₦airaland Forum

Flamemignon1:
Nobody should be doing shit to someone they ain't married to whether you are a man or a woman, it's dumb

It’s not about being married or not. Don’t you do things for people around you? Whether relationship or not. You do things for people when you can. If Davido gifts a stranger 2million naira, we all hail him and call him a generous person. Why should you be different?

*sprinkles holy water on thread#

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1Sharon:
I don't care, it's a ridiculous gift for a mere boyfriend.

A gift like this will never make you feel good, it will make you feel emasculated and you know it. Especially if you didn't have a car to begin with.

When Nigerian men long for gifts, it's not one as huge as this.

You are shifting post from the original comment. The comment I engaged Samantha in wasn’t about a “car gift” but expensive gifts. Expensive is subjective.


Anyways, let’s agree I agreed with you. Take it as a gift from me, an expensive one at that.

1Sharon:
I'm not Empress either. I will never buy such a gift for a man I'm just dating.

And before you start, I don't expect such a gift in return either.

Your entitlement is concerning.

Ah, where did the entitlement come in?

Everyone differs. Timaya did it does not mean Muyiwa also did it. Using timaya as an example shows a lot about you and how you see things. Next time try to use people that have a working relationship with no holding back as an example. We have millions of them around us.

porthouse7:
she took it from her other rich boyfriend trust me

Okay, I trust you.

Samantha124:
Even if the marriage fails after 20 years, they would've been husband and wife, not boyfriend and girlfriend.

I will not buy a very expensive gift for a boyfriend and I also do not want him to buy me any expensive gifts when we're just boyfriend and girlfriend... I even told my fiance the same thing.

It's best he uses the money to take me on a baecation so that we can make good memories together and it doesn't have to be abroad because SA already has a lot of beautiful sites to go to for a beacation.

What is the difference between baecation and buying gifts? Isn’t the same money we are talking about here? I was expecting you won’t collect a dime from him until marriage.

1Sharon:
Why the fvck do you want a woman to buy such an expensive for a man when they're only dating?

Even Timaya took his gift back from Empress. Nonsense.

But you are not timaya.

Samantha124:
What's the use of buying a girlfriend or a boyfriend a very expensive gift only for the relationship to fail?


And when we get married, do we get married for love or for expensive gifts?

The thing is, whether we buy gifts or not, what will fail will fail. People spend 20 years in marriage and it still fails. My response to your post was only saying, don’t hold it back if you see something you like to get your man and you have the financial capability to do it.

As to your second question. I can’t answer why people get married.

Samantha124:
I'll do it for him only if I'm financially comfortable and we're married.

And I also don't expect him to buy me an expensive gift when we're still dating... Flowers, his attention, affection and date nights are just fine until we take things to the next level.

If you can’t do it now, you can’t automatically start it in marriage.

The lady I’m currently dating bought me a fendi sneakers worth more than 400k. I’m still in disbelief. I go to my wardrobe everyday to check the shoe to be sure it’s not a dream.

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TheBillyonaire:
Why should anyone abandon drinking and smoking because of sex? Drinking and smoking seems to be more fun than sex imo. The only process that tops it is smoking weed, drinking alcohol and having sex all at the same time.

Correctguy101 what do you think?

Another thing I noticed about drinking and smoking to have sex is, the next day or the next couple of days, your body undergoes repairs and detox phase, if you smoke and drink again during these detox phase to have sex, you’ll notice a huge difference in your body’s energy level.

TheBillyonaire:
Why should anyone abandon drinking and smoking because of sex? Drinking and smoking seems to be more fun than sex imo. The only process that tops it is smoking weed, drinking alcohol and having sex all at the same time.

Correctguy101 what do you think?

I have done this since 2017, but I’m giving it up gradually. Aside the fact it’s not healthy, sex, alcohol and weed is a deadly combo. It causes over-stimulating of the brain. I started learning how to have sex without any stimulant, it’s not so fun and enjoyable anymore but it’s better and even last longer.

drimzsmoke:
Won de ooo!!!😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

Why you Dey vex brah?

Cruise777:
Honestly, politics apart, tribalism apart, that man Obi is empty

Bro, I am really disappointed. The only special thing I noticed about him is, he has a voice that appeals to human emotions.

Sorry if this offends anyone here, Peter Obi is not really learned as campaigned. During the interview, he froze several times when he realizes he wasn’t driving any points. He just talks and talks like a rolling ball, rolling into a ditch. He freezes and starts looking up to ascertain if he was actually making sense, I knew it had nothing to do with his internet signal because I saw him blink while looking up and away from the camera. the interviewers kept calling to him and he ignores until they call for a quick break.

Is this the man some people were selling to Nigerians? Tinubu is no better, Atiku is worse but I am really disappointed Obi isn’t any different. Yesterday was actually my first time spending time in front of the TV watching him in an interview.

SyrusdeHansome:
Never

Good. Please keep it up

SyrusdeHansome:
Since 2019 i never knack so it's not a big deal.

Do you masturbate?

Does this look like 2014 to you?

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Dittodat:
This can't happen in sane climes.

I’m telling you. This can never happen in Nigeria.

Make una come eat. Pineapple rice.


Prepared by my loving girlfriend

obo389:
I tire oo
Him come say na few months used.
See engine wey be few months used as e dirty.

Actually a 2016/2017.

So many dumb people parading as car dealers here.

Brandiebird:
I gave myself work, and decided to research your dream. There are three main elements; the white goat which represents prosperity and abundance, death which is death, and water which is a symbol for purification. It could be that you are resilient, and on a path to abundant wealth and prosperity but you need to purify your wealth. Since you’re Christian that could mean being charitable, avoiding ill gotten wealth/money, paying your tith, whatever that will purify your wealth so that it could grow; otherwise poverty will romance you to death.

Thank you very much for this. I must confess that I am currently at the point in my life whereby if I do not turn my ways to God, it is going to be a different and sad story, but God forbid.

Thank you once again.

garriAndsugar:
Non blood related cousin

Kindly explain

He go explain tire.

No evidence the said lady is not his cousin.

OP, you be anyhow person. You have to move out of your parents house. That’s the only advice you need. Any other advice another person will give you here, it will not help you control that thing in between your legs when you are always around your “non blood” related cousin.

ThatFairGuy1:
You all should stop this stereotype, it's not funny

Alright sir.

Samantha124:
Why do you guys keep asking this question almost every week? Like honestly, if you've got nothing better or different to post about, then get a life.

You are telling Nigeria women to get a life? Dey play.

Their life nor pass dating and relationships. It is their birthright and only way of communicating and social interaction. Nothing else matters

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Spirit04:
You sound like a 19 years old kid. Which girl do you expect to discuss aliens and watch marvel movies with you?

Exactly what I wanted to ask the OP. Everything he listed about the lady perfectly defines a Nigerian “woman”

Spirit04:
what's sensitive about it? What role did NDLEA play?
You live in a country where bandits can wake up and decide to wipe a village from existence but the death of one guy is more sensitive because Twitter and Instagram celebrities told you they can't sleep. If I konk that your kpokolo head now...

Be calming down comrade.

Brandiebird:
Were you “stupidity” before this moniker? That’s what I was hinting at 😝

You are right.

This your moniker is fresh, you must be from way back. 🤔

Brandiebird:
I meant something else but okay! What are we talking about?

I was asking if are trying to say these people are delusional for saying that can’t sleep ……

Brandiebird:
It’s stupidity 😁

Delusion right?