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I've been enjoying this free life like only God knows , no pressure, no reason to impress, I dress as I love it, I spend on myself the way I want it, no heartaches what so ever It got to a point I'm like "I'm too stingy to myself, emotionally". Though the feeling of having someone always chick in sometimes

So guys both married or not, compare and contrast so far. Did you miss being single?? Is single life still the best? Or are you happy you escaped single life? What did u miss most? or what would you miss?

Don't let me start crying nah

Rozz:
There was this shoe my mom refused to buy for me when I followed her shopping years ago as a kid ,it still hurt me whenever I think of it,my dad would have bought it for me.lol. Sorry about the accusations,you will soon have your freedom.Be patient

Awnnn, you reminded me of kitto thatyear, it still pains me till now I don't get to wear that shoe

you're in the bank? ask the customer care now, they will relay the best options for you

Comedian2019:
He is a correct nigarr! Why can't every man be this honest?

Aswearugad na dem go dey beg us laslas

Omo my fear for this thing called marriage just dey grow each day, imagine after married for 30years and u heard one of your kids is not yours? Chai fear women oo!

This one has been eating elderly cucumber he don tey

This guy's Maaaaaadt isssa confirm nigger

man proposes, God disposes go an talk to God nigger he would scatter you in a jiffy

Bro observe your responsibilities, shower her with things you know she likes, lock up and pretend nothing is going on! Watch as guilt eats her up and she comes begging. Don't look sex starved to her pls, when she even later make the move, reject her frankly!

Let her feel like "you can do without her", it's then she would reset.

wetin remain again? abeg a don try enough lemme tear rubber

Buh it's still good to chill sha at least a week or 2, different things dey inside life now, that was how I heard a tory of how a mother charmed her daughter, the juju mustn't stay in her body for seven days. Funny enough the hubby wasn't sex freaked and was still reserving the punna.

The mother con dey beg dem make them fvck oo ,the guy no gree until after 7 days the mother was casted and she later got mad. Imagine

DoubleEngine007:
How do you spot good women bro? Cux personally I think the good ones,are worse than bad now too.. They might pretend to be good,but after marrying them,you see problems everyday in the hux.. Bro,if u know any good one ,let me know ,make I pm you o..

lol boss u go know o. Though I understand say people dey pretend. u fit marry the calmest soul and later turn wildest later in marriage. Buh the highest mistake wey we guys dey do be say we let our sexual desires over shadows good qualities in a woman.

Virtually every guy wants a busty, chubby, big assss, fair and yellow, beautiful, etc lady Buh we have forgotten those things are just desires and not qualities. Good women sometimes don't even have these clothes few or better still 1 outta 10 has all of these.

If you give church, dem no go reject am now! Do they no your sources? absolutely no. So the problem is between you and God, not with the church.

If you pay tithes, nah you sabi, if you no pay na you sabi, sha no say your reward is in heaven based on money ritual

You people wanna eat your cake and still have it, gone are the days stupid guys chase a babe for months , it still freak me when I hear some guys saying they chased a babe for a whole year Like WTF!!!! Are they Maaaaaadt

See guys don evolve now! Gone are the days of Mario , everything in this generation now are like INDOMIE! As in no time!!

Guys now love a bae that knows what she wants and ready to go for it! Not some confused girls hiding under generating one stupid self worth Who tells you forming "hard to get" doesn't end in tears? or means he would cherish you more?

Wake up babes, we've passed TIME WASTING age! I hope some of you didn't lose a gem in the name of forming "hard to get"

I love the guy aswearugad

Junior obviously has taste biko Buh OP no have Imagine the confusion

So you want to forgive them for me abi?

Marriage wasn't created to favor men in real sense, it's just those that gracefully marry right that enjoys it Good women are still out there though, sometimes we are too blind to see too, or have a sexual preference over good marriage. Women are not that tooo bad as we paint them though, buh fear them

Please bring back our ladies

Na shits dem use break OP's heart, ladies wetin we do u sef. OP she nah watery shit or hard shit?

A wet dream is still a normal thing for males bro. We can't control our subconscious mind, so that's a norm. And your premature ejac wasn't a result of this! Don't get it twisted.

You've not been sexually fit before.

1. Stop masturbation, if you do too much of it.

2. You need supplements, so go for consultation.

And watch your Rod of Moses scatters the seas

OP, nothing keeps a woman biko! Not even money or gbola sef (you wan even confused her be that) A woman that would stay would stay, na them dey use their 36 wella

Funniest part, na women wey no go last a minute with u dey form hard to get pass, mo ya lock up Set awon confuser.

Some of us never even had a lady Na money we dey find sooo, abeg help us beg God o make we experience this thing too nah

My family members, I dey wait for u o

This same shit scattered my long time relationship with my best friend rn. We haven't talked since 5months ago now (it's a short story, would share here someday).

You can't go far with this babe, and if you really wanna save your relationship with your best friend, cut her off! She doesn't respect your feelings and relationship with her!

Malik1338:
Yo Nairalanders.. A friend of mine which is also a friend to my gf sent this chat to me from my gf
This is girl I really love and thinking I was having something real with
Now what do I do should I continue the relationship (The relationship is a year already) or break up with her or confront her why she doesn't love me anymore..Please what do I do.I couldn't sleep yesterday night thinking about this.

Don't force yourself on people bro! Move on already, don't let people think you're love starved!! Move on.

changedinchrist:
This is hypothetical / a story /
Hello
God smiled on me and I am on a Job that pays high. I'm also relatively young. Less than 27.
I want to start serious dating and hopefully start something serious with a good girl that would be marriage worthy down the line.
How do I make sure I don't attract gold diggers. we all know we have them many. Do I hide my money? Like use a cheap car, fake a cheap house and other stuff like that. How else do I ensure not attracting women who would only be with me cos of money
Thanks. I welcome all advice

Don't just try to impress bro. A babe that would stay, love and cherish you even without spending a shit still dey! Just don't overdress, spend lavishly(cuz if you do, it becomes normal and you would be taken for granted) and don't impress.

This is becoming scary

This is not Christianity!

That's the only day they feel sober and spiritual

I would choose the single mother a million times! Why?? She's more responsible and motherly!

This is touching

The mental trauma, she would be passing through rn ehn

Abortion is risky, I would never advice it for anybody. Trauma of having a bastard as a baby is even worst sed.

Buh keeping it is still the safest though.