₦airaland Forum

Jehovah!!! What is this. She for no bother to wear anything for down naa. Some women sha no get sense.

Do the soldiers just recapture the place and then move to some other villages with no one keeping watch? How do these people kidnap 400 people at the same time forGod's sake? This is really sad.

Zikkie:
Thanks so much for your contributions. We are running around trying to raise funds. Meanwhile, she would be coming to Ibadan to book at UCH. don't know what their charges would be but we are still hopeful.
my prayer now is that she doesn't fall into labour on the election day cos her EDD is 29th (Sunday).

We would appreciate help from anyone who can. even with baby items please.

My dear!!! I can understand what ur sister is going through o. Had my baby a year ago thru CS. I have about seven fibroids, made up of the three types of fibroids and V-birth was not even an option for me at allllll. My doctors said they couldn't even let me fall into labour, so they fixed my date for 2 wks b4 my due date, when it seemed like we wld have issues with baby's life, the moved it closer again anoda 2 weeks. Yes I believe in miracles cos even they conception and birth of my baby was one, but pls pls pls prepare for CS. But her doctors shld have told her of the possibility of a V-birth. I still have my baby things and won't mind sharing at all with your sister. But don't know whether u can still be able to pick it up within this short time. Don't worry abt election, only a mad man would try to stop woman in labour going to the hospital. Let me know if u r interested.

Never a dull moment with Pepe

Ilekeh:
Looks like a whale nau

Couldn't tell which part of her body was shaking.

jealousy

March 28 is just a few days away, survey or no survey.

Just asking o. Is the submission of the school cert. a criteria for contesting? If it is, GMB shld just go and submit the thing jejely and let's move on now. If its lost let him no an affidavit and get anoda from the school. Me I don't see what all the fuss is about o. After all he was a General in the army, meaning he's gone way ahead of a school cert. case.

What do they take the Igbos for? That they don't have sense abi? Oya we don hear. APC talk anoda one.

OREMUSSANCTUS:
Free keh! I doubt if dey made dat promise in tinubuz presence. Apc! Liars!

Totally agree with u jare, APC is the ultimate toll collector.

Nothing weird about it

What has his a six children got to do with it? Abeg if he wants to die let him die alone and leave his kids out of it made.

At this rate I can't even trust any male relation with my girls. This thing is becoming something else.

Good sense of humour.

EggovinMma:
God forbid!
50k salary inside marriage. Na before ooo.But now, I REJECT EVERY SPIRIT OF POVERTY IN MY LIFE.My bible tells me to seek and I shall find, and whatever I bind here on earth shall be bind in heaven. I stand upon the rock of St Peter and I am binding every spirit of poverty in the life of my future husband, every spirit of meagre salary. I lose your hold on that poor future husband of mine.IT SHALL NOT BE MY POTION.50K SALARY KE? Which kind rough play be that?

Sometimes ladies just amaze me. What is the binding and rebuking for. God forbid you marry him now with the N1.5m and tomorrow he looses that job, what will then happen? The marriage will end? Una never understand o. You know how many men earn N50K and even less than that and yet they are happily married. What you should be praying for would be an upliftment in his life and yours. I pray you get your heart's desire o. But life doesn't start and end there. Money is important but its not everything in marriage.

Pack your heart abeg and let her go. She really doesn't love you. Its not about the romancing. She's not just telling you the truth. Maybe she has some expectations of you that she is not seeing. And you know what they say, "If you really love something and let it go, if it comes back to you, then that thing is really yours".

