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AutosRe: 2008 Ford F150 Leather Seats Automatic Driving by candyguyofficia(m): 6:39am On May 31, 2020
Is it a Camry engine?
CareerRe: What Kind Of Lawyer Do I Need? by candyguyofficia(m):
A lawyer is vast that's why a lawyer will say he/she is learned while others are educated. The need for specialization is basically for the lawyer to create a niche for himself/herself but that do not mean he or she cannot handle other area of law properly.

FOR THE QUESTION YOU ASKED:
Well in order to suggest a lawyer there is need to know what the case/issue that is the bone of contention in order for you to be properly guided on choice of lawyer (although the choice of lawyer isn't a hard and fast rule). While you at it talking on the issue, you could be advised here on NL if you will be advised to take a legal action or not.
HealthRe: My Baby's Skin Problem Now A Story Of The Past by candyguyofficia(m): 3:38pm On May 28, 2020
Congratulations
RomanceRe: What Is The Best Birthday Gift I Can Get For My Girlfriend For 3k by candyguyofficia(m): 3:31pm On May 28, 2020
paulolee:
guy jus find sure 2 odds n carry d bea enter any betting house and allow her stake the 3k by herself..its a win win bro...if she loses, she understand that making money is not easy and losing it is the worst feeling ever bt if she wins she also understand that making money or investing money online to get returns is sweet than soending on oda nonsense and she also learns how to make money wenever she nids dier usual 5k wey dm de nid urgently..
You very funny grin
Modified: But I'm surprised no one saying the girl is way too young, I know Op said she will be 19 this new month, I sincerely see girls below 22 as underage. I maybe wrong but that's how I see it
PoliticsRe: APC Governors To Meet Buhari Over Edo APC Crisis by candyguyofficia(m): 3:20pm On May 28, 2020
iluvdonjazzy:
yes I remember last campaign when Gabriel Igbinedion was celebrating his birthday, he (Ize-Yamu) said [s]if he wins Edo election he is going to make the birthday a state affairs.[/s]
That's not the true interpretation of Ize Iyamu statement in the context you are presently asserting.
Technology MarketRe: Samsung S8 Plus At Giveaway Price 55k Lagos Only by candyguyofficia(m): 1:41pm On May 27, 2020
clinton44:
Does it come with the designer bag?
cheesy cheesy cheesy
AutosRe: Sold Neat Audi 80i For Sale Buy And Drve by candyguyofficia(m): 5:24pm On May 25, 2020
I swear Auto Section is the new Joke Section on NL. The Op too funny
AutosRe: Registered but not used Lexus ES330 Available for sale by candyguyofficia(m): 12:11pm On May 24, 2020
Newbreed2018:
1 million naira. Cash at hand. Pm me let's conclude this deal tomorrow.
You funny ooh
CelebritiesRe: E-money Opens His Car Door By Himself - Cubana Chief Priest Reacts by candyguyofficia(m): 10:21pm On May 23, 2020
Airforce1 and E money like 5 and 6
PoliticsRe: Rotimi Amaechi Mourns Justice Adolphus Karibi-whyte. by candyguyofficia(m): 9:59pm On May 23, 2020
No doubt the death of Karibi Whyte is a big loss to Nigeria. He was truly an erudite legal luminary
PoliticsRe: Justice Adolphus Karibi-Whyte Dies At 88 by candyguyofficia(m): 12:49pm On May 23, 2020
BonPatrick:
Wicked man rote in hell
In the legal world and all other sphere of life Karibi Whyte JSC (as he then was) is renowned and reverend. I strongly believe you just heard of him today.
CrimeRe: Salman Hassan Stabs Husband To Death In Bauchi Over Sex (Photos) by candyguyofficia(m): 11:44pm On May 21, 2020
TheEffective:
shocked

Any lawyer preferably a northerner on Nairaland interested in defending this young woman should contact me asap. I will sponsor her defense. It is an easy case to win.

This sex carnage in northern Nigeria has got to stop. The rampant rape and forceful penetration in the North is alarming.

