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dosage150:Congratulations once more. When others are saying there is a casting down we shall say there is a lifting up |
Slawormir:Come September I would refer you back to your post and tell you that you were wrong |
dosage150:Congratulations!!! Now that you have secured the job I advise that you should be deligent to your boss and not try and short change him. Did you have a prior job experience like working in a fuel station before your appointment. |
Martinez39s:Too bad Op gave up on the thread, I observed some lapses though but too bad he stopped at a critical point. You could continue and just round it up from the last point he stopped so others in future that stumble on the thread can have a full graspe. Meanwhile, mention me on that your thread (meme or any other). BlackNeo Firstnebo Skepticus Kindly contribute and just round it up |
Need they say is the mother of necessity, IVF isn't a sin for women who have issue with pregnancy neither is it a sin for single who for reason (s) best known to them decide to adopt the process for pregnancy. IVF has NOTHING to do with sex (either penetrative or otherwise) so the sin of fornication or adultry cannot be said to have been committed. "Jesus love the little children" (remember the song?) if Jesus didn't love little children he won't tell them to come to him when the elders were driving the children away from him. The long and short of it is that Child (ren) regardless of the means of their conception and regardless of the circumstance of their birth are all equally love by God. If there are different category of children as a result of their means of conception or as a result of the condition of their birth, do you think Jesus that was conceived by the Holy Spirit and birthed by Mary and that was born in a manger of all place because there was no space in the inn would be the saviour of the universe? Have you ever thought about the means of conception of the saviour (that was non penetrative) and IVF? I'm not saying is through IVF Christ was born but just want to juggle your mind a bit. Lastly, kindly tell the sister or yourself (if you) to kindly lower your guide. I may be wrong but there is nothing like "best husband" no one has it all in terms of flawless character and personality, for this reason I say when you find a "christian brother" who you know geniuely loves you but have some flaws that he admits are flaws try and help him avoid those flaws and build him to the man you desire, if you think it's impossible remember men are the head but women are the neck (and can turn a man to a desired direction) and there are some changes men make for the sake of love |
Bornfool:I was about commenting until I saw your Monika |
FirstSon01: |
I hope Op know the value of what he have. If you wise spend the 500k |
derbykol:True!! That's why I said firstly that he would have invested the money in business and as second option that "if he was that lazy" he would have deposited the money as fixed deposit while he is thinking of what to invest the money on |
Because of #270, 000 gain he lost #1, 000,000. If only he had used the money for business or if he was that lazy he would have just deposited the money as fixed deposit in the bank atleast the money will appreciate in value before he think what to use the money for. Common sense is not common. |
NoLotty7:At bolded what's the big deal in it? It's not like it's all targeted to you alone or to Nigerians like you said you mentioned they do it to themselves, should they do it to themselves what's the big deal in it? Meanwhile are you there for you to be greeted or you there to hussle. Like the White man say "salutation (greeting) is not love", if you doing well there like you allege why then allow trivial thing like greeting or checking up on someone affect you. Kindly note I'm not against coming back home but not a bad decision but your rationale for coming back to me isn't valid. I'm not saying that there is no racism/nepotism and all there but you haven't mention anything that is concrete as a reason for home coming. If you had said you miss home (singularly) it's more value than the reason. To all travelers: There are distinct percular features attached to each country like in China it's an insult to tip someone while in America tipping someone is part of their culture as they have glass jar in most eatery for dropping tip(s). As long as these percular feature(s) do not run contrary to the law then I will say if you in Rome then learn to live as a Roman. I wish you success Op in your life endeavour. |
They have come again with baseless argument |
The choice of vehicle I feel depend on specific factor (s) that are percular to you. Factors of which you mentioned some: 1) fairly large family (but going for sienna depend on how long your niece will be staying) because if it's for a short time they staying and your immediate family (including you) isn't more than 4 in total then they MAY not be need to opt for Sienna. 2) The unpaved road that leads to your house and considering the nature of Nigeria road generally the Highlander will be a better choice. A major factor you haven't stated: 3) Who plan on using the car most of the times, if wifey Sienna won't be bad just the way the Highlander won't be a bad choice 4) Profession: What is your profession or wife? (It's a rhythorical question but if you choose you can answer) but if you an Engineer and you plan to use most of the time the new vehicle I would say go for Highlander, trust me when awarding contract(s) the person awarding it want to see some sense of security and stability of the contractor and a vehicle like Highlander would give positive vibe but driving a vehicle like Sienna can give vibe like hope the contractor wouldn't use my money to solve immediate family problem before even starting the job and vice versa in that Sienna connote family man in some profession that one will want a family man. The long and short of it is that your profession and who intend to drive the vehicle is a major factor. |
