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Martinez39s:
No vex, so you mean CAPSLOCKED wasn't serious?

SOZINN:
@CAPSLOCKED, because you are here enjoying free dosage of red pill abi.
You don't know you could have been one of them. Lol
#pun intended.

SOZINN:
The other day one of the girls on my whatsapp posted a video of her dancing in a t shirt and pant. One fool dmed her saying she's a good woman, the kind that any man would like to have. He doesn't want to miss the opportunity bla bla bla. She took a screenshot of their chat and later shared it on her status.
Tag him motivational speaker. Laughing emoji everywhere. I swear that guy Na bastard which kind conji hold am.
I no fit laugh.

Peaceyw:
Damn! This is deep. Most women today think that they can get away with everything and it is we men that make them think that way a all in the name of peace.
I wasn't dealing with confidence issues, the girl actually said some nasty stuff in public earlier before the incident that was one of the reason why I didn't say anything cuz she is the type of woman the redpill said to avoid, Red flags all over.

Danycrusoe:
I have a lady at my work place, when she first came, give her a hug and she will squeeze Ur ass, she doesn't do it to ladies, she does it with we guys, some have warmed her but others ignore, I used to ignore until I got irritated recently.

I don't stick around at work to observe how if she still do that to others because most times we clash at work, it's always on weekends when it's mostly myself and her.

The last two times she did it, I warned her I'll reciprocate, she believes I can't, saying jokingly that I won't want to die.


Capslocked is right and whether I'll enjoy it or not I'll squeeze hers next time she tries it, if she doesn't stop afterwards I'll take it as a free access to squeeze hers when she does mine too.


I believe when I do she will stop as she's older than I am and also recently engaged and about go marry, she go wan respect herself and her status

Peaceyw:
Seeing CAPSLOCKED post made me post this.
today we were lining up to submit our course form, their was this girl on the line that was wild and loud. My friends and I were joking with the girl and her friends and the girl was all touchy grabbing me and my friends here and there. At one point, she grabbed my ass and said ass is so flat, I was embarrassed and just laughed the whole thing off.
If it was the opposite that happened, I am sure no one will let me rest.

Ronnnie:
This is one of the best response to the lady's action,WARN HER or totally IGNORE HER

Smartb0y:
Anyone that spoke against capslocked experience without actually having similar experience is just ranting.

I didn't comment on the matter cuz I wouldn't know how I would have reacted if I found myself in such a situation.

Then again, no woman can try that shit with me

Capslocked, seems like "too much familiarity was the cause ", kinda like see finish tbh.

It's mind boggling to me how a man can be groped tho if there was never any sexual attraction between both parties in the first place.

luminouz:
I stopped reading when you claimed 'he should have walked out like a REAL MAN'.

TheDarkGamer:
Reading the response of some people's posts about what CAPSLOCKED shared has made me realize something about Nigerians.

We deserve the leaders and treatment we receive from other people and people in power.

Why?

Just take a look at the situation. He said that the woman was harassing him in his office. He went on and told her that he wasn't comfortable with it, but she still went on to continue harassing him. Now, CAPSLOCKED reciprocated, much to the surprise of everyone around him because they were expecting him to act like a real man and back down. But he just proved that they are being hypocrites and there is a double standard occurring there.

Winnerly:
https://www.nairaland.com/ilekokonit/posts

This guys ordeal made me teary eyed. For those who want to marry, read

Ilekokonit:
Flesh and blood did not reveal the above FACTS of life to you.

Many men (including myself) got married for the wrong reasons. (in my case because she got pregnant and I did not want to have a child out of wedlock) . I have been regretting marrying that woman and taking her abroad for the past 17 years .

IF only I had left her in Nigeria and kept sending money for the kids upkeep or better still bringing only the baby abroad as the embassy staff suggested and even facilitated by them refusing her a visa but granting the new born baby right of passage by including the baby on my passport.

But did I heed this heavenly sent message that she wasn't my wife No, I did not and was blinded by wanting to have an ideal family where man, wife and child all lived in the same country under the same roof everyday and I went back to my station to file her immigration appeal and employed an expensive barrister to fight her case (at great financial cost to me) only for her to change the game after 10 years of my taking her abroad and she wanted to now give me skirt to wear and she will now be wearing the trouser and she conveniently forgot that we both grew up in Naija in an area where the men were always the king and not the queen.

