Freethinker2:
Please have you seen the lady in the picture below? She was last seen along Second Cemetery Road, Off Uzebu Quarters, Benin City, Edo State, on February 12, 2020.

She is tall, dark in complexion, a bit bigger than average size.

She speaks fluent English and German

Full Name: Barbara Odiase
Age: 23
Sex: Female
Height: 1.75m
Last Seen: 12/02/20

If you have any information, please contact this phone number 08182241827

Please mods help move it to the front page

since 2020 and is now you are making this move? honestly , I don't know what to say, let us just pray for Divine help.

Speaktruth88:


I have a question for southerners in the north, since the whole south has decided northerners are Nigeria’s problem, why are you living in the north? According to nairaland northerners are killing and destroying you everyday so how come you are still alive and thriving in the north?

The truth will always come to light.

There are Christians from the north and who are not in same page with the Muslim north

ChoCho54:
I don't even know what to say anymore. I am tired. But I won't fail to mention that any Igbo man still living in the north is on his own.

They will be used to count scores very soon.

we are in the far north and we are better prepared then you guys down home

kogi2010:

oga LRA Lord resistance army are dey not Christians? what is d difference between them and boko haram? Go and find out

LRA are mostly Catholics and they are fighting for their people just like the ojuckwu soldiers. They are fighting against social injustice and equity in governance. they are not imposing any law or ideology on anybody. Boko haram are Muslims are Jihad is one of the facets of Islam. if you can not fight Jihad, you are to support Jihad like what you are doing at the moment. your taquiyya will not work for people like because we read and understand the Koran.

richiemcgold:

Christians, YES!
before you counter my claim, know that I'm a christian and I'm speaking from personal experience.

converted and brainwashed Christians but real Christian that read the bible will not join Boko haram. the manual of the boko is Koran, I don't know how the Christians among them read the Koran.

that is what buhari told us too

MISSCONGENIALITY:
We are never going to grow as a country. They hating is so much we can't fight our common enemy, evil leaders. We will work better if go our separate ways and relate as neighbors. The way Nigeria and other countries relate.

exactly , the various tribes hate themselves. we can only be deceiving ourselves with unity.

Aboki99:
I have never seen a young man so truthful and bold in saying the truth at whatever costs like Bashir El Rufai. By the way, Whoever didn't condenm the lopsidedness, nepotism and favoritism of the Jonathan administration doesn't have the moral pedestal or pontifical pulpit to climb and pontificate over Buhari's administration lopsidedness. Kukah is not on record to have condemned the blatant bias of Jona, so he cannot now do so when the shoe is on the other foot. During the administration of Jona 70% of ministers were xtian. During that of OBJ no single minister was a yoruba muslim! But who even know the egregious marginalisation of Yoruba muslims during obj ? Or remembers that of Jona where all key positions were staffed by either Ijawa or Nyamiri! This is not to condone the nepotism of this PMB administration which also stands condemned for its lopsidedness but just to say the truth.

only those who have slavery mindset will support that little brat. we might not be on same page with Kukah but insult is a Big No. the north always think they own Nigeria. I have never seen a country so divided like Nigeria . there is no unity or love. the Igbo man hate the Yoruba man , the Yoruba man hate the hausa and the Igbo man. How do we now grow as a nation? it is not possible to make Nigeria better when we are all haters.

majole:
Plain Truth from Bashir. Truth is difficult to accept. Jonathan practiced NEPOTISM to the core, it was SS/SE though Buhari took his own NEPOTISM to the HIGHEST LEVEL EVER. The problem is the Media that does not point out the Truth instead framing it as it suits their Regional/Religious Views

you support the insult?

Sirjamo:
I understand Baba Kuka's frustration. During the time of the ineffectual buffoon, Pastors get import duty waivers on everything they import, including private jets.

They occasionally walk into aso rock to collect brown envelope and contracts worth billions. Buhari would have none of that nonsense.

and now during the reign of Buhari, more people have become terrorist and bandits.

my take home is never trust anybody.

davidque:
How unfortunate. Mrs Umerah was my English teacher back in Kaduna Capital School

exactly, she was the head of dept and her children also attend same school.

savanto:
Poor journalism from daily post. The deceased does not have a son! Rest In Peace sir.

abt 4 daughters

I know this couple, the wife used to be my English teacher in secondary school.

Golan007:
This fool again.

What happened to your 2016 prophecy?

you that is yet to balance in life is calling a man that can feed your whole village a fool.

omenka:
Ohanaeze is a disgrace honestly.

How could an Apex sociocultural organization be afraid of a single stupid con artist?

Declare Kanu a persona non grata and move along. How difficult is that? Hasn't he caused enough damage to the entire Ndigbo yet?

why is Britain housing a terrorist?

Jakemedg:
Stop disgracing igbo race and tell that idiot in London to stop fueling hatred

come to think of this, if he is a terrorist, why is Britain not arresting him? can the leader of boko haram stay in London , Dubai or USA without being arrested?

Elvictor:
they should jail that fool and execute him immediately, is he not the one that said his gods asked him to declare Buhari as the messiah of Nigeria?
they should shoot him so that his ghost can head to his gods to demand more answers for the earlier one

have you taken your drugs this morning?