Update: Are there no lawyers of northern extract on Nairaland? I am still waiting for a mail. This nonsense and oppression of women in the North has got to stop now
Bro I understand your view/bias but I will love to state that law is what the constitution/code says, just the way the Criminal Code is applicable in the South that's how the Penal Code is applicable in the North that is the issue of jurisdiction is territorial in Nigeria.
Section 6 of the Criminal Code categorically states that a man CANNOT rape his wife as applicable in the South by virtue of the criminal Code but in the instant case it happened in the North, now what do the Penal Code say?
Section 282 of the Penal Code which contain similar statement as Section 357 of the Criminal Code exempt perpetrators of rape within marriage context from punishment. This invariably mean that a man CANNOT rape his wife just the same way a wife CANNOT rape her husband. For so long as the marriage is subsisting and the wife has attained puberty any sexual contact CANNOT be classified as rape.
Required Ingredients:
If there was a valid subsisting marriage between the parties with all the prerequisite of a valid marriage present and the wife has attained puberty the deceased act won't be considered as rape or attempted rape and as such, self defense to rape won't be considered as defence by the court, what other defence is available, is it provocation? which is capable of reducing murder to manslaughter I strongly doubt this defence will be accepted by the court. However, if the suspect is lucky she would be convicted for manslaughter if the mens rea (mental element) is not concurrent with the actus reas (physical element) but should the court apply the foreseeable test the court could come to the conclusion that the accused had intended "grevious bodily harm" and had expected the likely consequences of her act which led to the dead of her husband and be held liable for murder.
AutosRe: advice taken by candyguyofficia(m): 11:34pm On May 20, 2020
Congratulations. Well you asked for advise, don't do the do in your car
PoliticsRe: BREAKING: Yobe State Chief Judge Dies by candyguyofficia(m): 2:30pm On May 19, 2020
ObaOfUyo:
You might be a king, a Judge or a little street sweeper but sooner or later you dance with the reaper."
That's deep man. Nice rhyme
CrimeRe: Picture Of Army Men's Who killed Leo in Owerri IMO State by candyguyofficia(m): 11:24pm On May 16, 2020
haywire07:
Trust me.
I've been alot around police men.. They don't get more than 2 years
Bro, please say what you know and what you are sure of. Lets be guided
FamilyRe: A Car Or A Land- Kindly Advice by candyguyofficia(m): 3:44pm On May 16, 2020
Chicent just answered your question and said exactly what's on my mind. No doubt, buying a car at your instance isn't luxury but a avoidable necessity that is necessary considering your family size. However I would advise you buy the land (with a good tittle) I live in Lagos and I know it's all important to secure the land but atleast you could erect a fence of say 2 coaches to connotes ownership and possession. From the 1.5 million contact a lawyer for the documentation and background check on the land (you could do this along with him), I know it's might seem "expensive" contracting the service of a lawyer but I must say no amount is too big for peace of mind.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by candyguyofficia(m): 4:50pm On May 14, 2020
ken711:
"That was one smart decision I made, I did it in my name"
Finally you did something sensible (I must say the only sensible thing you did). Get her out of the apartment and sublet the apartment to another person.

You did not try at all I must say, she has opened office on your head. LEAVE the girl, count your loss and sublet the apartment.

MODIFIED: Don't say you want to keep her and use her I can assure you she will be the one to CONTINUE using you.
RomanceRe: My Deeper Life Girlfriend Is An Ashawo by candyguyofficia(m): 5:56pm On May 13, 2020
It's hard to find a loyal girl. Lot of wolf in sheep clothing.
RomanceRe: What Has Love Made You Do That Annoys You Anytime You Remember? by candyguyofficia(m): 8:43pm On May 11, 2020
marwanafrica:
Bro believe that guy at your own emotional risk, the guy is lying
Bro things like this are bound to happen even if Op is lying but I believe the Op though. Females are capable of a whole lot of things they should never be underestimated
RomanceRe: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by candyguyofficia(m): 1:30pm On May 11, 2020
Dreyton36:
Continuation from where I stopped , and for the haters , everything i typed here in the truth and nothing but the truth
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PART2
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AS I got home , I had so many thoughts in my head , I didn't really get home i just hanged around a closed shop near my house and bought a pack of white London from an aboki closeby , just they reason the whole money scene which she gave me
I no go lie aside from the money she gave me, the babe has a golden heart , sometimes we'll serve food to others and we'll eat the rest because we know she won't complain even if she doesn't get nothing grin that's how sweet she is , but because I broke like faded jeans , I no get any liver to approach her
And yeah I had her number , know how I got it ?
No be me collect her myself oo , she asked for mine so that she can always call my phone and explain to me what kind of food I'll serve her once we arrive, grin
The building is about 12 floor , for anyone who knows bayo kuku , to Gerald road in ikoyi you should know how tall the NNPC_NAPIMS building is