At some point she lost her job and i was about to buy a house and i still included her name on the mortgage as Mr and Mrs without thinking twice about it but when the financial tables turned against me (my job got off shored to India and we had to sell the house to prevent repossession after I realised that i couldn't keep on paying the mortgage with my savings or credit card) , she waited until we BOTH spent all of my generous redundancy pay and once she noticed that I had started dipping into my generous credit card limit and that was going down fast she changed the game and started showing her real colours and showing me shege by openly abusing me and calling me lazy in front of our kids and at one point she asked me LOUDLY in front of our 10 year old son IF I WAS MAD and the boy looked at me, looked back at her and i noticed that his behavior changed that very day.

This is THE SAME WOMAN who before I took her abroad she will cry until her eyes go red anytime I was leaving Nigeria to go back to my base abroad before I brought her over.

So we were now renting (after selling the house to prevent repossession after my job moved to India with 100% redundancies) and the 6 months rent I paid up front for the new house we were now renting had run out and I had just come back from scoping some business in Naija and so was now looking for work afresh while she was working full time and (in my absence) she had gone to the Govt to start claiming single parent benefit (when she was not single as i had only traveled to Naija for 2 months) and her full time salary coupled with the generous single parent benefit was too much money for her to handle that she just went haywire and wanted me out of the house at all cost so that she can now be genuinely a single mother and continue collecting the financial largesse from the govt on top of her full time salary.

She even perfected her plans by telling my 3 year old daughter that I had abandoned her and the Oyinbo childminder I was paying for had to correct my ex by telling her not to ever tell a 3 year old that her father has abandoned her. The old Oyinbo woman knowing me knew that i would never abandon any of my kids but my crafty ex was covering all loop holes in her quest to be seen as legitimately a single mother so that nothing will stand in her way of receiving the govt ordained generous single mother money. (so she thought that by coaching and lying to my 3 year old daughter that i had abandoned her, this would buttress her money grabbing antics from the govt single parent cash handouts.

I became a loser in her eyes and the same woman I gave European citizenship on a platter of Gold will now tell me that I am just using her for shelter (just because she was now paying the rent after the 6 months rent advance i paid had expired) . ?

At some point I resorted to sleeping in my car at times even in winter and one day my then 10 year old son saw me as he was going to school and just shook his head.

When your wife wants to make you fail, they know what to do and which buttons to press and I used to liken it to a man planning how to pick himself up after losing his job and blowing his balloon full of job hunting plans and his wife turns around to puncture his balloon and she ends up deflating his plans with just one act of nastiness for example by calling him lazy or asking him if he is mad right in front of his kids all in a quest for him to move out of the house in annoyance so that she can now be a legitimate single mother in the eyes of the govt who squanders tax payers money on handouts to single mothers who have no need to live with a man who will be a hindrance to the govt cash handouts to single mothers.

Its no wonder that Europe is the single mother capital of the world.

I considered suicide at some point but could not bring myself to the point of offing myself and there was a day I thought of ending it all by running full speed and head butting a moving bus at like 3am in the morning - Insomnia comes with the territory when your wife turns against you just because you are temporarily unemployed.

I should have legged it from that marriage when my then 10 year old son told me one day that - Daddy, it seems as if Mummy wants to finish you . But I stayed in the marriage because I loved being under the same roof with my children (10 and 3 at the time) . Moreover that's what I saw my parents and their friends do.

Today she has monopolized the kids through hardcore brainwashing which she perfected when I went to Nigeria to try my hands at business some years ago.

So, she now has 100% full access to the kids (Young adults - both over 18 now) and you know that western kids have a mind of their own and you can NOT really force them to look for you if they don't FEEL LIKE.

The brain washing she has carried out on my children is as bad as that my Dad died 2 years ago and both of my kids have not called me up till today to commiserate with me even though their mum knows about my Dad's passing and my children live with their mum - whereas when her own dad died a few years earlier, my son shouldered a sizeable part of the burial costs even though he has not been to Nigeria since I brought him and his mum abroad when he was only a few months old.

Thank heavens I eventually gave that woman a lot of distance after finally realizing that if I continued living under the same roof with her, she would either kill me one day or send me to prison or I would kill her and that would be no good for our kids as the western govt care system for kids more often than not messes up the children's heads.

Now my peace of mind is worth more than any marriage.

I still date occasionally but at the first sign that a woman will stress me out or is not a peaceful human being, or is a liar dishonest, unreliable, troublesome, argumentative, unforgiving, vengeful or a flirt, I call off the relationship.

