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[quote author=SultanOfPuna post=126617228][/quote].
Thank you for the answer.

PoliteActivist:
But how can you focus on what you can't see? If you see a man in rags you'd be looking for what he has in him?

You missed the point in his post. If we all can pray to a God we can’t see, it’s even more easier to see beyond the physical.

SultanOfPuna:
So me personally I am a follower of Jesus
Not the follower of Old testament laws
Not a follower of the old laws of Moses
Which Jesus clearly abolished..

What are the laws of Moses?

What part in the Bible did Jesus Abolish the laws of Moses?


I am not so familiar with bible teachings. I would like to hear from you.

sonofthunder:
Be cracking jokes. What goes around comes back around in multiple folds. Always unexpected also.


Dey play ⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️

Tell that to your president before he rules for 8 years.

Father4all:
Na this rubbish question that made you to be shunning ever. Everyone. Rubbish

Rev father, what do you mean? Have I been shunning you?

sonofthunder:
You wasted the destinies of other women and you are leaving them for who?


Hope you have gotten the advice you need by now.

Destiny helper!!! I leave them for you

Fountainofyouth:
So Op,

Will you modify most of your previous comments filled with trash talks on women, especially Nigerian women since we are your go-to cure for your constant frustrations, ehn Op? You should create an apology thread and delete your comments on that hatred filled red-pill thread on romance section if truly all you're feeling is permanent, because i for one knows it's temporary, your kind cannot change, you go with the tide when another opportunity presents itself

Nonsense and ingredients

Some comments from monikers be giving amazement nonstop, they are the constant women trash talkers not knowing they are happily living with their wives at home, what a nonsense.

Modify which comment? All I said about women hasn’t changed! The only thing that has changed is I no longer womanize

Magnoliaa:
Oh. You're growing up, ba? Why are you specifically barring some group of men from commenting? I would think they'd be in the best place to advise you on what to do seeing as you used to be one of those young men.

You badmouthed women and made degrading comments about them, while being a redpilled guy and contributed to other people's threads on where they were seeking for an advice...you literally were a voice in the pool of hate posts again women, but now you are in want of a clear, balanced view free of bitterness and whatnot (expecting what you've not given). You want a nice meal of sensibility after you've spoiled the broth of public commentary and cooked nonsense in the kitchen of misogyny.

There are many of your kind I've seen. Spread dangerous narrative and ride on the wave of hating women thinking you're an invincible Dorian Gray. But na feminists una go dey threaten with settling down and life humbling them everytime.

You're a man that marriage doesn't benefit, so wagwan now?

And you're regular visitor at the infamous redpill thread; why didn't you take this matter to them? You don't trust your bros' judgments? Aren't you an authority on humans', especially women's, behaviour?

Now you want the advice of men that you've branded as simps (i.e., happily married to their wives) at other times?

Whoo would have thunk!

Lol. Shanice!! Can you quiet it down please. Nothing in my post says I am ready for marriage or wanting to get married. The post was seeking answers to why I lost interest in pulling numerous skirts coming my way. Help me with answers.


Response to your other question, I still stand on marrying two wives. Nothings changed.

mikemike50:
Any woman that Can have impact on you positively is to be kept. Sex is an addiction just like nose candy (Coke) her influence on you fuel by the love you have for her is making you to overcome that addiction.

Another definite answer I am looking for! This right here is what I think I am experiencing! “The positive impact to end an addiction”


Mr Mike, please take the mic and answer this important question. Are you saying she’s the right one?

Klass99:
That part of my post was meant to be deleted before I posted. I forgot to take it out, ignore It, my train of thought changed and I wrote something else instead.

Okay. Thank you.

Klass99:
A woman like me, hell yes. Because I have longed for a man who can carry on a mutually exclusive relationship without sex involved. The thing has been like Ethan Hunt's mission impossible, but there are women like me who will go for no sex relationship and not pressure you to have sex to prove your manhood or call you gay for not wanting to.