The baby is sooo adorable. Congratulations and be a good dad to your babies |
Was about recommending a phone until you said a phone that was made this year |
An e- sale contract. Have you made payment? If you have made payment and in most cases if you have successfully "checked out" after adding to your cart and seal it up with payment jumia is expected to deliver your exact product. Also applicable where you have successfully "checked out" but haven't made payment WITHIN the stipulated timeframe for payment and jumia send such mail after successfully "checking out" jumia would have still been liable. Should you choose another product as jumia has suggested then you have successfully weived your right. If other products are above your budget and the discount attracted you to the product then I suggest you send a mail to their customer care and insist that you want the product have payed for but before doing that I suggest you read their terms and conditions and watch out for excluding/limiting clauses if their is any of such you don't have not worry much because by virtue of you been the weaker party (buyer) the court may overlook such clauses to your advantage. Jumia have just/about to rip OP off what they have done is similar to paying for a product and cost of delievey only for the seller to tell you that they no longer have the product in stock after they have successfully received payment for the product. In saner climes jumia would have been sued long ago what I should have expected from jumia to calm the OP down is to compensate OP by giving him #15,000 worth of voucher that would be deducted should he choose another product even with the voucher and WITHOUT Op wanting another product Op can still sue and get better compensation. We all look but see differently if you have been asking God to bless you 2020 and by Dec. 31 2020 you say God haven't done it, God will look you from above and say he did bless you but you couldn't and didn't recognize neither did you utilise it |
The mindset of an average Nigerians is why corruption is soooo rampant in Nigeria and the reasons why Nigerians kick against corruption is NOT because they like the fight against corruption or because they believe in the struggle but it's simply because they are far down below in the foodchain that even the leftover is not even accessible by them. (If these persons are given position they will do far worse that those they presently complain about). The pictures (if it's true) then what is wrong with it? Instead of Nigerians to be more concerned with the service the S.A (as he then was) rendered while in service if it's laudable, we are more concerned on why he is poor and a beggar on the street years after service, it is for this reason that politicians keep looting the national treasury with reckless abandon so that up to their 6th generation won't trend on social media that their great grand grand grand father/mother was an S.A or President or Governor. Sincerely we have to change our mentality. What happened to good name? When did we get it wrong? Where did we get it wrong ? Is there hope for the future? Dont you think all politicians don't reason this and perhaps that is why they amass wealth by all means? so that their community/Nigerians would still respect them after service because they feel Nigerians would rather talk about their wealth after service than talk about their contributions while in service. Nigerians crying against corruption are still the ones giving corrupt politicians the reason to keep looting. Now!!!! Think it for a second don't you think you need a change of mentality. Sincerely sometimes I feel the place now called Nigeria around the period of 30's, 40's, 50's, 60's, first quarter of 70's is fair better than now and because some comments above make me think we don't know how well and how far other countries (not first world countries let's leave those ones, I'm talking about fellow Africa countries) have far left Nigeria behind. How many Nigerian know our history we all waiting for saviour whereas those that cry the most for a saviour will be the first person to trade the saviour for a pot of portage. We are waiting for a change why don't YOU be that change. |
Dreyton36:In your thread of "Rude rich girl ..." You said you graduated from AAU now you said you graduated from Auchi. How far which is true? Not that you owe anyone here but the story no add up |