I've been separated from my Ex for more than 10 years now and she is still single (as in not legally married as she would need to get a divorce from me first which i would GLADLY give her anytime she meets someone she wants to marry).

I've been back in the same western country with her now for more than 13 years now and she is still single (we could have mended things 13 years ago but I saw that she was still as cantankerous and as argumentative as ever and i just stayed away from her.)

The longer I stay separated from her and single, the more I'm loving my singleness as no be say i need pikin again and the PEACEFUL companionship that a man needs from a wife is lacking in MOST Naija women especially cantankerous first wives especially the ones in western countries .

When I eventually get tired of being a bachelor then I may try dating again but for now a woman living with me is not my priority UNTIL I find a woman who genuinely loves peace, is not childish or vindictive, not combative or petty and will NOT try to be the man in the house and will not turn my children against me just because she lives in the West where their damaged system allows such arrant nonsense.

Marriage is a case of FOOLS RUSH IN WHERE ANGELS FEAR TO THREAD

If you know, you know.

larryking540:
bro take that guy advice ,that's the best advice you can get ,the only leverage you will have over a woman that tryies to carry out sexual abuse on you is provided there is a cctv camera filming the act ,then u are save but if there is non ,a woman can raoe you and still say you raped her or you took advantage of him if things don't go as planned later in future , remember the case of that pastor and timi wife ,be careful bro ,,,the people signing women's rights ,womens privileges aren't female's they are male's in govt office and presidential position .....

haven't you heard of cases both parties get drug and they go home have a sweet fun at night and when it's day break ,the lady makes an out cry you raped her ,one more thing never touch a women when she is drunk , even though she gives you a Mouth Action ,with a cowgirl style at night,when it's day break ,she will say u raped her trust me bro ,men are in jail because of cases like this .

Lightway:
What you did was totally wrong. Why will you squeeze her breast just because she touched your nipples. It seems you’re taking the redpill to the extreme levels.

Isaacmacdon:
And you're cool with the fact that your "stupid female friend" touches your ass or sexualizes you whenever she likes, but if you do same to her almost immediately, she gets annoyed almost immediately.

A SHORT TIME AGO A FORMER COLLEAGUE MOVED TO GRAB MY CHEST. I ASKED HER TO NOT DO THAT AND SHE ASKED WHAT I'D DO IF SHE DID?
WE WERE IN A WORK ENVIRONMENT AND EVERYONE LOOKED LIKE THEY WERE CHEERING HER ON. SHE GAVE ME THIS SMACK AND I TOLD HER THAT THIS IS SEXUAL HARASSMENT AND SINCE THE LAW DOESN'T CARE ABOUT ME I'D DO TWICE TO HER WHATEVER SHE DOES. THERE WAS WILD LAUGHTER OF MOCKERY (AT ME) IN THE OFFICE, AND THIS RUBBISH WOMAN MADE THE WORST MISTAKE OF HER LIFE BY GOING FOR MY NIPS.

ME WEY DON CRAZE BEFORE?

BEFORE COMPLETING HER MISSION I'VE GIVEN HER BOOBS A HUGE DOUBLE SQUEEZE. THE OFFICE BECAME SILENT. HER FELLOW WOMEN AND IDIOTIC SIMPS CAME FOR ME... "DON'T YOU KNOW SHE'S A WOMAN, WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT?". I SAID "DON'T Y'ALL KNOW THAT I'M A MAN. SO IT'S OKAY THAT SHE WAS CHEERED ON, BUT NOW THAT IT'S MY TURN.. IT'S THE WORST CRIME? E BE LIKE HEAD DE PAIN UNA FOR THIS PLACE". I MOVED AWAY ONCE WITH SHOULDERS HELD HIGH. CCTV CAMERAS DEY EVERYWHERE SO NOTHING DE SUP

THE GIRLS THAT SMACKED MY BUTT GOT A SMACK BACK INSTANTLY. I HAVE NO SHAME NOR ENDURANCE. SINCE I CANNOT DO THAT TO THEM THEY DON'T HAVE TO DO THAT TO ME. IT'S GROSSLY UNJUST THAT WOMEN WILL ANNOUNCE THAT THEY'RE BEING SEXUALIZED BUT WILL GO ON TO SEXUALIZE ANY MAN OF THEIR CHOICE.