So as I was smoking my white London , suddenly I dropped a year, know why?
A neuropsychology is serving food to young girls who are in the oil firm, I go even turk in and wear tie join am cry grin
So my mind say make I call this babe , after all the next day na weekend
I dialled the number at first , I quickly cut am again , I dey imagine wetin I go tell her sef but I was already in love Sha
Mehn if u smoke correct new pack of white London so that much mentor moral must come
I call her again , she picked at once
I'll use different names here sorry (privacy)

Her: hello dave
Me: good evening Nelly
Her: you must've gone home , and hey you didn't serve my own apple today as usual grin she was just kidding cuz i ways est the apples im suppose to give her
Me: yeah as usual grin ____at this point I didn't know how to continue again I swear
Her: alright have a blessed day dear , or you wanna tell me something?
Me: nooooo I just wanted to thank you for today
Her: c'mon that's nothing just few $notes
Me: thank a lot
She called it bye

Alaye I just they vex for myself , my intention was to try to ask her out on a date grin small dollars don enter my brain , dollar they shark for pocket pass beer o

As I got into my room , I wasn't still satisfied about how I couldn't tell her my intention
I sent her a text message instead ,
It goes this way "hey Nelly , i was wondering if you'll like to have a rendezvous tomorrow"

Within 7mins she replied
Hers". Good idea , I'm really stressed out tho but I'll call you in the morning, goodnight

I no bother reply goodnight back again make e no be like say I too they forward

My guy that evening I run go boutique go arrange my normal round neck thick black polo , black they shine like Nigerian politician heart grin and confirm Vietnam jeab, if you know you know
I already get shoes yakpa cuz na shoes they chop my salary
That night I no fit sleep , i just they pray make day break , I just spend my time they watch YouTube videos of akpan and oduma

Day break, I surprised my street

Part 3 grin,,,,
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Comment below if I should continue on how it went grin
Honestly there's no single lie here
Come and finish what you started. Mention me
HealthRe: .. by candyguyofficia(m): 11:20pm On May 10, 2020
Passionate888:
Slawomir is that you?
If I is the one, he will still mistakenly type.
Damm Niggar
Isoright
Those in Benin recommend a place to OP
PoliticsRe: See Funny Picture Of Gov Wike That's Trending On Social Media by candyguyofficia(m): 9:29pm On May 10, 2020
"Take that man to isolation center" _Wike2020
FamilyRe: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by candyguyofficia(m): 6:51am On May 09, 2020
Ybaby:
Lol