Let's be honest pre-marital sex is one of the most draining and destabilising things we do, but try vainly to justify away. Haven't you felt good since quitting it? You have more power in deciding whether to fornicate or not, don't give that power or choice away to any woman you are with, if you don't want to do it.

It is more about you and what you want for yourself, than the woman you are with. Remember that!

If you are with a sexually active woman, the type who will tab you

Did you finish the bolded texts? I didn’t get what you mean. Please explain

Hideaki:
Imagine eating ogbono soup for many years and not tasting other soups


That's what it's like when you don't scoop other chicks



Op by the time you're married, you'll start from where you stopped

Your last statement doesn’t make sense. What’s you are actually saying is, I am pretending just to get married to this lady?

GenderMix:
One of the signs of maturity in man is to be able to have sexual urge and still put It under control. Nothing wrong with sexual urge because you are human.

If you see the right woman , you will be attracted to her in All ramifications including sexual urge. Infact it is what will drive your sexual appetite during marriage. So when you say you loose sexual urge , I suggest you check it properly. Sounds abnormal for a woman you want to spend your life with.

I am not saying you should lust after her continuously. There are other important things that should be happening beyond sex desires. You should be emotionally and romantically connected but you should put your emotions in check and focus on the bigger picture😉

Thank for your response. Lots of wisdom here.

I think I forgot to state that, my urge still remains, even stronger than before but the sudden will power to put it under control and instead channel it into other endeavors is my reason for creating the post.

You know when the urge for physical sex is instead transmuted to your brain and turns you into a romantic genius. That’s where I am at right now.

Klass99:
You've asked valid questions and even I am interested in reasonable people's feedback.

As for losing the urge to fornicate, I am impressed and I say seven blessings to you, because it is so hard to find a man who is willing to contemplate celibacy, yet alone practice it, after being sexually active. You need to keep it up.

I think you are maturing, and it has nothing to do with the woman you are seeing in particular. No one can change you, except you. She may be a good or bad influence, but you ultimately have the power of choice and you chose to no longer fornicate, so well done.

Thank you for this. Much appreciated.

Question for you, do you think this changes would have still been observed even if I was with a different woman?

Wawelexy:
You are taking a recess bro, you will resume after a while.

No no, this is not a recess but a gradual change of heart. But thank you for the response.

Ahmed0336:
I won't lie, I married my wife so she could help in adjusting my then way of life.
She's so spiritual and me? Na Nafdac Approved Fornicator
Bro, I studied her for 7years + and I just knew that I needed someone like her in my life if not na express I dey. Glad I did and I will say that's the best decision I have made in my life. Almost 18years in marriage now

I pray yours too will be the same

Gbam!! This is the definite response I am looking for. If I tell you the numbers of times I have prayed and fasted to change from fornicating lifestyle, I thought all hope was lost.

At a point I was thinking if the lady I am currently seeing don go lock me inside bottle but on a second thought, anything that can stop me from fornicating, I will highly welcome it.

Are you trying to tell me the sudden gradual change is influenced by the woman I am with?

Benekkk:
When I was getting married, I told myself one truth - what’s good for the goose is sauce for the gander I.e. I wasn’t going to expect from my life partner a standard that I couldn’t hold myself up to, no hypocrisy.
I didn’t even really look at her physical statistics because I was more interested in her mind. (The beauty I noticed in a woman was always the eyes - the window to the soul).
We’re still happily married after 30 years. I think it’s because I became a Christian.

30 years?

I have to stop engaging banters on this forum because we have elders here. Thank you very much for this response sir!

ahnie:
Can we at least sit on the fence and read comments,since this is strictly for married men?

I would have open the comments to all, both married men and women but it’s only a man that can give a definite answer because ……. (I don’t have to spell it out)

Please if you are not married, I don’t need your comment. If you are a single father, don’t comment either, if you are a divorcee, please save your strength. Only a happily married man should comment.

I have a question to ask, and I need a very good answer,

What qualities made you pick the woman you are married to?


Why I asked this question is, I used to think you must look out for your preferred qualities in a woman to qualify her for marriage.