Points 9 and 10 are the same thing really. I would also like to add the following;
1. Ensure that your partner is your friend and you have a few things in common: Trust me sometimes that dreamy state of "being on cloud 9 in love" suddenly disappears and all that is holding the marriage at that point is your friendship.
2. Ensure you get your parents consent: There is nothing like as father or mother's blessing to follow you into your new home. Sometimes our parents can be unreasonably difficult, but back that up with prayer and a little patience.
3. Ensure you are in good terms with your future in-laws: Remember that in Africa that marriage is not just between a man and a woman, but rather between two families. Whether you like it or not, both families will play an important role before and after the marriage,
4. Ensure that dowry is paid: There is this latest trend of couples living together without proper marriage rites and claiming to be "my wife or my husband". It is so pathetic in the case of women. You enter a man's home without him even paying your dowry, OYO for you o. Not only will that man not have enough respect for you, but after you have finished doing "baby mama" he will go and look for fresh blood and wed that person.
5. Ensure you carry out health tests: Please ensure you check your genotypes and your blood groups to guide against having
SS children, having rhesus factor or HIV/AIDS. If you like argue from today till tomorrow about love, the pain these things bring
in marriage are not just worth it. At the end you start playing the blame game.
6. Ensure you have the same sexual orientation: Talk about sex o to make sure you have the same sexual orientation and that
both of you are medically okay in that area. A little smooching is allowed o. You don't want to end up with a frigid partner or a
gay partner or a partner without correct sex organs. Religion aside o, sex is a major part of marriage. It can put you always in a
state of like this or . Am sure no one wants to choose the latter.
7. Have the conviction to make it work: don't enter the marriage with the notion that if it doesn't work, you take a walk. Many
couples are usually not patient enough these days. Except in the case of abuse, try and give the marriage a chance and go the
extra mile to understand what your partner wants. Marriage is all about compromise.
8. Ensure you pray together: With all the clubbing and partying and romancing, ensure that you take out time to pray as a
couple. Don't wait till you enter the marriage. That way, you know whether you are evenly yolked or not.

All the best out there. Going back to sleep mode.

That's even alot. I work for an IPP and i know how far 1.75MW can go. Not to take of 10MW. Looking forward to when it will reach its full capacity of 110MW. That would really be massive. quote author=hassan85 post=31752182]Thanks alot. Am a witnes to it. Plus only 10mgw is working 4 nw sha.[/quote]

Nice ideas for my home jare. If I build house like this wetin I wan waste 500k for. Meanwhile don 500k won pay my house rent.

yeye.

oloyolo:
Potential husband beater.


All this girls way don dey pound fufu since 1856

Chai!!! Diaries God o. And see how I orobo after 3. Anyway her money too is talking.

Please, please, please, abortion or D&C should never be an option except if the life of the mother is at risk. My dear I encourage you to try and get something doing no matter how small the income. Let her register at a government hospital or primary healthcare centre close to her, that way you will save cost on medicals. We pray there will be no complications, so that she can have a normal delivery. I know raising a child is not easy, but if at the time the baby is born you both feel you are still not financially capable to raise the child, please take the baby to an orphanage. There are many people crying day and night to be given the opportunity to even raise another person's child as their own. It is not just a cluster of blood, IT IS HUMAN LIFE. Wait till you hear the heart beat of that foetus right in the womb and then you will know how awesome God is and that only Him has the right to give and take life. Wish you all the best and join you in prayers for God to open up a way for you.

I hope this their romance will continue like this if ever (emphasis on if ever) their husbands get elected into office.

asadike:
With due respect sir,I have some questions for u. I heard the insurgency actually started during your tenure sir or even as an elderly statesman, kindly tell us how u nipped it in d bud that got it escalated to this level? Secondly,how did you know that boko haram have legitimate grievances,are u one of the sponsors sir? Finally, if boko haram have legitimate grievances, what do we call that of their victims and every nigerian whose life have been adversely affected by d menace caused by the ins urgency?

God bless you. You took the words right out of my mouth.

To answer or questions numerically

1. Yes premature ejaculation is curable.
2. Yes it could affect your chances of impregnating a lady.
3. It could lead to partial/temporary impotency if it begins to affect your psych.
4. Yes there is a final way to get over it. One is working on your own psych and two is going to see a medical expert on the issue. Mind you the two must work hand in hand. If you currently have a partner now, she will also go a long way in helping you.

Seemyfather:
Hi to all respective Drs., I am a male, 30+ of age. I just want to ask about pre-mature ejaculation . I think i m having this kind of problem years ago, since i couldn't t last longer than expected, neither do I satisfy my partner nor last longer on bed, not even for a minutes so to say.