No Jor. My husband is not on NL.
Lol
Same thing your husband typed in one thread out of the 1001 thread on NL about his wife
FamilyRe: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by candyguyofficia(m): 6:20pm On May 08, 2020
Ybaby:
I dont post hubby's pic too.
1. Girls are desperate and I dont want them coming for my man.
2. Hubby is my happy place and rock and I dont want share him
3. I am private
Seem Op wife just replied him
PhonesRe: MTN New Cheap Data Plans (Screenshot) by candyguyofficia(m): 12:08am On May 08, 2020
LordviccoDaGuru:
Are u talking of February? Mine is since last year, but they recently made a review and add more cheaper plans.
I just dialled the code and selected 1 it showed just 1 option which is 1G for 200. How does it work n how can I use it? I am on business class tarrif
AutosRe: Urgent Sale. AVENSIS NAIJA USED. Is Available For. 500k Dm Me@07083676583. by candyguyofficia(m): 11:00pm On May 03, 2020
captainking:
Haha haha.. This corona virus is disturbing car sellers o.. That's how one posted Nigerian used rx300 2000 for 2m..
Werrey
I thought I was the only one that saw the post on this thread, I just hissed and left the thread
RomanceRe: What Has Love Made You Do That Annoys You Anytime You Remember? by candyguyofficia(m): 9:42pm On May 03, 2020
Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile smiley
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab cry only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives.. sad embarassed
That's deep bro, I wish you pull through sincerely this girls ain't really worth it but why didn't you send to your blood relative father, mother, brother not like it's 100% secured that they will invest the fund on your behalf but it's still saver
PoliticsRe: Is VP Osibanjo Suffering From Stroke?? [Photos] by candyguyofficia(m): 7:35am On May 03, 2020
hope4nigeria:
sorry to disappoint you, your father is a quack for 3decades.
Shut the F up man. Show some respect, if you said her dad isn't a cardiologist I won't have buzz but to call him quack for 3 decade without any thing to support your assertion is wack. Meanwhile I'm curious what's your dad profession? An Astronaut?
PhonesRe: Is Anyone Else Getting This Message From Gtbank? by candyguyofficia(m): 12:44pm On Apr 30, 2020
...I just received the text right now, I actually thought it's April salary. What are the benefits or implication of receiving the text message although I didn't apply for anything
FamilyRe: What To Do When A Woman Insist On Court Marriage by candyguyofficia(m):
Dtruthspeaker:
The Law of Succession and inheritance is based on Relationships and Marriage is one of the Relationships that Must be under consideration in determining who shall inherit or succeed.

This I haven't disputed in my write up


And not just relationship alone, the strength of the relationship Must be in Issue Always.

No doubt on this


And before every Just Court, A valid Marriage of Any Kind has its full powers, As it is the Law, He who bears the Burden must Bear the Benefit.

I didn't dispute this in my write up, I even took it a step further by stating the exception to the above which is contained in section 18(3) of the Evidence Act 2011 where I paraphrased it that the court will not reply on any custom as law (even on succession matters) if such custom is contrary to natural justice, equity, good conscience, policy policy

So your statement up there about a person under customary law being inapplicable is very wrong and unjust-for the Law Does No Wrong.
"Your statement up there about a person under customary law being inapplicable" (inapplicable to do what?", Please be explicit)

Also English Law always belongs to the English People not Nigerians because English Law is the. Traditional law and costum of the English People, while we Nigerians already have our own Traditional law and costum, (which requires plenty of amendments) even before and after those English Armed Robbers came.
The received English law were vehicled into Nigeria by virtue of the Interpretation Act and some of this English law have been domesticated into Nigeria law. A good example is the Will's Act that was domesticated with modification into the Will's Law of the various state of the Federation.

So English law does not work in Nigeria like Nigerian laws do not work in England.
Saying English Law does not work in Nigeria is too sharp a statement to make as Nigeria Laws are primary sources of laws, English Laws are persuasive as secondary sources of law


That's why the decision in Cole vs Cole was good but the ground (as stated above) was wrong, in that a marriage under the Act createes joint ownership of property and all rights must flow from there first, not on the ground of Succession Laws, because Succession Follows Relationship Always

Kindly note that Cole v Cole was reported in 1898 hence English Law was the applicable law. However, years after the decision of the court in the case, The Administration of Estate Law of 1976 was enacted. Check Section 49(5) Administration of Estate Law.
The point I was making in my initial post that you quoted was not whether Marriage under the Act creates joint ownership of property and all right must flow from there or not. The point I made was Marriage under the Ordinance clothes the parties to such marriage and their offspring with a status unknown to the Customary law that the deceased partner was naturally subjected to and so the inheritance of dissolution of estate CANNOT be decided in accordance with native law and custom by virtue of Marriage under Ordinance.
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