Exjoker:
And you think abroad is Nigeria where MNK is inciting people to violence and nothing was done about it If Wike is assaulted outside and all evidence prove that MNK give the order for the assault then he has bought market for another country....

if MNK is a terrorist , how comes Britain have not arrested him ? am still confuse

Unrated900:
IPOB and strange and evil things are 5 and 6

calling all igbos IPOB is like saying all Muslims are terrorist.

TheSourcerer:
I don't normally post on Politics, but he was a terrorist.

because he is fighting for his people? he is the arrow head fighting Fulani herdsmen.

majamajic:
Kaduna , once a peaceful city

now what?

fight back, defend your ancestral land.

Hoephase:


Bros you don't reason with people like that. You shock them so that they start guessing your actions. It is only the fear of what you are capable of doing that people like that straight.

My first gf was like that. Three years of torture I dumped her without a word. She wey no dey cry she cried missed school for one full year out of heart break and became humble. Called everyone I stood my ground offer me sex without string (she knew I love sex) I said nope.

Till today when she talks to me she humble die because she thought she knew me but with that move she realised she knew nothing about what I am really capable of doing.


The op wife has seen him finish.

you are right no matter what , dont let ur woman see you finish be it gf or wife.

noakchukibadan:
Hello,

Please no ethnic banters. One of us is from Ekiti, and the other is from Benue. I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. It has been one problem to another.

I must be very frank, before marriage, my wife had many very questionable characters, but unfortunately we did the marriage counseling in a church were the pastor happened to be her family member. Many of the issues would have been resolved, but when I raised those issues about her character the pastor promised me that everything will be fine after the marriage.
Although this is not an excuse, but looking back now I would have been more patient and taken my decision myself instead of rushing into the marriage. For this I HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE

There is hardly nothing we do not quarrel about, I have always been the one to initiate settlement. The only way I ensure that there is peace in the house is for me not to complain about anything. Even at that, there is always trouble. If the children do anything wrong, she always says those characters the children are exhibiting are not from her and that she is not surprised that they inherited such characters from me.

She can go for months without talking to me, even if I tried to, I have done all I could do, I have begged, cried prayed. I just feel tired and exhausted from trying to make the marriage work or have peace in the home, the sad part is that she often reminds me every time there is misunderstanding that I should remember that she can stay on her own without talking to any body. Just to add, she is very prayerful.

OTHER INFORMATION.
1. I can say conveniently that there is no money problem at home. Finance is okay.
2. I went to see her father 2 years ago, the man said unfortunately he can not do anything. This is true because she was raised away from her Father, she has no contact with any of her fathers family and her father has a zero say in her life.
3. she has 5 elders ones, non of them is in communication with her because of many unresolved issues. Of her 3 younger ones she only maintains a relationship with the last boy who is just 14 years. .
4. Her mum can not talk to her because she simply dares not. However, behind, her mother use to beg me and she kept saying she understands her daughter's character and that she is doing her best by praying and doing deliverance for her.
5. She is not in contact with her maternal uncles and aunt because she said they supported her elder ones when she had problem with them.

So I am stuck with no one to help call the both of us and resolve the issue.

Every year for 5 straight years, she always forgets my birthday, last year, she forgot also, three days later, she bought me a present and I refused to collect the present and I asked her why does she keep forgetting my birthday, year after year for 5 years. She just said sorry, but I left the present in the room, she never bothered to bring the present to me. Another birthday was gone yesterday 2nd May, and as I write, no happy birthday yet.

I literally cook for myself, and all domestic things I do for myself.

I will end this by saying that in fairness to her, her character was not too different before the marriage and courtship, sincerely only once, that was like one year before the marriage I broke up with her, she came to apologize and promised that she will change. Her mother also came to apologize to me also.

This woman has refused to change or allow peace to hold sway, she is right every time, while everybody around is wrong. Sincerely, I do not know what to do anymore.

I am tired and exhausted. I do not know what to do anymore. I am 42, I was diagnosed of high blood pressure 2 years ago.

i was dating similar woman few months back. when we have issues she insult the hell out of me and my family. she dont often and dnt help me in any way in the house even when she comes around. i decided to end the 2 years relationship before it leads to marriage. on your case, set her down talk to her and invite the people she respect more afterward take her out and get her nice things. you guys must identify a vision and wrk towards it

Tissaia:
Almajiris are 1000 times better than entire SE and it's I-pigs

why the hate? please explain to me how Nigeria will be better with bittered people like u?

Ezennwa:
Na Dem!
One of the suspected Agent of Darkness speaking,
what do I know.

i dnt know what to tell you

ednut1:
GEJ take ogogoro like water he is very rich and successful. Next

do u have evidence ? if u dnt shame on u

Keemsleek005:


El rufai is kaduna state sir, gandollar is kano state

i know what am saying, kano have more case then kaduna but kaduna is about to have 2 months lockdown .Do u have the idea of being on lockdown for 2 months? what happens to ur job and busines?

shame to el rufai. He will destroy the state economy and undue hardship.

150k , cash and carry