; and of course, reserved (not a LovePeddler)
Bro if I can see this kind of very rare combination, I'm done, I no find woman again!!! I hav closed d woman chapter in my life...


D bad news is ( it is almost impossssible to find such; as women re so myopic n timid in reasoning) God help me; I shall continue seaarching....

my guy this your criteria plenty ooo... some of the quality you mention need time to actually to observe them. it is a nice quality which you ve chosen but ladies with such are very hard to find.
What am really talking about is first sight attraction!

There are some certain things you see in somebody that make you like the person and start developing feeling for him or her.
Some are the nature of their looks, creativity, intelligence\ smartness, boldness, manner of approach, power in kitchen, being extrovert, personality etc. I know it is different stroke for different folks.
For me the first day, I saw her, that was back in the university, I saw a very smart young lady. She was on low cut, without obvious makeup and looking so smart with her front and backside well arranged. She looks so beautiful even on low cut. I couldn't resist the endowment. She came to my department to look for her boyfriend, so I directed her and woo her as we were going. The way she speaks, make me even fall for her the more. She sounded so intelligent. After that night, I couldn't sleep...to cut the long story short, we became lovers.
Her looks and intelligent nature attracted me to her... so what attracted you to your lover?

Point of correction OP. Who said only guy benefit from sex. Ladies benefit more from sex. Sperm contain the highest protein which one food can give to you. We give the ladies this high nutritious food that makes them look fresh and sexy and money in addition. The ladies should be grateful because they are ought to pay for such high nutritious food.
Relationship helps women to prepare for their womanhood. Some women would perform poorly, if not experience they ve gotten from their past relationship. So we prepare you ladies for the future.
If you don't ask me for money, I won't ask you for sex. Caseclosed.

Tallesty1: Nothing! Dating is a waste of time, money, energy etc.


We will have less broke asss guys if we can use the time and money we waste on women to plan our future.

The amount some guys spend on their girlfriend is sometimes more than what married folks spend on their wife and kids. It is just pathetic.

I just don't know why

true talk bro... for Me no sex no relationship. I broke up with a girl like that who was forming holy to me... I said it is better to end it than for people to start thinking am enjoying it whereas nothing is happening... NO sex No relationship.