Now my questions are as follows:

(1) Is Premature Ejaculation curable nowadays?
(2) Does it affect my ability or chances of impregnate my lady/partner to bear a child for me?
(3) Can it leads to a total/partial impotency of mine because of this?
(4) Is there any final or total means or solutions to cure and overcome it? If yes, then please help me find the answers or you can as well refer me to some effective medication or some other effective supplements to curb/sure this embarrassing/shameful problem of mine.

Please note your help/assistance might be of a great help to me and any other person experiencing such thing here as well oooooooo.

Thank you!

Okkk so they know they deserve to go to jail abi? Women for change initiative.....where is d change happening at the top or at the bottom. Cos e never reach us wey dey middle class. Meanwhile I thot Pepe said she is not a conductor that distributes change. Why does her NGO have change in it. Clowns.

kestolove95:
She knw insult gej or southerners o...she's. Getting to meet d people one on one....no b like dat barren woman for dia

Bros don't mock a woman without child o, don't mock a woman without child o. She is already in enough pain already. I hope you are married with children. If not begin to pray for that gift now o. It's so easy to take it for granted that it must surely come. Children are gifts from God and He gives them to who he chooses. As he hasn't given her a biological child, he has given her other gifts. Once again, don't mock a woman without a child.

FlirtyKaren:
After Mrs Buhari was spotted buying suya with Mrs Osinbajo yesterday in Abuja, she also got to do this - help a woman selling fries on the roadside with her frying.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2015/03/photo-of-mrs-aisha-buhari-frying-akara.html

So that what will happen. Was she doing this one before. Election don make them remember us poor people. Please we need more o. Aisha I won't mind if you take a day & help me do nanny small abeg.

pring:
Election things.
I wish election can be coming up every 2yr.

Every year sef.

tivta:
. So fighting fire with fire will solve the problem? Women just can't tolerate themselves yet they forget karma is real. Why don't men fight with their MILs? Its a female thing that needs to be changed.
Women are their own worst enemies.

Helloooo did you read my post? Who talked about fighting fire with fire? Some men are also not in good terms with their MILs, they just tend to ignore them.

Fayemi are you now complaining of what happened in Ekiti state? Thought you conceded and said it was the will of the people? Buhari is talking of tackling corruption and yet he wants to close his eyes to past corruption. Does that make sense. And shame on you Fayemi for even coming out publicly to tell us that Jonathan can get whatever he wants in Buhari's government.....it's all a matter of negotiation. That is the change you people are preaching about. Nonsense!

Don't be so sure that all men will choose their mothers over their wives. Know so many men that have chosen their wives jejely. But I totally agree that it is not a realistic position to put aman in, because many a times it backfires. But truth be told some MILs are just so overbearing that they refuse to give their sons and DILs breathing space. And at that point the woman needs to take a stand. But rather than ask your hubby to choose between you and his mother, you can call in some elders of your faith to intervene, especially if the man takes his faith/religion seriously. Don't deny your husband sex or food o. Hian!!! Those things are all over the place and he can even get it free of charge if he wants, with jara on top sef and then, Mrs. Wifey looses at the end. I have a fantastic MIL and I've no issues with her in the last 16 years. She no even get time as she is busy taking care of her goats and crops in the village. Her own is just make sure you feed her son. Shikena!

GboyegaD:
So many stories affirming Buhari is a stickler for justice.This tells me there is great hope for our country when he is elected.

How much can an honest man do, when he surrounded by crooks and rogues. Remember that the executive is just one arm of the government. Are all members of the senate & house of reps going to be like Buhari? Does he have power over that arm of government. Do u think these same people shouting "Buhari, Buhari" will not be the same people shouting for his impeachment when he refuses to settle them? Or you think after people like Tinubu have spent all these kind of money, then he will go home and relax. Odiegwu!!! Plus that statement that Buhari made that he will make Nigeria ungovernable for Jonathan in 2011 & we saw how BH terrorised our land, just leaves one wondering whether he is so vindictive.