azvm:I didn't have the intention to read it cause I have had a busy day, I am presently relaxing and Im surprised I didn't close the tab so I decided to read it up to pass time while relaxing. My Advise: Forget him (the NL guy), yes forget him. I know there is no "perfect relationship" but that do not mean that one should be in a dysfunctional one. I know you feel your biological clock is ticking but still forget him a broken relationship is far better than a broken marriage. I suggest you go out more often and try and socialize the more. In the 21st century there are ways girls make advances to guy in a subtle way that the guy wouldn't even know. You need to brush up your socialization skill. I would still advise sponsor your brother or sister for the guy he isn't worth it (trust me), all the handwriting are on the wall. |
flyingpig:Thanks Boss. I'm humbled |
gypsey:It is pitiable sometimes I wonder when and how we got it this wrong. It's really a shame. In the committee of nation most especially in Africa, Nigeria ought to be blazing but the giant has been humbled not just by other nationals but by citizens who ought to keep the flag flying |
uuzba:I made a conscious decision not to insult any Nairalander even in the face of provocation. You quoted me and used the word "fool" how do you feel now as you reading what I'm writing and I'm saying you quoted the wrong person. I never mentioned village, my post was hinged on international perception in the global scene. You could read my post |
[quote author=Xisnin post=91521987]Don't excuse fraud. It has everything to do with Hushpuppy and his ilks. You can tell yourself otherwise to feel good. A rude, incompetent and inconsistent employee may be tolerated but a fraudster will destroy a business at the slightest opportunity. That is why Nigerians are excluded. I didn't excuse fraud all I'm saying is that fraud is just one of the numerous anti social vices ascribed to Nigerians in the international arena. You just proved my point "a rude, incompetent and inconsistent employee [b]may be tolerated", minimum international standard not talking internally the quote is generally NOT acceptable. When Nigeria export this character you described they expect a handshake but over there it's a big NO! NO!! I do NOT support internet fraud and will never support such there is no excuse for crime, if anyone do the crime and it's proved beyond reasonable doubt then the person should also do the time. The corrupt breed of our leaders is not an excuse for crime however that do not mean that in analysing public policy discuss that the government should be left out of blame. Like I said internet fraud is just one of the numerous anti social vices ascribed to Nigerians and a strong odor that Nigerians in dispora have to put in extra effort more than other national in a bid to distinguish himself/herself from the average idea of who a Nigerian is ( from the measurement and the lens of a foreign national of who the average Nigerian is)[/b] |
vanPELaj:Changing the narrative I know is not a tea party. However we ALL must strive to change the narrative collectively and more importantly we have to change the narrative individually, it is for this reason that the change begins with you just the way it begins with me |
dapsoneh:I don't think it have anything to do with hushpuppy, it may have contributed but it's not entirely based on it. Internet fraud, lack of devotion, dishonesty and lack of value are synonymous and ascribed to Nigerians in the International arena and hushpuppy case is just one out of the plethora of cases and after hushpuppy case their will still be numerous cases (even though i pray it doesn't get to that stage). All I'm saying is internet fraud is just one out of the numerous anti social vices ascribed to Nigerians why I said it is not based on hushpuppy case and if it is based on hushpuppy it's not entirely based on it MODIFICATION The post was modified starting from the bold as the network wasn't stable Ps: I have been a victim of the negative narrative ascribed to Nigerians |
Oops! Nigerian inclusive of leaders and citizen have trampled on the image of the country. If only Nigerians know how Nigeria and Nigerians are perceived abroad then Nigerians will not be quick to praise internet fraudsters. There is a systematic problem with leadership, followership and our value system. No respect for dignity in labor, theives and persons of questionable character get chieftaincy tittles and in religious centers they are given "high table" during fund raising. We have taken the bull by the horn it didn't work it's time we think out of the box and look inward in a bid to change the narrative. Uhuru Sasa |
After they make believe secondary schools will open soon ![]() |
When it comes to accusatorial system (most especially in Nigeria), people always see lawsuit as a battlefield (which isn't bad because that is what it is) except that it's not always a means to end dispute as defence counsel would rather spend 4 times the cost awarded by the trial court as damages only to spend it as legal fee to keep appealing to higher court than to pay the cost as 'damages' all in a bid to frustrate the prosecution counsel to back off the case or settle out of court in a bid for appellant to keep his/her "pride". This case may even go to Supreme Court and the Court of Appeal may even uphold the judgement of the trial court. |
The failure is much. It's take grace and a mixture of hardwork and working smart to scale through not just in this instance but in all sphere of life. |
no school fees , only P.T.A money which was 200 naira then 