Is it just the qualities or the impact those qualities are having on you?


I have been seeing a woman for some months now. I must confess that since I met her, the urge to fornicate has completely disappeared. I used to be a serial womanizer and fornicator. Everything is changing at a very fast rate and for the first time since I have been praying and fasting for changes in this regard, I am very much satisfied with my new found will power.

Is this one of the signs of the qualities a woman possesses or am I getting matured or etc etc?

But The idea of me getting matured is flawed because even married men young and old get married and still cheat with numerous women.

Sorry for the many questions! I just need answers to help me understand why I have started ignoring other women advances and sex invite. This is unlike me but don’t get it wrong, it’s my number one prayer being answered.

PaganTerrorist:
I'm hunk and my Dee is huge so I'd like a cute twink.

Is it up to 12 inches?

PaganTerrorist:
I'm not bottom

I'm the inserter

Why are you hiding your bottom from inserters?

What inches of dlck can you take in?

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JASONjnr:
You asked him why he made the topic all about the girl, yet you went ahead talking bad about her when you haven't heard from her side.

You don't even know if the dude is the one pouring everything inside her or he's just scared to settle down and you don't even know if the family of the girl will collect less than he's assuming to settle them.

You my friend do not know how to judge things neutrally. I castigated the OP and the machine aborting girlfriend. Don’t side one party.

If the OP is the one pouring everything inside, it means he and the lady are fools. I have been a fool too.

If he is scared of settling down, he is still a fool, it becomes a title at 40.

If he does not have the exact sum the girls family is asking of, he is still a fool for continuing to pour inside.

I cannot work for another man! Rich kid like me. With the amenities at my disposal in Nigeria, I do not see why I should continue to work for a man with a working penls as mine. Not forgetting some of them with erectile dysfunction.

Another important thing is. I cannot even jump queue anymore, in Nigeria I sit inside the car and signal to the security guard to take me inside the bank with 1k squeezed into his hand. Overtime they start making way for me immediately they sees me at the bank premises.

A lot of other things I cannot mention right now. Imagine a scenario where the Oba of Benin travels abroad and becomes a commoner. E nor clear na.

In 2022 I broke up with a lady because her job was to clean adult asx. The same adult asx She would not clean in Nigeria.

I am telling you this from fact, 99.9 percent of Nigerian men do not like abroad but Nigeria where they feel like a king. The majority that would care to argue this are the percentage that can sell you to a white men for mere recognition while the others are married men.

(Anyone that can guess correctly why I said married men has won the sum of 10 thousand Naira)

Please provide your answers with facts and statistics!

Your pull out game is top notch but you are on your 8 abortion.

Why did you make the title about your girlfriend alone? She is aborting your future.

You are dealing with a woman that will ruin you for life. A woman that does not want to give birth out of wedlock should be intelligent enough to lock her legs and throw the keys into the ocean until bride price is paid. The fact she’s blackmailing you with marriage, blackmailing you with free cheap sex and at the same time she’s blackmailing you with abortions. She’s not a going to make a good wife.

she is only mirroring you and your actions. Which means your ways nor clear. Na you nor get sense. Idiotic element.
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Jeon:
Clout chaser, come back if you can't cope. Canada and foreign countries are not for people like you and 80 % of Nigerians, cuz there is no chance there to show the low behaviors and mentality .

Is this moniker hacked?

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OP, kiNg0G

I just watched a clip of the burial on IG, there were so many celebrities in attendance. What exactly are you blabbing about?

Miller232:
Nobody send him papa too
Who him dey feed??
Onkr

So why are you guys pained about him and he’s way of life?

KiNg0G:
he doesn't have to.
This post was made in response to fans like Cynthia Morgan who were ranting online on is behalf.

Exactly the same way you guys are ranting on behalf of Davido. Did Davido send you to make this post?

Davido is being himself, allow wizkid to be himself too. They cannot be the same personality. Burnaboy is even worse than wizkid in this regard but the guy is moving hard and winning Grammy.