SO MY GUYS IF THEY TRY TO SEXUALIZE YOU, ESPECIALLY PUBLICLY, GIVE THEM BACK. GIRLS IN MY DEPARTMENT BACK IN COLLEGE WILL "PLAYFULLY" GRAB YOUR BALLS AND TELL YOU THEY'RE SURE YOU ENJOYED IT . GUY, GIVE THEM BACK LEFT AND RIGHT. I DON'T SUPPORT SEXUAL HARASSMENT OF ANY GENDER AND SINCE THE LAW ONLY FAVORS WOMEN AT ALL TIMES, YOU HAVE TO FAVOR YOURSELF O.. GIVE THEM BACK. DON'T BE A "REAL MAN" BECAUSE REAL MEN ARE LOSERS.

Peaceyw:
Abeg, my fellow redpill brethren, after rejecting women who ask you for materials, how do you guys handle the feelings of embarrassment? For the past three to four days now, different women have approached me to get stuff for them, and I reject them. Then they ask the next guy and he delivers. How do you guys handle that feeling of shame the comes to you or you guys don't feel embarrassed? How can I become stone hearted biko?

AFTER DISHING OUT RESOUNDING "NO" I'LL STILL BE THE FIRST TO GREET YOU WHEN YOU WALK BY THE FOLLOWING DAY.

NOT THAT I WAS STONEHEARTED BACK THEN, BUT I ALWAYS BELIEVED THAT THE GIRLS THAT WORTH MORE THAN ME ARE HARDLY ASKING FOR THIS OR THAT, AND BECAUSE I'M THE BIGGER PERSON THE SHAME SHOULD BE THEIRS THAT THEY DIDN'T RECEIVE NO PEANUTS FROM ME. "WHY SHOULD I WORRY ABOUT A POOR GIRL'S OPINION WHEN I'M A BALLER IN MY OWN RIGHTS AND MY GUYS BELIEVE IN ME?" I REMEMBER I USED TO SING THAT TO MYSELF. I DON'T PAY FOR ANYTHING ONCE THEY ASK. NEVER. I PAID FOR PEN FOR A COURSE MATE ONE TIME AND I FELT SO USED .

WHEN MEN ASK FOR THINGS OR NEED THINGS I FEEL LET DOWN IF I DON'T ASSIST THEM. WHEN WOMEN ASK, I FEEL LET DOWN IF I GIVE IN. SO I HATE TO LET MYSELF DOWN AND I LIVE BY MY LIFELONG POLICIES.

JUST SAY NO TO THEIR REQUESTS. THE SKY WILL NOT FALL AND THE SUN KEEPS ON SHINING. BEST PART IS THAT IT SAVES YOU MONEY AND OTHER RESOURCES. MASSIVE WIN IF YOU ASK ME.

ProphetJeroboam:
That guy just suddenly started ranting with no provocation, I thought it was funny tbh. Nobody gives two fvcks if your girlfriend feeds you with breäst milk. It’s just sad when they broke shame.

Meedon:
Imagine and if a single guy want to stop this shit and he seeks advice, he would be told to go get a girl or wife.


Married men don't have any reason to masturbate at all because they have access to unlimited kpekus. They can lock and unlock the pussy any time, any day, twice on a Friday morning.

ON THE INTERNET: "MASTURBATĮION IS FOR SMALL BROKE BOYS WHO CAN'T AFFORD WOMEN".
ON THIS THREAD: "MASTURBATĮION IS FOR WEAK MEN WITH NO GAME".
IN THE CHURCH GROUP: "MASTURBATĮION IS FOR PEOPLE USED BY THE DEVIL AND YOU'LL ALL GO TO HELLFIRE".


MEANWHILE, IN REALITY, MARRIED MEN WHO HAVE MANAGED TO ACCUMULATE WEALTH (AND MAYBE GAME) AND HAS NOW ACQUIRED WOMEN (IN THE PRESENCE OF GOD THROUGH THE HOLY SACRAMENT OF MATRIMONY), ARE THE BIGGEST OF MASTURBATORS. BECAUSE THEY'RE THE MOST SEX-STARVED GROUP IN ANY SOCIETY.

MANY MARRIED MEN, UNLESS THEY RESORT TO EXTRA-MARITAL AFFAIRS, LACK SUFFICIENT SEX. THEIR WIVES HOARD THIS THING LIKE PALLIATIVES AND ONLY "GIVE IT" TO THEM (AS A REWARD) WHEN THEY DELIVER PROMISES, SUBMIT CASH & GIFTS, OR COMPLETE ERRANDS AND CHORES.

YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THESE MARRIED PIOUS MEN ARE FACING, AND YOU'LL NEVER KNOW EVEN IF YOU LISTEN TO THEM, UNTIL YOU GET MARRIED TOO.

Mille:
she chose to allow everyone sleep hungry that night including our baby. Don't even ask about breast milk because the whole night, all I was hearing was her whining that she hasn't eaten and the baby shouldn't disturb her with cries for breastfeeding.

Goodealz:
There's only one supreme God,

Regex:
I used to be perplexed when I see girls on tiktok videos or WhatsApp statuses moving their body in a weird way whilst licking their lips, I never understood what that was. Until this moment that it hit me, they were just recreating the town centres and village squares but mobile. They have gone lazy about it by confering on us the power to choose.

2ndchildhood:
I use to be exactly like this op, thinking I could always survive without a woman, thinking women have nothing to add to my life apart from sex, always thinking like 'mosdii', that "women are out to add more salts to men's injury instead of softening it", always thinking being single is the best.


Until I met a beautiful damsel every nigga out there will kill to have, dated for like 7 months, then I discovered that I and 'mosdii' was right..

NOW, THIS IS FUNNY.

ALL THE SALTY WOMEN ON THE PLANET ARE GATHERED ON THAT THREAD. THE MAN'S CRIME TODAY IS THAT HE DOESN'T SEE ANY NEED TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP. THEY'RE CALLING FOR HIM TO BE HANGED BY THE NECK UNTIL HE DIES

Moconka:
Going thru this until my church member stopped me one day and told me she’s into selling clothes n co. Gave her attention n she requested for my phone number. Suddenly began vibing on WhatsApp and before you know it, we dated for 2months. Remember I was on my own jejely because I haven’t met the right woman for me. Now I was loving this babe and She loved up too before she suddenly told me some days ago that her mom went to pray and they said we can’t marry each other that am fire she’s water. I haven’t been thinking straight for days now but I know God will come to my rescue.

ARE YOU INSANE?
THERE'S NO GOD COMING TO YOUR RESCUE MY MAN, YOU MUST UNDERSTAND THAT THE WORLD IS VERY CRUEL PLACE AND MOST TIMES, THE PEOPLE WE CONFER OUR FEELINGS ON AND PLACE IN CHARGE OF OUR HAPPINESS WILL MOST LIKELY PULL THE RUG.. BECAUSE THEM NO SEND YOUR PAPA.
SO YOU MUST GUARD YOUR HEART & MIND AT ALL COST AND ASSOCIATE WITH AND LEARN FROM EXPERIENCED AND ENLIGHTENED MEN.

NEVER EXPECT LOYALTY FROM ANYONE, THEY DON'T OWE YOU ANYTHING BECAUSE YOU DON'T OWN THEM.

Prettydevil:
This is a woman bashing thread. I want you to tell me why you dislike the eve gender and give valid reasons.

Let’s go!!

TheSourcerer:
Nigerian doctors go under the racer because they are 'doctors' . Many 'unexplained deaths' in hospitals are intentional and not the usual negligence. Its your job how will negligence be even an excuse...??

CaveAdullam:
DAY 341, REDPILL 2021

The surest and quickest way outta the friendzone is to....


Authority: be smart.

A TRULY "SMART" MAN WILL NEVER FIND HIMSELF IN THE FRIEND ZONE IN THE FIRST PLACE.

WHEN A MAN IS THERE HE HAS TO WORK EXTRA HARD TO ESCAPE IT. HE MAY LOSE TIME AND RESOURCES, AND SHE'LL ONLY TOUGHEN UP THE MORE BECAUSE SHE'S ENTERTAINED BY HIS TRIALS, PLEADING, GAMES, SPENDING, ETC.

MAN, I'VE NEVER BEEN IN THE FRIEND ZONE. "I CAN'T DATE YOU, BUT WE CAN BE FRIENDS". "I LIKE YOU JUST AS A FRIEND". LMAO WHAT DOES THAT EVEN MEAN?
I LET THEM KNOW THAT I HAVE NO "F" PEOPLE AS FRIENDS AND IF WE'RE NOT CONNECTED BY BUSINESS OR PLEASURABLE INVOLVEMENT I HAVE NO TIME TO WASTE COMMUNICATING WITH, OR MAKING ANYONE FEEL GOOD. IT'S ALWAYS SIMPLE IF YOU DON'T CHOOSE TO COMPLICATE THINGS FOR YOURSELF.