₦airaland Forum

DonZizzy:
iim from Togo...also an ode

edwife:
Don't I just love you.. I could argue with you for hours and yet still very civil.Then we go to another thread and laugh like nothing happen.

joseph1832:
Oh don't mind me, I'm never said there's anything wrong with being a _shemale. Just don't come near me. LOL.

joseph1832:
Like seriously If you truly belief that, then I'll have to believe Lezz that you're a _shemale, sorry female.

joseph1832:
Really? Bro, don't think so oh. Hmm. Just take a look at the society today and tell me what you think? Even here, we see the way things fold out when sh1t starts hitting the fan when a female Nairalander start believing she's too much...

I'm sure you remember Patricia Etteh, Diezani, Okonjo Iweala, the way they were lampooned and chastised made me smile, where as people like Saruki are being escorted with 5 platoon of SAN to the court room. LOL.

joseph1832:
Probably? Come on men surely you know the nigerian society is one that is as traditional as it is religious, and both place a very high importance on male kids, than females kids. Might I also remind you that both also oppress and suppress females? I see more females kids and female adults around me. I'm intrigued to ask you if you're resident in Nigeria, if you are, then where are you resident?

As for nature, sure, nature has a way of balancing things, no matter how devious it might seem.


As for your last point, there isn't any standard way of knowing if we have more females on this planet, than males. All I know is what by SAA111 lecturer told me: "If you have a society where there is more males than females, that society is fading/dying". And I believe him. Remember, it only takes one he-goat to fertilize seven she-goat, and it can never take seven she-goat to fertilize one he-goat.

lezz:
When you throw my words back at me, they lost their meaning in your word-blindness and dyslexia.

Being original seems a burden to you as making logical postulations

joseph1832:
I want to believe we're not fighting ghosts, ghouls, poltergeist and spirits here?

lezz:
I can't make out what you're straining to communicate.

Maybe if you become original and don't use my words, you will be better understood

joseph1832:
No doubt! But as I know you know, majority carries the vote. More nigerians are more prone to wanting and having male kids than females kids. That's a fact!.

joseph1832:
I find the emboldened very hard to believe. I mean, in a society that is mainly patriarchal, that places too much importance on the male child, I find it very unbelievable to believe.

lezz:
I would have found the bolded comical if it weren't so ridiculous.
How does the preference of one man become the criterion for measuring the matrimonial behaviour of men in general?

That a man is forcing a promiscuous wife back home is so atypical of the average man.

joseph1832:
Wow! And you noticed they had more males than female. Hmm, we seem to have noticed different things.

I know couples within that age grade who have more female kids than male, my observation made me know their quest for having a male child was the reason why they even had more females...

joseph1832:
Might I ask the age grade of these families? How old are the couples?


In my family, we have more males than females, heck, I have 2 sisters with very hefty brothers, and hey, I'm the last male in my family.

damiso:
I totally agree with this..

The human heart is tooooo deep.

These days my prayer is to become pure in heart FIRST cos people may see me as good meanwhile the bitterness,jealousy and hate that resides in there is just being suppressed.

edwife:
If you want to cut your hair,go to a male salon-i promise you,he's going to do you right.There are men who wears afro and yet it is well cut and clean. Maintaining a low cut is less trouble i tell you.Like this maybe.

https://answersafrica.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/Lira-1.jpg

https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-4GWKIU9dwUM/VWbqoruBilI/AAAAAAAAAJk/mJJ4i2dplao/s640/Natural_Hair_Styles_10.jpg

Just make sure you go for your head/face type and ask a professional hair-dresser.
I used to rock low cut in secondary school,even in my first year in Uni.

edwife:
Why are you like this?
I din't do the big chop,i transitioned. I just stopped relaxing,then each time i wash my hair-i trim it.Now i am left only with the natural bit and during this period,wear wigs or plate your hair.

I will definitely tag you.