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onstelly:
I am confused!

onstelly:
Wow alright

onstelly:
You sure will
Hahaha you wicked oh, buy them the clothes nah


But I am confused s is that you

onstelly:
Calm down hon
Where have you been

bukatyne:
@mimzy and postman:

Congratulations and have a good reign.

@byvan03:

Thanks for honoring my mention.

Gabby91:
Lolz. That would surely work. you'd be amazed at how quickly clothes appear from thin air. Some people can be mean, in these harsh times they don't think of how their daughter and her husband need help to cope with the financial problems especially at the first stage. Instead of thinking of how to ease their burden, they want to bury the man with more financial obligations.

postmann:

THANK YOU!

For your support in the just concluded beauty contest. Even though you might have had no interest in the pageant and my mentioning you could have caused some disturbances, you harboured me and even took time to vote

My profound gratitude!!!

I want to specially appreciate you:

Bukatyne and byvan03. Thank you for your staunch support. I didn't deserve your kind consideration.

cococandy:
Umu okorobia these days sef.

Let me finish raising this my omoge and see which one will come to date her because he needs someone to cook for him. He will tell me whether if he doesn't know the address to catering schools around him.

cococandy:
Look at what lack of home training is causing.
I DO mean to be harsh OP.
a young person who cannot take care of themselves in basic things like cooking should go back to the drawing board.
Maybe you should have learned how to cook before taking the bold step of moving out.

For those suggesting girlfriend aka cook, Whose daughter is going to be his glorified cook in the name of girlfriend? Someone like me? Psst.I'm sure if I raised all the girls in Nigeria, men like him will learn to cook by force because I ain't raising no one's maid. The nerve of those even suggesting it.
As if a girl getting a boyfriend to foot her bills won't be bashed and taunted for wanting a man for other reasons than love. But it's okay for him to get a girlfriend because of food.

OP Get off your butt and LEARN TO COOK.

prettynerd:
they are guilty as well, as far as i'm concerned they are all to blame for lack of self control and respect for themselves, i've already given the relationship a break

prettynerd:
tnks everyone for taking ur time to reply, actually heard her side of the story, she said it was consensual, her current boyfrnd had to force her to confess to me after she confessed all her sexcapades to him which is the condition for him to marry her, she didn't even want me to know at all, she even called my fiance ( if i can still call him dat) and was quarelling with him for telling me, she said there was no emotions involved, she was just having weird fun and seduced him cos she thought we won't last too, i've never done anything to hurt her before o, only that i get angry with her a lot for living a careless life, the worst part is that she did same thing to two of my aunts husband. I feel she needs help mentally, but she still behave very normal only for this unveiled secret, STILL SHOCKED!

crazymommy:
Why should anyone trace his source of wealth when he has not hurt them with his wealth,did he steal their money??does he owe them any explanation??after the tracing what happens next??..why waste our time tracing his source of wealth when we could just spend that time to create our own wealth and make some people be wasting their own time to be tracing our own wealth...

postmann:
Thanks a million byvan03
I didn't expect this goodness from you!
You make me think again!!!

Thanks alot!!!

bukatyne:
Thanks

Voted already

CC: Cococandy, byvan03, shaybebaby, efemenaxy, PresVa,Eketem etc. please vote for Mimzy if you do not have prior candidates.

If I don't mention you, nor vex.

edwife:
Me lovy Byvan because sense dey for this chic....

Bollinger:
Good point. This is why it further confuses me when women talk about equality. How can you be equal to someone who feeds and take care of you? Anyone see the irony in that? I'm all for equality but there must be eqaul responsibilities as well.

chiwetel:
now that's the word..GREEDY.

I sincerely see no reason why she should ask for the 20k at all,talk more of anything more if she is working,when its not like the money is in abundance.For heaven's sake that's why she's working to supplement the family's finances and not to drain from the little available.Op its good you have lofty plans for the future, try discussing it with her once again, she needs to see reasons to completely support you in those plans,you both should be patners working together to secure a better future.

MRBrownJ:
so you believe that being good towards a child is the only thing that is required to be considered a good dad?! and however that chid is raised (whether good or bad) is irrelevant to this "good father" status?

- if i am a good dad but teaches my kids "with love" to hate mummy and her family, am i still a good dad?!
- if i am a good dad but teaches my kids "with love" that hate/violence towards women, any religion or any race is "ok". am i still a good dad?

MRBrownJ:
may i ask: since kids copy their parents, how can any man be considered a "good" dad if teaching their kids thats its ok to ill treat mama?! a bad husband ultimately becomes a bad role model for their kids (aka a bad dad).